Real stories. Proven strategies. Better leadership.

As President & Founder of Core Management Training, Keith shares actionable insights on leadership, sales management, and team motivation through podcast conversations, webinars, and training sessions across industries.

Drawing from extensive experience in pharmaceutical sales and leadership development, these episodes and sessions deliver real-world strategies that work—whether you’re managing a complex sales team, navigating high-pressure targets, or building a motivated workforce.

From industry-specific challenges to universal leadership principles, you’ll find practical tools you can implement immediately.

Whether you listen or watch at work, on your commute, or between meetings, these resources ensure you always walk away with something you can use today.

Real stories. Proven strategies. Better leadership.

As President & Founder of Core Management Training, Keith shares actionable insights on leadership, sales management, and team motivation through podcast conversations, webinars, and training sessions across industries.

Drawing from extensive experience in pharmaceutical sales and leadership development, these episodes and sessions deliver real-world strategies that work—whether you’re managing a complex sales team, navigating high-pressure targets, or building a motivated workforce.

From industry-specific challenges to universal leadership principles, you’ll find practical tools you can implement immediately.

Whether you listen or watch at work, on your commute, or between meetings, these resources ensure you always walk away with something you can use today.

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Career Growth and Professional Development

Networking and Proactivity: Advancing in Pharma Sales

Breaking into or advancing within competitive industries requires more than a strong CV. Managers want people who can perform from day one, and professionals who wait for opportunities often get left behind.

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The Conversation

We explored how networking beyond your organization can open unexpected doors and why proactive professionals stand out when competition is tough. We also discussed what hiring managers really want: proven performance, clear value, and candidates who can tell their story with confidence.

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The Insight

Opportunities follow those who stay connected, continue to develop, and consistently demonstrate results. Networking and initiative are not extras. They are essentials in any fast-moving environment.

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The Action

  • Keep your network active before you need it.
  • Prepare 4–6 short stories that highlight wins, setbacks, and lessons learned.
  • Do not wait for someone to notice your potential. Start the conversation.
  • Engage in one-on-one conversations with decision-makers to inform your next steps.


Why do all the medical and pharmaceutical sales jobs require sales experience? And more importantly, how can you get around that? Or show up in the interview and be the one they choose?

Well, today’s guest is a consultant to those hiring managers. Yes, he works with top medical and pharmaceutical companies to train their managers how to hire people. So guess what?

He’s gonna share with us what they’re really looking for behind the scenes and how you can show up in the interview and really impress that hiring manager. If that interests you, you’ll love this show. Have you ever thought about one of those high-paying medical or pharmaceutical sales opportunities?

My name is Mike Hayes. I’ve been hired by some of the best companies. Hey, reach out to me on LinkedIn or go to my website, gethiredinmedicalsales.com.

So guys, I’m so excited today to have Keith Willis. Now, the amazing thing about Keith, he trains pharmaceutical sales reps in their divisions and helps their managers. So Keith has a world of information to share with us and can help us tremendously.

So Keith, welcome.

Thank you, Mike. Really glad to be here.

I hope I did your introduction justice.

Yeah, it was good.

Okay. Well, I can’t wait to peel back the curtain because we’re all trying to get into the pharmaceutical companies, and now you’re actually helping their teams be successful. But before we go into all that, you’ve had a great career in sales and now in your consulting role.

But I want to ask you a question. If you go back to your younger self as a rep, what would you do today to advance your career?

Well, that’s a good question, Mike. What I would have done more of would have been to network. It’s a word that we throw around and we all think that we know what that means.

A lot of us are on LinkedIn. We’ve got a network of people, people that we talk to on a regular basis. But I mean, beyond that, I think it’s not just the companies that you work at knowing people there.

It’s knowing people within the industry, being more involved in just organizations, even outside of the industry, to have a broader bandwidth of people that you know, to create opportunities for you. Interesting enough, as a consultant, you begin to understand the value of your network and people that you think are going to help you don’t necessarily help you. And people that you don’t think are going to help you oftentimes just end up being the one that help you.

And being an observer, looking from the outside in for people that are trying to get into the industry or in the industry and looking for jobs, you know, with so many different downsizing and companies, restructure, this seems to be, I won’t say a game, but at some point, if you’re in the pharmaceutical industry, your number is going to come up, whether you’re new or you’ve been around for awhile, you’re going to get that proverbial call that says, I’m sorry, your job is no longer available. And being able to work that network and having people in a variety of different roles across a variety of different organizations will help you tremendously. And I think that, you know, looking back, I’ve had the chance to reflect upon my career, things that went extremely well, maybe things that didn’t, or ask the question, how could I have gotten to a higher level?

I think those are the things that I would have done more of. And not only that, I think, to be far more proactive. A lot of us are sitting and waiting for people to give us a hand up.

And ultimately, you’re the only one that can make your career happen. And you’re going to get a lot of pushback and know from people because people are often jealous. And so you have to take the initiative.

And I think a lot of people, including myself, sit back and wait for things to happen. Now, obviously, I didn’t get to some of the roles without asking questions and raising my hand. But you have to go beyond that, especially when you get to that middle tier and the competition is pretty stiff.

Maybe you’re working in the home office. There are a bunch of opportunities for you. You’ve got to go out.

You’ve got to set up the one on ones. You have to have some conversations about what you think you might want to do. I think one of the challenges we often have is we don’t know what we want to do when we grow up.

And there has to be that process of discovery. And I think once you do that, it’ll pay dividends for you.

Excellent. Wow. We’re off to a fast start.

You’ve given us two pearls right there. So networking, and it’s not always the people you think are going to help you, but somebody new you might meet. And then secondly, you talked about being proactive.

I think I grew up and we all love to think someone’s going to tap us on the shoulder and say, Mike, you’ve been discovered. You’re so wonderful. We’re going to move you to the corner office.

I’m still waiting for that phone call.

Yeah. Waiting for it to happen.

But more importantly, especially today, like you said, if you’re proactive, along with the networking, combine those, when you’re just generating more opportunities for yourself. So I always say finding a job, when I help people, every step of the way you’re selling yourself. It sounds like you just described the exact same thing, right?

It’s the networking, meeting new people, being proactive. I mean, that’s just the world we’re in.

It is, and I think the thing is that most people started looking for a job when they need to, and it has to be a search that’s constant. It’s not that you’re looking for the next opportunity, it’s that you have to be prepared, so those conversations have to be ongoing. You never know when the opportunity is going to strike.

It might be a great position at another company, it may be internally, it could be anything, or you get that proverbial pink slip. At that point, you’re behind the 8-ball and you’re trying to figure out, you know, how do I get into my next role? I’ve got bills to pay, I’ve got a family to take care of, and all of those things.

Yeah, that’s kind of the thing. Man, you’re like, then I wish I was really networking a lot more, but to your point, don’t wait till it’s too late.

Yeah, absolutely.

Now, also, Keith, since you’re dealing with hiring managers, here’s what I want to ask you, a tip to give us a tip, like, how can we impress a hiring manager? Let’s say someone’s listing to have an interview coming up, or they’re in the middle of an interview series, they know it’s competitive. You’re talking to these hiring managers, you’re working with their teams.

Is there a certain topic or need that they all, maybe they uniformly have that a rep could show up today and talk about that might help get their attention?

I think it’s two parts to this. A manager hires somebody, they’re looking for people that are going to perform one, day one. Whether you’re new to industry, you’ve been around for a while, having a consistent pattern of performance is what they’re looking for.

And they’re looking for people they don’t necessarily have to handhold. That being said, I don’t know that managers get as much interview training as we did back in the day. And so oftentimes they may not be as prepared to interview.

And even if they are, I think you as a individual, you have a story to tell. And so you have to have kind of your value prop. What am I selling?

What is it that I bring to the table? It’s not necessarily around about the people that you’re competing with. It really is about you.

There are a lot of different people that could do the job. But you as an individual are very, very unique and you bring a unique set of skills to the table. And thinking about and preparing and having your stories prepared to be able to tell beforehand.

What a lot of people do is they wait for their interview and they obviously expect some certain questions. But what you’re trying to do is sell what you’ve done in the past, those things that have resonated, those things that you know are significant accomplishments. And if you focus on doing that and telling your story, those will be the things that begin to differentiate you between other candidates.

That doesn’t necessarily mean that you’re always going to get that job. There are times where I’ve interviewed, I actually have somebody that they’re retired here in a couple of weeks that I brought into the industry. And I had an opportunity to bring them into another company that I was in.

And I didn’t at the time because the timing wasn’t right. I think at the time, I had, I don’t know, it was politics, you kind of know, you have a feeling that your job or something’s going on. So shortly thereafter, my position was eliminated.

So the long and short of it is I didn’t hire her. But because she had interviewed with another manager, that manager was impressed with her, eventually ended up hiring her maybe another six months later. So here again, you have your story, you have your value prop, what you’re about.

And there’s always a right role for you. There’s a right organization for you. You just need to figure what that organization is.

But ultimately what you have to do is you need to hone your story.

I like that. There’s a right role. There’s a right organization for you.

If we could just keep that in mind. So now, Keith, I want to go back. Let’s go back and talk about your journey.

Like take us back. You were a rep at one time, but now you’re now your consultant to the pharmaceutical company. So tell us how that all came about.

Yeah. So I started my career in the Army. I was a captain when I got out.

And so I went through this developmental program with an organization that recruited junior military officers out in the military. They would come to different posts. And at the time, I was overseas and entered into the program.

At the time, I think he took, I’m trying to remember if he said he took about 3% of the people that he interviewed. I just remember one of my first questions he asked was, why do you want to enter the world of profitability when you’ve been in the world of non-profitability? Oh, by the way, you’ve got a degree in sociology.

What am I going to do with you? That was my first interview question.

Whoa. Right out of the gate.

Right out of the gate. And that by far is the toughest interview I’ve ever had. But what that program did is it put me in a position to interview.

I had 11 different interviews over the course of two days at a career conference. I spent probably about 18 months in preparation. There was a book called PCS 2 Corporate America, gave in all the ins and outs of my role or position in corporate America.

One of the big things you used to talk about was the resume, how to build an effective resume. The other part of that was around the interview and the interview process. So one of the things that I always would stick out would be, most interview questions are a derivative of this.

Tell me about a significant accomplishment. Why is it significant and how did you accomplish it? So in any interview question, you’ll hear that.

So we always talk about the star format, but if you go back and you think about the question itself, those that have done some level of interview training, you’ll hear that. Now it may sound like, tell me about a time you had a challenge, why it was a challenge, how you solve the challenge. It’s the same question at the end of the day.

And then there’s other interview question that he had, that became one of my favorite interview questions was, tell me about a time you failed, why you failed, and what you learned from that failure. This thing would be, if you don’t have a failure, I won’t hire you, because this thought process is that in life, you’re going to do some things that are beyond your capabilities. And I want to see that you stretch yourself, and I want to see where you stretch yourself.

And so those are the type of people that I’m looking for to bring into the organization. And the other thing that he used to always talk about was the piece around your resume. He always said, you know, you need to have significant accomplishments.

Now, mind you, I was a lot younger then. So you’d have, you know, at the bottom of your resume, you’d have like your GPA. And so what he would say would be, we know this person’s a failure.

And he said, the reason we know they’re a failure is because in their resume, they have no significant accomplishments, but in their schooling, they’ve quantified their success with their GPA. So they already know intuitively that they should be quantifying their successes. And so it was an interesting spin, but it got me in a habit of if I look for a resume, I always looked for significant, significant accomplishments and could you quantify the successes that you had.

So between those two things and being able to interview effectively, I was fortunate to go through that program. And a lot of that information followed me in my career. Now, ironically, one of the guys that helped me, like you, I interviewed with Jane Jay during the conference.

I think it was at the Con Endo Surgery. I didn’t do well in the interview at all.

Well, I’ll just tell you, that’s a tough interview. I did not get that one either. That’s a tough back then.

It was. There were two of them. One guy was kind of sitting in the corner, so I didn’t make eye contact with them or anything.

But the one guy, Mark Horsman, had given me some feedback. Well, Mark went on and started his own podcast, Manager Tools and Career Tools. And I call it God’s Gift to Managers, because he’s got a whole interview series and everything.

And when I’m mentoring people, it’s one of the things that I’ll send them to. In fact, one of his podcasts is Your Resume Stinks. So I always send them that link to that podcast, because it’s very informative of what a good resume should look like.

So those are just some of the lessons. But that’s how I ended up in corporate America.

It sounds like baptism by fire.

I mean, I was fortunate in that when you think about it, when you graduate, and I know programs are, I perceive programs to be a lot more robust. I mean, I never went to the writing center or recruiting center when I was getting out of school back in the day. And I think a lot more services available now than there were then.

But ultimately, I mean, imagine getting an 18-month boot camp preparing you to be able to interview and go to a conference and meet with several companies and then follow up post-conference. I mean, that was a blessing in disguise. So while it was baptism by fire, it made sure that I was well prepared.

And I would gather if most people went through a program like that, they would be very, very successful in being able to interview. And that followed me throughout most of my career. I continued to use a lot of those techniques and skills in looking for and finding jobs.

So I was fortunate to have that experience.

Nice, nice. So what was your first job? First pharmaceutical job.

Yeah, so I was a sales rep with Seba Guygee. I was in Albuquerque, New Mexico. I covered the four corners.

People that cover that area, there’s the pass. You’re either coming from, I believe, the Texas side or the New Mexico side. You’re coming from one end or the other.

I think actually Oklahoma. But people always talk about going through the past. I did not have to go through the past, but Durango, Colorado.

I had Grants, Gallup, all of that area, Farmington, New Mexico. We were on a six-week rotation.

You say that’s a lot of geography.

Yeah, a lot of geography. I was newly married, no children at the time, so I guess it wasn’t that bad. My wife might say something different, especially when I would go out to Farmington, because Farmington and Durango were a week out.

You spend the first two or three days at Farmington, and then you drive up to Durango. And Durango had, I guess, what 300-inch snow base. I’m not a skier, but for people that love to ski, Durango is one of those places that folks love to go.

I also had Taos. Taos, Albuquerque, and Santa Fe were a part of my territory also.

I think the bottom line, as my last guest said, there can be a lot of windshield time in this job. Depending on your geography, I always got a kick out of the reps in New York, they have like one or two buildings on a corner.

Yeah. There’s pros and cons to them. You know, when I was a rep having windshield time, you know, that was a lot of development time.

You know, you have books on tapes and things like that. So I got into that early habit. And then as a district manager, I was fortunate because I was a district manager in Northeast.

So I probably had one of the smaller districts. So I think my furthest drive was probably two, two and a half hours. So I didn’t really have many overnights at all.

So relatively to other people in other parts of the country, as a manager, you can be on a plane all the time. And I even know that with more specialty product, there are reps that are on planes now because they have so much geography. So, you know, in some ways it’s, I don’t know, it’s relative to your experience.

Yes. So as a sales rep, can you remember some of those, maybe an early success story or when that you had kind of as a new pharmaceutical sales rep?

Oh, I guess I’ll tell two stories. I was a rep in Albuquerque. I, you know, we were selling a product, and you can’t do this now, but at the time, there were the estroderm patches that we had, and we had like these little bags or whatever, and we would put the sample into the bag and some of the brochures and information and everything.

And so the idea was to create an opportunity for the doctors to try. And so we got some lift off of that. And then another product that we launched.

We had a physician that you had to wait, I don’t know, forever to see him. And if you waited, there was a payoff. And at the time, there were three of us in this group.

And one of the representatives of our group waited. And so we ended up being the number one pod within our district. There were three pods in the district.

So we did extremely well as new reps. But that would be the one story. And then the second story is when I went over to J&J as a sales representative.

I took a territory that was ranked probably 500-something out of 640. Wow. And in fact, the last six months, I sold twice as much of the product as the previous rep, but was still ranked like 500-something out of 640.

But what that did is that set me up for the next year where I was ranked three of 640 reps, two of 72 in our region. So that helped out. I was still relatively new to sales, but a lot of things came together, and that launched me on my career, provided me with a lot of opportunities, promotions, and those types of things.

Let me ask you to pull back the curtain. You think day to day, what made you successful out there? Because there’s a lot of misinformation when people Google pharmaceutical sales reps or medical sales reps.

There’s a lot of confusion. There’s, of course, the image on LinkedIn where everybody’s winning President’s Club and it’s glamorous. And that’s fun too.

We like that, but kind of nuts and bolts. Do you remember some things you did to help you to be successful?

Yeah, actually, there’s a lot of stuff. So I had a little, they used to have these little red notebooks. And so I used to keep notes in that notebook, not notes like position calls, but closing techniques, Zig Ziglar, Tom Hopkins.

I did a lot of reading, listening to the tapes, and things like that. I tried different techniques. Brian Tracy, one of the things I would do to get myself to close is I would imagine I had a $20 bill.

So I sat down and thought about the value of each call, and that if I didn’t close, what that meant. And it was like taking a $20 bill and throwing it in a trash can. So that was revolting to me.

So I used that kind of imagery to make myself close. There was a book that I had read on body language. So I looked and paid attention to what people were doing.

I had a physician that would set up against the counter, his legs crossed, and his arms folded. And we’d have great conversations. And it wasn’t until I read that book and figured out that, oh, he’s closed off to anything that I’m saying.

And to be able to visually see him uncross his arms and uncross his legs gave me the insight to know that he was beginning to receive messages. Figuring out when a physician was lying, I remember one time physicians said to me, you know, your product’s doing great. And somehow or another, he had his hand covering his mouth.

And I looked at him, he looked at me, and he knew that I knew that he was lying. So we both started laughing. It was so hilarious that, you know, I focused on my top decile physicians.

Yeah.

I didn’t really focus on the bottom ones. That, and I’ve tried to quantify the value of the calls that I made. I went in, I looked at the calls, and, you know, would look for patterns.

You know, I did lunch, I did a program, I did this, I did that, and would look to see, you know, am I moving share with these physicians in that hit list. So there were a lot of different things that I did to really focus on really just moving sales, and a lot of blocking and tackling. Excuse me.

I just jump in, we throw around the word business acumen, but it sounds like that was a part of it where you’re, we talk about the 80-20 rule, right? That 80 percent of that business came from 20 percent of your customers, that those top decile, high-volume doctors, and it’s your job. We talk about this a lot in running a territory, you have to have a presence in all the offices, that’s your job.

Yet, you’re also paid to sell, and so you have to really be able to have move the needle in the big offices, that can actually make it the biggest impact on your territory. So as a business man, you have a business person, you’re quickly learning, okay, where is this business? And you have to dig and learn how to do that, because what’s so funny, I tell people, like, if you’re selling widgets, you go up to the guy who buys widgets at the manufacturing plant, and you’d say like, I want an appointment with a purchasing agent, and I understand you guys buy so many widgets, and okay, this is so different, you know, pharmaceutical sales.

First of all, we go in there, you know, we’re on their turf. They don’t actually need us to come in there. Our free samples was usually the ticket in, or we had new information about a product, and we tried to be a consultant, we tried to really add value, and all that’s really important.

But at the end of the day, you know, they’re not really telling you all the product that they’re using and how they’re using it, and the competition, it’s our job as the rep to kind of peel back that onion and learn and understand, you know, where the business is, and that just comes from when they hire you, when you’re going into interviews, to have some sense of business acumen. You don’t have to be a professional at the interview start level, but in time, they want you to grow in that.

Yeah, and I agree with that, Mike. I mean, ironically, I still remember after all of these years, you know, a lot of that detail, a lot of the things that I did. My route was tight.

I saw the same physicians consistently, especially those large decile doctors. At the time, you know, oftentimes there were multiple reps seeing doctors, and we were kind of army of one per se. There was just one of me, but the doctors would say, I see you so often, and I would reply and say, well, you know, my competitors have two or three reps, there’s just me.

And you negotiate and you sell to offices in just getting time, even with your difficult no-see physicians, figure out how to see them, let them know that you want to see them. And I think this is one of the things that’s consistent, is that ultimately you talked about value. And I was having a conversation, and somebody made the comment about reps being friends with physicians.

And it’s back in the day that may have been true, but after some of the new laws were passed, you didn’t have as much access. You might have good relationships, but they’re not your friends. And their time is more valuable than their money.

Because when you look, the fact of the matter is with 10,000 baby boomers retiring up until 2029, 2030, shortage of physicians, not only in the United States, but across the world, the number of specialty products, the number of reps that are even calling on oncology and specialty practices now is significantly more now than it was even 10, 15 years ago. So you’ve got to bring it every time you walk into the office. You’ve got to provide some level of value.

And so you’ve got to bring your aid gain.

Well, that’s all the time we have today. Thank you, Keith. Next week, we’ll get the conclusion or part two.

And in that, Keith’s going to offer a great job training guide for us as a free offer. So we can’t wait to get that. If you’d like some help, some coaching maybe on one aspect of your journey, or you’re just getting started and you’re interested in all of my seven steps to get hired in medical sales, reach out to me, send me a message on LinkedIn or go to my website, get hired in medical sales, and we’ll talk to everybody next week.

Career Growth and Professional Development

Career Growth: Influence, Resilience, and Mid-Career Momentum

As careers progress, the challenges change. Influence matters more than authority, setbacks become part of the process, and growth often comes from lateral moves as much as promotions.

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The Conversation

We explored the “influence formula” (credibility, reliability, relationships, and low self-orientation) and why these skills are essential in matrixed organizations. We also discussed how leaders can handle setbacks, why lateral moves build valuable skills, and how to keep learning instead of getting stuck in mid-career.

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The Insight

Career success in the middle years is less about chasing titles and more about building credibility, adaptability, and resilience. Leaders who expand their networks and stay open to new experiences build lasting momentum.

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The Action

  • Schedule regular one-on-ones with your manager, even if they do not initiate them. Visibility creates opportunity.
  • Strengthen influence by building trust and credibility well before you need it.
  • Treat setbacks as growth signals. Capture the lesson and move forward.
  • View lateral moves as chances to expand skills and perspective, not as detours.

Keith, welcome. Thanks for joining me. As one veteran to another, after Memorial Day, thank you for your service.

Thank you, J.R. Same to you.

It’s always a good reminder of the fact that a lot of people have given their lives for the freedoms that we enjoy in the United States. It’s more than just barbecues and a day off.

It is a day to commemorate a lot of the sacrifices that men and women have made in this country.

Let’s talk about you. Start with Core. Tell us a little bit about how you got started and what you do.

Core Management Training is a company I started. Like a lot of people, I was transitioned out of my role. I was surprised one day. I came in from vacation, and my boss wanted to speak to me. After thinking about things and doing some interviews and things like that, I didn’t realize that as you get older, there is this thing called ageism. I decided I was going to go out on my own. I always had an entrepreneurial streak. I did the Sprint phone cards, Amway, and some of those things.

I wanted to be able to help managers be more effective in their role. I helped stand up leadership development at one organization. One of the things that stood out is that managers get some training, and the pharmaceuticals do a pretty good job of training generally, but it’s not consistent. There are usually gaps. I felt like managers wanted practical tools, resources, and those types of things to help their teams perform at a higher level. I decided I was going to start Core Management Training. That’s what I’ve been doing for several years.

I would certainly agree with you that management training is something that most people don’t get. Most of what they get is either learned from the experience they have with their own bosses over the years or what they pick up on the job and learn the hard way. In many instances, most companies don’t do much at all in the way of managing training.

I would agree with you. I know you’ve worked mostly in the pharmaceutical industry. In general, that’s an industry that puts a lot of value on training employees, whether it’s about management or hard skills, or whatever. Most Industries are not nearly as good about that. You probably came from one of the better ones in the scheme of things.

I was fortunate that I got a lot of early training and participated in some good programs. That being said, a lot of times there are huge gaps in the industry as the industry has grown with downsizing and things like that. One of the first things that happens is that leadership development seems to disappear for long periods of time in major organizations.

More and more, there’s a need for outsourced L&D in most companies. Even bigger companies decide not to invest in it and have full-time staff on board. They may do a little bit, but then they go outside for more of it, and that creates opportunities for companies like you.

The interesting thing is that training in some cases is a developmental opportunity. You have a huge switch-over of people on a regular basis. Sometimes, a manager may even come in and do leadership development. They’re looking for the next assignment. In some cases, you have people who will stay for a while, but that creates a level of turnover, and then there are always opportunity costs. Where should I spend my time? I’m a tactician. I want to be somebody who focuses on strategy. That does create opportunities for me.

Who are your clients? What do you help them with?

Primarily life sciences, pharmaceutical companies, and companies that support pharmaceutical companies. I’ve done work outside of the industry, but because that’s where I spent many years of my career, it’s what I know very well. It could be anywhere from coaching and feedback, skill and competency modeling. I was at a workshop.

I don’t know if you’re familiar with the 14 Peaks documentary. I built a leadership workshop around that, around accountability and followership. Just practical skills. We’ve built case studies out of situations that were happening in managers’ areas where they struggled, so that the opportunity can be role-played and discussed through some of those challenges and issues. At the same time, there was some self-reflection on whether I am the type of leader that people want to follow.

Even when companies are doing training for managers, what do they miss that’s important?

I would say the pull-through. We have a tendency to think that we’re going to do a program, it’s one and done, and people are going to get the skills. I was fortunate that over my career, I worked in different organizations. There are these repetitive themes that go on. For example, things like emotional intelligence. You may pick up one or two things about emotional intelligence, or you can go through a coaching workshop. You learn some different methodologies.

If your manager doesn’t provide follow-up, feedback, or even walk you through in real-life situations when you’re having a challenge with one of the people on your team, and walk you through using that framework, a lot of what’s being trained is lost. It’s the ability to be able to translate what’s trained into real-life scenarios, and then be able to use that on a regular basis.

You suggested some topics for us, like influence when you’re not in charge, mid-career growth, and growth moments when you’re feeling a sense of setback. How did you pick those topics? That’s what we’re going to cover.

Part of it is, in some ways, it’s my path. It’s the path of many people who are in Corporate America. Even if you’re in charge, you’re still trying to influence people. There are people above you. There are people below. You can’t always wear the boss hat to get people to do things that need to be done. There has to be some level of influence. My life experience has been that the more you focus on developing those skills, the more effective you’re going to be as a leader, or even when you work within a matrix organization.

Everybody has setbacks, and they can look like their fatal, which can be difficult, and some of those transitions and growth. We’re always in a growth period, whether we know it or not. Even if you’re a new sales manager and you’ve just gotten this big promotion, it’s like a new sales rep. You’re starting all over again. There’s that constant cycle.

Understanding The Power Of Influence

Start with influence. I had a show guest who has a book out at the moment. In it, she relates a story of having to work on this big project and being stretched. Nobody worked for her. It was all an influence situation. At the end of it, her boss said to her, “You were effective. Spend the rest of your career acting like the people who work for you don’t work for you, and focus more on influence.”

It was a great example of how powerful influence can be. You talked a minute ago about matrix organizations. More and more, organizations’ structures are so bloody complicated that you are very often working with people who don’t work for you, and needing to get things from them, and work collaboratively with them. If you don’t have influence skills, it can get in your way.

I would agree with that. This is one of the things that I think about. There is this formula. I believe it’s by Charles Green, and it’s the influence formula. It talks about credibility plus reliability, plus intimacy, and divide that by self-orientation. If you think about the credibility of the skills and the knowledge that you bring to the table, that background is why you are hired and what your professional expertise is.

It’s how reliable you are. Do you do what you say you’re going to do? Can people rely upon you? You build a storyline within an organization around those elements of it. In most organizations, even in the military, everything is driven by relationships. The better your relationships are going to be, the more effective you’re going to be at getting things done. If you look at those three areas and if you have gaps in any of those three areas, you’re going to struggle in influence.

The last piece is self-orientation. The more focus that you have on self-orientation, the less you’re influence is going to be because it’s all about me versus it being about everybody else. I keep that in mind when I think about, from an influencer standpoint, how I can be better at that. That’s a good formula, whether you’re leading a team or you’re a part of a matrix team. Even when you’re leading a team, you end up on a project where it might be all your peers on the leadership team. You have to get something done or you’re running a meeting. You’re still using those skills on a regular basis.

When you do your training work on this topic, how do you shift people’s mindset from needing to be the boss and needing to be in control to being more focused on cultivating impact and giving up some of that self-orientation that you mentioned?

It’s a challenge because people get wrapped up in the pieces of the job. When you talk to managers, oftentimes, it’s more of, “Do what I tell you to do.” There’s this expectation of that. We know that doesn’t happen in life. I don’t know if you have children or not, but your kids don’t even do what you want them to. What would make you think that would happen at work?

You can get people aligned by looking at the impact and outcomes that they want to have, and start from there. Think about how you want people to see you. When you spend time in an organization, do you run a team where people are looking at you and saying, “I want to work for that person?” That’s influence when you look at it from that perspective.

You mentioned emotional intelligence earlier in the conversation. How does that play when you’re not the boss?

Emotional intelligence is a big tool. Data shows that people who are more emotionally in tune with others and their feelings, as well as how they impact other people, get more promotions and do better. I’m certified of to do emotional intelligence through TRACOM. I know there are a couple of other methodologies. Ultimately, they all say the same thing. The higher level of emotional intelligence, the more effective you’re going to be.

A lot of those skills can be learned. Some people have a more natural tendency around them, but you can be better at that. I like to think about it from this perspective. To be a good leader, you have to be a good follower. You have an opportunity to think about how I am showing up from an emotional intelligence standpoint when I’m following somebody. You don’t always agree with people on your team.

Sometimes, that person is your manager or your boss. How do you interact with them? That plays itself out when you get into a leadership role. You don’t just change overnight. You’re the same person who was in the previous role. When you’ve gotten promoted, hopefully, those skillsets are going to be things that you’re going to contribute and continue to use.

What mistakes do you see people make when they try to influence in the middle?

One is trying to be in charge. If you go back to the influence formula, have you established any level of credibility? Which makes you the expert? Are you the one who’s trying to bring everybody in on the team? How reliable are you? It’s thinking about it from that standpoint. People are such in a rush to figure out the outcome that they don’t think about what are the relationships that they have.

If you focus more on those things, as well as what you’re trying to get accomplished and making sure that all the voices are heard, from an influencer standpoint, you can be far more effective. Part of it is that the corporate sets it up this way. It’s this very competitive landscape where everybody is trying to get ahead. You spend so much time competing that you forget about what the mission is and what it is that we’re trying to get accomplished.

It comes back to that formula that you mentioned. People often get very transactional because they’re under pressure, they have to get something done, and they have a deadline. It becomes about them. Probably a little bit like networking, you’ve got to build influence when you don’t need the influence. If you build credibility, reliability, and intimacy when you’re not under the pressure of time, and if you build that habit of give and take that comes with being less self-oriented, you’re hitting all those different components of that equation when you don’t need it.

When you do, when you need it, and you’ve got to call in a favor, people know like, “I know this guy doesn’t come out and ask me for favors unless it’s important.” You build that relationship capital over the weeks, months, or years. When you do need those favors and there is an urgency to them, you can draw on them. If you don’t get in front of it, then trying to build influence when you have a deadline ticking is hard.

It is, and people miss that.

What do you do when you’re out there and you’re doing everything in the right way, but you still face resistance from people who don’t see your value? At best, they are apathetic. At worst, they are openly trying to get in the way of you getting your job done.

That’s part of the human condition. Everybody is not going to necessarily like you or see the value in what you do. At that point, it’s a good opportunity for you to ask for feedback. Sometimes, there are behaviors or things that you’re doing that you may not realize are taking away from your influence or from the value that people see. I also think, at times, it’s time for you to take a step back and think about where you are. We’ve all been in organizations where maybe we’re not a cultural fit. Maybe it’s not that you don’t bring value. It’s just that maybe people feel threatened by what you bring to the table.

How it shows up is the apathy and the unwillingness to help. It’s usually not a credibility issue because if you’ve been hired and somebody brought you into the organization, there was a reason they brought you into the organization. In some cases, it may not necessarily be a reliability issue. It might be that they just don’t like the way that you do things. In some organizations, we talk about innovation. I don’t know that everybody always believes in innovation. If you go to any marketing team or any sales team, there’s a tendency to do the same thing over and over again.

Part of it is because of their safety. There’s a lot less risk. As soon as somebody brings in something different, people are threatened by that. What do they do? They respond and react. I do think the last part of that is that you have to look at your relationships. Do you have advocates? Do you have people who can advocate for you, support your cause, and maybe do some of the heavy lifting for you when you’re trying to get something accomplished?

Influencing Your Bosses And Higher Ups

Do you feel like there’s anything that you need to do particularly differently when it comes to influencing your boss, their boss, or somebody in the senior leadership team of your company?

I do think there are very specific things that you can do. Not every manager does a one-on-one. In some organizations, that’s the culture. Everybody does one-on-one, but the reason you do want one-on-one is not necessarily to get an update, but it’s to build a professional relationship. Starting with your boss, your boss is the most important relationship that you have in any organization because they’re the ones who talk to their boss about you.

When I have coached people, the first question I’ll ask is, “Do you do one-on-ones with your boss?” Usually, that’s initiated by the manager who’s in charge, but some managers don’t do that. I’ll make the recommendation to reach out. You don’t necessarily need to call them one-on-one, but you get some time on your manager’s calendar. You do the same thing. You think about skip-level meetings that you can have what your managers, just so they know who you are and have an idea of what you’re doing.

Ultimately, you’ve got to build your own brand. No one is going to do it for you. Your manager has their own challenges and issues. They may have 30 minutes with you weekly, or you may work on some projects and things like that. No manager ever knows completely what you’re doing 100% of the time. That’s one of the challenges or one of the issues around when we talk about remote work. Your manager “can’t see you.” Even though in some cases, they’re in a meeting all day, there are those things that go along.

I do think that’s the number one thing is doing a one-on-one and getting visibility. The other thing is nighttime projects. We call them nighttime projects because they’re outside of your day job. Those are the things that get you exposure within the organization if you’re looking to climb the ladder and you want to get some exposure. Raise your hand for some projects, some initiatives, and things that will give you some visibility that can showcase your skills.

The last part of that is that you have to network within your organization. It can’t always necessarily be within the group that you work in. Expand your horizons. Talk to other people in the organization and get a better understanding of how the organization runs. It may even be as simple as thinking about, “Here are some things I think I might want to do. Let me do a little bit more discovery.” AI, for example, is the big rage. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that. Maybe there’s a new department that focuses on that.

Have a discussion with them. It’s not because you want to do that job, but to get some insights into how you can use AI more effectively in your role or in a unit that you’re working in. What does that look like? What’s coming down the pike? Those are things that somebody can do to build their network within the organization, not only with their manager, but with their boss’s boss and throughout the organization.

You made a couple of points that resonated as they related to bosses who don’t necessarily do one-on-ones. When you get yourself in one of those situations, you have to find a different way to stay close to your boss. As you said, they are the most important relationships for you in that company. They hold the keys to your future with the company, your growth, and employment. First and foremost, that rests with your boss. If you don’t feel like you were in a position of at least some influence with your boss, that’s not a great place to be.

If you can’t change the way that they’re viewing the relationship, then you’ve got to change the way that you view the relationship and manage the relationship. You’ve got to find ways to stay top of mind for them because if you don’t do that, then the risk you run is that you fall into a negative cycle with them. They don’t see the value you’re adding, and because you’re not there doing a little bit of self-promotion in your one-on-one, if you’re not having them, you’re not finding ways to convince them that you’re bringing value to the organization.

Some people get into those situations with bosses like that, and they give up. At that point, you are giving up because sooner or later, you’re going to get let go. Even if you’re doing a great job. If you’re doing a great job and it’s not visible and not recognized by your boss, the odds are that’s not going to work out well for you. There’s this adage of owning your career. I view that in the strategic sense. You’ve got to own it in the tactical sense. If your relationship with your manager is not working, something needs to change.

It’s interesting because my mentor for American Corporate Partners, we do help people from the military transition into corporate. One of the gentlemen has a different mentoring program, and he’s been working full-time jobs, so his manager did not do one-on-ones with him. He had some level of frustration about getting promoted. Part of the conversation was building in time where he had one-on-ones with his manager. He also began to go out with his manager, but also had conversations with his manager’s boss, and some other people he was interested in getting a better understanding of.

Ultimately, what he wanted to have happen is for him to get promoted. Now, he hasn’t been promoted yet, but he feels a lot better because he’s getting more opportunities, more people know him, and people have conversations about what succession planning might look like for him, and opportunities or experiences that he may want to get.

It has enabled him to take control of his career and, at the same time, to make some practical decisions. I’ve been at this organization for a while. It’s this organization that I want to stay with. Other people are now beginning to show interest, and it has helped him make a decision that he’s going to stay put. To your point around people taking control of their careers, it does start with keeping your manager in the loop with all the things that are going on, but at the same time, building that advocacy outside of your group.

Leading And Growing In Mid-Career

Let’s switch gears and talk about another one of your topics about how to lead and grow in the middle of your career. From your perspective, what does growth even look like for somebody who is mid-career but not quite in the C-suite?

Most people end up in middle management. Everybody can’t be in the C-suite. There’s only a small percentage of people who make it that far. A lot of managers make the mistake that once they get to a role, they think they’re finished, and that there’s no more growth and development. They may say, “I’ve been doing this role for the last 10-15 years.” You always have to focus on your growth and your development, whatever that’s going to be.

I think about the stage of life that I’m at now. A lot of my peers are retiring, but there’s a lot of gas in the tank that they’re allowing at the end, what you want to be able to do, whether it be starting your own business, doing non-profit, or whatever that is. Peter Drucker wrote an article about managing yourself. He talks about being prepared to do another career and focusing on that.

Even if somebody is in middle management, they can look and say, “What am I going to be doing in the next ten years or so?” It’s not too early to be thinking about, “That may look like something different. Are there some other things that I could start focusing on and developing on. Is there a dual track that can help me in my day job and help me transition to something else?” When you look at the amount of content information and things that are available, it’s hard to keep up just to be average in the current job that you’re doing. You always have to be developing yourself in some way.

How To Not Feel Stuck In Your Career

How do you counsel people who are contemplating a lateral move? Under what conditions does making a move from an organizational level perspective or from a corporate title perspective is a sideways move? When is that a good idea, and when is it a bad idea?

Most times, it can be a good idea. It depends on where you’re going. I’ll give you an example within pharma only because that’s the world I live in. Let’s say, as a sales representative, somebody goes in as a sales rep through sales training and a developmental position, and then they become a district manager. There’s a band of district manager positions. They call them promotions, but they’re not really promotions. Somebody who is an AD or associate director, for example, is still considered a district manager position.

In some cases, that might be an individual contributor role, which might be in reimbursement. You might go to market access, where you are doing negotiations and working with contracts. When you’re doing a lateral, while it may not necessarily be a real promotion, you’re building additional skills. When you get to the next level, let’s say you’re going to be a second-line leader, what they’re looking for is those people who have more touchpoints. They have a broader understanding of the business because they’ve been in roles that would be “considered” lateral.

Even if you think about the military, a captain may be a company commander, and then they become a staff officer. They have some staff assignments and do some other things. If they’re competing for somebody to become a battalion commander or even a brigade commander, they’re going to look at those touchpoints. Those folks who have a broader range of experience, even though they were theoretically lateral moves, have a broader level of experience. When we talk about looking at the business, whether it be the business of being in the military or the business of, whether it be corporate or pharmaceuticals, a broader understanding of the business grows and helps you from a lateral perspective.

I would go back to what you said at the very outset. I would agree that, in general, lateral moves have the potential to be good moves because you work in a different function or a different team. You’re seeing a different management style. You may be learning a new function that you haven’t worked in before. All of those things build your credibility and your readiness to move up closer to the C-suite. I think about my own career. There were times when there were jobs I thought were going to be great that didn’t turn out to be great. There were jobs I didn’t think were going to turn out to be great.

Things can turn better or worse with one or two people changes or situational changes in a team. You’d never completely know. You have to be open-minded about some of these lateral moves because they get pitched a lot. Somebody above is looking for you to potentially solve a hole that they’ve got. You’ve got to be able to open-minded about them. You also have to be a little bit stooped and not blind, and put blind trust in somebody else necessarily having your interest in mind, but you can learn so much from those situations.

Over the years, I worked in pretty much every function organizationally and did a little bit of enough things that I feel very comfortable across most functions in a lot of different business situations. It comes with the gray hair and what’s left of it. It also comes with the willingness to step into things that were outside my prior experience base, and to be committed to learn in those situations. If you do those things enough, career are long. You and I are roughly the same age, with gas still in the tank. You’re not working till you’re 55 or 57, like my father-in-law did. You’re working potentially well into your 60s, so you’ve got time.

You’ve got time to try some different things. You’ll look back when you get to be further in your career and say, “I’m glad I did all these different things because I learned so much in so many different places.” People feel like they need to climb step by step on that ladder, and there’s no going sideways. That’s a very narrow view.

The other part of that is that people move from organization to organization. Even when you take on roles that are similar to the previous role, sometimes they have more responsibility. I remember going from one role level-wise to another role, but the role that I went to, even though they theoretically had the same title, the role that I went to had more responsibility. I had more budget responsibility. I had more direct reports. You can build upon skills that you learn from your previous role. Even though they are theoretically the same in title, they can be very different.

It’s interesting that you mention that because a lot of times, I’ll talk to people. I’ll talk about my background and everything. They’ll say, “You’ve had a great career.” I’ll be there thinking to myself. It’s like, “There’s so much more I wish I could have done.” This is how we’re wired. You’re ambitious and you’re trying to do the next thing, but I was also always trying to get as much experience as I could.

Time goes by quickly. I started working in the late ‘80s with military experience. We talked about it at the outset. I got to do a few different things, all with an engineering bent. I spend some time consulting. I’ve worked in financial services and a few different places, and 35-plus years went by very quickly. How do you counsel people who are in that mid-career, “I’m feeling stuck?”

It’s an interesting question because I always start with, “What does that even mean when people say they’re stuck?” I think the other question is, “Where do you see yourself? Where do you want to go?” Part of the stuckness is that somebody has been working in an organization for 20-30 years, the proverbial golden handcuffs, where they feel like they don’t have options. At that point, there’s a financial consideration because you’re going to retirement, and you can get full medical. You’ve got two or three years, or maybe you’re young enough. It’s never too early to start thinking about what that transition looks like. “What do I think I want to do?”

I tell people that you never know because sometimes you might not get a chance to raise your hand and say, “I’m going to retire.” The company might say, “It’s been nice. We’re doing a downsizing, and you seem to fit the criteria of what we’re looking for.” All of a sudden, you’re starting over again. I’ve given that some thought earlier. Let’s say you’re going to go out and you’re going to consult. There’s an opportunity to maybe get some certifications or go to some different classes.

It’s helping people take control of where they are and what they’re trying to accomplish. I remember talking to somebody who was in insurance. I was having a conversation with them. There’s a level of fear because you have to spend some time with yourself. You get some paper and a pencil, sit down, write some stuff down, and think about where I want to go and what I want to accomplish. Nothing is going to change unless you change.

The first part of that is sitting down, and even if it’s brainstorming, whether you get a coach, sit down with your spouse, or get some time alone and write out. You still have dreams, ambitions, and things that you may want to accomplish. We put so much of our identity into our work. That can be one of the challenges when people either retire or get laid off. They’re identity is so wrapped up in work that they have no other outside interests or anything like that, so they struggle. When that question gets posed, there’s a level of fear. It’s easy to do nothing. As I said, nothing is going to change unless you begin to take those first steps.

There are so many ways to do it. It goes back to what we’re talking about a minute ago, lateral moves and moving into a different company. There are so many ways to get yourself out of whatever sense of malaise that you’re feeling. As we talked about, you’ve got time and you can do different things. There’s an adage. In any job, you should be learning or earning. It’s great when you can do both, but if you’re learning, you will be engaged. You will feel a sense of fulfillment. You will be happier, which will ripple out to your personal life.

Part of the reason people get themselves stuck is that they either set overly lofty ambitions or overly aggressive timelines for themselves that aren’t realistic in most situations. As you say, only a few people get to be in the C-suite in any given company. Also, more often, it’s because they think too narrowly. They aren’t willing to get out of their comfort zone and commit to doing something new. They keep going to work, doing what they’ve been doing, and they get into such a flat line routine that they lose that sense of enthusiasm. That’s when you get mid-career people who are not trending in the way that they ought to be.

There are so many companies, depending on their size, that there are other business units. You can go and do other things. In some cases, you have companies that have a company within a company. You can raise your hand and say, “I’d be interested in going over there and see if I can help out do some different things. I’m looking for some different experiences.” At a minimum, you’ve got to ask the question. If you ask the question, people are more than willing to work with you. If you don’t ask the question, no one is going to know what you’re thinking and what you want to do.

Being clear and being communicative about it is a prerequisite. If you don’t know what you want to do and you’re not telling other people what you want to do, odds are they’re not mind readers, and you’re not going to get to do what you want to do. You have to have that perspective. I’m sure you work with your share of mid-level managers.

They go from not even knowing how to be a manager to getting the managerial basics, to then learning how to lead. Management and leadership are like a Venn diagram in a way, but clearly, when you move into bigger roles, the management probably gets a little bit less important because you’ve got very capable people underneath you, but the leadership matters more. How do you help people begin to make that transition in the work that you do with them?

Part of it is skillset because it’s more about vision and leading people versus managing things. We manage things in processes and things, but we lead people. It’s easy for people to forget that. It’s being able to get them other experiences and those types of things. I did Toastmasters for many years. I took over our club. At the time I was in the club, it was 50 years old, and we were struggling because we had moved locations and membership had dropped off.

We talked about influence earlier. No one worked for you, even though you’re the president of the club. The only thing you have going for you is influence and building out a vision of what the future might look like. It was one of the best developmental lessons I learned outside of Corporate America because I wouldn’t have had the opportunity to learn that skill. Usually, you’re thrust into a role, especially if you’re a second-line manager, all of a sudden, you’ve got a team of direct reports who have direct reports, and you’re setting the ball forward.

If you can figure out how to get those experiences also outside of your day job, it will help you be more effective as a leader because you can learn some lessons. The risks are different. You’re not looking at P&L and some of those things. It’s not that nonprofits and other organizations are not important. They’re going to be a little bit more forgiving. There are some valuable lessons to be learned there, and in whatever classes.

We talked about the lack of leadership development and leadership training. Finding good mentors is so important, and being able to talk to peers who have been where you have been and who can give you advice, suggestions, and things that you could be doing, as well as using some of the tools that are available within the organization.

A lot of companies do 360s with the leadership team and those types of things. Be open to feedback and improving, and being better. We have conversations. Sometimes, you have different relationships with people on your team. Ask people, “What would you like to see differently? What are some things that I could do that will make things more effective?” If you approach them in the right spirit, people will give you the feedback to help you do the things that you need to do to be successful.

How To Handle Setbacks And Grief

Let’s talk a little bit about setbacks. It’s another topic on your list. How do you help someone recognize that what feels like failure or the worst thing that ever happened to them might not be such a bad thing?

You can start with personal stories. I’ve had my fair share of setbacks. It’s how you get to where you are. It’s having those stories. I used to always joke with people. I would say that I never wanted to work for a sales manager who had never struggled as a sales representative. They have no insight into what it means not to do well. I remember when I was interviewing for a job, and I decided not to take the role because the manager had never struggled.

It was a district manager position in the Philadelphia area. You either do well or you don’t do well, and she was a new regional director. I was thinking, “This has a chance of going south very quickly.” I hope people ground them and focus on what the lessons are. What are you learning here? Help them see that it’s not the end of the world, and do share some of those lessons. I remember being a new trainer and getting some feedback from the class that I didn’t do the role play well, and I was too difficult.

My manager made a decision that I was going to be retrained. I was going to retrain with one of my peers who we had come into the sales training at the same time. I was crushed. One of the guys in HR was my mentor. I remember he had a conversation with me. He was telling me, “It’s going to be alright. You’re in this position. You’ve got a great future. You need to suck it up.” He gave me a pat on the back and a kick in the behind at the same time.

Later on, at the end of that year, I remember the director of sales training saying that was one of her greatest accomplishments because things could have gone either way. Things could have gone south, or they could have been very successful. Ultimately, I ended up as a district manager. It’s a huge opportunity for growth for me. It’s frankly what it was, and being open to accepting the feedback, me getting help, and having a broader understanding because she had gone to the same HR person. It was an HR professional who handled this, knowing that she had taken it seriously to figure out how to coach this person on your team to be better.

I use that as an example to say all is not lost. There are times in your career when you’re going to have setbacks. If you’re not having setbacks, you’re probably not growing. There are going to be times that you’re going to be put in positions where you don’t have the skillset and the ability to do what’s being asked to be done. There’s a huge growth opportunity for you.

When you’re working with somebody in one of those situations, how do you balance being empathetic but at the same time, providing enough challenge to them to work through it?

You have to help them get through the stages of grief as quickly as possible, and then have the conversation about what we are trying to accomplish here, and what the results are that we’re looking for. Get them to agree that there is an issue, a problem, or something that needs to be solved. If you can’t get them to read that there’s an issue or a problem that needs to be solved, you can talk until you’re blue in the face, and no action is going to be taken. Once you can get to that agreement that there’s something that needs to be solved, then I’ll have the conversation about how we do that, what that looks like, and what that development looks like to get you to the next level. What does that end result look like?

Do you feel like people try to rush themselves through the stages of grief or through getting past the setback? Do you counsel them to be more patient?

My experience is that people usually stay in the grief stage too long. One of the things that I’ve seen in a lot of organizations is that we don’t do a lot around change management. A lot of organizations don’t teach managers. Change management can be anything from a new role to coaching and providing people with the skills to be able to get out of that grief cycle. What happens is that the grief cycle keeps going on. Ideally, what you’re trying to do is get people out of that grief cycle as quickly as possible. They’re still focused on the past when there’s an opportunity in the future ahead of them. Part of it is human nature. How do you coach that? My experience has been that most people stay there too long. I don’t know if you’ve seen something different.

Especially if it’s a layoff, there’s an economic dagger hanging over people’s heads. They’re thinking, “I’ve got to find employment because I need to provide for my family or myself.” They don’t feel like they’ve got the luxury of time. They end up jumping right into the first thing that comes by, and it ends up being a bad move for them. There are no easy answers in those situations. The wisdom of having a security blanket in the form of savings that you can tap into for just one of those situations, people used to call it “F you” money.

When you get laid off, it could be more “F me” money. In the scheme of things, having that gives you a little bit of latitude to not feel so much pressure to jump right back into something new, but not everybody has the luxury of having bank savings. Those are situations where people do feel like they’re rushed.

When I worked with people who have felt that, the best advice I tried to give them was to think through what’s important to them in a job. It comes down to, “How do I feel about my skills and the job market? Do I take this one, knowing that it may not work out because it doesn’t feel completely right to me, but I need income, or do I wait a bit longer?

Everybody has to form their own judgment. Other than that situation, people tend to linger in the grief cycle longer than they should. They get stuck in the bitterness or the disbelief that something has happened to them. You’ve got to push them out of those situations because at some point, they’ve got to get on with their lives, like any other setback. The more they happen to you, the more you accept them as a fact of life, and you know what to do.

It’s like being a salesperson. When you lose your first deal, your heart breaks. You think it’s the worst thing that’s ever happened to you. Though you never want to lose a sales deal or whatever is a win in your particular job, you do come to accept that you’re not going to win every deal. Your job is to learn from them, so you increase your winning percentage. You’ve got to move on and not let it completely erode your confidence that makes you not a good salesperson or not a good whatever.

That makes perfect sense, especially with so many companies downsizing and the economy. It’s interesting, too, because part of the grief cycle is that people jump into the first thing that they get, and there’s a level of resentment that can occur. Instead of moving to the next thing and saying, “This isn’t a fit. It did what it needed to do. Give me another two or three months to polish up my resume. It would help me prepare for whatever that next role is going to be.” Sometimes people get stuck, and then turn around ten years past, they are in a job below their skillset. There’s a level of resentment from the situation and things that have occurred in their careers.

People talk about one-way doors and two-way doors. Most things are two-way doors. You can reverse the decision you’ve made. Some things are legitimately one-way doors, but when you get in those situations, it comes back a little bit to what we were talking about earlier in the conversation about people feeling stuck or questioning a lateral move or whatever. These are not life-ending decisions. If it doesn’t work out, you accept that. You prepare and you move on. If it does work out, then that’s fantastic.

Looking Back To Keith’s Career Transition

Sometimes, people either fear making the leap into something, or they get into it, and then they fear making the leap out of it. It comes back to what we talked about. People start putting themselves on autopilot in their careers, which isn’t great. Maybe spend a few minutes talking about your own transition. What surprised you the most when you left the corporate world and started your own business?

That’s a loaded question. The first thing is that everybody says, “I’m going to work with you.” I’m like, “That’s not true.” The other thing is that I spent time on the wrong things. It’s a learning process. I would joke with people and say, “You have to get the corporate beat out of you because you’re the decision maker. You get to make all the decisions, and you get to do all of the stuff.” You’ve got to figure out, “What am I good at? What can I afford to offload to give to other people?”

At the end of the day, it’s understanding that I’m the number one problem with everything that’s not going well. It is a journey of self-development in a lot of ways. My experience has been that the more time I’ve focused on myself, building myself, and making myself better, there’s a direct correlation to that and growing the business. Those are some things that were surprising.

The other part of it is that there’s a level of disbelief. I focus my business on life sciences. I would go to conferences and things like that. People would still see me as “the training lead.” People would say, “How are you doing?” There’s this level of concern they have about you. I would get sucked into that because you end up in this conversation. It’s understanding I’m growing a business. I need to present myself in a different way for people to understand that I’m growing a business, and I’m no longer doing this. I’m now doing that.

There’s a piece of that in a transition, where you transition from being this corporate person. It’s a part of my identity and who I am. It helps me in my business because I was a manager. I did a lot of things for the clients and people that I’m serving, but there’s that whole piece of understanding that. The other part of this is that there are some lessons you’re not ready for, or you focus on the wrong lessons. I remember I was trying to figure out how to run an event. I don’t need to learn how to run an event. I run a couple of national leadership meetings. I knew how to do that. What I needed to learn how to do was build an email list. A lot of people will sell you a lot of things, and sometimes, they’re not the right things.

Email lists are probably one of those things.

One of those things is trying to figure out how to do that early. In business development, selling in pharma, where you have a list of physicians that you see on a regular basis, is a lot different than doing regular business development. There are a lot of skills that have to be learned, and getting used to not getting a regular paycheck. My wife, at times, I’m amazed that she went along with this whole thing because it is a leap of faith.

I’d say the last thing. I don’t know if you’ve ever seen it this way. People would talk about how brave I was to go out on my own. It took me a while to understand that. It gets back to some of the conversation we were having earlier about people getting stuck, and not willing to take a risk and do something different. I took some chances. Part of me was, “If this doesn’t work out, I can always go back and find a job.” I didn’t want to look back over my career and know that being an entrepreneur was something that I had always wanted to do. I didn’t want to look back and say that I didn’t try it. At least, if it didn’t work out, I could say I tried and it didn’t work, then I went and did something else.

For me, that was something that was important. Essentially, you’re leading away in a different way because people see you, and it gives them hope. It helps them to be able to step out on faith in whatever it is that they want to do, whether to go get another job or whatever. They admire that. I’m not sure I still see it as a big deal. It’s me and who I am and what I want to do. I do understand it’s important to work with people and have conversations about what’s next and transition.

In that spirit, what’s next for you?

Keep building the business and keep doing this until I decide that I want to take a step back, speak, pick, and choose what I want to do. My kids are out of the house. I’m having a ball doing this, and helping as many people as I can, like managers, to have an impact on so many lives. If we can build better leaders and better managers, we can build a better world.

Thanks for doing this with me. We covered all of your topics at least a little bit. We’ll give ourselves a check on that. It was good to get to know you, Keith.

It was good chatting with you, J.R. Thanks for inviting me on. I’m looking forward to this episode.

Thanks to Keith for joining me to discuss influence mid-career growth, dealing with adversity, and his transition into entrepreneurship. As a reminder, this discussion was brought to you by PathWise.io. If you’re ready to take control of your career, join the PathWise community. Basic membership is free. You can also sign up on the website for our newsletter and follow us on LinkedInFacebookYouTubeInstagram, and TikTok. Thanks, and have a great day.

High Performance Teams and Talent Strategy

Leading From Within: Building High-Performing Teams

Managers shape culture, engagement, and results. The strongest teams develop their own leaders and coach them to their individual strengths.

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The Conversation

We explored why firms often hire managers from outside, the hidden costs of long ramp-up times, and how skills assessment centers reveal internal bench strength. We also covered CliftonStrengths as a coaching lens, as well as military lessons on leading from the front and taking care of your people.

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The Insight

Promote from within whenever possible. New leaders who already know the culture, network, and workflows hit stride faster. Engagement rises when first-line managers coach employees to their strengths, delegate tasks for development, and provide genuine feedback.

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The Action

  • Map your bench. Run a simple skills assessment center for ready-now and ready-soon leaders.
  • Coach to strengths. Use CliftonStrengths or a similar tool, then tailor one-to-ones around what each person does best.
  • Build the pipeline. Give stretch assignments through targeted delegation and pair them with feedback.
  • Protect engagement. Define “discretionary effort” with the team, then recognize it publicly and often.

Ahoy, welcome to the Sea Captain Wave Podcast with Phil Bender and Greg Patton, where we help listeners navigate the uncharted waters

of personal and professional growth. The Sea Captain Way is about energizing top performers to take on risks and push beyond their comfort zone

to pursue life-changing goals and achieve peak performance. We’re gonna help you build your vision by showing you how to break free of boundaries that are holding you back.

So, Phil, we’re happy to welcome Keith Willis to the Sea Captain Way podcast. Today Keith is the president and founder of Core Management Training.

He’s a sales trainer and strategist and leadership expert who delivers learning experiences in management, leadership, and business. Keith has invested his time

and energy into understanding how high achievers perform and the strategies they use to attain their goals. As a captain in the US Army, he worked with some of the best and brightest leaders in the military building teams that consistently rose to the challenge. So, welcome Keith. Yeah, Welcome Keith.

Keith Willis. How about that? Thank you. Hey, thank you very much. Yeah, great to, great to see you and, uh, uh, great to be with you today.

Um, had a nice, uh, visit with you the other day, which was in preparation for this and got to know, uh, a lot about what makes,

uh, Keith Willis special. And you’re gonna, as a listener today, you’re gonna figure that out. Uh, and, uh, so welcome. Good to have you.

Thank you. Thank you, Phil. Thank you, Greg. Really appreciate it. Really excited to be on with you today. Yep.

Yeah, right back at You. Yeah. So, uh, well, let’s get started. Uh, so tell us about, uh, this business core management training.

What type of clients do you work with and what are the services you provide? Yeah, so, uh, core management training primarily focuses

on sales leadership training in the pharmaceutical industry. That’s where I spent the balance of my career after getting out of the military.

So, uh, there is a need not only in life sciences, but other industries around leadership training. And it just seems to be one of those gaps.

Oftentimes the managers become, uh, a new manager. Sometimes they don’t go to go to any type of, uh, leadership training until maybe even six months in,

and then, uh, ongoing training can be lacking. So I felt like there was a need to do some level of leadership training.

And since it’s an industry I know very, very well, I felt that I could, uh, provide a service for customers.

So this was something that you had a vision for early on, or would, did this just evolve over time?

How did you, how’d you get to that point where you decided, okay, this is, this is where I’m headed?

I had always been a little bit of an entrepreneur at heart, uh, fool around with a little bit of, uh, Amway stuff.

I don’t know if you remember back in the day, you remember the, uh, sprint, uh, oh, and they used to have the pin drop.

Yeah. So I, I did that whole thing for a little bit. Um, when I was working full time, I had started a,

a coaching business on the side, and I had a customer, I had a couple of customers and everything. So, uh, when my position was eliminated, I thought about,

do I want to continue doing what I’m doing? I was ready for a change. I, I think, frankly, and so, uh,

I decided I was gonna go out on my own.

That life is short and, you know, it is either gonna work or not work, and I can always go back and get a job if I needed to get a job.

So, Keith, your LinkedIn profile makes a statement that companies often hire managers from outside the organization who don’t know the culture with the hopes that they will be effective leaders. And since there’s typically no training for development, these managers, you know, can struggle.

Can you exp expand on this for us? What you mean? Yeah, so I, I, I work for a company that was taking over responsibility for their product, and they hired a lot of sales representatives outside the organization as they were, you know, standing up capabilities.

And some of these folks were developmental. We had a bunch of different, uh, programs that we offered.

And, and part of my role was to stand up leadership development and obviously brought in a lot of managers.

A lot happened, uh, over the course of a two year period. And during this time, uh, period, when you have that type of change, there are, there are opportunities for people to be promoted.

And so while the company had done a good job of, of developing a pipeline of talent, what they did not do necessarily was to go out and put that pipeline into a new managerial position.

Mm-hmm. Some of that was because the, you know, current managers that did the hiring, they were not confident, they were not sure they were gonna be asked

to do coaching feedback, so on and so forth. And so what you do is you bring people into the organization that don’t know the organization. And in this particular company, uh, culture was a differentiation or something that the company sold.

And in fact, when people would start, they would spend an entire day bring people into the home office just to talk about the culture of the, of the organization. And so it’s a gap. And so you have people that are sitting there to that feel like, Hey, I should get an opportunity. And they weren’t getting an opportunity.

Uh, we eventually put together a skills assessment center, and we sent 10 people through the assessment center. And, uh, I believe everybody in that first class eventually ended up being promoted.

And so it did two things. It helped keep people in the organization ’cause it felt like, Hey, I’m getting all this development, uh, now my talents are being recognized. The, the other piece of it was that managers were able to see that, hey, we actually have good bench strength,

and then not to have to pull people from outside the organization. And, you know, here’s, here’s something that’s really interesting.

When somebody leaves their old organization and they go to a new organization, one of the reasons why they get a, a big raise is to compensate for the loss of effectiveness that they’re gonna have in this new role.

They don’t have the network, they don’t have the relationships, they don’t have any of those things. So it’s gonna take some time for those folks to get up to speed.

In some cases, it’s easy for a new manager that’s been working in a organization for quite some time that understands the culture that has a network.

And then, and if you do the things that, you know, uh, managers, second line managers should be doing coaching feedback, helping people be better and more effective at their role, that manager has an opportunity to be a superstar versus if they come from outside the organization, it’s not that they can’t be successful, it’s just gonna take a little bit more time.

Yeah. If you consider the lead, uh, the ramp up time, which can be sometimes two years, you know, to, to bring somebody up to speed with, with culture, build the relationships, boy, it, it’s so much, it, it seems so much smarter and really is to look internally first. Okay. But so many times, because people aren’t being developed, you don’t even know what you have inside. Absolutely. Absolutely. And, and, and so that’s really a great point you make there.

Uh, for so many of our clients, we talk about that particular element is, you know, uh, one of the, the three big reasons why people leave, uh, companies, number one is unpredictable environment.

Number two is culture.

Number three is lack of a growth plan.

Well.

And so lack of a growth plan becomes such an important element that you tend to take for granted the people that are inside because you’re really not growing them. So that’s a really good point you made, Keith. So, uh, so you served in the, as a captain in the US Army.

Uh, what did your military experience teach you about leadership and how to apply the skills in your role as president of core management training?

Yeah, there were so many lessons. Um, you know, I think one of the big lessons we, we talk about leading from the front, you know, we, we live in a world that the reality of it is, is that, you know, with knowledge workers, you, you can’t necessarily know everything that your folks do.

Your, your expertise just can’t be everything. But ultimately, uh, I, I do think that that leading from the front, taking care of your people are really, uh, lessons that I, I learned. Uh, I remember being an ROTC in, in the TAC officer, you used to always say that, uh, if you’re gonna take that hill, you wanna make sure that you don’t turn that when you turn around that everybody’s following you.

And I used to always have that vision of you turn around, there’s no one there. And it’s like, oh, crap. So, um, it was one of those lessons that I, I I, I would think about a lot because ultimately your people are, are looking to you to, you know, be their voice, be their, I mean, stuff happens.

You know, I I used to tell my team, if we didn’t have problems, we wouldn’t have jobs. So, you know, that’s just kind of the, uh, those are just things that just happen. And you, when you work in these matrix teams, and there are a lot of things going on, there’s a, there’s a tendency to be able to point fingers. And so the, the leader’s job is, is to lead and, and take care of their people, people and, and really help everybody get the things done that need to be done to get the results that you’re looking for.

Well, that makes total sense. If you think about it, Greg, when we were back in the fraternity house back in the day, and Greg was in charge of leading everybody into dancing, that was his thing.

He was really good at that. That

Could be harrowing. That had its moments, especially the way Phil dances Jesus There. Well, it was a problem because Greg danced like a lane from Seinfeld. And so it was a, it was always a challenge for, for us to, uh, manage that.

And there were times when he was out there by himself. Mm-hmm. And so, I, I get your point. Uh, boy, that was,

Yeah. So it was kind of a follow on to Phil’s question. You worked with an organization, um, called American Corporate Partners that helps veterans find meaningful employment after their military service. How did you get connected with that organization and how did the, the programs work?

Yeah, so, uh, I got involved with American Corporate Partners with my last corporate job. So, you know, a lot of organizations have employee research groups, and we had a veterans group, and as a part of that veterans group, uh, they supported, um, American Corporate Partners and what American Corporate Partners does.

First of all, it’s a nonprofit. And what it does is it supports folks that are in the military as well as their spouses that are transitioning from the military into civilian, civilian world.

Uh, myself, I was what they call a JMO, junior Military Officer. Mm-hmm. So there were some organizations that focused on you transitioning out of the military.

So I went through a whole developmental pro, uh, process, probably over the course of eight or nine months. Uh, went to, uh, an event where I interviewed with several, you know, different companies. Uh, most of ’em were pharmaceutical companies, is how I ended up going, uh, getting into the pharmaceutical industry at that time, there really weren’t any of those types of organizations focused primarily just on, if you were in the military at all, was all just officers.

and so, uh, what’s great about American corporate partners and, and other organizations like it, it, you know, if somebody says they want to get out, uh, they can get a mentor and they can have a mentor over the course of a year, helps them with interview skills,

helps ’em build their resume. Uh, I think pretty much everybody that I’ve worked with ha, you know, ended up getting a job.

And like a lot of folks, sometimes you, you take the first job or second job you can get, and then you start thinking about, oh, what is it I want to do when I grow up? And so part of that conversation is, is to help folks like that. Mm-hmm.

Uh, the gentleman that I’m helping right now that I’m mentoring, he’s in a little bit of a different program because he transitioned, um, probably two or three, probably more than two or three years ago.

Uh, so I’m a mentor for him and, and just a, a very bright, um, I guess I’ll call him a young man. I mean, he is not a kid by any stretch of imagination.

Uh, but I, you know, at times I wonder who’s learning more myself or, or, or he, because it’s a go back and forth and have some great conversations.

And, uh, for him it’s helping him advance in his career and look at the next opportunity.

So, uh, it’s a great program whether you’re in, you know, corporate role mm-hmm. You want to engage with American corporate partners, or, you know, you have your own company and you want to engage with them and, and be a mentor, I would say it’s, it’s, it’s worthwhile.

Yeah. That’s cool. And, and again, so much of what we do, and Greg, you know, this is, is around the mentoring space.

Mm-hmm. Um, and your point well made is we learn as much as the people that we’re taking through it.

One, because we have to sharpen our saw. You know, we have to put the best version of ourselves out there, right?

Uh, two is because we end up hearing new innovative stuff that comes from the minds of the folks that are going through things that we, you know, that we’ve gone through a few times. Um, so I I really appreciate that.

Uh, uh, you know, Keith, your firm works with sales teams utilizing the Clifton Strengths assessment to identify each team’s member’s strengths.

You know, it’s designed to help sales managers coach their teams more effectively and lead them to better sales results.

Uh, why do you find this as assessment and approach to be so effective? Yeah, I, I kind of stumbled into Clifton Strengths.

Uh, there’s a book called Break All the Rules by Marcus Buckingham. Mm-hmm. And I had finished, uh, reading it,

and when I, earlier on when I was a district manager, I, I wasn’t that good. I wasn’t, I mean, uh, we got some results over time.

It took me some time to figure some things out. And I remember working with one of my sales reps that was struggling.

And, and usually as a district manager in the pharmaceutical industry, you’ll generally do a two day work session. So, uh, here was a rep that had great selling skills, but she was struggling with her product knowledge, and her results were struggling.

Also, at the end of the first day, she said, I’m gonna go home and cry. And so she was being a little facetious because we had a good relationship, but as a manager makes you really think about what is it that I’m doing? And so, uh, I had been reading this book, and the following day I said, we’re gonna do something different. And, and I asked her, what is it that you do extremely well?

And she said, I paint pictures for doctors to get a sense of who the patients are that they need to write for. And so I said, that’s what we’re gonna focus on today. And so that was what we did. Ultimately, by the end of the year, she finished over a hundred percent, and usually a hundred percent is the target for any sales representative in the pharmaceutical industry.

Mm-hmm. And I, I wish I could tell you that I jumped in and embraced Clifton strengths immediately then, but like, like, you know, this, this kind of line, you know, you try some stuff and then you get away from it.

And then over time, I finally figured out, oh, this is really a great assessment. And, uh, went ahead and got certified as a Clifton strengths, uh, coach. And what I saw was that, uh, teams that I engaged, whether they were in sales or non-sales, when they did the assessments, those teams performed at a, at a very, very high level.

Uh, there was a manager that I did, I watched him literally get promoted through the ranks, and he did every one of his teams, I think he’s a g uh, general manager at one, uh, one of the major pharma companies now. Uh, I saw, uh, teams, district managers would do their teams.

They would either be first or second in, uh, president’s Club, president’s Trophy, or, or things like that. So direct correlation between utilizing strengths, uh, and then as a training manager, I turned my team over twice using Clifton strengths, uh, really helping people really, um, invigorate their careers and, and be able to move in the roles of more responsibilities. The thing about strengths is not just about focusing on your strengths.

Obviously we always talk about weaknesses. Yeah, sure. A weakness is anything that gets in the way of your performance.

And in some cases, people have a weakness is, is because they’re over utilizing a strength that they have. And what we do is we try to teach people how do you work around your inherent weaknesses as, as an individual? And we know that data and, and studies show that those inherent talents that you have, they drive your performance, they drive engagement, they do a lot of things for you. When you focus on things that you don’t do well, you’re not gonna be very happy. So think of it this way, it’d be like a squirrel having to swim.

Yeah. You know? Yeah. Right. You know, squirrel’s not gonna be happy doing that, versus if they get to leap trees every day, they could do a lot of great stuff. Leaping trees, they’re not gonna do great stuff. Trying to swim across the lake just not gonna happen.

So that’s the analogy I, I, you know, what Clifton strengths means to me. Gotcha. Good. Good. Interesting. Yeah, that, that’s cool.

So your, your firm also offers a Power hour session that’s tailored specifically for learning and development and HR professionals.

Uh, these sessions offer strategic insights into actionable solutions to elevate client training programs. Can you tell us a little bit more about these Power hour training? Sounds cool. Yeah. So Greg, the, there there really a opportunity for folks to consult. Uh, usually if somebody takes over a training team, there’s a lot to be done. Sometimes it’s a new position. In some organizations, especially on the HR side, sometimes HR folks don’t necessarily know, uh, what they know, what training is, but how to go about it doing these assessments and things like that. So it’s an opportunity to have a conversation, think about what is it that you’re trying to accomplish and get some help putting together a plan. So that’s really what the Power Hour is about, is setting people up for success. Cool. Yeah. That, it, it, and again, these, these things that I’m sensing from you,

Keith, that I think are great is there’s a lot of value add that you layer into, um, what you’re doing.

Uh, the mentoring, you know, obviously the assessments, the, uh, um, the power hour concept. I mean, these are things to, to that really when, when you, when you’re building out a firm or when you’re building out something, you know, we do, for example, Greg, we’re doing a lot of webinars now, you know?

Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. Anything that you could do to help people get better and then eventually bring them to you.

I ideally, right. So, uh, good, good. Uh, so, uh, last question here. Uh, you have an article on your website that sites a recent Gallup survey that says 53% of workers felt they were not engaged with their employers. Now that’s, that’s fascinating.

It, it, it is estimated that this led to $1.9 trillion lost in productivity in 2023. What strategies are you offering your clients to get employees to be more engaged with their work and workplace? Yeah. I, I think ultimately it comes down to the first line manager.

Uh, we talked about why people leave organizations. The manager represents the company. So no matter all the policies to the first line manager. Uh, we talked about why people leave organizations. The manager represents the company. So no matter all the policies and everything else, it really comes back to the management.

So if there’s a engagement problem, all you have to do is talk to the first line manager and everything else, it really comes back to the management. So if there’s a engagement problem, all you have to do is talk to the first line manager and get a sense of what people, uh, feel about that manager. You know, some people use the, um, metric or, you know, we say we define what culture means, or we define what engagement means. What we mean is discretionary effort.

So how willing are your people to do those additional things that you don’t necessarily ask them to do? And so people will go through, and I won’t say go through the motions, because I don’t think that’s fair, but I also know at this stage in life, I know how many people have worked at a company or 20 or 30 years, and they’re not old. They’re not young, but they can’t wait to get out. Right.

And to me, that speaks to the engagement. They’re not allowed to be able to do or have other opportunities to do other things.

And so they go out and they take their talents elsewhere. They either, you know, start, you know, in a new organization, they work for a nonprofit, uh, why couldn’t have they have done some of these things altogether? And so those are all the pieces that are missing.

And so, um, we don’t think of engagement that way. We think about people that don’t show up to work that aren’t, you know, working. I mean, I think at the end of the day, everybody goes to work to do a good job.

Mm-hmm. But you don’t, you’re not necessarily allowed to give more than, you know, what people expect of you mm-hmm.

Versus being challenged and pushed to give all that you can. Yeah. And then at some point, you know, company’s gonna downsize, something’s gonna happen.

Or when they’re doing the downsizing, you’re like, Hey, can I go? Yeah. And so, uh, we really Yeah. Right.

You know what I mean? Yeah. And, and so we really focus on no strategies IE coaching and feedback performance.

Uh, I call it the black, the blocking and tackling of management, you know? Mm-hmm. Developing your people. Uh, I like to say delegations, God’s gift to development.

’cause all you’re doing is pushing, pushing work down. It’s how I learned, learned how to manage budget. My boss gave me responsibility.

She pulled out a portion of the budget. She gave it to me, gee, my next role, I had responsibility to do a budget.

And I wouldn’t have had that opportunity if she had not provided the opportunity just by delegating. So just those simple things, uh, the, uh, strategies and tools and resources that I provide, uh, organizations to be able to help their folks and help keep their people engaged. I

Love it. Yeah. What was the term I heard during Covid? I had never called it quiet quitting, where it’s like, I’m here, but I’m not here.

Right. Right. I sure that’s, yeah. I was gonna say, Greg, uh, you remember, uh, when Colonel Dan Cormier, uh, was on with us, he talked about, uh, the military, uh, uh, middle management, and he basically said they were called, uh, uh, the backbone of the army.

Mm-hmm. And so what I hear you saying, Keith, is similar to that with the first line manager. Are they the backbone of the firm or are they just filling in gaps? Are they just filling in, uh, certain, uh, layers And like you said, uh, when, you know, are they going the extra mile, they doing the extra thing? Because does it really matter? And when it’s all said and done, so I think you’ve, uh, I think, uh, you hit on something that’s very powerful and important. Um, so as, uh, as we wrap today, uh, how do people contact, uh, Keith Willis and core management training, um, and, uh, in order to potentially work with you, how do they get ahold of you and, uh, how do they find out about the training programs and services? Yeah, the best way to get ahold of me is through, uh, core management training.com, all one word. It’s spelled, spelled exactly how it sounds. Or you can get, get to me through LinkedIn.

I’m pretty active on LinkedIn, write a lot of, uh, blog posts, comments, and, and so on and so forth.

So those are probably the two best ways to, uh, get ahold of me. And, uh, you can fill out one of the forms to have a conversation or send me a message of some kind and, you know, just get on the phone and chat, you know, might be able to help you might not, but at least it’s worthwhile to get another connection, have some conversations to, to stimulate thoughts about, you know, how do I, uh, develop my folks? How do I help them perform to a higher level? I love it. Well, Keith Willis, first of all, great. Uh, another home run, Greg Patton. Yeah, nicely done. Great.

Um, yeah, prepping, uh, prepping our, our person. Uh, any any final thoughts for you today? Uh, the only thing I would add is, uh, Phil, you might wanna hit the WD 40. Your chair. Sounds like the, uh, Orca and jo f*****g, the, the crates.

My eyes are riveted on the water behind you. I’m like, I fender, he doesn’t get dragged under during the podcast.

No, I really enjoyed talking to you, Keith. It was great. Thank you for your service. Um, thank you, Greg.

Yeah, I, I, interesting to hear about your corporate, American Corporate Partners Program. Um, my experience as veterans, like working with other veterans, there’s that bond that, uh, I think that’s super fantastic. So thanks for your time. It was great chatting.

Yeah. Keith Willis, thanks again. Thanks, bill. Thanks Greg. Really appreciate it. Thanks for joining us for this edition of the C Captain Way podcast.

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Coaching Training and Organizational Development

The Untapped Power of Middle Performers

Most teams focus their attention on stars or strugglers. The biggest performance lift often sits in the middle.

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The Conversation

We examined why middle performers receive the least coaching, how leaders mislabel Bs as Cs, and what happens when development, feedback, and recognition tend to gravitate to the extremes. We discussed practical fixes, including clearer coaching goals, explicit follow-ups, and leveraging strengths to tailor development.

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The Insight

Middle performers deliver strong results but often lack feedback and visibility. Treat them as “ready soon,” not “fine for now.” Small behavioral shifts and regular recognition drive significant gains.

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The Action

  • Rebalance time. Allocate specific coaching days for your middle tier and protect them on the calendar.
  • Be explicit. Anchor each coaching session, agree on the real issue, and confirm next steps in writing.
  • Coach to strengths. Use a simple strengths lens and set stretch assignments that align with how each person excels.
  • Recognize progress. Call out improvements quickly so the behavior sticks.

Welcome to The Exceptional Sales Leader Podcast with Darren Mitchell. If you’re a sales leader looking to take your leadership to a whole new level, then this is the podcast for you. We’ll be exploring tips, techniques, and strategies to help you take your leadership to the exceptional level, and allow you to enjoy more money, more meaning, and better sales results.

Welcome back to The Exceptional Sales Leader Podcast, and welcome to a man coming in in the evening. In the evening, and this is being recorded, this is in the first week of July. It’s actually at his dinner, so he’s looking very splendid, and he’s beautiful pink.

Is that a, that’s a polo shirt, right?

It is, yes, it’s a polo shirt.

Coming in from Philadelphia, Mr. Keith Willis, welcome to The Exceptional Sales Leader Podcast.

Thank you, Darren, really excited to be here. I’m glad I was able to make it today. I know we had some challenges there coming from dinner, but after listening to a few episodes, just happy to be here and looking forward to our conversation.

“Yeah, thank you. And I do apologize because there was, I think we were talking just before you pressed record, you were talking about having a virtual assistant that has been relieved of their duties, making some decisions because I got a decline, they got an acceptance and then I got an email overnight. So yeah, I’m ready to go.

And so we made this happen really quickly. So greatly appreciate it. Hey, you’re the founder and president of Core Management Training.

You’ve got a lot of experience around leadership, farmer sales, but also interestingly, a military background as well. I’m really looking forward to this conversation because I could go anywhere, but I think just based on a little preamble before you press record, there’s some really cool points that people listening to this can really bring home to Roos and help them in their sales leadership journey. Now, before we jump into it, I’d love to always get a bit of a sense of my guess background in terms of what you’ve done and what’s led you to now do, what you do with Core Management Training.

Well, yeah, Darren, I started out as a ROTC cadet. I got four years of college and graduated with a regular army commission. The same day I graduated from college, I got my commission all on the same day.

Went to my officer basic course and landed in Germany. So I was in Germany for three years, did a variety of roles. Probably one of the most important roles is a young lieutenant as a platoon leader.

So I had two different platoon leader roles. I was in a ordnance unit. A lot of people don’t realize when we think of ordnance, we think of explosive bombs and all of those things.

At least in the States, that’s the smallest part of the ordnance core. So you have missile management, you have automotive management, and then you have explosive ordnance. Now, obviously this was before the Gulf War.

So that may have changed now, but when I was in, there was automotive maintenance. So we had responsibility for fixing vehicles. I was automotive platoon leader as well as at one point in time, what they call the E&E electronic and engineering platoon.

And then eventually, I became what they call the shop officer. So just think in terms of you’re going to get your car fixed, and you drop your car off to the shop. My team had responsibility for getting those vehicles fixed.

And then those vehicles weren’t fixed. There were issues, obviously, because units needed to have a certain percentage of the vehicles ready to roll, so that they could be mission capable. So I did that.

And then I came back stateside. Around that time, the first Gulf War, so I had responsibility for making sure, seeing all the vehicles painted that went off to the desert, and then eventually became what they call the S1. So think in terms of the S1 is the administrator officer or HR, for all practical purposes.

We had about 900 soldiers in our battalion. We had some of the last couple of units coming back from Southwest Asia and then we had a unit relocating from Germany. So I had a responsibility for whether it be pay, officer evaluations, NCO evaluations, anything to do with any type of HR type of issues, I had a responsibility for.

And then decided that I was going to get out. So I worked through a junior military recruiter and ended up in sales. And so it was interesting because like a lot of people, I had never thought I was going to be a salesperson.

But in fact, I had never even seen or even heard of a pharmaceutical rep. And I had a couple of interviews. And back in the day when you interviewed for a pharmaceutical job, you used to have the opportunity to spend the day in the field with the sales representative.

I didn’t have that opportunity. And my first day in the field was the first time I got a sense of, oh, this is what a rep does. I don’t know if I would have signed up for it then.

But I was fortunate. I had some good mentors and some folks that helped me out. So I would say that the guy that interviewed me did a good job of selling me because he equated being in pharmaceutical sales like being in the military.

So he talked about sales forces as in units, putting promotional messaging against certain products and those types of things. So I got that analogy and so that was how I ended up in pharmaceutical sales, moving from the military. So big jump, big change.

And I love to explore because you mentioned before, you never thought you’d be in sales and it’s interesting. The vast majority of people I speak to will be on this podcast or just generally in business. It’s almost none of them have actually woken up one day and said, yeah, I reckon I’ll be in sales.

I reckon that’s a good career to proceed with. Well, I kind of fell into that or in some people, people say, that’s the only role I could get.

And so fast forwarding to that, we’ll talk about what you’ve learned through your career in sales and now what you do now. But love to know, making that transition from the military where it was very structured and you’re looking after all of those people in terms of all the administration, the HR related stuff. Making that transition into private enterprise and into a sales role, where you’re now responsible.

What were some of the key lessons from, I guess, your leadership background within the military that helped you make that transition? Presupposing, of course, it was a relatively smooth transition. I’m sure there would have been some bumps in the road.

Looking back in that transition, what are some of the key lessons that helped you transition into a sales and then eventually into the leadership roles?

I think the big thing is that in the military, as an officer, you have a great deal of responsibility. I mean, when I got out of the military, I was, what, 28, maybe, after six years. So even at 21 or 22 years old, my first platoon had, I think, 70 soldiers, and then the automotive platoon had 40 soldiers, and then responsibility for running a shop with close to 200 soldiers, seven or eight direct reports.

So you go from being, I wouldn’t say king of the hill, but all of a sudden, you’re just responsible for yourself. And I do think the first rule of leadership is you have to lead yourself ultimately. And so I had learned a lot of those lessons in the military, because not only do you have responsibility for soldiers, you also have responsibility for yourself.

And things like, you’re doing PT two or three times a week, you pass the PT test, you have to carry yourself in a certain way. Being overseas in Germany, you stand out because you’re American relatively to being in Germany. And so a lot of eyes are on you, and you’re working with other allies, other units, you have customers.

I had customers, we called them customers, and when we fixed vehicles, those types of things. So you had customer units, and you treated them as such. You go from that to all of a sudden, you’re just you as a salesperson, you just have to get up and you have to figure out, how do I sell?

What is the selling thing that I need to learn how to do? You go from fixing vehicles or managing a deadline list to, how do I learn this product? How do I sell that?

And so there’s a level of study, and you have to swallow your pride, because in the pharmaceutical industry, the sales rep position is entry level. Now, for some people, they spend a career as sales representative, but even their CEOs, a lot of CEOs carried a bag as a sales representative back in the day. So, it is a great training ground, and ultimately, it comes down to learning how to manage yourself, manage your emotions.

As an officer, you’re standing in front of soldiers, and at times, things aren’t going great. You have to learn how to control your emotions and those types of things. And when I was younger, my emotional intelligence probably wasn’t that great.

And over years, as you get older and wiser and more mature, you get better at doing those things. But as a sales representative, when you’re going in to see physicians, you’re talking to nurses, you’re talking to staff every day, ultimately, it’s the relationships that you develop in these offices. And you have a rotation, so you may have anywhere from 100 to 120 doctors that you’re seeing from every four to six weeks.

So that relationship and your selling skills make the difference between getting your product written and not written. So, a lot of lessons there. And part of it’s, you know, swallowing your pride and knowing how to ask for help.

And thanks for sharing that. It’s interesting, as you’re talking, I was just reflecting on some of my own clients that I’ve worked with as a mentor and as a coach who have been in the pharmaceutical industry or the medical industry where it’s very specialized knowledge. And particularly when you’ve got clients who are doctors, physicians, cardiovascular surgeons, orthopedic surgeons, et cetera, the expectations they have on a person who is coming in to sell them a solution to a problem is really, really high.

You also mentioned the importance of mentors as well in your journey. From a person coming from a military background and, for want of a better term, being thrust into pharmaceutical sales, how was the, I guess, the onboarding process with you? You mentioned you had a cycle of physicians to talk to over a period of, say, six weeks or so.

How did you go about building credibility in the eyes of those physicians to the point where they would even start to contemplate the solutions that you were providing them? Because this is a really interesting point because you’ve got to establish credibility as a sales leader and you’ve got to establish credibility as a sales person or sales professional before the customers even contemplate thinking about your solution. Is there anything specific that you did?

I think ultimately you have to show up. I think that’s part of the piece. I spent my first couple of years, I was fortunate to work.

We kind of worked in a team perspective. You had your own territory, we crossed over products and there were a couple of people that were on my team that they won sales awards almost every year. In fact, one of my first district managers, he had been a rep for over 20 years when he became a district manager.

He was a new district manager and even now was probably one of the best district managers that I had. He intuitively knew what you needed to do. I remember you got a diamond, so he had this shamrock ring and he had four diamonds and a ruby and that was representative of all the awards that he had won.

I remember I used to always say, I want to get one of those awards and wear one of those rings. And he was a no-nonsense, pretty straightforward. I remember my car looking like a disaster and him telling me, the next time I ride with you, your car looks like that, there are going to be some consequences.

And he gave me the reason why. We’re professional, you don’t know who’s going to see your car, you’re representing the organization and those types of things. So I appreciated his straightforward demeanor.

So having those types of conversations with managers is really important. And when I was a rep, training was pretty rigorous. The company that I worked, there was, I can’t remember, but I think it was like a four-week training cycle.

And you spent a lot more time in training then than you did now. And you had to pass exams. And I think two years in, they have what they call a medical review exam.

And that exam was 200 questions. And if you didn’t, if you passed the exam, the good news was you got a 10% raise. They don’t give 10% raises anymore.

If you didn’t pass the exam, you probably should put your resume together and start looking for a job. But they had vetted that with physicians. And what the feedback was is that that exam was on the level of what a medical student would get.

And so you build up your product knowledge, and then when you go in, you can answer questions, you talk to the physician, you build relationships. I always think of the trust equation. So you mentioned the credibility piece, which is one part of that.

Do you do what you say you’re going to do? Do you show up? Then there’s the competency piece.

Then it’s the intimacy, which comes back to the relationship divided by your self-orientation. And interesting enough, the more self-orientation that you have, the less trust that you have in the office. So I often like to think in terms of when you think about building trust in any, whether it’s with customers, internally, even with family, to think about the trust equation.

So if you have all of those components, as you build trust, it gives you a lot more autonomy, it builds your credibility, it gives you the opportunity to be able to serve your customers.

It’s huge, and I often use the trust equation in my workshops for leaders, and I do a little trust game afterwards, and it’s interesting how competitive people get and how self-orientation comes to the surface. Even though they’re in tech, they intellectualize, yeah, it’s not about us, it’s all about serving the team until there’s a competition. I’ve got to win.

I’ve got to win. So you then made the leap after a few years into a district manager role and a sales leadership role. Love your experience on reflection, moving from being an individual contributor to a sales leader, and how easy or difficult was that for you?

The truth of the matter was I was not a great district manager by any stretch of the imagination. And it was interesting going from, because in the military, there’s an assumption. So there clearly is structural structure.

I remember my commander used to say, you have hours like a banker. I mean, as an officer, you do run your mission. There’s expectation of you saw problems, you don’t bring problems to me.

And so there’s far more autonomy as an officer than people realize. And I probably talked about this whole emotional immaturity. Younger, the stuff you just do, stupid stuff, I think back on.

You lose your temper, you yell at people and things like that. And you can kind of get away with that in military, even though on reflection, the better leaders were those that were calm, cool, and collected. The people that were respected the most were the leaders that didn’t need to raise their voice, that listen to problems, that help people do things.

And over time, as you get older, at least for me, I can’t speak for everybody, as I matured, I began to realize there are some things that I needed to do more effectively. But as a district manager, you know, the first couple of years were tough. And looking back at it, I would say that I should have waited longer.

I had been a sales representative at that point with two different companies. The first company I ended up leaving because of downsizing and those types of things. And when I went over to the next company, I won two district rep of the year.

I finished three out of 640 sales representatives. So I had street cred from the standpoint of being able to sell effectively. And we had a good development program as far as preparing people to be managers.

But you can train people all day long, but until you do the job, you know, I joke with people that don’t want to be a manager. And I say, you’ll learn. It’s one of the most developmental jobs that you get.

All of the lessons and things that you need to learn, you’ll learn as a district manager. If you have a gap, that’s going to be the thing that you have an opportunity to work on as a manager. So that was my experience.

And on the back end of it, I did better. So there were some reps I managed well. I had great relationships with.

And then there are reps that I struggled with. I would say they were middle performers. Middle performers in that they weren’t looking to get promoted.

They would tell you they wanted to get promoted, but they weren’t looking to get promoted because when I look back, when I look at them now, some of them are still in the industry, still in sales. And interesting enough, a lot of them put up great numbers. They would be way over goal.

It wasn’t a matter of that. It’s just they’re not raising their hand to volunteer. They’re not trying to do anything extra.

And they would be a pain in your backside. You might call them on a Friday afternoon and it’s like they’re there in office doing expense reports because they’re trying to get down to the shore. And I was one of those people.

My expectation is you should be out working. And I had to learn, look, if you’re putting up the numbers, you get a little bit more autonomy versus if you’re not. And it was all of those things learning how to work through.

And interesting enough, it wasn’t until I left and I went to another organization that had a very, very strong leadership development program. And it wasn’t that the company that I was at before didn’t. It was just the way that the guy that ran the program, he was a guru.

There was no debate whether you’re first or second line leader. You were coming to his training. And then there were two levels.

So as a second line leader, there would be coaching or they would listen to sessions where you coached your first line leader and there would be feedback on the coaching. And then there would be feedback for the first line leader who was coaching their representative. So up the chain, there was an opportunity to see.

And because I was in training and then as a part of the cadre and going through all the different rotations and training the classes, you begin to learn how to be more effective as a leader. And then running training teams internally, I became a much better leader. So I think it’s a combination of time.

There’s always a time element. There’s a maturity element. There are parts of us that maybe from a business perspective, you may be very strong, but you may not have the emotional maturity.

For some people, they’re emotionally mature very early. Maybe the business acumen is not that good. So we all have stuff to work on.

But I would say that that was my journey. And I was fortunate because I was in organizations where training, there was a lot of leadership training. And unfortunately, I would say that in the pharma industry, that’s not as consistent now as it has been in the past.

And part of it is because there are more downsizing, there are more cutbacks, there are more companies that are being bought. So all of those things, it becomes difficult to justify how do we sustain a leadership development program if the people that go through the program aren’t going to get promoted.

Yeah, true, true. So would you say that that’s one of the key challenges facing a lot of organizations now, particularly in the life sciences and pharma industry?

I definitely would say that that’s a challenge. How do you get the next group of people ready to get promoted? And I think it goes, I think this is probably every industry.

I don’t think it’s unique to pharma. You know, pharma, we joke and we say we’ve, the industry’s gotten old. It hasn’t, it hasn’t.

There’s a life cycle. You know, you know, when I started, I was in my late 20s. A lot of us were the same age.

A lot of people I know now are retiring. Some of them are CEO. Some of them have done extremely well in the career.

And, you know, it used to be you had to hire people that didn’t have a lot of sales experience. And now, because you have a lot more specialty drugs, more specialty products, there’s a tendency to hire representatives that have experience. So it’s harder for people to break in.

And the other part of that is that when you’re trying to figure out, how do I create a developmental pipeline? What’s that going to look like? I will often hear, well, we’re not expanding.

We’re not going to have new promotions. And so how do I train people? How do I get them ready to step into these roles?

So it’s not unheard of where you talk to leadership and people feel like people aren’t ready. And I even talk to second line leaders that have had training. And they’ll say, I don’t know that I’m as prepared as I need to be to how to coach my first line leader or how to coach their people, provide feedback.

So I think it’s a challenge in budgets, money, time. I don’t know if you remember back in the day when I was a rep, we used to get mail once a week. And you’d wait for the mail to come in and you’d go through the mail.

Now you get that much mail in 15 minutes on your computer. So the temple is so much faster now and the expectations are so much higher now than they were 20 years ago.

They are, which we kind of, as you were talking about the second level leaders and even the first line leaders there, my experience is a lot of leaders are thrust into a leadership position because they’ve been a great individual contributor. And that seems to be the catalyst or the trigger for them to be given the opportunity. And I know you talk a little bit about heroic leaders to servant leaders and I’m big on servant leadership in terms of what that, particularly in sales, which might sound a little bit counterintuitive.

What do you see in the industry right now in relation to organizations where there’s a lot of changes, there’s a lot of maybe downsizing, changing in terms of company structures, buyouts and stuff like that. Is there still a focus on the importance of leadership and getting the right people for the future of the business? Or is it more a case of we just got to get the number because we’re going to make sure that we are surviving firstly and then potentially thriving so that we can be bought out by a bigger company.

We used to joke, a friend of mine, that we were surprised our companies would run because it was more inertia, and things would get going and they would just run. I think it’s a combination of both. I think everybody acknowledges that there’s a need for leadership.

The question is, how do we get people ready for leadership? And then I think there’s a split because you have companies that have been around for a while, but what happens is that product goes generic, something happens, they get rid of the entire commercial team. And some companies take a different approach.

They move that talent around to other business units. You have to learn the product, but ultimately business is business. You can figure that out.

And then I think that there’s just not enough or there are sections of time. Last year, I went to a conference and I can’t remember the numbers. And it wasn’t just pharma, but a lot of organizations, there was a ratio where they had cut the leadership development trainers to leaders significantly.

And it’ll be interesting because the conference is coming up in a couple of weeks to see where they are. But companies that had established the leadership development programs and they were presenting what they had done with cohorts and everything where most of the team had disappeared. So now you have one or two trainers responsible.

And so that speaks volumes oftentimes about where a company, what a company really thinks about leadership. So even though they say the right thing, they don’t necessarily believe the right thing. Or I’ll have conversations with organizations and everybody’s doing the same thing.

The Grow Model. Okay, so the Grow Model is not that it’s not effective, but everybody’s doing it. Situational leadership, SBI.

I mean, there’s all this stuff. And then you ask the question, okay, so what problem are you trying to solve? So they’ll do a whole overhaul of leadership development, but they don’t answer the question of, well, what’s the problem we’re trying to solve?

What is it the program wasn’t giving us that we’re looking for today? And so there’s all of this stuff. And I at times think and feel like that people feel like the leadership development that they’re getting isn’t helping them with the day to day.

It’s not helping them with some of the challenges, issues, and problems that they’re having with their teams. How do I get even the A performer today can easily be a B performer tomorrow or even a C performer. When we talk about things like AI, different types of the new CRM platforms, different things that expectations that people have, it can change so quickly.

So how do you get people through that? How do you enable them? How do you upskill them?

And so I don’t know that anybody has a good answer. And I don’t know that a lot of organizations spend enough time figuring that out. And then I think, ultimately, how do you measure what you’re doing and that it’s having impact?

How do you really know that a sales leader that went through a curriculum and got developed is doing a good job? What does that look like?

Yeah, it’s difficult because a lot of my clients, they’re always talking about what’s the return on investment. And it’s almost like the answer to that is, well, how long is a piece of string? You can say, well, okay, we take you through a curriculum and we should see an uptake in customer retention, customer engagement, bottom line, top line revenue, profitability, et cetera, et cetera.

But often it’s the observable behaviors that’s the real return on investment. Because if you see a sales leader having a conversation or having a conversation with maybe a sales director, if they can be observed, that’s the real return on investment because you can see the behavioral change. What’s the challenge there is it’s really difficult to put a tangible number against that because it’s hard to look at a scoreboard from that.

Well, what does that actually mean? It’s difficult, right? But it’s and I think a lot of companies now are trying too hard to try to put some numbers against some things that perhaps it’s hard to put numbers against.

And that’s my challenge that I’m sort of grappling with with a lot of companies in Australia right now. So you mentioned something there also around the A’s, the B’s and the C’s performers. As you know, Australia, for most companies in Australia, we’ve just come off the end of the financial year.

So June 30 in Australia, for many companies, is the end of the financial year. So I know up until Monday this week, there were companies all over Australia just pounding the pavements trying to get as many sales in as possible and bringing things in from the first quarter of 2026 to this one. And now we’re in the new financial year and then we’re thinking, oh, now what?

What are we going to do now? I wanted to talk about the three tiers of performers, the low performers, top performers, but also this core middle performers, because I know you do a lot of work in this middle performance part. What’s your thoughts around the way that organizations and sales leaders in particular treat those three categories?

And what are some opportunities that perhaps they might be missing? By ignoring the middle performers?

Yeah, let’s start with what the opportunity is in the middle. When you look at the middle, they represent anywhere from 60 to 70 percent of the sales force.

Yeah.

When you look at the top 10 percent, how much more are you going to get out of them? Probably not much more. The bottom 10, 15 percent, managers trying to get rid of them.

You got a limited amount of time. In most organizations, particularly in pharma, everybody gets generally the same amount of time in the field. Yeah.

If a manager spends 100, 120 days in the field of representatives, and he or she has 10 representatives, that’s about 10 days. And when you think about field input teams, special assignments, you’re going to help with a sales meeting, your top performers are the ones that are usually tapped on the shoulder. And there’s some equity and there’s some learning that goes from being able to prepare for sales meeting.

You’re leading a discussion. You’re leading. You’re having an opportunity to get some exposure to marketing, sales leadership.

You have an opportunity to give your input into what’s going on. So you get development that way. If you’re on the bottom, you’re getting attention just because your sales stink and everybody’s trying to get rid of you as quickly as possible.

If you have an extra day, where’s the manager going to spend it? They might spend it with a top representative. They’re probably not going to spend it with a middle representative.

So the middle representative gets no feedback. No one’s cheering for them, and they’re just there. And so if you haven’t said, an interesting thing is in some cases, these middle performers may be pretty solid sales representatives.

They may be north of 100 percent. When we talk about goal attainment, a lot of it is around behaviors and some of the things, I mean, I think part of it is you got to agree as an organization. When we say B, what does that mean?

And if you’re in that category of Bs, you get treated as such. And there’s three degregations of that. There’s the top middle, the top part of the Bs, and then there’s the middle Bs, and then those Bs that are closer to Cs, and you’re wondering in the back of your mind, should I be starting to think about taking some action on them?

So when you think about it from that perspective, it’s your greatest opportunity. I was in a region where the regional manager ultimately was fired and brought in a new regional director, and we would do this thing. She called it Blue Skies, and the way she said, well, we had 80 territories, and it was the cutoff, it was a number of territories that would take the hit goal.

So in other words, if let’s say if it were 30 territories, that it was 30 territories, and then the rest of the region would make goals. So initially when I was a district manager, I used to think in terms of this was kind of the Pareto principle, the 80-20 rule where my manager would look at, do we have a A, B, or C performer? And if we don’t have the right person, do we need to remove that person?

But the piece that I missed is that the entire management team would go down to a district, and the whole team would spend the entire day with a sales team. So every representative would ride with a sales manager or a regional training manager. And depending on how we were geographically dispersed, we would have a best practices dinner.

So it might be one dinner, it could be two or three dinners, and then we would get all of the different best practices and those type of things. So the piece that I missed was that it really was focused on the middle performer, because when you look at the entire region or if you look at a district, you probably had no more than three top performers. You had a core group of people that were in the middle and they got individual time.

So what happened at the end of the year when we do performance management, we spent not only time with my people, I had spent time with other people’s people and had some very, had an idea of from a rating perspective, is this number this number? We could talk about what do we need to do to move this person forward? So we were in a region that was, I think at the time we were seven out of seven and we ended up moving, we ended up being two out of seven.

Part of that was because of the focus on the middle performer with sales, their performance, I can’t tell you how many five-page business plans we would do on a regular basis and critically looking at each individual person, what their previous three years of performance was, what you needed or what you thought that you needed to do to move that person to the next level. Then my manager would dig into your field coaching reports to see if what you said was what you had written in a field coaching reports to see if there was alignment.

Yeah.

So when we talk about that level of focus, those are the things that more so did more to moving a region to two of seven than spending time with top performers. Everybody got some love. And so I think that that’s the opportunity.

Oftentimes, the difference in coaching is that with an A, you can say, do acts, do more programs, or do this close differently, or say this, and they get it. With B, you have to be more explicit during that conversation and that coaching to say exactly what you mean and describe what that means. I believe it’s, I think it’s McKinsey, there’s a McKinsey article and it talks about coaching, about coaching two best practices within an organization.

So that’s the piece that managers oftentimes will miss. Here are things that other teams or other folks are doing within a team that are moving and then coaching to that, but also coaching specifically to what that person needs. And my philosophy as a manager has always been, my role as a manager is help you be the best version of you possibly.

So you might be very, very different than I am. You might be, you know, let’s say you’re highly analytical. My goal is help you be more analytical.

If the other person on teams are high, my goal is to help you be more effective in that way. Now, are there some other things you still got to be able to do analytics and some other things? Do you have to mitigate some weaknesses?

Sure. But you have to help, you have to help people leverage those enhanced strengths instead of the, instead of trying to make them a mini me. As I always say, if I had a team of me’s, we’d be in big trouble.

Well, that’s another lesson as well, because so many sales leaders build teams very much similar to themselves, and they wonder why they’re not generating extraordinary results. So when you think about 60 to 70% of the sales force being in the mid-tier, my experience is often the sales leader doesn’t necessarily know how to unlock the potential of those. So you mentioned before, you might have some who are highly analytical, you might have some who are high-eyes.

For those in the disk, that’s the influencer on the disk profile. So very high-level, very entrepreneurial thinkers, pioneer type people. How do we unlock the potential of these people?

So if you think about it, it represents a large part of the sales opportunity and the revenue base. Because sometimes sales leaders might look at it and say, well, as you said before, a core performer might be actually on target, but if not above target, and they think, well, I’m not sure there’s much else I can help them with, right? How do we help to unlock this?

Because that is probably the difference could make all the difference in terms of how a whole territory achieves and sets them up for long-term sustainable success.

I think the first thing is it starts with the leader themselves. They have to think about how they’re approaching people. There’s a whole story around Pigmalion.

I don’t know if you heard the story about a teacher. They had all these numbers. They told the teacher that these were the people’s IQs.

At the end of the year, these students had all performed very well and somebody came and said, wow, how did these students have never performed this high? The teacher said, well, gave me all of these students with these high IQs and found out that the IQs were actually their locker numbers.

So, part of it is people respond to how you treat them. So, if you treat them in such a way that that’s really what they do. I was talking to a manager, we were having a conversation and they were trying to get this representative to increase the number of calls that they were making a day.

So, they made a comment and they said, the representative had a really good week last week. I asked the manager, I said, well, did you say anything to the representative about it? And they stopped and they looked at me like I was crazy.

And it’s like, yeah, you want them to do acts, you want them to see more physicians during the week, they had a good week, why don’t you reinforce that with positive reinforcement? A lot of times, some of the obvious things managers just don’t do. The other part of that is the conversation that the manager thinks they’re having, they don’t have.

They have challenges and issues with the representative. And then you ask the question, well, does the rep know? And the manager assumes that they know or during the coaching or if you role play a situation with a manager about one of the direct reports or somebody on their team and everybody’s listening, and then you ask everybody else on the team and you say, well, are you clear about what’s being coached?

And everybody shakes their head up and down and says, well, no. So one of the things is that in any conversation, that any coaching conversation that you’re having, A, you need to anchor that conversation. In other words, here’s what we’re going to talk about.

And then at some point, you’ve got to, you and that representative need to agree that it’s an issue. Because if you can’t agree to that it’s an issue, there’s no way you’re going to be able to solve it. What a lot of managers do is they jump to action and they try to get the representative to do something that they’re not even sure why we’re even having a conversation, let alone to what even the problem is.

At least if you can agree that it’s a problem and it needs to be fixed, and then you can begin to establish how to go about fixing that. And so one of the challenges just gets down to the whole coaching conversation. And I referenced the grow model earlier.

Managers have been trained to ask a lot of questions. Well, questions are important, just like they are in sales, they’re important in coaching. But if you’ve been around, you have a lot of experience, you have a point of view, you have an observation, and you’re working with a lot of representatives in the field, so you see things.

And so you give your point of view, you provide the data, you provide the information that says, here’s why I think that. And then they ask, hey, what do you think? And then you get their point of view, and then you can have a discussion.

At least you’re moving forward. And then understanding that coaching may not happen all in one session. It may take you a couple of sessions to get them to agree that this is a challenge, this is an issue, this is something that we need to solve.

But oftentimes, what happens is because the manager jumps to action. Let’s say, for example, they think the representative needs to close. They haven’t given them any data or any information or anything that leads the representatives to even know or understand.

And they may not even be clear, because it may sound like I need to ask more effective probing questions or whatever that is. And then the next time the next field ride comes along, nothing’s changed, nothing’s happened. There’s been no check-in, there’s been no accountability call.

So that happens on a regular basis. And oh, by the way, when the leaderboard comes, no one’s cheering for me because all my stuff’s in the middle. Yeah, I had more calls than I had last week.

No one reinforces that behavior. All the people that are getting a love are at the top. And then if I’m at the bottom, I’m probably getting a nasty phone call and says, hey, what’s going on?

I looked at your numbers and I really stink. Yeah, and so I’m left to my own devices. So I think of managers would think more positively.

And one other thing, Darren, because I saw this, we were doing this with another group of managers. It was a different, it wasn’t a sales team, but it was a similar type of situation where we were talking about, we had done case studies, and you would have thought we were talking about C performers.

Yeah.

Because the senior manager kind of made a statement of, well, we need to try to get rid of this person. And it was, well, with most of the physicians that they’re working with, they’re doing a good job. There’s a couple that they struggle with, but you’ve deemed that maybe you should get rid of them.

Now, ironically, this person ended up leaving the company. So I think about the time that takes you to train somebody up and all of those things, this is a solid citizen and this is a solid performer. So when I talk about Pigmalion, their managers, they look at their B performers like they’re Cs.

Yeah.

And then they wonder why they are not getting as much out of them because ultimately, it’s, you really don’t care about me. You just are concerned about me hitting that number. If I don’t hit that number, you can get rid of me as soon as I can.

And there’s a lack of trust there. And so those are all the things that go into that impact the middle performer and why middle performers oftentimes don’t thrive within organizations.

And there’s an important point you made just before, Keith, you’re saying that we’ve got to be really clear on the problem. And I just wanted to, I guess, clarify that a little bit because sometimes when people hear that, they think, oh, it presupposed there’s something wrong. Well, the problem is you might have a middle performer that is on or above target.

But we look at them and say probably they have more potential they can be giving, right? How do I extract that extra 5, 10% out of them to take them to potentially an A performer? So it’s not that they’re doing things wrong.

We’re just looking at them and saying they’ve got more than they could be doing, right? So that’s the problem part that we need to be looking at. And the other part with all that is we’ve got to, as leaders, spend more time with the middle performers because if that represents 60 to 70% of our sales team in terms of our performance, if we just make a quick 5 to 10% improvement, then that can have a huge impact on our end of year performance, not to mention the level of engagement that those mid performers have, because all of a sudden, we’re now measuring them on behaviors and checking in on those behaviors, not just looking at their results.

And so if we just look at the results, and it’s easy to do because at the end of the quarter it tells us where we sit on the scoreboard, right? We have to look beyond that and say, well, how can I help this person? Because if I see this person who’s a middle performer, a B performer as an A, and I start to treat them as an A, then funnily enough, at some point in the near, not too distant future, they’ll start to become an A, if they take on board the coaching and all that sort of stuff.

So I just wanted to clarify that because there might be people listening to this, oh, I’ve got to find a problem with people. No, no.

Yeah, some of it’s just being more of a cheerleader for your middle performers, and just acknowledging the work and effort that they’re putting in. It’s knowing that somebody cares. And I think part of it also is Darren is having real conversation.

I remember I had a representative that wasn’t closing. And I remember saying to him, I said, you’ve been doing this job for a long time. I know you know how to close.

Why don’t you close? And so he explains to me that he likes to know. It was a congruency issue because in his mind, he said, I like to know more about things.

I don’t like to be closed when I go somewhere and I’m going to. And so he said that I like to know more about what somebody is trying to sell me than they do. So I can come to another decision on my own.

So at the time, I think they were looking at getting married. And so I had a whole conversation about, I used an example when I bought my wife an anniversary ring. And I said, you know, we went to all of these stores and my wife wanted white gold.

And we looked at all of these rings and so all of the rings were pretty much the same.

Yeah.

And I said that the last salesperson, she says to me, she says, will you be taking that ring today? I stopped in my tracks. And I could not find one reason to say no, because my wife wanted that ring, the price point, it was more than I wanted to spend, but it was a good price point.

And then I, in the conversation we had is I said, what I needed from the salesperson was, I needed for them to sit with me. In other words, we weren’t sitting this way, we were sitting together and they were helping me make a decision that I wanted to make, but I needed somebody to push me over. So the conversation was around when you don’t sit next to the physician or the health care professional and help them make that decision, that they want to make that decision, then in essence, you’re actually failing them.

And so he got that. And so I could have done the standard, hey, I want you to work on your clothing or anything, but there clearly was something that went behind that. And so sometimes when we’re having conversations with people, you got to go beyond just following the model and just checking the box.

You’re not doing this, you’re not doing that, but really trying to understand what is it? Because I know you have the capability to do that. I’ve seen you do it.

You’re just not doing it. Kind of help me out here. Let’s have a conversation.

And it wasn’t something that it wasn’t negative. It was just what it was.

Yeah. And the only way you can do that is to actually spend time with them, to observe them.

You’re right.

This is the other thing. So when we’re talking about the coaching, the development, unlocking and unleashing the potential of our sales teams, the only way you can do that is to actually spend time with them in the field to see what they do, what they don’t do, to provide them feedback, provide them coaching, so they can improve, so they can get better. So they can take their performance from B to an A, A to an A+, C to a B, because the thing I want people to understand is, sales leaders are not there and not seeking to get rid of people.

What they want to do is they try to unleash the entire potential of the entire team, collectively and individually. The only way to do that is to build trusted relationships with the people where they know you’re there to serve them. You’re not there to criticize them.

But the only way to do that is to build that relationship, which is a trusted relationship, which is fine.

Amen.

So, with that, I’m conscious of time because it’s nearly 10 o’clock at night.

So, for people who want to learn more about you, Keith, and the work that you do, and maybe understand some of the programs you offer, where’s the best place for them to do that?

Go to my website, coremanagementtraining.com, and it’s all one word, Core Management Training. It’s two T’s, if you spell it out. Go to my website.

You can connect with me on LinkedIn under Keith Willis, and you’ll see my picture in Core Management Training and connect with me there. Those are the best two places to connect with me.

Brilliant. And if there was one lasting, leaving piece of counselor advice for sales leaders who perhaps, on listening to this, are reflecting on the fact that perhaps they haven’t been spending enough time with their mid-performers. What would be the piece of advice you would give to them?

Yeah, I would say that communication is key. You know, I realize that managers, sales managers, are just stretched. The amount of field time that they’re spending now is less than it’s ever been because of just the expectations, reports, and all the things that they have to do.

Pick up the phone sometimes. Having a five or ten minute conversation. You know, some sales leaders don’t do one-on-ones, at least in pharma, traditionally have, and everything’s revolved around the work session.

But just pick up the phone, talk to people, tell them you care about them. And you know, I know everybody’s not warm and fuzzy and all that other good stuff. But when you pick up the phone, it does show that you care just to check in.

And I know one of the lessons I learned as a manager is that sometimes when you pick up the phone and talk to the person that you least expect wants to talk to you, they have questions and it’s like, wow, I’m glad I spent my office day calling all my representatives just to check in. It’s just valuable. If you just did that, I think that there would be great returns for you and your team as well as your relationships.

Yeah. Love that. Love that.

And the thing is, it’s easy to do, but it’s also easy not to do when the sales leader thinks, I’ve got to get this report for myself. I’ve got to do my strategic forecast for the next quarter. Do your team a favor and plug into them and give the gift of your attention to them.

Keith, hey, thank you so much. It’s been a great conversation. I love the insights, and I think we’re both on the same page as it relates to sales leadership, irrespective of the industry, the core principles apply.

So I want to thank you for jumping on at such a late time in the evening in Philadelphia. So thanks for being a great guest on The Exceptional Sales Leader Podcast.

Thank you so much, Darren. Appreciate you having me on.

Awesome, mate.

Thank you for listening to The Exceptional Sales Leader Podcast. I trust the information in this episode has been helpful in your journey towards becoming exceptional. And remember, please take the time to rate the show, subscribe to the show so other people can find it, but also if I can help you, jump on my calendar, go to leadwithdarrin.com, and let’s have a conversation about how I can help you along your journey to being exceptional.

Coaching Training and Organizational Development

Bringing your A-game: Interviews, Value, and Coaching

Hiring managers want reps who create impact from day one. That means showing up prepared, adding real value in every visit, and carrying yourself with the confidence to lead conversations.

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The Conversation

We discussed what managers look for in interviews, how to stand out in a crowded office, and why self-development sets successful candidates apart. We also explored coaching, courses, and mentors as the fastest way to level up skills and maintain momentum after setbacks or rejections.

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The Insight

You get chosen when you show you can bring value now. Confidence, clear stories of performance, and a habit of learning signal readiness. Training and coaching pay off because they turn intention into a visible skill.

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The Action

  • Prepare 4 to 6 tight success stories and one lessons-learned story. Practice them aloud until they are crisp.
  • Enter every interview with a plan: the needs you will probe, the proof you will share, and the ask you will make.
  • Invest in yourself. Join a course, hire a coach, or join a peer group to build accountability and support.
  • Establish a weekly practice routine: one networking touchpoint, one skills role-play (or mock Q&A), and one interview rehearsal.
  • After any rejection, extract three key learning points, adjust accordingly, and move on to the next opportunity.

Thank you for joining us for part two. Now, Keith Willis is a consultant to the pharmaceutical companies. Think about it, these billion dollar companies need to hire somebody to help their sales teams grow and get to the next level.

So if they need that, my question to you is, what skills and abilities and training do you need, or coaching, to get to the next level? That’s what we want to think about, it’s a very competitive field, and you can get hired and be successful if you get the skills and coaching and training to get to the next level.

I think the other thing is when people are stuck, most people won’t hire a coach, and it’s a mistake.

Have you ever thought about one of those high-paying medical or pharmaceutical sales opportunities? My name is Mike Hayes, I’ve been hired by some of the best companies. Hey, reach out to me on LinkedIn, or go to my website, gethiredinmedicalsales.com.

You’ve got to bring it every time you walk into the office. You’ve got to provide some level of value, and so you’ve got to bring your aid gain. There’s a half a dozen people trying to see the same physician, and they don’t have time to chit chat, waste time, and just get a signature.

And the fact of the matter is that you often don’t have something new. Now, there’s so much stuff in the PI and information that can be shared to bring value, but you have to think about that, and you have to think about how does that align to marketing messages and all of those things. And you have to kind of play, because ultimately, you’re the captain of your ship.

So there’s going to be some times that things don’t necessarily mesh up, and I was talking about the decile, for example. I know reps that have done extremely well, they’re focused on their top decile. Now, they took a hit on performance management when it came to territory management and things like that, because their calls on the top doctors were great, but here on the lower decile physicians, maybe not so much.

But ultimately, they were the ones that needed to make that decision, because they were looking for the outcome that they were trying to get with their customers and their territory.

And let me just jump in from people listening that maybe have interviews coming up. So remember the interviewer, think about what Keith is saying. The interviewer knows he’s probably managing 10 to 12 reps.

He knows his reps are in there trying to see these providers, just like Keith said, who are under the clock. Most of them are owned now by big hospital systems. And when you walk in there as a rep, like Keith said, it’s really knowing that it’s up to you to have an impact, either through the relationship you have with them, sharing new information, uncovering a need and offering a solution.

But the thing about going into the interview, you’ve got to step back a little bit and realize that’s who the manager wants to hire, somebody who kind of gets that, who if you want to say has a little swagger or can read a room or ask some good questions. So in the interview, go in prepared with that little chip on your shoulder that you’ve got a job to do in that interview, and that’s to convince these folks that you’re serious. You want to get down in business and get a job offer.

And if you can’t get it from this hiring manager with this company, you’re going to move down the road to the next opportunity that comes your way. So at some point in the interview, you have to kind of muster that, because the manager is saying, I’ve got plenty of reps to hire. Give me one who can go in the offices and have that thing, have that thing that they like.

And it’s hard to say. We call it, you know, do you light up the room? And I always say, you don’t have to be the funniest person in the room, or a cheerleader, or the quarterback.

But you do want to bring your unique personality and style, and show that in the interview.

Yeah, you know, and I had mentioned one of our reps that they’re retiring. It was one of the best hires I made, you know, and it was a joy watching their career progress. And like everybody, there were challenges that they had, downsizing, and those types of things.

But ultimately, I look back and say, that was a really good hire. You know, people I hired, I was like, man, those are great hires. Or people that I promoted in the promoted positions, working, you know, running training teams.

Those are great hires. Folks go on and do great things. And some managers have a mentality that they just want to hire for to fill that position.

I was always looking for the next available talent, because I was trying to build a pipeline of talent within the organization to get people into roles of more responsibility. So, that shows up during the interview, and that shows up in the territory. So, people worry about getting promoted.

It’s do your job at a high level. The promotions and opportunities will come.

Yeah. Yeah. So, Keith, tell us a little about what you’re doing today.

You’re working with pharmaceutical companies. You’re working with their sales organizations and training some of their managers. So, break that down a little bit.

Help us understand kind of what you’re doing.

Yeah, Mike. So, yeah, my company, Core Management Training, focuses on, primarily on leadership, leadership development. Ultimately, what we’re trying to do is create managers and leaders that people want to be on their teams and people want to follow.

The most important relationship that you have in any organization is the relationship that you have with your manager. And training can be sporadic. So, helping them build the skills that they need to be at a manager, to be able to help other folks effectively.

Now, obviously, you end up doing training across the board within the pharmaceutical companies. I’ve run training teams and those types of things. So, it ends up being across the board.

But things like leadership, coaching feedback, accountability. I build a, one workshop I built recently was around K2. And so, K2 is the second largest mountain in the world behind Everest, but probably the most dangerous.

So, there’s a Netflix special called 14 Peaks. That’s a watch. I probably have watched that documentary, I don’t know, five or six times.

But, one of the mountains and so the 14 peaks are the 14 highest peaks in the world. And so, Nimsfer’s climb is all 14 of these peaks in six months or under. And so, K2 is one of the peaks that he does.

And so, the premise behind it is, is there about 20, 25 people or so that are trying to climb the peak when he shows up. And they all said that it can’t be done because of the weather, a myriad of reasons. And imagine these are all people that are at the top of their game, they’re professional, they’ve climbed multiple mountains, those type of things.

And he sets the lines and he climbs. And within a two-day period, 20-some people follow him and make the K2 peak. And so, the question I pose for the leaders in this workshop is, are you worthy of being followed?

So, we have been doing a series around accountability. And so, some of the accountability comes to, I’m going to follow you and I’m going to do what you, I ask you to do because I trust you. And so, looking at some of the Gallup data and, you know, what the needs of followers and posing that question, part of the leadership and accountability gets back to the leader of, am I worthy to be followed?

Am I worthy to hold people accountable? So, part of it is some level of self-reflection. Build some case studies of issues and challenges that managers are having, real life problems, and then put people in groups to work through those case studies, to come out and have discussion about what they would do, how they would coach, what people actually did, and are there more effective and better ways to do it.

So, those are the type of things that I do. Just trying to help people maximize the talent that they have and help teams be able to maximize their own talent, to go out and ultimately help the customers, the healthcare professionals go out and save lives and help reduce disease and suffering.

Yeah, well, that’s fantastic. The thing is with training, like I know as a rep or as an individual, when I hear that word, I don’t love it. You know, I don’t love training.

We love the result, right? You know, we love the result of the athlete who the inspiring stories, you know, they get up and shoot a hundred jump shots, you know, before, you know, it’s seven in the morning or that they’re running track or swimming, you know, you know, the swimmers, my gosh, are in the pool at five in the morning and to be a dean, just to be a decent swimmer. In sales, you know, we I used to hate roleplay in sales training, but we love the result.

We get in front of a doctor like, Oh, I heard that question. I know how to answer it, right? It’s not new to me.

I’m prepared. And so but today, if somebody needs more training, let’s say they’re in the middle of their career, let’s say they kind of stalled out a little bit and they need to get to another level, wouldn’t you say training and getting trainees could be one of the most helpful things?

Yeah, I say that self-development is one of the most important things that you can do. And I differentiate that between training because, yeah, people have opportunity to do training within organization. But I think ultimately, you’re the captain of your own ship, and you have to take responsibility for where and what you’re trying to do and what you’re trying to accomplish.

So if you’re stuck in your career, you think about, what do I want to do? Where do I want to go? What are the skills?

What are the things I need to build to be more effective? You get to the latter part of your career, you may end up being a consultant. If you thought about it, you start preparing now.

Go to other networking groups where there’s different types of folks to have conversations about what that might look like. I reflect and I say to myself, I had always wanted the opportunity to do marketing and I hadn’t. I didn’t do marketing.

Looking back, if I had to do it again, I would have taken a right turn. I would have maybe gone to an agency, got some marketing experience because what I noticed is that people that didn’t have marketing experience go to a marketing agency and come back into marketing. So sometimes you have to take some chances.

There’s a price for everything, and you have to ask yourself the question, what’s the price that I’m willing to pay? If you say, I want to be in pharmaceuticals, for example, and you can’t land a job in the area where you are, are you open to moving and relocating? Because if you’re not, maybe you’re not as serious as you say.

And like I say, it always depends. If you’re single, you don’t have any other responsibilities. I won’t say put loose and fancy free, so to speak.

But that looks a lot different than if you have a family with children in school, those decisions can be harder to make. But those are the type of things you have to think about. Or do you need to take a step back in a role that you’re in to gain some other experiences that will launch you into the next thing?

So there are a lot of different ways to kind of peel that onion. And there are more opportunities now than there ever were before. Different types of agencies that support pharma, that might be a viable option for you to think about.

And then ask the question, what are the skill sets that I need to have? Go out on LinkedIn, look at people that are in those roles, look at their background, look at experiences that they have, and ask yourself the question, how can I get those experiences? Are there organizations that I can be involved in that I can get leadership?

I got to tell you, Mike, that when I was in Toastmasters, running a Toastmasters Club was great training for somebody looking to be a second line manager, because no one works for you. And it’s all about the vision, what your vision and where you want to see the club be. And it was a great lesson to learn versus learning that on the job.

So even things like that are developmental opportunities that people often don’t think about. We spent a lot of time watching the next series and spent a lot of time in front of the TV. When the fact of the matter is that there are tremendous amount of opportunities to continue to grow your career, whether to be take a class on your own, do LinkedIn learning, their Coursera courses, or just be in a network group, or just find a hobby that stretches your brain and gets you outside of what you do from day to day.

Yeah, I really like that, especially today. I love the information age that we’re in right now. Oh my gosh, between podcast, obviously, I love podcast, right?

But, you know, YouTube, books on, you know, like books on tape dates, especially audio audiobooks, right? But oh my gosh, I love a good, you know, audible book. And then like you say, courses, I offer a training course to help people to really, you know, have a scheduled plan to grow and get better at networking and interviewing until they get hired.

I personally have hired a career coach. I say this, I’ve shared this before. I’ve hired a career coach.

I learned to get disc certified after I learned about it. I’m so excited about it. I went and then got trained on that and became a disc certified trainer.

I’ve hired other coaches because you get, like you say, to get to a certain point, you realize you have, there’s some skills you don’t have, you get that next level. And you can sit around and scratch your head or spin your wheels, or maybe you have to go spend some money and sign up and go attend a regular course where you know there’s going to be some responsibility and accountability. But the result is through that training, like you say, you don’t always enjoy it, the commitment, maybe the cost, the price, but the outcome is what we want, right?

And if you can, and that’s what we’re searching for. Every time I signed up for a course, paid the money, I’ve got so much out of it, I can’t even begin to express. I’m a big believer in that.

Yeah, Mike, you bring up an important point. I think the other thing is when people are stuck, most people won’t hire a coach, and it’s a mistake. They don’t want to spend the money, and they should spend the money because that money will pay itself over time.

And even if you don’t get an immediate return, as I say, all work works. So it may not work today, it might work tomorrow, lessons that you didn’t think that you got. You may get much later, whether it be an aha moment or something that you worked on.

Because sometimes you’re not ready for the training that you get. You don’t have the knowledge level. And then you get some other training to realize, oh, now I understand what they were trying to teach me.

So that would be the other thing I would say is get a coach, find somebody that can help you, whether it even be a mastermind group or a group of folks that are working on the same issue, challenge and problem, mentors, peers, all of those things I think are important.

Yeah, I love that. So Keith, as we kind of wind down a little bit, I know a lot of my listeners are interviewing and they maybe have an interview and then they get rejected, right? I’ve got a couple of right now have interviews with Big Pharma and second interviews and they get rejected.

What advice would you give them?

Yeah, you know, life is full of trial and error. You got to hang in there. You know, a good hitter, he hits batting average of 300.

Michael Jordan missed a whole lot of shots. I mean, if you got into the second interview, you know, celebrate the accomplishment of getting to the second interview. Think about, you know, what you did well, what you didn’t do well.

And sometimes, the fact of the matter is that the world is telling you, you dodged one, because there are roles that I thought I was going to get, and I didn’t get, and I watched the other person get, and it’s like, man, I’m glad I didn’t end up getting that role.

That’s another way to look at it.

Yeah, so I think you just have to hang in there. I was listening to one of your podcasts, and the gentleman had talked about the fact that he interviewed almost 500 times. He had sent out 500 resumes and everything, and I remember him talking about it was job number 400-something that he had done.

But I mean, that’s stick-to-it-iveness. And the fact of the matter is a lot of people won’t keep trying, and it’s, you know, yeah, you got to take a step back and see what you’re doing. Are you on the right path?

And that gets back to the whole coach thing. You know, finding coaches and, you know, understanding, am I on the right path? You know, my experience has been that generally things work out for people.

You just have to you just have to stick at it. And that’s just part of it. And another part of it is I don’t know that we all think about this piece here, is we’re always paving the path for somebody else.

So just like I heard the guy talk about all of the resumes and things that he sent out, there’s somebody that’s sitting there listening to your podcast, that’s struggling, that’s saying, oh, wow, you know, I need to work a little bit harder. I need to do a little bit more because I’m not doing enough. So it is highly competitive and it’s not easy.

If it were easy, everybody would be doing it. But half the battle is showing up. And if you show up enough, there’s going to be a great opportunity there at the end of it.

Yeah. Yeah. Such great perspective.

I really appreciate that. There’s, you know, it’s not always getting bummed out. You didn’t get that job.

But like you said, take a step back. Maybe the universe is sending you a different message. Pivot.

That wasn’t the right one. The right time doesn’t mean all is lost. Pivot, regroup, learn, get some new skills.

Keep going, you know, be ready for the next opportunity. But so thank you so much for sharing that. I think that’s going to help some people.

Thanks, Mike.

Yeah. So Keith, as we kind of wind down a little bit, any other advice you’d have for somebody who’s looking at this career and maybe what they could do to get their foot in the door?

Yeah, I think, you know, look at your network, look at LinkedIn, talk to people, let everybody know what you’re doing. Put together a plan and then work your plan, ultimately. I think if you do those things and you’re going to land in the right spot, find coaches, support groups.

There are plethora of places where you can find help. Obviously, you do coaching for people. There are a tremendous number of groups.

There are groups that are in people’s location. I’m assuming that people from all over are probably listening to your podcast. So plenty of support tools and resources.

I would just take it upon people to take it upon themselves to use that. I think the number one thing ultimately is that you’re going to get a lot of feedback and advice from a lot of people. You have to make a decision about how you’re going to do.

It may not look exactly like Mike would do it. It may not look like what I would do, but it might be what you need to do that will help you be successful. So I think if you take all the information in, parse it down and figure out what works for you, you’re going to be far more successful than if you try to do a little bit of what everybody’s telling you to do.

That’s awesome advice, Keith. Appreciate that. So Keith, as we wrap up, if people want to reach out to you or learn more about what you’re doing, what’s the best way for them to connect with you?

Yeah. So you can either connect with me on LinkedIn or on my website, coremanagementtraining.com. I am working on a new tool.

It’s called Never Look For A Job Again. I’ve actually built out a career guide, so at some point, I’m going to build a course off that. So stay tuned for that.

Okay.

And I can actually provide a link because the e-book itself is done. So I could provide a link for you to put on, for people to click that and download the book. And would love to hear feedback of, you know, hey, you should change that or you should change this.

But I’m looking to build a course out of that.

Excellent. Well, you’ll send it to me. We’ll put it in the show notes.

People can click through that way. They can go find you on LinkedIn. It’s Keith Willis, W-I-L-L-I-S, and your website.

And we’ll put all those in the show notes. And then, man, thanks for today. Have a great rest of the week.

All right, Mike. Thank you.

If you’d like some help, some coaching, maybe on one aspect of your journey, or you’re just getting started and you’re interested in all of my seven steps to get hired in medical sales, reach out to me, send me a message on LinkedIn or go to my website, get hired in medical sales, and we’ll talk to everybody next week.

Sales Performance

Sales Management: Building Influence Over Authority by Keith Willis

Titles don’t make leaders — influence does. The shift from being a top performer to leading a team requires letting go of control, empowering others, and redefining success through the people you lead.

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The Conversation

We discussed the biggest misconception about leadership — believing authority alone drives results. Keith shared lessons from his early management days and why the best leaders “roll up their sleeves” to help their teams succeed. We also explored the trap of the “super rep” manager, the importance of coaching over fixing, and how leaders can build trust without taking over.

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The Insight

Great salespeople win on their own. Great leaders win through others. Influence, respect, and credibility create real authority. The best managers balance accountability with support, knowing when to step in and when to coach from the sidelines.

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The Action

  • Redefine success. Shift your focus from personal wins to team growth and results.
  • Coach before you fix. Role-play difficult calls and let your reps lead — even if it’s not perfect.
  • Build followership. Earn trust by working alongside your team and showing you’re invested in their success.
  • Create learning space. Turn mistakes into coaching moments rather than quick corrections.

My name is Keith Willis, and I am the president and founder of Core Management Training. We focus on making managers better leaders and work primarily within life sciences and pharmaceuticals. And we’re going to talk all about it, and you work with sales leaders. I do. I do a lot of work with sales leaders. So I know not just sales leaders, but we’re going to hone in on that a little bit today. But before we dive into your specialties, Keith, what is the biggest lie that we tell people about leadership? I think one of the biggest lies we tell people about leadership is we give them a title and they expect the title is going to be the thing that makes it work for them. I know when I became a new manager, I’m a new district manager, and people will do what you tell them to do because you’re the leader, but it’s more about your influence, your ability to hold people accountable, and to lead the way. I remember when I was – and this was ages ago – I was working at McDonald’s, and I had a manager. He was very tough, but one of the things I learned is I loved to close with him because he would roll up his sleeves and he would get involved. He would help us mop the floors, clean the dishes, do all the things. In fact, I don’t even know when he got all of his work completed because he was focused on helping us. But we always got out early. And what that taught me as a leader, part of your role is to roll up your sleeves and help your team succeed. And if you do that, you’re going to be far more successful than if you don’t. So you can’t depend on your authority because authority only goes so far. People only want to follow people that they respect, they like, and they trust. Yeah, it’s all about influence, and I think that’s what gets lost, especially as you step into leadership. You think it’s about authority, a title. No, not really. You need to really help your team succeed, and I know it was lost on me as a new leader, so I imagine many others. So when you think of sales in general, so any type of sales, you can talk about pharma sales, but there’s the people that are just great salespeople, and there’s the sales leader who could also be great salespeople. But what makes the great salesperson different or similar to the sales leader, a great sales leader? So I guess one way I look at it is the similarities between a great salesperson and a great sales leader is they like to move the ball forward, and what I mean by that is I have kind of a mantra that leaders lead, and what that means is when you lead, you lead the way. Everybody follows you. This is what we’re going to do, so why deal?

You push the team. They like to move the ball forward. And what I mean by that is I have a kind of a mantra that leaders lead. And what that means is when you lead, you lead the way. Everybody follows you. This is what we’re going to do. So if I feel, you push the team. The salesperson does that also where they’re pushing their customer forward. They’re challenging them. They’re getting them to move the deal forward, whatever that looks like. So I think that’s where they’re very similar. The biggest difference between a sales leader and a salesperson is that salesperson is individual. Like playing tennis. You’re on a tour. You win or lose based on what you do or you don’t do. As a sales leader, you win or lose based on what the team does. And you lead through others. And I think one of the challenges that sales leaders have sometimes, they may be good with individual people coaching, providing feedback. But they forget you’re not leading individuals. You are, but you’re leading an entire team. It’s together everyone to teach more. It’s not each individual person. So you have to figure out how do I get the team to move forward. And those skills are very different. So as a salesperson, I can afford to be very self-centered. I’m sure you’ve seen your fair share of sales team about us. They’re great. People find them to be very difficult to work with in the home office or people that associate with them on the marketing team. It’s like, oh, my goodness. But they’re bringing in so much revenue to the organization that they can tolerate it. But as a sales leader, if you do that, they’re going to find the door for you because you have to enable the team. You have to be able to work with other departments, whether it be sales, marketing, operations, your peers, and other people to move the team forward, solve problems, those type of things. And so I think for somebody that’s been a high performer, it’s a change in mindset. So if you’ve been a top salesperson, now all of a sudden it’s no longer about you. It’s about the team. And then the other times it can be is that because you are a great performer, then you think you can be a super rep. Eight to ten people. You can’t be a super rep to eight to ten people. It’s just not going to work. You’re just not going to be effective. And then your team is just not going to perform at the level that they need to because they’re not going to feel empowered. What did you say? Super rep? Yeah, super rep. The manager takes on the role of the super rep. I’m going to close all of the deals. I’m going to go and fix everything because I have the skill. I know how they want to make everybody a mini version of them versus making each person the best version of themselves. Well, I did find that sometimes. So my team was kind of the – well, we ended up – we did sell some things. But if a customer was angry, they always wanted to see the manager. Right.

How often does that happen where you’re like, oh, let me see the manager. And the manager goes in and you’re like, the super rep or the fixer. Yeah, right, exactly, yeah. What advice do you have for a leader is when that real situation happens, a customer’s upset and you need to deal with it, do you recommend, I know it’s different with every scenario, but how do you get leaders to untangle themselves from always being that person who’s gonna go in and fix it? Yeah, I think, you know, there’s two pieces to this. So I think there’s the customer service piece, that if you have customers that are happy, you have to do what you can to build that relationship. And I also think that it’s good as a sales manager that you have relationships, especially with those most important customers. Because customers need to feel like they’re important, they’re valued, but I think that relationship should look a little different. It’s, you know that you’re talking to somebody that’s senior that has access to more information that can help you with some other things. But I think that part of the sales manager is important.

I think from a day-to-day, maybe you’re in, you know, with a representative. Maybe there’s a tendency to always take over calls, tell people, do it this way versus that way. Maybe you’re not doing enough role play. You know, in other industries, you know, the closing sequence, the representative is failing and then they know the manager is going to be there to fill in or do the close or save the deal there’s been an issue. The best way to do that is take a step back. Maybe it’s more of a coaching conversation, having a conversation about what needs to happen or what the gaps are, role play and practicing, getting that person up to speed and then have them do it. You know, 80% done by somebody else is better than you doing it. And so part of your role is to teach and train, coach people to be able to do those things. Yes, definitely, because I think sometimes too, I think even in my experience at least, salespeople just automatically go, you need to come in, right? So it’s not even the leader stepping in and saying, let me in. It’s like, no, you really need to, because I have noticed in my time in sales, there are many people it’s very urgent, right? You need to, it’s that urgency. Like, really, is it urgent? I think I really need to go out and do this. Because it’s not always the leader, right? And so I love that coaching them, what would it look like for you to respond to this, right? Instead of pulling me in every single time. Yeah. Do we have a comment? It is. Oh, I was going to say, yeah, it’s hard because what you’re trying to do is work yourself out of a job. Yeah. Let your team run without you. Right, that’s right. Which makes people nervous. Yes. Because truly, if you’re a good leader, you’re not going to work yourself out of a job, right? Like, you’re going to really be needed there, but it does feel very uncomfortable. If you’re not doing that, then are you really doing your job? Okay, so when you think about, when we go back to the team piece, because that is a reality of sales teams. Everyone has their individual goals, right? So they’re kind of competing, and sometimes it’s this friendly competition. Like, hey, I’m going to beat you this quarter, that type of thing. But how do you bring the team together? Because as you said, as a sales leader, you’re getting everyone pumped up individually, but they still need to, if you look at it a different way, compete against other sales teams in the department, right? How do you make that switch in your head from that individual mindset to, hey, the team needs to win together? Yeah, so for a manager, it’s so important because the more of your people are doing well, the higher your bonus is going to be. You know, if you only have a couple of people that are doing well and everybody isn’t, one of the prices managers have oftentimes is that their top reps are making more money than they are. The best managers get more leverage off of their people than anybody else. It was interesting because when I started in sales, at the time, the way the compensation program was set up, the team won a team award, so if your district finished within the top 10, there was a top 10 trip. And I remember when I started, my territory was, I think, like 500 something out of 640 reps, so I wasn’t doing very well at all. And I was new. I mean, I took a territory, I sold twice as much product as the rep before in the same amount of time, but was still ranked near the bottom. But because the team did so well, we got additional bonus. And so it was set up that way. And then over time, they switched the compensation where you needed to rank a certain, you know, top 10% or whatever that was to win the trip. So ironically, I finished three of 640 and never won a sales trip. I won district rep of the year, but at the time, the compensation programs were different. So there’s advantages to that because set up that way, then the team thinks in terms of we all need to do well for everybody to do well. But it doesn’t change if the top managers get more than representatives to do better. I had a sales manager when I was a district manager, and her thing was around best practices. And so we would take the whole management team would go into a district and spend the day, and we would do a best practices dinner. And so her whole mantra was, we have all of the strategies, all of the tactics and things. Your job as a sales manager is to figure out how to execute your peer. So in other words, her challenge to us was prove you’re a better manager. We all have the same tools, the same resources. And like a lot of industries, the company tells you what you need to do to be successful. They tell you how many calls a day to make. They tell you what the messaging should be, what resources you should use, what money you should spend, what the budget should look like. And the people that follow that most closely generally are the people that do the best. So when you think of it from that way, manager’s role is not to necessarily have the representatives compete with each other, but they should be competing with themselves. If you can get somebody to think about, if I can sell more today than I sell tomorrow, then I’m going to be better for it. And if you get everybody focused on that and rally around best practices and helping everybody, then the team in itself can win. And that helps everybody because if you’re a, let’s just say you’re a representative that sits in the middle of the rankings of your district, but you’re in a district that has strong performance and promotional opportunities come along or other opportunities come along, they’re going to look at that person. They’re going to say, well, they work for a pretty good manager and they’ve got some decent performance, even though they’re not a top rep. You’re going to more likely get that opportunity versus somebody that, you know, you’re the only representative that’s doing well in that district and the rest of the people are near the bottom of the stack. Well, who wants to listen to you because they’re going to wonder, well, what’s the leadership that you’ve been getting? What are the lessons that you have to, that you’ve learned and why aren’t you helping your peers be successful? So I think the manager does have a lot of leverage points and think of it as challenge each individual person to be the best version of themselves.

You know, I don’t like that part, just competing against yourself and putting it that way instead of against each other. I’d say it was mostly a friendly competition back in the day, but yeah. It was definitely, it was there, it was strong. Sometimes, I don’t know, I think it led to short-term decision-making or urgency when it didn’t need to be urgent, but, you know, when your money’s riding on it, it’s your livelihood, it makes a difference. So I established a Top Gun award, and what that was was a plaque that was created, and the number one sales rep would get the plaque for the month, and their name would be engraved on that plaque. So you had 12 sections for, you know, the 12 months. You could be a representative and not win the Top Gun award for any month, but in the month of December, if you were the number one sales representative for the year, you would get that plaque. And so it created some friendly competition for the team, because everybody would be waiting to see who’s going to win the plaque for the month. The ultimate goal was to figure out who was going to get the plaque for the year. So that created some friendly competition and smack-talking about all the things that go on, but ultimately, it’s something that our team had that other teams didn’t have. You can still rally the team around, you know, culture, we have a great team, everybody’s doing well. Yeah, and like you said, competition’s not a bad thing, right? I mean, like, you need a little competition for some people. Like, that is their motivator, right? So especially, I think, people in sales gravitate maybe more towards competition, but like you said, it’s not a bad thing. You know, one thing that’s always, I guess in my experience, has been a challenge is identifying sales leaders from the pool of salespeople, right? Because I find, and I’ll tell this story, that I reported to someone, they were new sales, big groups, new sales, and he was amazing. Like, he topped salesperson, eventually got into a high-level leadership role, and it felt like it was just, he was not in his strengths. He wasn’t able to sell. He was, you know, paperwork, bureaucracy, politics, internal stuff, right? Because I think a lot of salespeople can stay out of all that noise, because they’re out doing their thing. And so, I have two questions. I’ll save the second one for after you answer this, but how do you look in your pool of salespeople and say, that person can be? I’m seeing qualities of that person that can be promoted into leadership. Yeah, that’s a tough one. You know, so many companies don’t have a systemic process. You know, I think part of that is because of downsizings and developmental programs that were put together that no one gets promoted, because there’s still work for them to go. I think having competency models, you know, clearly helps, and skill models around what a manager looks like. Providing people developmental opportunities, you know, whether it be mentoring a new representative that’s coming into the organization, giving one of your strong performers an opportunity to mentor. And then you sit, you know, from a sideline perspective, provide feedback, provide coaching, see what that looks like, see what that interaction is, get feedback from the person that’s being mentored to see what’s working, what’s not working, and then begin to uncover developmental plan type things. And also have that person, you know, sit beside you on some of the managerial things that you do.

Business planning, that’s being mentored to see what’s working, what’s not working, and then begin to uncover developmental plan type things. And also have that person sit beside you on some of the managerial things that you do, for example, around business planning, or doing staff meetings. When I was a training leader, I quit running staff meetings. I would delegate that to one of my direct reports. Now, obviously, they would have to have a conversation with me around what the meeting was going to look like, but they would go out to people on the team to find out what we needed to talk about. So all of those are things that a sales leader can do to begin to develop their people. And then they can assess from a skill set standpoint, what are their strengths, what are their weaknesses, what are their developmental opportunities. Tons of sales meetings are the opportunities for that person to get up and present, talk about why they’re doing well, put together a deck, all of those things that a manager would do. So those are internal opportunities that a manager can use to begin to assess the skill sets of their top salespeople to figure out, is this a person that we should be looking at promoting? And in some cases, you may have somebody that’s a middle performer, that maybe they’re over 100%, maybe they’re 101, 102%, and they exhibit all the skills that I would take to be a manager. Maybe that’s the person that should be promoted to a sales manager. I mean, Bill Belichick never played football, and we all think of him as one of the greatest coaches ever in football. So maybe it’s not as much you need to play the game or you need to have done the thing, so to speak, but you need to have the skill sets to be a strong manager. And maybe it shouldn’t all be, it’s our number one salesperson or it’s our top 10%. Maybe the talent pool should go a little deeper than that. Yes, so much to say. And I hope Belichick doesn’t ruin his legacy at UNC. We’ll just put that there.

A few things there. So one is not only do the love your examples, giving them real opportunities to not only test them out, but get them to test out the role. Because they may be like, let me go do something else. That’s not it, right? But I think it’s also important, I’ve talked about this before, I love that you talked about this in sales specifically, that it could be people just meeting expectations. They’re doing their job. Don’t overlook them. Don’t count them out. So the second part of that question is, let’s just say a great salesperson gets into a sales leadership job and they’re like, mm-mm, don’t like it. What are you suggesting? Dude, I’m going to get back to you going, hey, I just want to do sales. Because it could be the image into your career when someone promotes you and you’re like, I don’t like this. And it can feel like backtracking. Do you have any thoughts there? Yeah, there’s a lot there because I think there are a lot of things that could possibly be going on. I knew, this is early on in my career, somebody that was a sales manager, they did well. I don’t know from a behavioral standpoint, out of all the stories I heard, don’t know if they were true or not, but if people considered them the best manager, they stepped out of managerial role and they’ve been in sales for the last 20 years. I don’t think it hurt their career at all. I think they’ve had a very good career. I think you have to decide what you want to do and where you want to land. If you look out over the next 20 or 30 years, what do you want people to say about you? What are the experiences that you want to have gotten? Sometimes people just don’t want to be a manager. I think that’s okay. The other part of it is that it can be a sign that there’s a growth and developmental opportunity. Sometimes the reason people don’t like something is because they’re not very good at it and they don’t have the skill set. A lot of people that are looking at manager from the outside, they’ll look at them as manager, which may not necessarily be always the best thing to do. They think in terms of, my manager does a lot of babysitting. I don’t want to do what my manager does. There’s a perception that the job is harder than maybe it should be. They don’t want to move that step forward. Then they get in a role and then it feels like everything that I saw and everything I thought about has been validated. As you learn more skill sets, you have to figure this out from a developmental standpoint. If you get those opportunities, does the job get easier? Is it something that you like to do? If you make a decision that that’s not what you want to do, then you can pivot. It doesn’t necessarily mean that you have to go back into sales. There are other types of jobs that you can go in operations, you can do training. There are other things that you can do if you have a skill set. Sometimes people get bored. You’re a manager, you’ve been a manager for the last 10 years. Maybe you need another opportunity. Maybe it is sales, maybe it’s something else. There are a lot of it’s some self-discovery. I would suggest that somebody go out and get a coach. Have some conversations and kind of peel the onion back before making that decision. I think any decision a person makes is a right decision. We get caught up in what other people think, but we all have one life that we have to live and ultimately you need to do what’s going to make you happy. If being in sales is what you love, nothing wrong with sales people because they’re the ones that generate the revenue for the organization and stay in business.

So, you know, that’s a go for it. I love what you said, every decision is the right decision, right? It doesn’t matter what you make, just make a decision, right? You can always make a different decision if you find that that’s not the right one for you. I think that is great advice. So, when you think about the leadership, the sales managers that you’ve trained and worked with over the many years that you’ve been in business and working, right? What separates the leaders or the managers that you see excel and continue to thrive in their career and you can use that however you want? Yeah, I think learning is a huge component. Leaders are learners, and I think that you always have to be learning. You know, earlier we talked a little bit about AI and figuring out how to use that tool, and I think sometimes the latest technology comes or the latest tools and resources are available and managers don’t learn how to use them, so they don’t necessarily stay fresh. You have some managers that have been in a role for 30 years, and the whisper behind the lane, so to speak, is when are they going to retire? Because they’re not keeping up with tools and resources. They refuse to either send email or use their cell phone or do all those things. For example, even 10, 15 years ago, we didn’t text as much. If you have a new generation, it does a lot more texting, so if you’re a manager that’s a Gen Xer or a Boomer, you’ve got to get a little bit more efficient in your texting and providing feedback in that way. It’s totally different. Don’t complain about millennials and other generations. They’re not wrong, it’s just their generation just does different stuff, and if you’re going to manage them, you’ve got to get on board and figure out maybe there’s some tricks that you can teach them, but you’ve got to meet them halfway, and it goes both ways, and you can be far more effective as a manager if you’re looking to continually up your game, understand some of those things, and figure out what are things that I could be doing. I think the managers that thrive do a better job of being able to stay up to date, constantly improving their skills, honing their skills, and then continually just looking to improve. There’s that saying that if you stay still, you’re going to fall behind, and I believe that’s more true now than it ever has been. So Keith, as a Gen Xer, I love a text. Like, bring it on. We don’t need to talk. Just text me. I am fully adapted to this. Although I probably have too much punctuation for my Gen Alpha. He’s like, come on, you need to figure it out. RN is right now. But yes, not adapting, and also the doctors are getting younger and younger. I’m not getting older and older. So yes, that adapting is definitely a thing. So Keith, if you could mentor an early sales leader over coffee tomorrow, what would you encourage them to start doing and then maybe stop doing or leaving behind? I would say, if I were mentoring a new sales leader, it would be figure out the best use of your time. New managers can be overwhelmed with the amount that they have to do, and it’s easy to get caught up in the reports of, you know, somebody’s calling you, I need to.

I need that, the sales meetings. Managers do everything other than spend time in the field with their representatives. When I was a manager, we were required to be in the field 120 days. Over time, that’s decreased to 100, and some companies add 75. So that gives you an idea of how much time managers don’t spend coaching and providing feedback to their representatives. So I think that prioritizing and figuring out what’s important is the number one thing. The second thing is become an expert at providing coaching and feedback. We talked about that earlier. Being a manager is not difficult, but it is the hardest job that you’ll ever have. And part of it is because people are involved. And learning and understanding human nature becomes so key. And anything that you can do to do that will make you a far more effective manager. And then remember the last thing, and I alluded to it earlier, leaders lead. And what I mean by that, you need to do everything in your power to enable your team to be successful. So if your team is struggling with product knowledge, don’t call sales training. Figure out how to get your people set up to be successful. If your people are struggling with sales skills across the board, you as a manager, that’s your responsibility to figure out how to get the team better. No one’s going to send you a lifeline. And so often managers will sit back. They’ll complain, you know, we don’t have this, we don’t have that. It’s, well, have you made a telephone call? What have you done? The team is looking for you to lead the team, not manage the team. And that’s the difference between leadership and management. I do truly believe that effective management skills are important and that good managers make better leaders. But at the same time, to lead, you’ve got to be up front. You’ve got to be out front. You’ve got to drive the team. One adage that I learned from being in the military, one of the things that the infantry theme has always been follow me. As a leader, are you worthy to follow? And it ultimately goes back to because leaders lead and people are going to follow you if you’re a leader and you do those things that enable your team to be successful. So those are the three things that I would tell people to focus on if I were mentoring a new sales manager. I think those are all great things to consider. And I often ask new leaders, why would anyone follow you? And that kind of stumps them. It’s like, I got a title. I’m that nice.

I’m a nice person. Got some work here. I don’t know. I was just given a title. You know, someone told me I did a good job. It’s a lot to ponder. It’s a lot to figure out who you want to be as a leader. Right? It takes time. It takes lots of mistakes. Lots of trying things and figuring out what kind of leader you want to be. So I think those are all good habits. Being a new sales manager is like being a new sales rep. It’s a new skill. It’s a new thing. It’s the developmental pathway in some ways is not that much different. Sometimes you luck into some wins and do some things well, maybe by accident, and then you look back and say, I don’t know how I did that, but I’m glad I was able to learn along the way how to do this consistently and on a regular basis. Yeah. But Keith, where can people find out more about you and connect? They can find me at coremanagementtraining.com. That’s my website. Or they can connect with me on LinkedIn. I will link it all up in the show notes. But Keith, thank you so much for your time. I appreciate it. Thank you so much, Jen. Thanks for having me.

Coaching That Sticks

Say What You See, Hear What Is Unsaid

Coaching works best when leaders share clear observations, listen deeply, and guide others toward insight and action.

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The Conversation

We explored why coaching fails when managers hide behind endless questions. Keith contrasted command-and-control stereotypes with what great leaders actually do: assess first, state a clear point of view backed by evidence, and coach alongside people. We dug into pharma-specific realities, the power of “two conversations” (the one we say and the one in our head), and how to draw out what is unsaid so the real issue gets solved.

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The Insight

Titles do not create impact. Influence does. Coaching works when managers are present, explicit, and human. Say what you see, invite a response, agree on the problem, then practice the skill. Start with feedback before “coaching programs,” and remember that behavior change takes repetition.

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The Action

  • Begin with a quick assessment. Use stakeholder interviews, a simple 360, and recent results to target 1–2 skills per manager.
  • Lead with feedback. Establish a 7:1 positive-to-critical feedback cadence for three weeks before adding coaching goals.
  • Anchor every session. State the topic, share your evidence-based point of view, then ask, “What is your take?”
  • Name the unspoken. Use prompts like “I notice some hesitation. What is behind that?” to surface the real barrier.
  • Practice, do not perform. Role-play the tough moments you expect in the field, then assign one live rep to try it before the next check-in.
  • Use the tools you have. Convert field rides and coaching reports into one behavior to try, one proof to collect, and one follow-up date.
  • Coach in one-on-ones. Block time for brief, focused coaching inside existing one-on-ones to keep momentum steady.

2 conversations is the conversation that we’re having and there’s the conversation that we’re thinking and sometimes the conversation that we’re thinking about or we’re having over here some of that stuff needs to be in the conversation that we’re having welcome to the podcast about communication in business i’m your host george torock did you know that i’m known as the speech coach for executives that’s because i help business leaders deliver the intended message for greater success.

And we do that through one-on-one coaching or training for the team. On this podcast you will hear insights and perspectives from communication experts from around the world. My guest today is Keith Willis. Here’s 3 facts that I think you should know about Keith. 1, he is president and founder of Core Management Training.

With nearly 30 years in healthcare, spanning sales, leadership, operations, and training for major pharmaceutical companies on multibillion dollar brands, Core Management Training helps organizations, build leadership competencies, coaching systems, and sales performance frameworks that strengthen managers and elevate teams. 2, Keith is a former U.S. Army captain. Yeah, you don’t mess with him.

He honed his skills in team building, strategic planning, and leadership before translating those lessons into coaching and developing leaders across the pharmaceutical industry. And 3, Keith sat on the Berlin Wall just weeks before it came down, an experience that shaped his appreciation for change, resilience, and perspective. Keith Willis, welcome to your intended message. Thank you so much, George.

Really excited to be on the podcast with you. Funny when you said, don’t mess with Captain Willis. My wife jokes sometimes and she says, don’t mess with Captain Willis. That’s when she’s thinking something serious that I mean business.

She’ll call me Captain Willis. And now, Keith, I’m curious, that experience of sitting on the Berlin Wall, was created one perspective in your mind and then when the wall and there’s no way you could have known that when you sat on that wall that that would fall just weeks later there’s no i mean who predicted that and and i’m curious what did that do to how you see things how you see the world thanks for the question george.

When I think about that time and I believe this would be what the mid late eighties and it was the 40th anniversary of the wall going up and at the time I was stationed in Germany and they had checkpoint Alpha Bravo and Charlie and I drove through those checkpoints and driving through the eastern section Germany.

it was so different and I remember getting to the last checkpoint where you get to Berlin and it’s the lights come on literally everything is gray and dark all of a sudden you’re in the US sector everything changes and then with the wall coming down and having an opportunity to talk to people over the years about some of the changes in that part of the world It just lets you know that as much as we think that things can’t change, that they do change and that it’s something that we live with constantly.

If we all think about our careers, things that we’ve done over time, we always think in terms of this is never going to end. I have this situation. I have this problem. And then we look years later and we figure out Wow, that was good experience.

There’s something I learned from that or I definitely have moved forward from where I was in the past. So it gives that perspective that even situations that seem that they’re never going to change and nothing’s going to happen, that that change can happen at any time. And there are so many times when we think that the way the world, our life is right now is the way it will always be or the way it is in our workplace.

That’s the way we’ve always done it this way. So we will always do it this way. But if a Berlin Wall can fall, if a pandemic can come and go, we can change. Absolutely right, George. You’re so spot on with that. And it’s interesting, if you talk to people, it’s almost like the pandemic didn’t happen. And it was just a short time ago.

Yeah, and one of the side benefits to the pandemic is now we are more willing to communicate online through video conferencing, something that the pandemic kind of encouraged us to do. And it turns out it’s convenient.

Yeah, absolutely. Yeah, you speak the truth about that, George. It’s interesting because when we talk about focusing on your intended message, you have to be a lot better at being able to articulate that message whether you’re in person or whether you’re communicating virtually and that’s a challenge for a lot of teams and even teams that have traditionally been remote because you know you see your customers but you might not see your sales manager you may communicate by different avenues by phone by webinars by Well, Zoom now, back in the day there were other technologies that we used on a regular basis, but customers are asking for more virtual engagements and how do you do that more effectively and making sure that you are able to provide your intended message.

And Keith, you are a champion of leaders being coaches, of coaching their team. And again, I see, in my mind at least, a conflict there because you came from the military and I don’t think of a military captain as coaching the team. I just think of them barking orders. How did you transfer the military discipline and always follow the order, sir, into coaching? What did you have to go through to cross that change yourself? George, I would say that they’re more similar than different.

There’s a thought process that if you’re in the military that you only follow orders. And one of the things that the military does well, it prepares everybody for leadership. So even as a young lieutenant, I had platoon sergeants. And while they reported to me, I was smart enough to know that they knew a lot more than me and that it was better for me to know and listen to what they had to say.

The other part of that is that when you look at the chain of command, the platoon sergeants rely upon their squad leaders. And so their squad leaders run their teams, run their sections. And so leadership is always pushed down. It’s the next man up. And from that, so one of the lessons I had to learn that, yes, I was an officer, but at the same time, at times you have to be a follower.

To be a good leader, you have to be a good follower. And sometimes you have people on your team that are trying to tell you things that you need to listen to. And if you don’t listen to those things, you’re not going to be able to accomplish the mission. So there’s as much coaching that occurs in the military as there does in corporate America. In fact, I would argue for every school that I went to, all of those schools in the military prepared me for the next level of where I would be in the military.

And so unlike corporate America, we promote managers. We don’t necessarily take them through some level of leadership training. I had 6 months of additional training after I got my commission before I went to a line unit. and became a platoon leader. right about that. We promote managers and we promote them because they show up every day, they’re reasonably competent, they seem to know they have expertise, but they aren’t necessarily ready yet for leadership and we don’t provide that.

We expect them to just learn on the job as they go along. And that’s not fair to them or for the team. So when you work with organizations, where do you start in developing the leadership qualities in those new leaders? George, I think the first thing you have to do is you have to do some level of assessment.

The pharma industry across the board has done some level of training and oftentimes it might be later than earlier. What happens is you have a lot of managers that have a variety of different skill sets across the spectrum. You have some managers that are newer. You have some managers that have been around for a long time. And it’s not that much different than a lot of other industries where you have a variety of different people.

It’s just that the way that the training can be set up can be kind of a smattering here, a smattering there. There may not necessarily be a curriculum. So you start with assessing where people are. That might include stakeholder interviews. That might include assessments, 3sixties, the traditional tools that most industries use to do some level of a needs assessment.

Once you do that then you figure out where are the gaps, what are the needs, what are the most critical things and priorities that the team needs that are going to help them be most effective and drive sales performance ultimately because ultimately the reason sales managers are there not to push reports it’s to coach people into improve sales and help the company reach their goals and objectives.

You have a lot of experience coaching people in the pharma industry. What is it about the pharma industry that makes their challenging for them when it comes to pharma sales? Pharma sales is unique in that when you think about most industries, when a salesperson goes in, they get the order. You sign something.

A pharma representative is going in to see a physician and they’re trying to convince that physician to write a prescription medication that physician is going to turn around write that medication for a patient and Convince that patient you need to go in you need to go to the pharmacy and you need to get that drug so it’s not a direct sale it’s more of a influence over time and Generally you have a territory a representative is going to see the same people.

And that may not be that much different than if you have, for example, a list of clients and customers that you talk to on a regular basis from a business development standpoint. Some of those people you’ve worked with, some of them you don’t. But here it’s this long play.

A representative may be in a territory for any 2, 3, 4 years, depending on the company, downsizing and those type of things. But you develop a relationship with the staff, the office. And so there’s this this constant you’re always in and out you know if you have samples you may go in drop samples in in those cases you may only have a couple of minutes to speak with a doctor you may have some lunches you may see the physician at a conference or something like that where you may have a little bit more time but ultimately from a physician perspective they’re thinking What else are you going to tell me about this drug I haven’t heard?

I see a lot of patients and you think about the baby boomers and the number of those, I think it’s ten thousand are going to be available for their social security benefits between now and I think twenty, thirty, ten thousand a day. So if you think about that number, as we get older our bodies fall apart. Conceivably, it probably means more people are going to the doctors. Worldwide, there’s a shortage of physicians.

There is a shortage of healthcare professionals. And now you have a representative that’s going in to see a doctor that has very, very limited time. So you think about it from that perspective, that’s one of the challenges is that not a lot of time, and at times the physician’s not sure of the need. And then when you think about technology, You know whether it be AI omni-channel digital marketing all the tools and resources that are available, those are all the things that you begin to say, what’s the value of the representative? Why should I see that rep? Why should I spend time with that representative?

So those are just some of the nuances from a pharmaceutical industry relatively to other industries. And then I think a lot of other industries do more things. We talked a little bit about kind of this virtual cell. At least in the United States, predominantly most of these calls are in person. There aren’t a lot of webinars. There aren’t a lot of of those type of things. And that being said, that also means that we don’t necessarily use those type of CRM tools that other industries have capability to record calls that happen.

A little harder when you’re in person, you’re going to record what was said, what happened, and then be able to go back and look and say, oh, from a coaching perspective, we should focus on this or be able to use some of that technology. to be able to enhance coaching and feedback for sales representatives and provide tools for managers to be more effective from that perspective.

So when you can’t review the recordings as a coach, how do you help the sales rep? How do you influence them? So managers go out into the field with sales representatives. Generally they’ll spend anywhere from 8 to ten days a year. Usually it’s a four to 6 week cycle and then the manager writes what we call a field coaching report.

And that field coaching report just talks about the day, what happened, action plans, those type of things. And I’m sure a lot of other industries do something similar. It’s just that they have the use of technology. And through the CRM, they can look at call notes and get a sense of, you know, what the call notes were and continuity of the call and all of those things that go along with that. So the manager does have tools.

They have a lot of reports. They can get a sense of how many calls a representative made a day, you know, what the primary product was. So they’re definitely things that are available for managers to be able to use to effectively coach their representatives. When you’re working with the managers on how to improve how they coach, what mistakes do you find they commonly make?

It’s a good question George I think one of the things that I laugh and I don’t know that it’s really funny but you think about a lot of the coaching models grow coaching model for example those models are based on a lot of questions and oftentimes what the managers trying to do is they’re trying to lead the representative to an answer that they want to hear and The manager often has a thought process.

They’ve made an observation. They have a lot of experience. A lot of managers were top sales folks and they have a sense when things are going well or they’re not going well. they don’t provide their point of view. And they don’t support that point of view with data and observations that they’ve seen.

And then they don’t ask the representative, you know, what do you think about what I said? So you can have a conversation. What it sounds like, a thousand questions. And I remember earlier in my days as a sales manager, representatives saying, what is it that you want me to say? Because they know you’re looking for an answer. And I see that time and time again when managers are coaching.

They ask a thousand questions. They never get to the point. And they’re frustrated because they’re thinking the representative’s not listening. They’re being difficult. They’re not paying attention. When in fact, the representative’s sitting there and they’re thinking, I don’t even have an idea of what we’re supposed to be even talking about.

So it’s that yin and yang that I find that coaching becomes very difficult because it feels like that the manager has an agenda and they often do have an agenda and I think it’s okay to have an agenda but I think if you both agree that this is the topic and the thing that we need to be talking about and how do we solve and help improve that area It’s going to be far more effective than if the manager says, you know, I want you to do this.

I want you to do that. I want you to do the other and then follow up weeks later and find that nothing’s happened. Well, of course not, because you never agreed that that was what needed to be done. And so the representative is, you know, they’re being a good employee because they’re listening to their manager and gets back to this whole piece around taking orders and following direction. Corporate does that a lot also. And that’s what they’re ignoring. So nothing moves forward. And managers begin to be very frustrated by that. And it’s not just a grow coaching model.

It’s a lot of coaching models. Even if you go through a coaching program where you’re coaching other people outside of salespeople, it’s asking questions, letting people come up with their own, you know, observations and challenges and those type of things and I think there’s value in that but I also think that the reason you’re being hired oftentimes is because of your expertise your experience and you have a way to be able to share that but also have a way to do it in a way that you’re working alongside that person.

Keith, so I’m thinking there that the manager, the coach, has the experience, the knowledge, and for some reason they’re trying to tiptoe around because they want to suddenly bring the sales rep up to speed in just one conversation, but the sales rep doesn’t have the experience of that manager’s experience training, and then the manager is frustrated because the person isn’t getting it, and the sales rep is frustrated because he doesn’t understand what the hell the manager’s talking about.

You got it. And it’s been, you know, and some people seem to think that coaching should only be about asking questions. But I suppose if you ever watch a football game, you don’t see the coach on the on the side of the field saying, OK, now, George, when they attack you, what do you think you should be doing?

And instead, he just tells them what to do. Go left, go left. There’s a hole on the left side. Go there. And so sometimes it means that, hey, you just need to say what you need to say and then at least they’ve got something they can think about and they can grasp and, oh, that’s what you mean.

And when you are coaching people, there must be times when you see the lights suddenly go on. They go, oh, really? That’s what I should be doing? And you know that’s an aha moment. So what are some of the other aha moments that you’ve noticed in your training when you’re coaching, when you’re helping these coaches be better coaches?

That’s one of them. You know, how does that saying go? There’s 2 sides to every problem. The lights go on and manager realize that I’m part of the problem. I’m part of the challenge of being able to get through my representative. It’s not always them. Some of it’s me. And then the other thing is that, you know, RUM wasn’t built overnight. You know, these conversations take time. and you have to be willing to invest the time and there’s this pressure of managers have a thousand things to do they may have anywhere from 8 to 12 representatives and all of the numbers and all of the things that they’re managing they’ve got you know stuff they’ve got to report back to their boss on all of those things and at times it gets in the way of understanding that you know if you’re trying to build a skill set that doesn’t happen overnight.

And in some cases, it’s not even always a skill set. I remember working with one of my sales representatives as a manager and they would not close. And I remember saying to them, I said, you know, you’ve been doing this for a long time. I know you know how to close. Why don’t you close? And what he told me was that he didn’t close because he didn’t like to be closed. That when he went to see somebody that he’d like to know as much or if not more about what it was that was being sold than they did and that was one of the reasons why he didn’t like to be sold.

and so at the time he was dating this young woman and he was thinking about getting married and we had a whole discussion about rings and i said you know i’m sure you know a lot about rings and i at the time i articulated that i bought my wife an anniversary band i said you know i went to about 5 different places i said the last person i bought from the reason i bought from her was because she said to me will you will you be buying that ring today And I stopped and I paused. And I told him, I said, I could not think of a reason why not to buy that ring.

And I said, I had done a lot of research. I said that I was scared and I needed somebody to sit on the side of the table with me to help me make that decision. And so the consequence of here was somebody that had about it was a value set. And part of the coaching in conversation was around values and belief and using stories to get them to understand and see a different version of why it was important to close, not that they didn’t know how to do that.

And so that’s a lot more than just asking a thousand questions. But in this case, I did ask a question, but I asked a question around something that was important because I knew that he knew how to close. So it’s those nuances and things that if you can help managers, help coaches and help leaders be more effective at, that you can help them be a lot more effective, that it can have significant impact. So the consequence for this sales representative, they started closing more effectively.

Will you be buying that ring today? And that question is so clear, and it’s suddenly, oh, to decide. Why would I not? I want to do this, right? I want to be a hero when I come home. So simple advice. Are there, now that’s a good phrase. Are there other magic phrases that you found helpful to the coaching process? I don’t know if they’re magic phrases.

You know, I think it’s being in the moment. You know, I’m trying to remember, one of my salespeople told me this is ages ago. He used to always say, you always have a way to come up with the right question. I said, well, you play off of what people say to you. So you use that as an element in the question process because it’s kind of their mindset.

They present things that they’re thinking about and you use that and you switch that. I think the same thing goes with coaching, paying attention to body language, paying attention to what people don’t say. All of those things are important and the challenge can be you can spend so much time thinking about what’s the next question I’m going to ask you have to be present. I think that’s the bigger thing so it’s I mean yeah you can write down a bunch of different phrases and things that you can come up with but I think ultimately if you’re present you’ll come up with good questions to be able to ask.

I don’t know George what’s been your experience? And I’m with you there on being totally in the moment, because when you listen and try to put yourself into the mindset of the other person, and I just wrote down what I thought was significant, listen for what people don’t say, and that needs to be drawn out. it needs to be drawn. Look for what they’re not saying, because that tells you more than what they’re saying, maybe. Yeah. And when you’re hearing what people don’t say, Keith, what do you do or say to draw that out? Do you simply blurt it out, or do you coach them to say that? Sometimes you coach them.

people give clues there may be some hesitancy you may say something like uh i see you’re a little hesitant or you know by the sound of your voice it doesn’t sound like you totally bought in tell me a little bit more about what you’re thinking using phrases and questions like that can coax people open people up you know oftentimes in these conversations we’re having a we’re having another conversation there’s 2 conversations it is a conversation that we’re having And there’s the conversation that we’re thinking and sometimes the conversation that we’re thinking about or we’re having over here.

Some of that stuff needs to be in the conversation that we’re having because those thoughts feelings and emotions. Sometimes if you introduce those into the conversation, they can make a world of difference. And if you can help people pull that out, and you’ve got to do the same thing as the coach, sometimes when you articulate what you’re feeling, what you’re thinking, can make a big difference. Because then it gives people an idea of what are the stakes, why is this important? And they’ll be more open if you’re more open.

And that’s a valuable point there. There’s the conversation we’re having and then there’s the conversation in your head and there’s probably a reason for that conversation in your head and you need to find a way to bring them together because there’s a reason why that’s going on in your head. It’s your perceptions, you’re noticing something that’s not quite right here, something we’re missing. bring that up. Keith, for people who would like to know more about you and your programs they can find that at your website and in particular the programs that you offer tell us who’s that for and who will get the most from that. Primarily, I focus on pharmaceutical industry.

Core management training is around leadership training, leadership competencies, coaching, those type of things. coaching goes across industries. It doesn’t make a difference. If you have a problem or you want to upskill your management team, you want them to be more effective, you can reach out to me and we can have a conversation and I can see if I’m a fit for something that you need. And you can find the website coremanagementtraining.com. You can find that link in the description below. Keith, I also understand you have another program coming out soon called Never Look for a Job Again.

Is that because you win the lottery? I used to have a manager that said it should be your job to lose and you know it got me to thinking I’ve gotten a lot of calls recently about downsizing and things like that and you have to always be ready no matter how secure or how effective you are in your role. That there might be a time where you get that call that says, hey, your job’s being eliminated. So never look for a job again is, you know, help people take control of their careers. We talk about your intended message. Well, being ready is one of them and in. making sure that you have all the things and that you’re networking, you’re doing all the things that you need to do to make sure that you’re career ready. So that’s what the course is about.

I just find that I have a lot of these conversations even as I’m supporting companies and clients and this is something that’s important. And you can find more information about that on his website, CoreManagementTraining.com Keith, as we prepare to wrap up, imagine you’re sitting with a company leader who wants to start coaching their team. It’s not something they’ve done systematically before. but they want to start coaching their team to be more effective, to work together.

If there’s one, 2, or 3 pieces of advice you would give this leader, in approaching how he or she’s going to coach, what might that advice be? I would start with, number one, start simple. When we talk about coaching, we usually say coaching and feedback. I would start with feedback, feedback simpler. And I would start with positive feedback, letting people know what they do well.

I would start there. And then I would let people know. you know hey we’re going to start you know start giving you some feedback primarily be positive do that for several weeks it should still be a seven to one ratio when you begin to give more critical feedback there are several models that are out there i would learn a model and then i would bridge into coaching and that coaching can happen you know just as effectively with just managers doing their one-on-ones if they’re doing one-on-ones with their salespeople And say, hey, as part of this, we’re going to do some sales coaching.

And I think if you do those 3 things, start with feedback. 2, communicate that you’re going to do that and use models that are out there and available. And number 3, use your sales one-on-ones to do that. I think those will be some things that will help managers do that more effectively. Mmm, valuable advice.

My guest today is Keith Willis, reminding you to be a good leader, be a good follower. If you like what you heard, tell your friends and post your 5star review on Apple Podcasts because that helps more listeners find us. Come back every week for more practical insights to help you deliver your intended message. I’m your host, George Torok.

Leading from the Front

The Core of Effective Leadership

A title doesn’t define leadership. It’s seen in daily actions — in how you show up, set the tone, and help your team move forward. The best leaders lead by example, build trust in small teams, and create clarity where the real work happens.

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The Conversation

I shared my journey from the U.S. Army to the pharmaceutical industry, including what I learned from leading under pressure and how those lessons shaped the foundation of Core Management Training. We talked about the “rule of 150,” accountability, and why developing strong frontline and mid-level leaders makes the most significant difference over time.

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The Insight

Leadership starts with presence and consistency. Influence grows when leaders are accountable, empathetic, and focused on helping others succeed. Front-line managers drive real performance — they turn vision into action and build cultures that last.Titles do not create impact. Influence does. Coaching works when managers are present, explicit, and human. Say what you see, invite a response, agree on the problem, then practice the skill. Start with feedback before “coaching programs,” and remember that behavior change takes repetition.

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The Action

  • Strengthen the foundation. Invest early in developing first- and second-line managers.
  • Model accountability. Own your mistakes and show what learning looks like.
  • Balance grit with empathy. High standards matter most when paired with genuine care.
  • Keep developing your people. Training becomes a true advantage when others cut back.
  • Stay committed to growth. Focus on the leader you’re becoming, not just the one you are now.

Welcome, everybody, to the Doctor Leadership Leadership Lounge, where we have conversations with business leaders from all walks of life about how and why they are successful. Hey, everybody. Welcome to another edition of the Doctor Leadership Podcast. Today on the Leadership Lounge, very pumped up, got a great guy coming on today, a gentleman by the name of Keith Willis, owner of Core Management Training. He began his leadership journey in the U.S. Army, where he built and led high performing teams under pressure.

He later transitioned to corporate America, bringing a sharp focus on performance improvement across sales, operations, and training functions. In the pharmaceutical industry, Keith held roles as top-performing sales representatives, an award-winning sales manager, and a respected training leader at companies such as Johnson & Johnson, Pfizer, Bristol Myers Squibb, And today, Keith works with organizations and individual leaders to uncover practical solutions that elevate performance and build stronger teams. He lives out in the Philly area with his great wife, Lori.

Hey, Keith, welcome to the show. How you doing? Thanks, Brent. Really appreciate the invite. Looking forward to having a conversation. Really love the work that you’re doing, helping leaders grow with grit and integrity. So I’m really excited for our conversation. I appreciate that. I love that word grit. That’s a good one, you know? Grit to go and gestalt. You get that good German word in there, right? Exactly.

Where was that from? Back in like the nineties, we used grit, gestalt, and there were a couple others in our behavioral questioning stuff that would score on gestalt. And like the third month I was there, I finally looked up gestalt. and figure out what it was, and we’ll let the audience go and look it up and figure it out.

But hey, welcome to the show. I’m excited to have you here as well. We met here a couple weeks ago and had our preliminary call. And just you’ve got a phenomenal background, the US military being an officer there inside the Gulf War. We’ll talk a little bit more about it. But I always kind of open it up. Tell us your journey, where you are today. How did you get to run in core management training?

Yeah, so thanks, Brent, you know, obviously, I started out, you know, as a college student, like everybody else, and trying to figure out what I wanted to do, did ROTC and made the decision that I was going to join the army. So my first duty station was overseas in Germany, and learned a lot of lessons there in the military. And I think one of the key, one of the key messages around leadership was the importance of small teams, nothing gets done Unless it’s done at the lowest levels. So usually as a new lieutenant, you’re usually a platoon leader.

And as a platoon leader, you’ve gone to your officer basic course and you still don’t know a lot. You have a platoon sergeant that’s been in the military for years. And if you’re smart, you pay attention. You watch that guy or gal. Yeah, that’s right. Exactly. And figure out what you’re doing. And generally in a platoon, a platoon sergeant may have 3 or 4 squad leaders and those squad leaders are responsible for running their squads. And so if you want something to occur, ask the squad leader to do it. So even though a lot of times the leader has responsibilities for setting the vision and those type of things, ultimately it’s the lower level leaders that make those things happen.

That’s where all the action happens. Exactly. So it was one of the key lessons that I learned and later on I picked up this rule. It’s called the rule of 1 50. It’s from Robin Dunbar who is or who was an anthropologist and so what he said was that generally there are about a hundred and fifty to two hundred relationships that we can carry on our brain at one time from a relationship standpoint. So when you think about large organizations and business units and those type of things, once you get beyond that point of a hundred and fifty leader doesn’t have as much control make it a lot harder for them to be able to push their vision down.

So that’s why it’s so important when you think about the next level of leadership that those lower those lower Those lower level leaders are very clear about what the vision is because they are the ones that are going to make sure that that happens.

And so you have to have strong leaders at those lower levels. And so I often think about those lessons that I learned early on from my time in the military. And then I think the other part of that is ultimately leaders make a big difference. They really do set the tone. You mentioned the first Gulf War. And I remember there was a helicopter unit. They were talking about the helicopters and they weren’t mission capable. They weren’t ready. And so they ended up sending a unit from Germany And I remember thinking, oh, that’s a leadership issue. It has nothing to do with the helicopter.

Yeah, so interesting enough, one of the markers, in corporate America, we have markers around engagement and things like that. Yeah, in the military, oftentimes it would be vehicle maintenance. So you had a certain percentage of your vehicles had to be mission capable. And so when there’s poor maintenance, because maintenance would happen, we would have what we called PMCS, preventative maintenance checks and services, every Wednesday.

So we would do training in the morning, and we would do PMCS in the afternoon. So units that had engagement problems, leadership problems, generally had poor maintenance. I bet they did. Makes sense. Yeah. And so I reflected upon that, that you had one unit stateside not ready to go to war or maintenance big news story i think goes on 60 minutes or something like that they’re talking about the helicopters being a dog so on and so forth They ended up sending a unit from Germany over to the Gulf. That was ready to play. Exactly.

It’s funny, you know, you bring this stuff up on maintenance. first of all, in my industry that I was in forever, we utilized preventive maintenance too. But I had an F15 Screaming Eagle pilot on that had about 650 combat hours. later than Gull for one, but after, no, it was Gull for one, excuse me. And the F-fifteens didn’t have the new technology loaded up in them yet. And they were actually putting that stuff together in Kuwait, in the airfields, actually putting the black boxes and things, the pilots and munitions officers together, building the final things. So talking about maintenance on the fly, but I was just trying to get to war, you know what I mean? Trying to get it done.

Now, you were in ordinance, is that right? Correct. And we talked a little bit about that. He wasn’t carrying bombs. It was funny. After we talked last time, all I was thinking about was Good Morning Vietnam and the guy calling in from artillery and screaming. Great movie. If you haven’t seen it, everybody go check it out. Robin Williams, 30 some odd years old now probably.

So you were in ordinance and what did that entail? Yeah, so we fixed equipment. So that’s why I brought it up to maintenance, right? You were over your charge, making sure they were war ready. Yeah, so there are 3 elements of ordinance. So there was a missile maintenance, vehicle maintenance, and then explosive bomb ordinance. I was in the vehicle maintenance piece. So I was in a, at the time, the core support command. So we did non-divisional support of non-divisional units. And so we had customers. I had automotive platoon, there was an E&E platoon, service platoon, we had tow truck. We had a support team that supported units that would go out to the field once a month, that would be out for about a week or so.

And when the motor pool couldn’t fix the equipment, they would bring the equipment to us. So we had a deadline list. We tracked order parts, you know, 30, 60, 90 day jobs, things that were over 90 were critical. We used to have this thing called shootouts and that was a big meeting with all leadership talking about what are you doing to get this equipment fixed and back up. So those were high stake meetings and those type of things. Fortunately, I never had to go.

That’s good. But your leadership went and so you know how stuff goes down. That’s exactly the proverbial something rolls downhill. That’s right. Exactly. And during all this time in the Gulf War, you got all that beautiful time at the beach. You never knew that beach parties would be like that, but you were at the beach, right? Well, God bless you. It means a lot, your service. And then you spun out of the military and started dipping your toes in corporate American. Did you go right into pharmaceuticals?

I did. So I worked through a junior military recruiter that recruited junior military officers. I started with a major pharma company, went through the interview process, and became a sales rep. So at the time, I had no idea what a pharmaceutical rep did. I had never even seen a pharmaceutical rep in a doctor’s office, let alone know what samples were or anything. And ironically, back in the day, as a part of the interview process, you used to spend the day in the field. Right along. Yeah. I didn’t. I don’t know that I would have started because I didn’t know what I signed up for.

You’d have pulled the chute, right? Exactly. But it was a great experience. And you go from being a leader, you know, running a platoon, you know, being an S one to all of a sudden your individual contributor, trying to learn how to sell effectively in working for district sales manager. and begin to learn the ins and outs of corporate America. So here again, pharmaceuticals is high stress, lots of expectations to sell products and those type of things. So learn a lot of leadership lessons from the variety of different leaders, district sales managers that I worked for.

And they were important lessons, not only around training, but showing up. You know, here one of the differences is in our industry is that the person that you’re selling ultimately has to sell that to the patient. So when you go into a physician’s office, you’re not getting them to assign something that says that they’re going to buy. they have to convince the patient that that patient’s going to take that medication. Patient has to go through the pharmacy. So a lot of influence.

I was going to say you got to manage through influence. That’s right, Absolutely So there are a lot of a lot of skills there and it’s entry level for a lot of folks into the industry. The question will be oftentimes, you know, did you carry a bag? You’ll notice, at least back in the day when I started, a good many of CEOs or people that were in senior management had all been sales reps at some point in time. That’s a little different now. I think I agree. I think that with more data, information, so on and so forth, marketers, you’re an expert marketer and people just come from different lines of business now, more so now than they did before, which I think is a good thing. I think you know I do too.

Yeah, it’s funny you say that. So I always say I was a field general when I led, and there’s Pentagon generals too. right, And those are the people that aren’t as maybe street savvy, but more, maybe more analytical or more marketing side of it. And it does take a village, especially in these big organizations you know, to take a solution or outcomes on all the companies you work for. we’re international right Globally.

You gotta have all sorts of people in the room to make those things happen, you know for sure. And then you moved around from several different, a couple, 3 pharmaceutical organizations. What was the impetus of deciding? you know, what made me think of this was a minute ago when you were saying you were taking a lot of things from different managers and different district managers you’ve had, And I always say to people: use your eyes and your ears, of course, to listen and watch for what you need to do and also what you don’t want to do. I think that you learn as much from.

I’m not going to do it that way as you do from. I’m going to do it that way. Do you think that’s a fair statement? Yeah, I think that’s definitely a fair statement. You know, I would say that in my experience, great leaders are far and few between Most people are probably average, And then you have some people that are just not good at all, And I think you have people that work for a few of those.

Yeah, And I think you have people that kind of fall on 2 ends of the spectrum: great business leaders, not good people leaders. Yeah, And you have to kind of figure out where you fall. I know, unfortunately, when I was younger I would say I was not a great people leader. You know, when I was in the military. you’re still trying to figure out your emotional intelligence and things like that And over time, being exposed to other leaders, you figure out there are more effective ways to do it and ultimately, this whole thing around servant leadership is so important, absolutely, and being able to lead with empathy, being able to lead people with dignity and grace. ultimately, the outcomes. you’re still looking for the outcomes.

But you’re also helping people try to be the best for themselves that they can be. That’s right, And I think that’s important. To be inspirational, That’s right. It’s, you know, it’s coming up through the military too. I’ve talked about this before on the show, my individual weekly hits. but leadership from the fifties, sixties, seventies, eighties, and then it started to change. But you think, like Jack Welch and these people that were the greatest CEOs ever, was the commentary. It was all the mostly men. at that point

There were women, but the world was a little different place. They’d come out of war. They’d either been in World War II, Korea, Vietnam. Everything was very hierarchical, based. So-and-so tells me what to do. I tell them what to do. They tell them what to do, And that’s how it worked. Today It’s far more fluid. you know, like you said, you were managing through influence and Things that leaders started taking on his skills. empathy, you know, servants attitude, true caring, emotional intelligence. big EQ is far more important than IQ.

All those things really started. the studies, the psychological Understanding of how the human psyche kind of works, all started taking off, and it’s been very good for leadership. I I said, you know, don’t, don’t get rid of the, the old dogs either, because there’s good attributes there: the work ethic and the grind grit gestalt. those types of things come from that gender, those generations. but we do need to understand the people side of the business, especially as a leader. you can get people to run over the hill or you gotta, you know, threaten to shoot him in the back to get him to go over the hill, and you don’t want that. you don’t want option B. you know in that right exactly,

Exactly. So how did core management leaders- excuse me, core management training- come about? your leadership company, What caused that? What was the big bang of that? I’ve always had an entrepreneurial spirit. Done the Amway, did the Sprint phone cards, done some coaching on the side. So I think all of that was always in the background. I’ve always liked innovation, things that look and feel different.

I think that was always a challenge in corporate America. I know as much as corporate says that they like innovation, Not so much. That’s why they have innovation. We’ve always done it this way And damn it, win or lose, we’re going to keep doing it this way, Exactly. And so in my last corporate job I like to say: we left each other. I came home From vacation, my manager was trying to get a hold of me and I kept thinking: Yeah, And so it was a correct statement. It was not good.

The good news was I had a job that day, but another 3 months I wasn’t going to have a job. And it became clear after doing some interviews and things like that that there were not going to be opportunities, whether they were internal or external. I was very naive around this ageism and some of the key buzzwords- lots of gas in the tank, and I felt like you know I could do this on my own and I felt like that I needed to give this a shot. if it didn’t work, I could go back into corporate. sure, take your shot, that’s right. exactly, I didn’t want to, You know, look up on my deathbed and realize you know I should have, could have, would have. No regrets, No regrets. So I struck out and decided to do core management training. So with that, tell us a little bit about the company.

So I know I think you do far kind of focus somewhat in the pharmaceutical or sciences area. Tell us a little bit about what the company does, what you’re, what you’re trying to accomplish, and and so on. Yeah, at the end of the day, I think that I’m trying to help leaders And actually people that work in corporate have a better quality of life. whether you’re a manager or whether you’re a salesperson or individual contributor You’re trying to do is you’re trying to feed your family?

you have some goals and objectives, you have some things that you’re trying to accomplish, And what you want to be able to do is have these great career experiences. I think everybody wants to look back. as I worked on that team- and that was one of the best teams I ever worked with- We did these things.

We had this fun. You know, as you’ve said earlier in some of your other podcasts, we spent at least a third of our time, if not more, working. And so my experience has been that leadership, some of it’s trained. you know, a lot of leaders get into these positions and they’ve never had any, any training at all.

And so either that or it’s sporadic- you know it’s a one and only only focus tactically instead of strategically- or the people skills isn’t focused to, like we’ve already spoken about. right, It’s exactly a. you’re a great sales rep or individual contributor. you’re bound to be a great leader, Sure. And here comes failure around the first curve. Right exactly. So you go from being eye-centric to now.

I got to run a team and figure out how to get the team to run together, And so you know the blocking and tackling even experienced managers struggle with. I mean I’ve done workshops just on accountability. You know managers think that they’re having you know holding people accountable, and they’re not.

As I heard this today, I thought it was very poignant. So one of the challenges with communication is the illusion that communication is taking place. I like that, Yeah. And so core management training is focused on helping managers learn those core skills, primarily focused on first and second line managers, because I think that’s where companies either win or lose absolutely, and that’s the street at the street, absolutely exactly, and at those lowest levels of leadership.

if you can get those people rocking and rolling, you can do amazing things with your company. you can create a developmental pipeline for people that are in those aligned positions and get them promoted, so on and so forth.

And everything happens at the lowest level. So that’s really my focus and a lot of competency work, field coaching reports, field rides, just the basic things that a manager needs to do, emotional intelligence. I’m a big flips and strengths advocate. I found that when you help people focus on their strengths, they perform at a higher level. I turned over a couple of training teams by focusing on utilizing people’s strengths, getting everybody on the team promoted, being able to bring newer people into the team.

It doesn’t mean that you don’t focus on weaknesses. We like to say a weakness is anything that gets in the way of performance. So it could be you’re overusing a strength. Or maybe you have an inherent weakness that somebody’s been telling you something for the last 10, 15 years. Blind spots, right. Everybody has those blind spots.

Exactly. And maybe that’s not going to get better, but maybe we can figure out maybe there’s a strength, maybe you can pair up with somebody to help you work through that that takes away from your overall performance. So that’s really what core management is about. my experiences with whether it be in corporate or in the military being yelled at, dressed down, and I just don’t think that’s It doesn’t get a lot done in the end. Yeah, exactly.

Resentment’s never been a big motivator. Exactly. You know, you resonated with me a lot. I think that And this held true in my prior career. Following COVID and the economic downturn, I felt it also in oh 8 when the big financial burden companies the first thing they cut is marketing and or training. Because they think it’s low hanging fruit when economic times are tough or performance is not good or you’re missing earnings. And I truly believe that that’s when you need to double down in those 2 areas. Let’s just talk about training from the first part, but investing in your people. All the other companies are running scared at that point. That’s the time to attack.

That’s when you flank. That’s when you go all in and not to a situation to lose the company. I’m not saying it like that, but We had a situation in my old company and we hadn’t we started doing the math and like we haven’t really invested time brought all of our individual contributors out to our big customer experience center for like a decade. And COVID got in the way we wanted to do it. So it had been like 2014 or something.

This was last year in January. And I went to my leadership in Japan and said, listen, it’s going to be, you know, 4 or five hundred thousand dollars. They go, we can’t afford to do that. And I said, we can’t afford not to. We’ve launched 9 new products since then. We’re trying to be digital services versus just hardware centric these days. And you’ve got people that don’t know how to even start to do that. So you’re expecting completely earth shattering, you know, huge results on products and services that your people have never been trained on to go to market with. How do you think that’s supposed to happen? You know, you got to kind of take the first step before you start to run. And we actually got vendors to invest in it. There’s other ways to create the capital needs or the expense needs you need. But when you start looking at it, hey, you get one nice big deal at services focused on that. I trained two hundred people for that number.

And you have one of them do a nice deal and you pay for the whole thing. So it’s this mindset that I think everyone can kind of fight in corporate America and I think it’s great that you’re taking it to them because it gets lost. We’re so busy we can’t take the time to invest in our people right now. We’re too busy to slow down to improve. And you go, wait a second, that makes no sense. Right. Exactly.

The competition’s improving. Somebody is working today on dismantling us as an organization. We better get our spidey senses turned on me. Exactly. And go. Exactly. Now you do a lot of workshops. We talked before you said, we talked a little bit about K-II, the mountain, right? Mountain climbing. Yeah. And you even mentioned the Netflix show, 14 Peaks, for me to check out here. I was listening. taking notes for you or something. Very good. Yeah, tell us a little bit about, you know, you build a workshop around the life sciences and things, but tell us a little bit about your K-II experiences and how you share that inside your workshops.

Yeah, so the K-II experience is about Nymphs Pirs. He climbs the 14 highest peaks in the world, eight thousand meters. Damn. Yeah, so think of it this way. You know, when you’re on a plane and usually the cruising altitudes are on twenty six, twenty seven thousand That’s how high a lot of these mountains are within, you know, a thousand feet give or take. That’s how high you are. Way up there. In a non-pressurized cabin.

Exactly, exactly. And so I focused on K-II because K-II is the second highest mountain in the world behind Everest, but probably the most dangerous. And somebody said that, you know, you and I could probably get on a team and help be able to climb Everest. The right Sherpas, right? Yeah, but the right Sherpas. But for K-II, pretty much only experts climbed K-II. And so when they got to K-II, there were a lot of people on the mountain, and they were not sure that anybody was going to be able to make the summit.

because of the weather and, you know, there’s a couple of areas where, you know, people who lost their lives, so on and so forth. And so Nims and team comes in. He tells him he gets them all, you know, he has a party and he gets them all excited and everything. And then he gets all of the negative backlash, so on and so forth. He makes a decision that he’s going to be on one part of a mountain like one or 2 in the morning when it’s frozen solid. So that this ice doesn’t break and crash down and cause these avalanches.

And so ultimately they make the summit. And within, I think, 24 to 48 hours after they make the summit, another 20 folks make the summit. And so I made a decision to build the workshop around that because You know, here we have a lot of A type personalities, a lot of driven people. You have one person that comes in where the mood is not positive. He does things a little different, but he’s able to get people to follow him. Followership. Followership. And so the fundamental question is, as a leader, are you worthy of being followed? And so that’s part of the workshop is designed around some level of self reflection of you as an individual leader. What am I doing to work on my own skill set.

So the other part of, you know, we talked about training organizational being organizations being responsible. At the end of the day, you’re responsible for you. And if you’re responsible for you, that means that you have to focus on your own self-development, focus on where your gaps are and always constantly be working on those things, not waiting for somebody to do that for you. So when we go back to the 4 needs of followers, you know, hope and trust are 2 of those big areas. And so as a leader, do people trust you?

Do you provide hope for them? And so I reflect upon what Nims did as he provided people with hope as well as trust based on his background and some of the other mountaineering things that he had done.

And then I’ve been reading a lot of Simon Sinek lately, you know, a lot of talk about the infinite gain versus the finite gain. So I built and layer all of these different pieces into the workshop and then did is earlier on, because we’ve done, I think, performance management workshop with this company earlier. And so I had individual coaching sessions with some of the managers that had some challenges with some of their folks on and so forth.

And so what I did is I built cases Around the around some of these issues situations, so and so forth. And then we had folks go through these individual case studies as a team talk through, you know, what should you done? What are things that you could be thinking about pulling in some of these accountability pieces, some of so forth, but ultimately getting back to If you’re going to hold people accountable, that accountability starts with you as the leader and your ability to hold them accountable is their willingness to follow you. Because sometimes you can get people to do things they may not be willing to do because they don’t believe it.

They have the capability. They’re just going through the motions. Yeah, they’re going through the motions. There’s the gap in their belief system, so on and so forth. But because they believe in you as the leader, because they’re willing to follow you, they will do what you ask them to do. And so that really is where leadership comes in. So sometimes when you’re getting resistance from an accountability standpoint and people are not doing where you’ve had a conversation, you’ve agreed upon doing so and so forth. Sometimes there’s a part of it is as a leader, Am I worthy or what am I doing that’s not making me worthy enough to be followed?

Now it’s obviously more complicated than that because sometimes you have wrong people on the bus, but all things being equal. At the end of the day, my experience has been Most people wake up and they really want to do a good job. They do. There’s some gaps, challenges, and issues that we all have. We have sticking points and things that we need help with. We need several conversations, coaching sessions, so on and so forth. So when we go back to this whole piece around followership, am I worthy of being followed? It’s why it becomes so important because there’s so many more times when you don’t even realize it. Your people are relying upon you around belief sets that they don’t own yet that you have to help them get to and they’re relying upon you to do that. So therefore they need to be in a trust.

They need to have hope. They need to all the buzzwords that we talk about leadership. That’s why all these things become so important. And yet in servant and leadership, you know, are you there to serve You’re not there for ulterior motives to hit my goal because you know your goal I hit my goal right there has to be a selflessness that’s involved in that so that’s that’s You know why the the workshop and I I probably watched that next Netflix documentary, I don’t know, 5 or 6 times. And I really felt like there were some leadership components there to be able to share with people and get them to think about, you know, yeah, that’s high stakes. You know, when we’re at work, they’re not those type of high stakes. It’s not life or death, but it’s a good life or not good life stakes, right? Self improvement. And it really resonates with me because you’re trying to get and especially this moving forward because someone else believes in you, right?

And they understand the goals and objectives and you’re trying to absorb it, but you’re trusting as you go along, right? And there’s all sorts of different personalities that you engage with as a leader, and even as an individual contributor as a seller, right? I mean, these things that are trying to create followership, that’s no different than an individual contributor trying to win the opportunity with a big customer. You have to have them buy in in your hope and hope in you and trust in you. It’s the same thing. You are a leader. You are impacting people because you’re trying to convince people to go with you. And it’s all about the people. It’s all about the relationships. So it’s just very interesting. I think it’s a great a great thing to look at.

And accountability, you know, for those listeners out there that don’t remember, accountability is raising your hand when it doesn’t go right. It’s really easy to raise your hand and say, I was part of the winning team. A lot of people get these alligator arms when it’s suddenly an accountability question about, hey, something didn’t quite go right. And that’s where bravery comes in. And that’s where tenacity comes in and ownership. And you want followership as a leader? Take accountability for something you did wrong. Show self-deprecating humor.

Show understanding that you don’t have all the right answers. And you’ll build that followership a lot faster than if you stand up there and think that your proverbial you know what doesn’t stink, and that you got all the answers. We’re always all learning. Always. Exactly. All of us are always learning. That’s what I was trying to say. This life, what we will be talking about, Keith, in 5 years from now, may not even be on a cocktail napkin yet. I mean, it took us 1000, tens of thousands of years to develop the automobile and 60 years, 60 odd years later, depends on if you believe Mercedes did it first or who had the first automobile combustion engine, but 60 odd years later, we’re in space. We’re on rockets. Isn’t it crazy? Yeah. Exactly.

I’ve told the story before, the Library of Congress took two hundred and fifty years to fill up. with all the periodicals, the speeches, the recordings, the books, all that stuff. That amount of data’s moving on the internet today every 90 seconds. Yeah. It’s just, I mean, it’s beyond exponential. There’s no such thing, but I’m just trying to make a point. Now, when you’re dealing with leaders, and you know, we talked about this in our prior call, but tell me a little bit about your philosophy around A players, B players, and C players, and where as a leader you want to focus.

I think as a leader, your best opportunity to grow your business ultimately comes with your middle performers. That makes up about 60, maybe even 70 percent of the workforce that you have. Your top performers, they get the extra assignments. If you have field input teams, you know, working with marketing, you know, and this is from a sales perspective. And I think this probably even fits within organizations that don’t do sales. Ultimately, those top performers get a lot of extra. The other part of it is they also sometimes get overworked. So you have to be careful because they’re tapped out. Yeah, they’re tapped out. Exactly. And then your bottom performers, you spend extra time with them because you’re trying to get rid of them.

So who gets left in the middle? All the people that need the love and tenderness are forgotten. Yeah, exactly. That’s funny. The bottom ones you’re trying to get out. That’s funny. You didn’t say that when we met last time. That’s a good line. I really love you here, Johnny, but let me show you the door. Do you have a box with you today? So to talk about the middle performers, how do you coach through that? What do you explain what you mean by your biggest opportunity?

Yeah, so A, generally, at least in pharma, everybody generally gets the same amount of time. But you top performers get a little extra exposure. I think with your middle performers, you have to be more explicit. in regards to what you want people to do. You have to kind of coach exactly to the skill. I know that, I can’t remember if it was the Harvard Business Review or McKinsey Reports or something, but they were talking about coaching.

They were talking about coaching best practices. And when you coach the best practices, you have to coach to exactly what it is that people should do or what that best practice looks like. Because some people, you can say do X and they’ll know exactly what that means. Yeah, you tell sales representative you you need to use your resources more effectively and they shake their head up and down

They know they know what you can mean for some folks that might mean when I say resources I mean You need to do more lunches You need to use You know, whatever extra tools that you have in a bag These are the 5 tools that we find And be very, very explicit about what that means. And then the follow up to that is you have to check in and you have to and we talked about accountability, but accountability is a hands on task. You know that you can’t wait to the next field session, which is 4 to 6 weeks away to follow up. It might mean in the next 24 hours, I want you to send me a list of acts or, you know, we talked about you setting up an appointment with some of these top customers. That might mean following up because I want that done in the next 24 hours. I want you to follow up, send me email so I’ll know it’s done. It’s not micromanagement. What gets measured gets done ultimately.

That’s right. And so you have to have some level of focus for that. And then the other part of this is You have to cheer for the middle folks because no one’s sharing for them. That’s right. They’re their forgotten sons and daughters, right? Yeah. And it might be, um, you know, I talked to, I was talking to a manager and we were talking about one of their middle performers and they made a comment and they said, uh, they were trying to get them to increase the number of calls that they had. They were making a day on physicians. And I think the person that had hit 8 that had a really good week. And so I asked the manager, I said, well, Did you say anything to the representative?

Did you let him know that did you positively reinforce right right? Yeah. And they looked at me like I was crazy. I mean it hadn’t dawned on them that they needed to. Well, it’s expected. Why do we? Why do we have to be nice to him? That’s what the job is. It’s just not how people work man. You know this reminds me I did an episode 2 weeks ago and it was out of a. I can’t remember what the source was and it was about coaching and it was a sports.

approach to it, but they talked about, they didn’t call them A, Bs, and Cs, but they called them talent and mindset combinations. So you have an A in talent and an A in mindset, you have an A in mindset and a B in talent, and you have an A in mindset and a B in talent. And the AA, the top of the line mindset and the top of the line talent, As a coach or as a leader, you may go your whole career and have one, maybe 2 of them that you ever experienced. They’re just built different. They’re the Michael Jordans. They’re the Walter Paytons. They’re the ones that work the hardest, practice the hardest, and were gifted with skills and acquired skills and continuously try to improve. They’re the unicorns. So you kind of put those off to the side. Those are like A-plus players. Then you have the A talent and the B mindset people. And they got all the talent in the world, but they aren’t willing to, they’re raring to go, but can’t go for raring, I say.

They’ll try 15 different things that they should probably work on once each. And they never develop. They have this talent and they’re basically wasting it. And the thing is, is they’re also a cancer to your team. Because not having the right mindset or thinking they don’t have to practice or they don’t have to do it or or they aren’t driven towards self-improvement or common goals, that can be a bad thing for you. The one, the B players that you and I are talking about, the ones that this coach talked about specifically that are the golden opportunity, are the A mindset and the B talent.

The talent you can coach up to and stuff, but they try one thing a thousand times until they get it because the mindset’s right then the talent goes up and it’s now a B plus and then their mindset is right again the talent goes to a B plus plus and then finally reaches an A and that’s that middle people right the people that you know they have the can do and the will do they just need time they need percolation like a fine cup of coffee you got to let it kind of brew a little bit and have this thing take off and I think it’s true on what we’re kind of talking about here too your A B and C players the C player is actually the A talent, B mindset. Now, we put up with a lot of things from people that deliver the results, right?

Revenue hides sins, as I used to say. And the best thing you can ever be as a leader is to have so much talent on your team, you don’t have to put up with that. And you have a bench that’s so strong. We had a manager of a year one time, this is 20, this is 30 years ago probably, and they said, how’d you do it? And he goes, well, you gotta remember, I started management 4 years ago. It took me 4 years to build this team. I turned every single person over. This team is not what I took over. This team is what I built. And he wasn’t taking credit with that statement. He goes, you can’t expect this immediate gratification as a leader and as an individual contributor. It takes time. You might get lucky. You might have a big deal fall in your lap, a blue bird, whatever.

And then you got to maintain the account. life’s hard. So expect it to take some time. Exactly. And really dedicate on continuous improvement. That’s why I put this show together is just trying to share it forward. and trying to share and bring people like yourself with all, there’s so many talented people out there bringing someone like you on here and talking about the life sciences business and this training methodology and everything. It’s great because there’s somebody driving down the road today that’s a life science person. Somebody’s working for, you know, Bear or Merck or somebody that listens to this and goes, you know, that’s a great idea by Keith. I never thought of it that way. And that’s all we’re trying to do.

You and I just little baby steps for everybody and hope you can give a high 5 at the end of the week that somebody had a good week. yeah absolutely absolutely and ironically in the story that you tell it’s within those b players sometimes is your management i mean i i think and i’ll use a sports analogy i think about somebody like a steve kerr yeah uh you know b talent A mindset. Great coach. Yep. Made one really big shot too for that ring. Yep. Yep. On the bulls. It is funny, you know, you got, and then you got great coaches that some never even played the game.

Yeah. You know, they understand the game, but weren’t great players, you know, just philosophically and things. It’s just, you know, I think of Tiger Woods’ dad. He wasn’t a big golfer, but he created the greatest golfer ever because he got his mindset right. I mean, Tiger’s going out and training with SEAL teams and stuff. You know, that’s why he’s got back injuries and Achilles.

It’s because he over trained a lot of this. And also he’s ripping the club at, you know, one hundred and twenty five mile an hour club head speed as he’s crossing the plane at impact. I’m sitting here at 57 going, God, I’d love to be at 92 miles an hour again. You know, God. What about, do you think it’s harder today for people to take on and self-develop than it used to be? And the reason I’m asking the question is what I’m thinking about here, is in today’s world, it’s fake book and it’s instascam and everything’s perfect and the level at which everyone is to hold themselves up to is not realistic. Beauty is not real. It’s all filters. So it’s all this false what good looks like. Have you found it more difficult to engage with younger people today and get them to get the mindset right and understand that perfect isn’t the goal, just improvement is? Give me your thoughts on that. You know, I don’t know that it’s any more difficult now than it was then. The way I look at it is we were them. Yeah, every generation says the same thing.

They’re lazy. They don’t want to do this. They want to do that. I mean, it’s just like really, you know, and I’ve been fortunate to work with some young people. I work with a nonprofit collective success network. We help low income first generation students, you know, make their way through school and network opportunities. I’m on the advisory board and then I’ve also done some work with the leadership program and They’re all inquisitive. They’re all ambitious. It just looks a little different because what they grew up with is a lot different. I took my daughter with me on a business trip with a client and it was insightful. I picked up a lot of tips from her from a training perspective.

A lot more trending experience than I realized. How much stuff did she does? And everybody was impressed with her. And I was thinking, well, she’s grown. She’s not a kid anymore. Well, and that’s great. And she was surrounded by parents that dug in and worked hard and those types of things. I guess what I was thinking about there, there’s a lot of victim attitude out there. and wanting it to come to them without the effort. And I just think that my wife wears a shirt and it’s the Maryland’s head coach, female’s head coach, and I’m not gonna remember her name right now, handle hard better. Life’s hard. You can either handle hard now or hard later. And if you handle hard now, you don’t have the hard later. You know, you mentioned I say a third of your life is working. first third of your life, and it’s not necessarily a third, maybe it’s a fourth or something. Well, no, it’s about a third. A third of your life you sleep.

A third of your life, the first 20 years, your parents, if you’re good, most people got a good family, you don’t have a lot of the stresses, you’re having food put on the table for you, you’re getting your education, those types of things. And then the last part of that third is retirement, where you get to settle back down. And then you got this one big third. That you just gotta work your ass off and if you work your ass off for a third of your life the heart is a lot easier later in life and It’s just that’s that’s what I was kind of thinking about my sister. Yeah, and we were talking about it We’ve got a white. I’m a younger kid compared to my siblings so my kids are younger than theirs and and we’re just watching people grow and And the social media stuff is what it gets me too. It’s just perfection is not what you want for, well, first of all, they aren’t perfect.

They’re all about them. And it just, that’s interesting. Well, I think it’s both. I actually think it’s both because I think that fundamentally you can do extremely well because there are more resources, tools and resources available. The other part of it is because of social media there’s so many different distractions so and so forth that you have to be disciplined and so I think if you can help kids be focused, laser focused because even older adults play victimhood and I think if you can help people be focused on the right tools and resources that are so much more available than when we were available.

I mean, if you didn’t go, you don’t have to go to the library now. Dewey Decimal, they don’t even know what you’re talking about when you say the Dewey Decimal system. You used to have to go look up a number, 4 digits plus a period, something, something, then go find that aisle, then go find that book, then read book.

Yes. You don’t get to Google or chat GDP, GPT man. It’s just, it’s crazy. Different problems. There’s a lot of problems we didn’t deal with too. So I swear I’m not yelling, you know, standing on my yard, get off my yard to all the neighbor kids yet. I haven’t turned into that yet, but I’m well on my way probably. Well, I’ll tell you, Keith, the company just sounds absolutely awesome. Again, everybody, it’s core management training. You know, when we were getting together and talking about today, I want to make sure that you get any message for the listeners out there that you wanted to make sure you touched on. You got a lot going on, a great company, you focus in the life sciences.

But first of all, how do people get a hold of you? And then do you have any last words, anything, message for the day that you want to make sure you get across to the listeners? Yeah, Brent. So you can reach me at coremanagementtraining.com. And even if you’re not life sciences and you have some leadership needs, I happen to work with you. And my message would be this, Brent. I think that at the end of the day, you’re the captain of your own ship. So if you want things to change, then you must change. You kind of alluded to it earlier.

There’s so many tools and resources. and things that are available, you have to be responsible for your own development. And if you spend time with your own self-development, you will grow because it’s not necessarily about, it’s more about the person you’re trying to become than the person that you are now. And if you do the work now, as you said earlier, the results will show up. They may not show up today and they may take a lot longer than you realize, but that consistency will develop you into a person that you won’t recognize 5 years from now.

That’s a great statement. Yeah, you hit the nail on the head. What you don’t change, you choose. I mean, if you don’t change and you don’t get better and you don’t hold yourself to that, then you’ve chosen to stay stagnant and stay where you are, not improve, and the rest is history. Hey, everybody. We had Keith Willis on today. And again, it’s Keith Willis with Core Management Training. Keith, great visit today. Everybody out there, take to heart what Keith said and take it to the streets. Be awesome. And then keep that shit up. Everybody we’ll talk next week. See you.

Managing Yourself

The Hardest Leadership Skill to Master

Every leader faces challenges, but the toughest one often starts within. Managing yourself — your emotions, reactions, and habits — shapes how your team sees you and how effectively you lead them.

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The Conversation

 In this session, I joined Jill Valdez for Lunch and Learn for Leaders to discuss the role of self-awareness in leadership. We discussed my journey from the military to the pharmaceutical industry and how lessons from both shaped my approach to emotional intelligence, feedback, and personal growth. I shared how recognizing blind spots, learning to listen, and managing your own reactions can change how you lead and how others respond to you.

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The Insight

Leadership begins with self-management. When you understand how your behavior affects others, you create space for trust, openness, and better performance. The leaders who grow the fastest are those willing to look in the mirror, seek feedback, and keep learning from it.

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The Action

  • Start with awareness. Notice how your tone, words, and energy influence your team.
  • Ask for real feedback. Seek it early, often, and from multiple sources.
  • Stay teachable. Growth comes from curiosity, not perfection.
  • Model vulnerability. Admit mistakes and show your team what learning looks like.
  • Focus on progress, not polish. Leadership is built through daily reflection and small improvements over time.

Well, welcome to today’s lunch and learn for leaders and those who want to be. I’m super excited about our gathering today. Of course, we meet every Thursday on Zoom, and it’s an opportunity for us to talk about current leadership issues, what might be challenges that you’re currently experiencing, or just on a topic that’s going to help us be a better leader.

And from time to time, I like to bring in a guest. And so I’m super excited to have Keith Willis here with us today. Keith and I met through another introduction and we hit it off. And I was like, man, this guy, he’s got it. He knows what it is about being a great leader.

And so I invited him to come and be a part of our gathering today. Keith, thank you so much for joining us. Jill, thank you for having me on. Yeah. So Keith, just so that people get to know a little bit more about you before we start talking, tell me and tell us what’s your background.

So yeah, so I own a company, Core Management Training, focused on leadership development training, primarily in the life sciences arena. I started my career in the Army, did ROTC, all that other good stuff. I was a captain when I got out, and then promptly got into the pharmaceutical industry. Worked for several different companies, worked with Siva Guygi initially in Albuquerque, New Mexico, and basically moved from west to east. after SEVA’s downsize ended up at J&J in the Toledo area where I was a sales rep, hospital rep. And then I went into the home office in the, basically in the New Jersey area where I did sales training.

And then I was a district sales manager for about 6 years. And then from there, I went over to Wyeth where I did account management training. And then I was the director of field operations for one of the zone VPs.

Went back into training after we were bought by Pfizer and I did vaccines training for a couple of years and then from there went over to Otsuka where I had an opportunity to build out leadership capabilities and leadership development department for that company. They were taking on responsibility for a multibillion dollar drug at that time.

It was the most written product in industry. And because they were taking over responsibility for their own drug, we had to build out infrastructure. And then from there, I went over to Bristol Myer Squibb, where I ran one of the training teams with about 70 managers, seven hundred sales representatives. So between being in the military as well as my time in pharma, I’ve seen a lot of different things when it comes to the leadership.

Yeah, good and bad, I’m sure. Yeah, exactly. Yeah. Well, let’s go ahead and just jump right in. And I’m going to ask the question, what has been your biggest obstacle and how did you overcome it on your leadership journey? Yes, I think one of the biggest challenges that I’ve had and I think a lot of leaders have is around managing yourself.

There are a whole constellation of things that go along with that, you know, I think of it as part of its emotional intelligence, how you’re being seen, you know, are you being not only being authentic leader, but also are you acting in a way that’s the most appropriate.

I remember one time my wife had told me that she would never want to work for me. So when your spouse tells you that, that gets your attention. I look back on my journey, there are things that I did when I was in the military that, you know, they just were not good. And so you kind of think about that journey. I mean, I think one of the fortunate things, at least in pharmaceuticals, there’s always been a lot of training. And so learning how to do certain types of things. So there are certain leadership things that I did well, you know, innovation, doing things differently. some cases, you know, being one-on-one, those type of things.

But I think as you begin to mature, as you get older and reflect upon your behaviors and things that get in the way of being the most effective leader, they can really make a big difference. So for me, that was probably, I would probably say the biggest obstacle. And I think a lot of people have that obstacle because in your mind, you’re doing all the right things. So as a sales manager, you live and die by the numbers.

Well, sure, you got to be the one that’s calm, cool and collected, even though you may feel that anxiety. people pick up on your anxiety, they pick up on the challenges and issues that you have. And so your team becomes a reflection of you. So, building those types of skill sets, you become more effective at being able to manage people more effectively. So, over the years, I was able to do that. I do know one tool that helped me out significantly was embracing strength binders. You know, I had always been part of my personality could be overly critical. But beginning to understand how to manage people from a strengths perspective really made all the difference in the world. Now, I wish I could tell you that I read Break All the Rules by Marcus Buckingham.

So that was the book kind of turned the corner. But I wouldn’t say that it was all of a sudden. It was one of those things where it’s like, oh, those are some good concepts. Started to apply them. And I think that’s the other thing. A lot of times in your leadership journey, There’s kind of a trial and error part of that. And you try some things and then you get away from it and then you try it again. So you have to keep on trying and keep on growing. So when I became a manager working in the home office within training teams, I found that utilizing strengths really made a big difference. I was able to get people promoted. I turned my training team over twice.

because of utilizing strengths and really begin to understand who I was and how to utilize my best strengths to get the best out of my people and help them do the same thing. So those are a couple of ways that I overcome, overcame one of those obstacles. But I do think that managing yourself is one of those things that’s easy to, I don’t know, avoid is the right word.

I think it’s part of it’s a level of self-awareness. It’s also getting feedback and being open to receiving the feedback that you receive because a lot of times we can get upset when we hear certain things or lack of acceptance might be a better word. So sometimes you are good at acknowledging it but not really good at accepting that’s the feedback that you received and here’s some skills that you need to be better at. Yeah, that’s so good.

There’s so many thoughts and so many ideas in my head. I was actually just talking with a friend of mine about this this morning. Both he and I come from the pastor world and really got into coaching because there was an opportunity My particular denomination was looking for people who would get certified as coaches so that then they could go out and coach pastors.

Well, we got certified. It was phenomenal. We were super excited. And all the pastors were like, I don’t want your help. We don’t need you. And finding that It’s kind of the same thing now. As I’m building a business, coaching business, going out and meeting with people and finding out what’s going on with their company, they’re like, oh yeah, what you’re doing, it’s so important, but they then don’t engage and don’t want the service because what I think is there’s this fear that they’re going to discover that they’re the problem.

And I just want to tell them I’m actually I was like, I think I’m going to work on figuring out how to include this in in the conversation. You are the problem. You are the problem. Have the self-awareness to recognize you are the problem and you can grow. So, yeah, self-awareness and and having that growth mindset is so important.

Oh, definitely. How are you finding that you’re able to take your knowledge of the importance of self-awareness and then bring that to the leaders and the people that you’re working with today? I think part of it is being in their shoes. You know, when you talk to clients and potential clients, it’s helping letting them know that you’re in the same journey, you know, a lot of times in the pharmaceutical industry somebody runs leadership development so you’ve had some of the same conversations issues, don’t necessarily have a proverbial seat at the table, some of the same challenges.

So I think when I can be in somebody else’s shoes, it gives them a level of confidence that we can kind of overcome that. And sometimes they’re in a position where they’re working with people at different levels. So oftentimes in training roles, it’s training can be the glue within an organization. People don’t oftentimes see it that way. Sometimes they see themselves as order takers.

And so it’s trying to help them figure out how do I begin to navigate through, you know, the network, the internal networks, the external networks to do the things that need to be done. Yeah. So let’s talk a little bit more about how self-awareness made you become a better leader coming from a military background. And I know that there’s been a lot of change in the military, but still there’s a lot of top-down leadership methodology in the military.

And so you obviously learned how to invest in yourself as a leader and then how to invest, how to invest in others. that self-awareness and then taking the information to become a better leader?

So I guess I was starting with a couple of things because I think at times when we talk about the military, to some degree, it is a misnomer that it is top down. It is and it isn’t. It’s not much different than corporate in some ways. The best leaders that I encountered were those that use their influence, not necessarily their authority.

If you had to use your authority, then you really weren’t being a good leader. So a lot of times you’re working with in a team, I mean, you know my first platoon I had I don’t know, I think, 70 soldiers, you have 4 or 5 squad leaders, you have a platoon sergeant. you know, unfortunately, the lieutenant’s the dumbest one in the unit because, you know, you’ve been on active duty a hot second.

you have to learn how to listen, get people’s opinions and those type of things. So really starts early that lesson and then watching senior leaders, you know, how and when to defer, really listen to the people that are in your command. So that that had been my experience. And then I think one of the things that the military does extremely well is, you know, in corporate America, or even in business, generally, you get promoted, and there’s no training, you just say, you’re in charge, you’re the manager. Well, I went to 6 months of officer basic course before I went to my first unit.

And then mind you, there were 3 or 4 years of ROTC where I went to camp. There were evaluations, assessments. So you learn how to be an officer. And same thing, those that go to West Point, every summer there’s an engagement or something where they’re learning how to lead. So it’s not like you throw somebody in and then all of a sudden they’re learning how to lead. It’s constant training.

I was joking with somebody the other day and I said, fortunately, the military doesn’t treat training like corporate does because if it did, we would be in extreme trouble.

And so, you know, I began to learn there that leaders read, you know, and are well educated. And then fortunately, you know, I joined the industry The pharma has gotten has its critics and those type of things, but generally you get a lot of training. So a lot of training around soft skills, social styles, this emotional intelligence, crucial conversations, coaching and feedback, how to interview. I mean, the list goes on.

And so you’re surrounded by a lot of very intelligent, very bright people, and invariably the conversation comes up, what are you reading? So as a consequence of that, that’s how you begin to develop a level of self-awareness. And then the other part of that is, is that it’s not necessarily, and even if you move from company to company, you get a coaching workshop. And then, you know, I like to think of a bundle so crucial conversations that’s.

Advanced coaching, you have some other elements that you can add emotional intelligence, you can add resilience, all of those things help you be able to have different conversations or tough conversations with people. So become a lot more aware of people’s responses to you and it becomes more about. them and not you. You know, one of the lessons I learned is my role as a manager or my role as a leader is to make you the best version of you.

Yes. You know, if you’re able to do that, then you’re going to be a lot more effective because if everybody on my team was just like me, we would be in a world of hurt. They’re just some skills that I just don’t have. And so you try to build a team that has a lot of those skill sets and brings a lot of things to the table, a lot of different ideas. And that’s when we get into those discussions about diversity and things like that. That’s why those types of things are very important.

Yeah, absolutely. I mean, ultimately, that’s what leadership is, is bringing out the best in the people that you lead, not because you were the best at doing the job that they’re doing. Yeah, and sometimes you’re managing people that are doing jobs that didn’t even exist.

So, you know, you think about Drucker and you think about, you know, his concept around knowledge workers. You can’t, I mean, I know we talk a lot about leading by doing and leading by example. I think there are some things that you can do, but I think there are also some things that inherently you have people on your team you’ve never done their job and you’re never going to be an expert in doing their job.

But there is a way to coach them, be able to provide them with feedback and help them in a way that they can impact the business in a positive way. Sure, yeah. We talked about feedback a few weeks ago, and we started with the fact that it’s feedback when I give it, it’s criticism when you give it to me. Yeah, how important, what is, like, how do you set up your team and the people that you’re training to be good leaders, how do you set them up to receive feedback in a positive way?

I think for starters, you got to do early and often. I was doing a course on psychological safety, going through a train to train or so on and so forth. And somebody had come up with a statistic, 5 to one, 5 positive to one. I know manager tools, which is a podcast that does a lot of stuff around management. I think there were 7 to one. So at the end of the day, you should be given feedback a lot. hard to do.

The manager tools, they have a comment that if you ask the question, can I give you some feedback and somebody has that look on your face like, oh crap, then you know you’re not giving enough feedback because mostly it should be positive. And then when you begin to give feedback, people will be looking for feedback. I mean, all you’re doing is impacting people’s behavior and the behavior is what that’s their performance over time.

So if you’re not providing any feedback at all, you have no impact on their performance. And so managers get confused between the difference between coaching and feedback.

I mean, feedback really does not take that long and it’s not rocket science, it’s just feedback. And most of the time it’s positive. It’s like you give a presentation near, hey, you did a really good job. Here are the things that you did well. You think you might be able to change this, this, this, because, you know, the impact that it had on our audience or whatever that is. And it’s, you can be walking down the hall and give feedback.

It’s people make it a big deal. It’s not a big deal. It’s just feedback. Well, for a while, it became such a formalized thing. Like, oh, we’ve got to sit down. We only give feedback during our one-on-ones. And we schedule those. And it was just so locked into a box that people lost the natural ability to be able to give feedback. Yeah. It’s like you’re working on a project. You know, there are always some elements that you struggle with. It’s not any different than having a conversation with your boss about what you’re doing, what you’re trying to accomplish and where the hotspots are and where you’re frustrated. Have you thought about X? Have you tried this? Have you tried that? I mean, that’s feedback.

I mean, it’s not a formal coaching session. All it is is, you know, hey, you know, try this instead of that. Yeah. Well, it’s conversation. It’s it’s working together. Exactly. And so why do we have to define it as being this thing that then becomes processed, that then it loses its impact and becomes just one more thing for somebody to check off a box? Yeah, exactly, exactly. Yeah, it’s so good. Oh, dang it. I had a question just totally left my mind. That’s the challenge of live recording. Does anybody else have any questions real quick while I’m trying to bring that question back to my mind?

Yeah, it’s been a great conversation. I really appreciate your perspective, Keith. Do you Do you feel like there are any tools that maybe resemble filter of sort that you kind of, I don’t know, put in front of your the way like how you give feedback and when you give feedback that. have been really effective for you, like something you learned over time. Like, you know, a good example would be like the sandwich method of giving a compliment and then your feedback and then Yeah. I’m not a sandwich fan. But something, you know, like that, so to speak. I cringe every time I see it in the back. I do think models are good. Because they’re tools. You only have one tool. You only have one tool Yeah, more than one tool, you have options.

So I would start with that. I think there’s a situational leadership. I think they have that model. I think that model works well. I like the manager tools model because what it does is it presented in a way that almost just like situational leadership tool, but the difference is that you ask if you can give somebody some feedback.

Because sometimes it may not be the right time, so on and so forth. And if you create a culture of feedback, it gets to be simple, simpler. And if most of the time that you’re giving feedback to restart with positive feedback, then people are going to begin to ask. And so if you create an environment, then it becomes easier. When people don’t give feedback, then it becomes a big deal. And I think that’s the challenge, is to really focus on that. And the same thing with coaching.

I think coaching models are good because it’s a model. The models vary. They’re not that much different. But beginning to start with a model, because easy coaching is easy. where it becomes really important is when you need to have those important conversations. The other part of that is when you do things like one-on-ones, staff meetings, and those type of things, the reason that you do a one-on-one is not really for the update, it’s to build a professional relationship. Because at some point, you’re going to have a conversation I won’t say that goes south, but you need to move somebody in a different direction. And so in some cases, that could be career changing. I remember somebody that was on my team, they were from another country. And so in their country, their culture was, it’s in your face.

And so when they would engage with people, they were getting in a way on a project, so on and so forth, it would be this conflict. and it would be conflict that was not seen in a positive way. And so having that conversation was an important conversation, but being able to have a model and starting as a starting point because it was a critical, it was a crucial conversation. So I’d probably use some crucial conversation pieces. I use some other pieces from other models that I had learned and you put all of those things together.

It didn’t change the fact that there were tears And there were some emotional challenges during that conversation. But when people come back later, years later, and thank you for that conversation, then you know the models work. And that’s the beauty of using these type of models as a starting point. And I would even argue that, yes, I don’t like the sandwich.

But I would say that using the sandwich would be better than not having, let’s say you’ve never given feedback before and you don’t know what to do and you’ve got a model to rely upon, I think it’s a starting point. I think using some tools is better, is most times better than using no tools at all.

Because it gives you a starting point and then you learn other stuff that you can add in and then you can pick and choose. There are coaching models I learned probably 20 years ago Where there was this thing called the congruency model, for example. And I pull that tool out when I was having a problem coaching somebody and, you know, like, closing, for example. Look, I know, you know, out of a close, you’ve been doing sales for 20 years. What’s the deal? And so there was a value issue.

But if I had not learned that model, I would have never asked that question. I would have kept coaching the way that I was coaching. But because I pulled something from, you know, another model and used it, we got to the issue and got to the challenge and we were able to have a conversation. And it was never a negative conversation, but it was a factual conversation about how do we move you forward? So I think whether you’re doing coaching, you’re doing feedback, even if you’re doing business planning, I think models are great because they are frameworks. And then from there, you can get creative and all that other good stuff.

Yeah. Thank you. Patrick Lencioni, he talks about employee engagement. And one of the things that he says, there’s 3 pieces. And one of the big pieces is that managers know their people, that they’re known. And so if I, as a leader, know my people and have a relationship with them, then when I’m giving feedback, it’s going to become it’s gonna become more conversational to where you’re not like, okay, I gave a positive, here’s the negative, another positive. It just flows so naturally out of the conversations that you’re having.

And it’s received better for one. I mean, there’s times where we just have to give what people would call negative feedback. We have to coach people onto being the best version of themselves. You talked about that. earlier that bringing out the best in people. So if we have a relationship with them, they know that we’re not doing it to be mean, we’re not doing it to be heavy handed, but we’re doing it because we want to see them be successful because when they’re successful, the company is successful. Absolutely.

Yeah. I mean, I think that You know, as a part of that, because in Patrick Glenn C. Odine’s book when he talks about that piece there, I think one of the other things that’s really telling is The manager, and this is the piece around the leadership piece, I think sometimes it’s missing because it’s a great book.

And even when you get an Amy Edmondson’s piece around psychological safety, at the end of the day, the manager has to have some level of vulnerability because none of that happens unless the manager signs up for it. So it’s willing to have the conversation, really get to know people and for the people to get to know them also.

One of the lessons I’ve learned, I told my team, I said that I have a tendency to be overly critical. So if you think I’m being overly critical, then you need to raise your hand. You need to tell me that because it’s who I am. It’s personality flaw or whatever you want to call it. And so that opened up the lines of communication because it was acknowledgement of, look, I got gaps just like everybody else does.

You have a real conversation with me about how you’re feeling. And so I think those things get to be really important. And I think that’s the base leadership that everybody can have, whether you’re a leader and that you lead leaders. or your individual contributor and a leader in being willing to be vulnerable to have the conversations that you need to move people, not only to move people forward, but to move yourself forward. Yeah. Well, Keith, thank you so much for your time today. This has been great. We’ll have to definitely have you come back and share some more.

Where can people find you? So yes, you can find me at coremanagementtraining.com. It’s exactly how it sounds. If you spell all the words out, so it’s literally 2 T’s because when you, you know, core management ends with a T and then there’s the training. So that’s my website. Or you can get me at kwillis at coremanagementtraining.com.

All right, awesome. Well, thank you again so much for joining us today and thanks everybody for being here. Of course, oh, quick announcement. We will not be meeting next week because I’m doing a presentation and it’s smack in the same time. So next week will be canceled, unfortunately. I don’t like to do that, but it couldn’t be avoided. But we record these. They’re up on YouTube. It’s a great opportunity. You can go back and watch maybe some previous episodes, kind of brush up on some of the leadership stuff we’ve been talking about. If there’s ever any way I can be a resource for you, you can reach me at jvaldez at linkconsulting.info.

If you go to linkconsulting.info, there will be a pop-up that comes up, and I have a free gift for anybody who goes there. It’s a little e-book called Confident Leadership, How to be a Confident Leader of a Committed Team Providing Stellar Service, and I would love for to be able to give that gift to you. And until 2 weeks from now, thanks for joining us and have a great rest of your day. Bye. Thank you so much. Thank you all. Thank you, Keith. Thank you. Thanks. Appreciate

Training Managers First

The Real Key to Engagement and Retention

When organizations attempt to improve performance, they often begin with frontline teams. But lasting change doesn’t begin there — it begins with the people leading them. Managers are the true force multipliers of engagement, culture, and results.

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The Conversation

We explored why leadership development too often comes late or inconsistently, and how untrained managers create cycles of stress, disengagement, and turnover. The discussion highlighted why companies frequently hire managers from outside rather than developing internal talent, the hidden costs of that approach, and the cultural impact of delayed training.

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The Insight

Managers are the keystone of every organization. When they’re trained, supported, and coached, teams perform better, engagement rises, and top talent stays. When they’re not, even strong employees burn out or leave. Development doesn’t have to be expensive, but it must be intentional.

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The Action

  • Invest early. Train managers before they lead people, not months after promotion.
  • Start with the basics. Coaching, feedback, delegation, and communication drive the biggest impact.
  • Watch the signals. High turnover, absenteeism, or performance issues often point to leadership gaps.
  • Build feedback loops. Regular one-on-ones and simple recognition go further than formal reviews.
  • Protect the pipeline. Strong managers create future leaders; neglecting them weakens the system.

Welcome to another episode of Nuggets with Sauce, the podcast dishing up 5 size insights you can sink your teeth into. Served for the saucy take on common leadership challenges by your host, Michelle Arts. Oh wow, I am so excited here on another episode of Nuggets with Sauce. I am thrilled to have with me today Keith Willis.

Keith, I have been looking forward to this conversation with you to share with our listeners and viewers for quite some time. The minute you and I connected, I was like, oh, this guy is so on the same page. He totally gets it. This is, I’m sure, going to be one of several conversations that you and I are going to share in the nuggets and sauce space. But we had to start somewhere. And today is that day, my friend.

So I’m very excited to have you here. As people who are following Nuggets with Sauce know, we do not use job titles here. So action and I know you’re you’re a really good guy about this because you did your homework, which I am loving.

I would just love for you to first and foremost, let our followers kind of get a little feel for what the heck is Keith Willis all about in the sense of You know, as I always like to put it, what fires you up? What’s getting you out of bed in the morning? How are you making the world a better place without using your job title?

Thanks, Michelle. So I’m really excited to be here. Thank you for having me. Really been looking forward to our conversation. Obviously, my name is Keith Willis. And one of the things I love to do is help people leverage their talents. Oftentimes, I think about some of the people I’ve had the opportunity to work with and where they are in their careers and really feel like that I’ve done a good job of helping them maximize their talent.

Now, obviously, the talent comes with it. They’ve already put in the hard work. They’ve done all of the right things. They just want somebody to give them a little bit of guidance, a little bit of a push and help them get to the next level.

That’s really what I help to help people do. That’s a process, you know, wherever you are in any organization, a lot of times people think that development of people just happens. You just have to have some type of yes. Stop right there, sir.

So yeah, so it is a process. There are steps that have to be taken to make sure that you get people where they want to be. So that’s really what gets me fired up. And it’s one of the reasons why I started my own company is to be able to help people leverage their talent and help other organizations leverage the talent that they have. It’s really interesting because when you look at Gallup data, it always talks about how low engagement is.

And over the years that hasn’t changed. Well, it changed a little bit during COVID. And I think that’s because people were really happy to have a job and companies let them work from home. Right, but that’s in the rear view mirror now, man. Oh, yeah. Well, you know, things have gone not so well lately, you know.

You pick up the newspaper anytime, literally a CEO is saying, hey, I want my people back in the office. Yeah, yeah. I want my people this. I want my people that. And by the way, I’m, you know, bitching and moaning about nobody wants to work, which I also don’t buy. We’re going to dig into that one, too. Absolutely. Just before we really dive into this one, just quickly, too, I always love to ask folks, do you have a recommended read, watch or listen that our thought leaders ought to know about?

So for me, it’s Break All the Rules by Marcus Buckingham. I found that that book fundamentally changed how I managed people. Now, I wish I could tell you that I read the book once and I got it, but it did take me some time. There was a process you were talking about. Yeah, exactly. Watch the video or read the book and be experts. Let’s face it, we all do it and you and I be out of a job. Exactly, exactly.

I had a sales representative that, so I spent most of my career in pharmaceuticals, and I was a district sales manager and I had a representative that we’d spent the day together, and she was really struggling. And so at the end of the day she looked at me and she said, I think I’m going to go home and cry.

She was being a little facetious because we had a really good relationship, but it did hit me in a particular way because I was thinking, it’s like, hmm, that’s never good. When you said she chose that and during the time I was reading break all the rules. And one of the focuses about break all the rules is focusing on what people do extremely well. And she was an extremely good sales representative.

she struggled with her product knowledge. And so the following day I asked her, I said, what is it that you do better than anybody? And she said, I help paint pictures and help doctors understand who they should write for. And so I told her that was what we were gonna focus on for the day. And so that was what we did.

We focused on that skillset. Now that doesn’t mean that I couldn’t focus on a product knowledge because when you’re in pharmaceutical industry, being able to provide the right knowledge is very important. Oh yeah.

You know, ultimately, the reality of it is she was never going to be somebody that was going to be at hundred percent or a plus a plus plus with product knowledge. Right. But if we got her to a C, then she was going to be okay. And we were able to get her focused on what she did extremely well. And she ended the year over a hundred percent.

And so that was the first lesson around focusing on what people do well can give you the types of results that you’re looking for in great performance. Yeah, because I think as often as not and it makes sense because we’re kind of wired this way, I think. But, you know, we focus a lot on what people aren’t.

Sometimes more than what they are, you know, and it’s like oh here’s the 52 things you did wrong. And you know here’s all the not to do is and you know we see some time with like you know if anybody’s bothering to do performance reviews performance coaching performance anything which by the whole other subject for conversation.

around who’s not even doing that. But I think there’s so much focus on the kind of the you’re not this, you’re not that, it’s not enough. And instead of to your point, you know, flip that on its head, break those rules and say, look, what are we doing in this space? What are you getting right? Where are you wonderful and shiny?

How do we bring more of that to the forefront as opposed to pounding on people about All the things are never going to be. And it’s both that self-realization, right? Like I know I’ve been going through some realizations of my own in the last little bit about I don’t want to, you know, I’m lucky because, you know, I’m my own boss and she’s pretty reasonable, mostly. But like, if I come to a realization, which I did, that I don’t really shine over here. I’m not going to beat myself up over it. I’m lucky.

And I get to say that maybe I don’t do that anymore. I’ll find somebody else. Which I love that story that you’re sharing, you know, like, how do you, from a leadership perspective, really recognize, and we all have that, we all have strengths and we all have things that we’re not so great at, so how do we help ourselves and others know what that is?

Like, let’s get honest and recognize that, you know, like, believe me, you don’t want, you don’t want to come to me for anything to do with math or spreadsheets. Know your lane, know your strengths. And then how do we think about celebrating and leveraging those? And I love what you’re saying in the end, with that shift in your focus with her, she was kicking it out of the park, right? Sorry, that was a mixed sports metaphor.

I don’t know, you could kick it out of the park. Oh, you could. So you know what I mean. Love that. That’s that’s fantastic. Now, of course, we’re going to dive into I know you’ve got several nuggets that I hope we have time to unpack all today.

But if we don’t, we’ll just regroup and carry on further. But any thought to the kind of sauce that you’re bringing to the table today? Is there a particular kind of sauciness that goes with what you want to Are we getting it?

Are we sweet and sour? Where are we at? It’s interesting when we get into the topic of management training. Large or small, companies need to spend more money. on manager training in fact let’s say we’re going for hot sauce here because this is a hot topic and i don’t know about you but i get hot under the collar thinking about how we’re not and as you and i were saying before before we really started this off you said spend more money and what did i say just spend some money any money Well, I know some companies spend money only because I help stand up leadership development in a few places.

Getting hired in a few spots. How many are missing the mark. Yeah, exactly. So it is interesting because there’s a market difference in organizations that spend money and time and management development versus those that don’t. And it’s large and small. So it’s not just companies that on a shoestring budget, you know, maybe have 50 people that don’t have a lot of money.

And, in fact, the matter is you can do training without money. If you do coaching and feedback, but a lot of companies don’t even do that. So, if you have a limited budget. Yeah. Do you do you train the Salesforce. or your everybody or do you do your managers? I always say your managers first because if you have a good management team everything gets pushed down from there.

I was gonna say that’s gotta be okay let’s just pause for a moment here let’s just savor that nugget right there for just a second because I think you know there’s probably some people listening to this who would be like wait what What do you mean? I mean, if you’re on a tight budget, you’ve got limited scope to get anything done, well, then of course, wouldn’t I go after, like, train my salespeople?

Because if I’ve got well-trained salespeople, then, you know, they’re going to sell more stuff. But I love what you’re saying in this space of, you know, it’s like, get the managers and the leaders, you know, and again, as folks here know, I use them interchangeably because they should be both. But I love that what you said that no, no, you start by getting your managers right. This is like, okay. And again, follow the mind lead. This is like parenting. Put your marriage before and it sounds counter internal.

What do you mean? I don’t put my children first. Listen, if you don’t have a foundation in your relationship with your, your parent partner, Who cares? Everything else falls off the rails, right? Is that, am I hearing that right? Like that’s what we translated in this space of thinking about this in terms of, it doesn’t sound like what a lot of people would do in business, but I think you’re onto something very critical there. If you get your managers right, and you mentioned Gallup, a couple of minutes ago. And what does Gallup research tell us? I think they know a thing or two, and they’re pretty sure.

No, absolutely. You know, 70 percent, 70 percent of a person’s variance in performance is tied to the person who is their manager. So the difference between being an A and an F is on the boss. Pretty significant. That is why Mr. Keith Willis is right when he shares here today on Nuggets with Sauce that you start with, if you have no other way to spend the money on learning and development, you start with your managers. Love that. Tell us more. Yeah, because, you know, here’s the thing when you start with your managers, whatever you’re doing, ultimately, they’re the ones that have responsibility for coaching, Feedback, even delegation, delegation is one of the best development tools that money can buy, because all the managers doing is pushing portion of their job down to the direct report, they’re involved, they’re helping to develop that person. put them in a position to be able to take on more responsibility within the organization. So everything the manager does is so important. And you’ve heard that saying the most important relationship that somebody has in an organization is with their manager.

So it would make sense to spend more money on training managers versus not. And here’s the thing that’s very interesting. So organizations struggle with, do I hire somebody from outside of the company? Because they make an assumption that that person has management skills that they picked up from somebody else. See, we didn’t do any management anything here. So I’m hoping if I get somebody off the street, they come pre program with management, right? I just got offload that.

This is headed. I see. Yeah. And then they don’t fit culturally sometimes. Right, right. No, I mean, oh my God, there’s so many nuggets in this basket right now. I mean, if I can step back for just a sec, the delegating thing is a very interesting point that you raised too, because what’s the opposite of the manager who’s good at delegating? Usually a micromanager. A micromanager. And how much do we love our micromanagers? Not at all, right? And how exhausting to be that micromanager. Because to me, you tell me that to me that’s like now I lack trust. I either don’t, I don’t trust this person to take this on. I haven’t developed them enough to take, which is why I don’t trust them.

Like I haven’t set my people up for success for me to hand something over. That’s a heck of a workload. Yeah and some of it is because some managers they only know what they did when they were in that previous role so they continue those behaviors. Wait you mean what I used to do before I became a manager isn’t going to make me a great manager? Absolutely not. Yeah you know rocking a spreadsheet doesn’t make somebody manager.

Right you’re no longer an individual contributor. Right but they never get that mindset again because you know nobody has Step aside and said hey this is a very different role, you know you can literally what you used to do isn’t going to help you now and yet we haven’t given we haven’t put any I like to call tools in the toolbox these poor managers nobody puts tools in their toolbox. to to say or maybe they get one like oh now i’m at you know i got a hammer so i’m looking for nothing but nails right the trend you see the trend because their manager is not coaching and giving them feedback sure well so is a great way to make managers say everything yeah let’s go over there who was a complete crank Yeah.

Like you’re saying, it rolls down, right? And we’re going to perpetuate these habits and these mistakes, right? If this is how we’ve always done it, I don’t know how else to do it. We are going to create, dare I say in a manner of speaking, generations of workers. And a generation of workers these days could be a tenure as short as 6 months. Yeah.

But it’s just going to keep Replicating, yeah? Oh, absolutely. Yeah, and expensive, like as you were saying too, you know, like the manager is the most, it’s the make or break role for most people, I think. And we also know that therefore who does somebody quit when they, you know, they’re not really quitting their job. They’re not really quitting the company. They’re quitting the manager. I mean, I myself have quit either the manager or the management at least 3 times in my career. You?

Yeah, I’ve been in organizations where the manager that you’re leaving, you know, because sometimes you’ve made a decision you’re going to leave and it may be 6 or 8 months later and I’ve said to myself, gee, I wish I was given this resignation to my old manager because that’s why I’m leaving.

Well, one of the best exit, if anybody’s doing exit interviews, but one of the best questions I ever ran across and I think it’s worth sharing in context of the, hey, am I going to quit my manager? The question to always be asked is, when did you first think about quitting or leaving and why? And how often might that trace to a manager or a leader or something that a manager or leader had a hand in or maybe lacked having a hand in that made for an environment that led to a decision? And as you said at the very beginning, this is all about talent.

Who can afford to lose good talent? And by the way, would you agree or disagree with me, Keith, that usually it is your better talent who tends to quit and leave and walk away from these managers that don’t know what they’re doing? Oh, yeah. So here’s something that’s interesting. I tell people one way to figure out how your management’s doing is short-term disability.

I didn’t realize that short-term disability was a thing, but I would talk to people that were top performers. And they go out on short-term disability and they’d be sick. I remember somebody that I brought into the home office of the trainer and we were having a conversation and I’d left the company by then they would complain about these headaches that they would get.

They would get these headaches and they were going to the doctor trying to figure out what was going on. So finally they put two and two together, it was their job. Now in this case I don’t think they went on short term disability, but they ended up leaving the organization, and guess what, the headaches went away. in another person. Surprise, surprise.

They were having issues back and forth to the doctor, stress-related went on, short-term disability. Shortly thereafter when they came back, left the organization, all of the health problems went away. And that was when I realized that short-term disability could be a marker. That’s not to say that at times that people don’t really have an illness because they do. But there are other times that when people are on short-term disability, it’s because the job is literally making them sick.

Right. And maybe if they don’t get quite as far, quite as severe as actually needing to take that disability leave, take a look at your sick days, take a look at what it’s cost and, and, Let’s go one step further. Let’s be detectives and let’s also dig in and pay a little bit of attention. Are there any patterns around?

There seem to be a lot of sick days or, you know, short-term disabilities. Is there a pattern in terms of like, wow, we have a lot of sick days over in this department? Or we have twice as many call-outs in this team that we do in any way. Because that can also lead us to help us diagnose some of these things. the way, I think it’s pretty stressful on those managers and those leaders.

They don’t know what the hell they’re doing. It’s not really their fault. Sure, there’s the odd person who gets up in the morning, but I think most of them are like, it’s kind of not their fault. Back to our point of are you training you know are you spending any money and training these people are you helping them know how to do the job so they don’t literally. I can really relate. I remember being in a situation where I was getting ill from stress from work. I understand.

Oh yeah, I had it. I had that I had a job where I told my wife if I don’t leave this company is this job is going to kill me. Yeah. And you know and these days when there’s so much chatter out there around you know and and rightfully so a lot of concern around, you know, mental health. in the workspace. You know, the whole thing about burnout, burnout’s been a big topic, you know, people are very, you know, anxiety ridden, they feel that they’re very stressed, it’s very hard, you know, and we go back to what you said earlier. So where’s the engagement?

We have crappy low engagement in part because of these kind, you know, these are all tied together. It’s a good thing you worked in pharma and healthcare, because I can see literally the connectivity all over the place, right? Like these things don’t happen in a vacuum, do they?

You know, here’s the thing that’s interesting too, cause pharma does probably more training than most industries. Most managers go through some type of management training. I will say that in some cases it’s delayed. Manager may be a manager for 6 months before they go to training. So sometimes that can be difficult. I’ve seen- Keep that in the pool before asking if you like swimming events, but- Yeah. At least they eventually get it sooner or later in life. Yeah.

Yeah. But by then, sometimes the damage is done, you know, or leadership development stays open. You know, no one feels that position after someone gets promoted, maybe after, you know, maybe it takes a year, year and a half. I mean, and so what does that say for the managers? Right. How important development is? And what does that say for people? And that’s another nugget I know you and I have talked about before too and we’re very much on the same page is it’s okay it’s one thing to just have the base let’s basically train these people like let’s make sure that as I like to say put tools in their toolboxes.

But then the other piece about that is it’s not good okay just you’re not just again going to throw the book at them or whatever and say okay now we’ve given you Some tools in your toolbox. Okay, but there’s a lot of different things you could do with that. So, so let’s talk a little bit because I know this is another passion point for you around, you know, and we’ve just touched on it, but let’s dig further.

The development aspect of like, it’s not enough to just, okay, I trained you, I checked the box, you know, congratulations, you’re trained. We kind of think about each individual and those people who are in those responsible leadership spaces and how do we hone in and develop them further? What are your thoughts around that, Keith? Yeah, so I think it’s a key piece. I think that managers have to have conversations with their people on a regular basis.

Obviously, if you’re doing one-on-ones, you have check-ins throughout the year, you have mid-years, and sometimes you just need to sit down and have a conversation about where somebody is, what their aspirations are, where they want to go in their career. Figure out, are there some areas that you know they’re very strong in that they can leverage and develop or there’s some areas that maybe their weekend that they have some strengths that they can work around, you know, and cry. No, really, like it could be down to something like what where do you Yeah.

What do you hate? What could I maybe do more to give you what you love and less of what you hate? I mean, it really could be I mean, I’m not saying we would couch it in this. Like what would make somebody go home and cry at the end of the day? Yeah, because maybe they don’t like what they’re doing, or maybe the projects that you have them on, they struggle with, maybe, you know, and so it’s having conversations about, you know, what’s the perfect day at work for you? What does that look like? What a great question.

What would a perfect day at work look like for you? And you know what I’m willing to bet to, in spite of all the chatter out there about people don’t want to work, I bet most people wouldn’t answer, I just want to be sitting on a beach with a glass in my hand. I mean, okay. We know, but let’s get down to brass tacks of really like, okay, if we can’t give you that, you got to get your butt in the door over here.

I think that’s an excellent question people should be asking. And dare I say maybe the managers themselves should also be self-evaluating that. and saying, what does my ideal workday look like? Well, the manager should be asking them the same question. I mean, ultimately, the manager gets poured on all the time. I mean, in some ways, if you think about it, everybody complains about them. They’re the girl between between senior management and their teams. So, you know, the expectation is that they’re going to do everything.

It used to be that there was a lot more support. Now the manager has to do that. Imagine doing a staff meeting, you do all the setup, you do this, you do that, you do the other. You’re trying to run interference for your people. So the responsibility can be a lot. And it’s one of the reasons why when you talk to people that look at their managers, oftentimes they say, I don’t think I want to sign up for that.

I saw something about recently where there’s a new trend and there’s a trending indicator right now that says there’s a lot of people who simply they see promotion as punishment because it has been punishment for so long because nugget number one we’re back to nobody spending the time and the time to train the manager so why would I want to step into a thankless task where nobody’s going to help me exactly exactly I’ll just stay over here quietly And if you think about it, management training should happen before somebody becomes a manager. yeah.

Oh, see, this is why I still love these conversations. We are definitely simpatico around that. Yeah, like, you don’t throw somebody in the deep end of the pool and then say, do you like water? Which is what we do with most managers, right? I really feel, and I’m sure you feel the same way, it’s also a great opportunity to let somebody self-select out. You don’t have to tell them they’re necessarily not management material.

You also get the opportunity, because what do people think when they’re going, I want to be a manager? I remember working in a place where like, oh, you know, manager was like this magic word. Everybody wanted to be a manager and nobody really stopped. And why was that? What was it about being manager? Which I think is, you know, a good question to ask. Why do you want to be a manager?

What do you think that means? and yeah people like the perks you know i think there’s perception there were a lot of perks and things and hey you know maybe get a parking space get a cool office it’s interesting now because you know a lot of the things that were considered perks are gone now offices are gone you’re an open space um some maybe it’s just money the money and the power Maybe. Maybe. Maybe. In some cases, if you’re in sales, sometimes the reps are making more than a manager. Well, what a perfect way to ruin your best salesperson is to turn them into a manager when that’s not what they want.

Because actually, yeah, I’m sure for a lot of them where it really hurts them is all of a sudden all those commissions or all those bonuses or those extra things that were tied to their sales performance. That’s gone. Yeah. And then imagine, so their team is responsible for their bonus. So is it a wonder that you have hero sales managers? I’m going to save every deal. Yeah. So they don’t know how to coach and give feedback. Which is back to, we’re not going to delegate anything.

So I’ve got to do ten jobs and become a Probably a rather unlikable human being in the process because they’re so maniacal about, you know, they’re not allowed to make mistakes. They’re not allowed to fall flat. They’re supposed to be all and know all and it’s impossible. I mean, it’s hard. Yeah. You know, so I love the idea as well in the space of like get them before you give them the title, you know?

I mean, think about it. Like if we were talking doctors, like, you know, and again, you’ve worked in the medical professionals, but it’s like, would this fly if we said, you know, okay, that’s wonderful. You want to be a surgeon and I’m all for that. So I’ll tell you what, start being a surgeon now. We’ll figure it out as we go.

Go ahead and start doing surgery and let’s see what you got. And I’m sure you’re fine. And then if you need a little touch up around the edges, we’ll figure something out for you. Yeah, we’d be in trouble.

So it’s interesting, because even in the military, becoming an officer, you go through a lot of training. Because I did 4 years of ROTC. A lot of what I learned in ROTC I used as an officer. And then you go to your officer basic course, which is 6 months. So before you get to your first duty station, you’ve already had 6 months of training.

That’s a lot of training and I’m sure it’s very intensive too. Yeah, it’s just like an extra semester of college. But for all the right reasons. Well, it’s masters level stuff. I mean, I will say that there were people that were in class that were going to get their masters for some of the work that we did. They got credit and we had to build, we did a whole marketing thing around shoeboxes. military dollars that you didn’t know were being spent, but I’m sure it was for a good reason.

But again, it’s like, hey, we’ve got to build out these skill sets. We’ve got to put these tools in the toolboxes because there is that spin that comes down from that that says the better prepared our top leaders are to be leaders, the better they prepare the managers who, as you said, these are people who are tasked with, they’re the keystone. It’s like when you have an arch, the keystone is the one stone in the middle that if you don’t put that stone in place, the arch falls apart. Yeah. Exactly.

They’re beholden to executive level, whatever your organization is. The people at the top are pushing this stuff down on the managers to say, push this down on your people while there’s pressure building from the bottom up. They are squeezed in the middle.

Yeah. If you don’t get those folks right, I don’t care what great ideas you’ve got up in the corner office or wherever you’re sitting, It’s never going to fly unless you have your managers well oiled, well prepared, well versed to be able to translate that and get their teams to execute on it. So yeah, so at the end of the day, I think it’s not only more training for managers, it just means more time spent with managers preparing them, even things like change management.

Oh, yeah. Yeah, you know, think about all the changes that go on in an organization and how unprepared managers are oftentimes to implement those changes. Don’t know how to do that decision making is tough like how do we get some better faster more informed decisions. They can often you know stall out there, even just like being able to know how to you know engage motivate and show appreciation.

I mean, a lot of managers, I’m sure, don’t even recognize it. Like, actually, people do want to be thanked. They do want to be noticed, you know? Like, shocking, I know. It’s not always the heavy duty stuff, you know? It can be the little things that add up that, you know, how many people go in every day and just go like, man, I don’t feel like anybody notices what I’m doing around here. Nobody cares. My boss doesn’t care.

Yeah, now you know why people want to work virtually. Right, right. Or again, it’s not that they don’t want to work, it’s that they don’t want to work in environments where leaders aren’t really leading, managers aren’t really managing, and they’re not, you know, it all rolls downhill, you know? Exactly. You make an interesting point because when you go into an organization that has a very, very vibrant culture, you can tell there’s an energy about the place, there’s a feeling about, wow, this looks like some place that people want to be. And places that don’t, it’s the same feeling.

You can tell when it’s a place that people don’t want to be. So it goes both ways. Stronger leadership makes it an exciting place to work. Right. Or pockets therein, like maybe the overall stuff is kind of okay. But we have all seen situations like this too, where like, hmm, things are very different over in that part of the building, you know, like that. that team or that department in one of 2 flavors. It’s either like everybody would love, like look what they’re doing over there in the IT environment.

Like there is some magic going on in this IT group. Take a look at who’s leading that. Who’s managing that? Who’s leading that? Because those subcultures within organizations are usually very correlated as well. Well, yeah. And the talent magnets. Yeah, they are. And then some people are like, what’s the anti-repellers? You know, like, look at your turnover. Does your turnover occur in certain departments or certain roles or certain areas of the organization? That’s got to be tied back to people are going to quit their managers. People are, you know, there’s going to be quit rates that may be higher. It’s not going to be evenly distributed across the organization. Oh yeah, big indicator. Yeah, I mean, you got to watch for that kind of stuff.

And again, you know, I always say like we measure what matters. Why aren’t we looking at this stuff and measuring some of this in our organizations and saying like, It’s back to what you said at the beginning, this is about talent and we’ve got to as leaders and organizations think a lot more about the data around our talent and start looking for patterns and trends and measures that will help us. figure out, and again, if you’re on those tight budgets around your learning and development, okay, then where are you going to get your best result?

You’re not going to know that if you’re not paying attention to the numbers. What’s going on with your talent? Yeah, and I wonder how many people look at those numbers. I mean I know everybody looks at engagement scores. If you do engagement, if you do anything around engagement. Yeah, but it’s all of the data points it’s a turnover disability it’s. There’s a list of things to be looked at, and is there a story around it? Do you have a lot of HR issues?

Do you have a lot of people on performance plans? When you get to performance reviews, is it a bell curve? Is everybody slanted to the right? because the lack of our inability to give candid feedback about where people really are, are things overinflated or are they underinflated where maybe too many people are on the low end? Yeah. Where are there fires that you keep having to put out or somebody in your organization, HR is putting out fires? Or where do you need to light a fire? So to speak. You know, it’s like, it’s one of those indicators, right?

There’s either too much of something going on that we don’t want. Let’s watch for that. Or there’s not enough of something happening over here. Like, where are you guys? Yeah, because all turnover is not bad. No, that’s very true. But turnover for all the wrong reason. When your top talent is finding the exit, That’s a problem. That’s a problem. And if the first, again, if the answer to the question is when did you first start thinking about leaving and why, and it somehow comes back to something that that person’s manager could have been doing differently or better, we want to pay attention to that. That was an avoidable reason for an exit.

Absolutely. And then you’re back to square one where you’re going back and more talent and, you know, the hiring process, and have you trained your managers to do recruiting and selection? Oh, wait, what? Yeah, when you think of that full life cycle, that’s going to have to be a whole other conversation.

That’s going to be a fabulous one, because there is a lot to be said for when you think of your full life cycle of an employee, right away, one of the things you’ve got to be asking yourself is does a hiring manager even know how to get the right talent in the door in the first place?

Yeah, so there’s a podcast I listen to, Manager Tools, and so Mark Horseman calls it the Christmas tree, the Horseman Christmas tree rule, which basically is anytime there’s something that you don’t do that often, usually you’re not very good at it. Right, right. Love that. Well, we’re going to have to unpack more of this in some future and further conversations because I think you have shared some tremendous nuggets here today. We can deep dive into any one of them. And I know we’ve got some more pipeline here as well that we’re going to talk about.

So Keith, thank you so much for joining me today. Love what you’re sharing in this space. Love what you’re doing. We are going to continue to fight the good fight to say that we really do need to invest in what we’re doing with our managers if we’re going to move the dial. Thanks so much, Michelle. Appreciate you having me on. All right. Fantastic. Thanks for joining this episode of Nuggets with Sauce. I hope we fed your appetite for insights and information on how to improve your business. Be sure to like and subscribe so you never go hungry for more thought leadership.

Training Managers First

The Real Key to Engagement and Retention

When organizations attempt to improve performance, they often begin with frontline teams. But lasting change doesn’t begin there — it begins with the people leading them. Managers are the true force multipliers of engagement, culture, and results.

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The Conversation

We explored why leadership development too often comes late or inconsistently, and how untrained managers create cycles of stress, disengagement, and turnover. The discussion highlighted why companies frequently hire managers from outside rather than developing internal talent, the hidden costs of that approach, and the cultural impact of delayed training.

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The Insight

Managers are the keystone of every organization. When they’re trained, supported, and coached, teams perform better, engagement rises, and top talent stays. When they’re not, even strong employees burn out or leave. Development doesn’t have to be expensive, but it must be intentional.

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The Action

  • Invest early. Train managers before they lead people, not months after promotion.
  • Start with the basics. Coaching, feedback, delegation, and communication drive the biggest impact.
  • Watch the signals. High turnover, absenteeism, or performance issues often point to leadership gaps.
  • Build feedback loops. Regular one-on-ones and simple recognition go further than formal reviews.
  • Protect the pipeline. Strong managers create future leaders; neglecting them weakens the system.

Welcome to another episode of Nuggets with Sauce, the podcast dishing up 5 size insights you can sink your teeth into. Served for the saucy take on common leadership challenges by your host, Michelle Arts. Oh wow, I am so excited here on another episode of Nuggets with Sauce. I am thrilled to have with me today Keith Willis.

Keith, I have been looking forward to this conversation with you to share with our listeners and viewers for quite some time. The minute you and I connected, I was like, oh, this guy is so on the same page. He totally gets it. This is, I’m sure, going to be one of several conversations that you and I are going to share in the nuggets and sauce space. But we had to start somewhere. And today is that day, my friend.

So I’m very excited to have you here. As people who are following Nuggets with Sauce know, we do not use job titles here. So action and I know you’re you’re a really good guy about this because you did your homework, which I am loving.

I would just love for you to first and foremost, let our followers kind of get a little feel for what the heck is Keith Willis all about in the sense of You know, as I always like to put it, what fires you up? What’s getting you out of bed in the morning? How are you making the world a better place without using your job title?

Thanks, Michelle. So I’m really excited to be here. Thank you for having me. Really been looking forward to our conversation. Obviously, my name is Keith Willis. And one of the things I love to do is help people leverage their talents. Oftentimes, I think about some of the people I’ve had the opportunity to work with and where they are in their careers and really feel like that I’ve done a good job of helping them maximize their talent.

Now, obviously, the talent comes with it. They’ve already put in the hard work. They’ve done all of the right things. They just want somebody to give them a little bit of guidance, a little bit of a push and help them get to the next level.

That’s really what I help to help people do. That’s a process, you know, wherever you are in any organization, a lot of times people think that development of people just happens. You just have to have some type of yes. Stop right there, sir.

So yeah, so it is a process. There are steps that have to be taken to make sure that you get people where they want to be. So that’s really what gets me fired up. And it’s one of the reasons why I started my own company is to be able to help people leverage their talent and help other organizations leverage the talent that they have. It’s really interesting because when you look at Gallup data, it always talks about how low engagement is.

And over the years that hasn’t changed. Well, it changed a little bit during COVID. And I think that’s because people were really happy to have a job and companies let them work from home. Right, but that’s in the rear view mirror now, man. Oh, yeah. Well, you know, things have gone not so well lately, you know.

You pick up the newspaper anytime, literally a CEO is saying, hey, I want my people back in the office. Yeah, yeah. I want my people this. I want my people that. And by the way, I’m, you know, bitching and moaning about nobody wants to work, which I also don’t buy. We’re going to dig into that one, too. Absolutely. Just before we really dive into this one, just quickly, too, I always love to ask folks, do you have a recommended read, watch or listen that our thought leaders ought to know about?

So for me, it’s Break All the Rules by Marcus Buckingham. I found that that book fundamentally changed how I managed people. Now, I wish I could tell you that I read the book once and I got it, but it did take me some time. There was a process you were talking about. Yeah, exactly. Watch the video or read the book and be experts. Let’s face it, we all do it and you and I be out of a job. Exactly, exactly.

I had a sales representative that, so I spent most of my career in pharmaceuticals, and I was a district sales manager and I had a representative that we’d spent the day together, and she was really struggling. And so at the end of the day she looked at me and she said, I think I’m going to go home and cry.

She was being a little facetious because we had a really good relationship, but it did hit me in a particular way because I was thinking, it’s like, hmm, that’s never good. When you said she chose that and during the time I was reading break all the rules. And one of the focuses about break all the rules is focusing on what people do extremely well. And she was an extremely good sales representative.

she struggled with her product knowledge. And so the following day I asked her, I said, what is it that you do better than anybody? And she said, I help paint pictures and help doctors understand who they should write for. And so I told her that was what we were gonna focus on for the day. And so that was what we did.

We focused on that skillset. Now that doesn’t mean that I couldn’t focus on a product knowledge because when you’re in pharmaceutical industry, being able to provide the right knowledge is very important. Oh yeah.

You know, ultimately, the reality of it is she was never going to be somebody that was going to be at hundred percent or a plus a plus plus with product knowledge. Right. But if we got her to a C, then she was going to be okay. And we were able to get her focused on what she did extremely well. And she ended the year over a hundred percent.

And so that was the first lesson around focusing on what people do well can give you the types of results that you’re looking for in great performance. Yeah, because I think as often as not and it makes sense because we’re kind of wired this way, I think. But, you know, we focus a lot on what people aren’t.

Sometimes more than what they are, you know, and it’s like oh here’s the 52 things you did wrong. And you know here’s all the not to do is and you know we see some time with like you know if anybody’s bothering to do performance reviews performance coaching performance anything which by the whole other subject for conversation.

around who’s not even doing that. But I think there’s so much focus on the kind of the you’re not this, you’re not that, it’s not enough. And instead of to your point, you know, flip that on its head, break those rules and say, look, what are we doing in this space? What are you getting right? Where are you wonderful and shiny?

How do we bring more of that to the forefront as opposed to pounding on people about All the things are never going to be. And it’s both that self-realization, right? Like I know I’ve been going through some realizations of my own in the last little bit about I don’t want to, you know, I’m lucky because, you know, I’m my own boss and she’s pretty reasonable, mostly. But like, if I come to a realization, which I did, that I don’t really shine over here. I’m not going to beat myself up over it. I’m lucky.

And I get to say that maybe I don’t do that anymore. I’ll find somebody else. Which I love that story that you’re sharing, you know, like, how do you, from a leadership perspective, really recognize, and we all have that, we all have strengths and we all have things that we’re not so great at, so how do we help ourselves and others know what that is?

Like, let’s get honest and recognize that, you know, like, believe me, you don’t want, you don’t want to come to me for anything to do with math or spreadsheets. Know your lane, know your strengths. And then how do we think about celebrating and leveraging those? And I love what you’re saying in the end, with that shift in your focus with her, she was kicking it out of the park, right? Sorry, that was a mixed sports metaphor.

I don’t know, you could kick it out of the park. Oh, you could. So you know what I mean. Love that. That’s that’s fantastic. Now, of course, we’re going to dive into I know you’ve got several nuggets that I hope we have time to unpack all today.

But if we don’t, we’ll just regroup and carry on further. But any thought to the kind of sauce that you’re bringing to the table today? Is there a particular kind of sauciness that goes with what you want to Are we getting it?

Are we sweet and sour? Where are we at? It’s interesting when we get into the topic of management training. Large or small, companies need to spend more money. on manager training in fact let’s say we’re going for hot sauce here because this is a hot topic and i don’t know about you but i get hot under the collar thinking about how we’re not and as you and i were saying before before we really started this off you said spend more money and what did i say just spend some money any money Well, I know some companies spend money only because I help stand up leadership development in a few places.

Getting hired in a few spots. How many are missing the mark. Yeah, exactly. So it is interesting because there’s a market difference in organizations that spend money and time and management development versus those that don’t. And it’s large and small. So it’s not just companies that on a shoestring budget, you know, maybe have 50 people that don’t have a lot of money.

And, in fact, the matter is you can do training without money. If you do coaching and feedback, but a lot of companies don’t even do that. So, if you have a limited budget. Yeah. Do you do you train the Salesforce. or your everybody or do you do your managers? I always say your managers first because if you have a good management team everything gets pushed down from there.

I was gonna say that’s gotta be okay let’s just pause for a moment here let’s just savor that nugget right there for just a second because I think you know there’s probably some people listening to this who would be like wait what What do you mean? I mean, if you’re on a tight budget, you’ve got limited scope to get anything done, well, then of course, wouldn’t I go after, like, train my salespeople?

Because if I’ve got well-trained salespeople, then, you know, they’re going to sell more stuff. But I love what you’re saying in this space of, you know, it’s like, get the managers and the leaders, you know, and again, as folks here know, I use them interchangeably because they should be both. But I love that what you said that no, no, you start by getting your managers right. This is like, okay. And again, follow the mind lead. This is like parenting. Put your marriage before and it sounds counter internal.

What do you mean? I don’t put my children first. Listen, if you don’t have a foundation in your relationship with your, your parent partner, Who cares? Everything else falls off the rails, right? Is that, am I hearing that right? Like that’s what we translated in this space of thinking about this in terms of, it doesn’t sound like what a lot of people would do in business, but I think you’re onto something very critical there. If you get your managers right, and you mentioned Gallup, a couple of minutes ago. And what does Gallup research tell us? I think they know a thing or two, and they’re pretty sure.

No, absolutely. You know, 70 percent, 70 percent of a person’s variance in performance is tied to the person who is their manager. So the difference between being an A and an F is on the boss. Pretty significant. That is why Mr. Keith Willis is right when he shares here today on Nuggets with Sauce that you start with, if you have no other way to spend the money on learning and development, you start with your managers. Love that. Tell us more. Yeah, because, you know, here’s the thing when you start with your managers, whatever you’re doing, ultimately, they’re the ones that have responsibility for coaching, Feedback, even delegation, delegation is one of the best development tools that money can buy, because all the managers doing is pushing portion of their job down to the direct report, they’re involved, they’re helping to develop that person. put them in a position to be able to take on more responsibility within the organization. So everything the manager does is so important. And you’ve heard that saying the most important relationship that somebody has in an organization is with their manager.

So it would make sense to spend more money on training managers versus not. And here’s the thing that’s very interesting. So organizations struggle with, do I hire somebody from outside of the company? Because they make an assumption that that person has management skills that they picked up from somebody else. See, we didn’t do any management anything here. So I’m hoping if I get somebody off the street, they come pre program with management, right? I just got offload that.

This is headed. I see. Yeah. And then they don’t fit culturally sometimes. Right, right. No, I mean, oh my God, there’s so many nuggets in this basket right now. I mean, if I can step back for just a sec, the delegating thing is a very interesting point that you raised too, because what’s the opposite of the manager who’s good at delegating? Usually a micromanager. A micromanager. And how much do we love our micromanagers? Not at all, right? And how exhausting to be that micromanager. Because to me, you tell me that to me that’s like now I lack trust. I either don’t, I don’t trust this person to take this on. I haven’t developed them enough to take, which is why I don’t trust them.

Like I haven’t set my people up for success for me to hand something over. That’s a heck of a workload. Yeah and some of it is because some managers they only know what they did when they were in that previous role so they continue those behaviors. Wait you mean what I used to do before I became a manager isn’t going to make me a great manager? Absolutely not. Yeah you know rocking a spreadsheet doesn’t make somebody manager.

Right you’re no longer an individual contributor. Right but they never get that mindset again because you know nobody has Step aside and said hey this is a very different role, you know you can literally what you used to do isn’t going to help you now and yet we haven’t given we haven’t put any I like to call tools in the toolbox these poor managers nobody puts tools in their toolbox. to to say or maybe they get one like oh now i’m at you know i got a hammer so i’m looking for nothing but nails right the trend you see the trend because their manager is not coaching and giving them feedback sure well so is a great way to make managers say everything yeah let’s go over there who was a complete crank Yeah.

Like you’re saying, it rolls down, right? And we’re going to perpetuate these habits and these mistakes, right? If this is how we’ve always done it, I don’t know how else to do it. We are going to create, dare I say in a manner of speaking, generations of workers. And a generation of workers these days could be a tenure as short as 6 months. Yeah.

But it’s just going to keep Replicating, yeah? Oh, absolutely. Yeah, and expensive, like as you were saying too, you know, like the manager is the most, it’s the make or break role for most people, I think. And we also know that therefore who does somebody quit when they, you know, they’re not really quitting their job. They’re not really quitting the company. They’re quitting the manager. I mean, I myself have quit either the manager or the management at least 3 times in my career. You?

Yeah, I’ve been in organizations where the manager that you’re leaving, you know, because sometimes you’ve made a decision you’re going to leave and it may be 6 or 8 months later and I’ve said to myself, gee, I wish I was given this resignation to my old manager because that’s why I’m leaving.

Well, one of the best exit, if anybody’s doing exit interviews, but one of the best questions I ever ran across and I think it’s worth sharing in context of the, hey, am I going to quit my manager? The question to always be asked is, when did you first think about quitting or leaving and why? And how often might that trace to a manager or a leader or something that a manager or leader had a hand in or maybe lacked having a hand in that made for an environment that led to a decision? And as you said at the very beginning, this is all about talent.

Who can afford to lose good talent? And by the way, would you agree or disagree with me, Keith, that usually it is your better talent who tends to quit and leave and walk away from these managers that don’t know what they’re doing? Oh, yeah. So here’s something that’s interesting. I tell people one way to figure out how your management’s doing is short-term disability.

I didn’t realize that short-term disability was a thing, but I would talk to people that were top performers. And they go out on short-term disability and they’d be sick. I remember somebody that I brought into the home office of the trainer and we were having a conversation and I’d left the company by then they would complain about these headaches that they would get.

They would get these headaches and they were going to the doctor trying to figure out what was going on. So finally they put two and two together, it was their job. Now in this case I don’t think they went on short term disability, but they ended up leaving the organization, and guess what, the headaches went away. in another person. Surprise, surprise.

They were having issues back and forth to the doctor, stress-related went on, short-term disability. Shortly thereafter when they came back, left the organization, all of the health problems went away. And that was when I realized that short-term disability could be a marker. That’s not to say that at times that people don’t really have an illness because they do. But there are other times that when people are on short-term disability, it’s because the job is literally making them sick.

Right. And maybe if they don’t get quite as far, quite as severe as actually needing to take that disability leave, take a look at your sick days, take a look at what it’s cost and, and, Let’s go one step further. Let’s be detectives and let’s also dig in and pay a little bit of attention. Are there any patterns around?

There seem to be a lot of sick days or, you know, short-term disabilities. Is there a pattern in terms of like, wow, we have a lot of sick days over in this department? Or we have twice as many call-outs in this team that we do in any way. Because that can also lead us to help us diagnose some of these things. the way, I think it’s pretty stressful on those managers and those leaders.

They don’t know what the hell they’re doing. It’s not really their fault. Sure, there’s the odd person who gets up in the morning, but I think most of them are like, it’s kind of not their fault. Back to our point of are you training you know are you spending any money and training these people are you helping them know how to do the job so they don’t literally. I can really relate. I remember being in a situation where I was getting ill from stress from work. I understand.

Oh yeah, I had it. I had that I had a job where I told my wife if I don’t leave this company is this job is going to kill me. Yeah. And you know and these days when there’s so much chatter out there around you know and and rightfully so a lot of concern around, you know, mental health. in the workspace. You know, the whole thing about burnout, burnout’s been a big topic, you know, people are very, you know, anxiety ridden, they feel that they’re very stressed, it’s very hard, you know, and we go back to what you said earlier. So where’s the engagement?

We have crappy low engagement in part because of these kind, you know, these are all tied together. It’s a good thing you worked in pharma and healthcare, because I can see literally the connectivity all over the place, right? Like these things don’t happen in a vacuum, do they?

You know, here’s the thing that’s interesting too, cause pharma does probably more training than most industries. Most managers go through some type of management training. I will say that in some cases it’s delayed. Manager may be a manager for 6 months before they go to training. So sometimes that can be difficult. I’ve seen- Keep that in the pool before asking if you like swimming events, but- Yeah. At least they eventually get it sooner or later in life. Yeah.

Yeah. But by then, sometimes the damage is done, you know, or leadership development stays open. You know, no one feels that position after someone gets promoted, maybe after, you know, maybe it takes a year, year and a half. I mean, and so what does that say for the managers? Right. How important development is? And what does that say for people? And that’s another nugget I know you and I have talked about before too and we’re very much on the same page is it’s okay it’s one thing to just have the base let’s basically train these people like let’s make sure that as I like to say put tools in their toolboxes.

But then the other piece about that is it’s not good okay just you’re not just again going to throw the book at them or whatever and say okay now we’ve given you Some tools in your toolbox. Okay, but there’s a lot of different things you could do with that. So, so let’s talk a little bit because I know this is another passion point for you around, you know, and we’ve just touched on it, but let’s dig further.

The development aspect of like, it’s not enough to just, okay, I trained you, I checked the box, you know, congratulations, you’re trained. We kind of think about each individual and those people who are in those responsible leadership spaces and how do we hone in and develop them further? What are your thoughts around that, Keith? Yeah, so I think it’s a key piece. I think that managers have to have conversations with their people on a regular basis.

Obviously, if you’re doing one-on-ones, you have check-ins throughout the year, you have mid-years, and sometimes you just need to sit down and have a conversation about where somebody is, what their aspirations are, where they want to go in their career. Figure out, are there some areas that you know they’re very strong in that they can leverage and develop or there’s some areas that maybe their weekend that they have some strengths that they can work around, you know, and cry. No, really, like it could be down to something like what where do you Yeah.

What do you hate? What could I maybe do more to give you what you love and less of what you hate? I mean, it really could be I mean, I’m not saying we would couch it in this. Like what would make somebody go home and cry at the end of the day? Yeah, because maybe they don’t like what they’re doing, or maybe the projects that you have them on, they struggle with, maybe, you know, and so it’s having conversations about, you know, what’s the perfect day at work for you? What does that look like? What a great question.

What would a perfect day at work look like for you? And you know what I’m willing to bet to, in spite of all the chatter out there about people don’t want to work, I bet most people wouldn’t answer, I just want to be sitting on a beach with a glass in my hand. I mean, okay. We know, but let’s get down to brass tacks of really like, okay, if we can’t give you that, you got to get your butt in the door over here.

I think that’s an excellent question people should be asking. And dare I say maybe the managers themselves should also be self-evaluating that. and saying, what does my ideal workday look like? Well, the manager should be asking them the same question. I mean, ultimately, the manager gets poured on all the time. I mean, in some ways, if you think about it, everybody complains about them. They’re the girl between between senior management and their teams. So, you know, the expectation is that they’re going to do everything.

It used to be that there was a lot more support. Now the manager has to do that. Imagine doing a staff meeting, you do all the setup, you do this, you do that, you do the other. You’re trying to run interference for your people. So the responsibility can be a lot. And it’s one of the reasons why when you talk to people that look at their managers, oftentimes they say, I don’t think I want to sign up for that.

I saw something about recently where there’s a new trend and there’s a trending indicator right now that says there’s a lot of people who simply they see promotion as punishment because it has been punishment for so long because nugget number one we’re back to nobody spending the time and the time to train the manager so why would I want to step into a thankless task where nobody’s going to help me exactly exactly I’ll just stay over here quietly And if you think about it, management training should happen before somebody becomes a manager. yeah.

Oh, see, this is why I still love these conversations. We are definitely simpatico around that. Yeah, like, you don’t throw somebody in the deep end of the pool and then say, do you like water? Which is what we do with most managers, right? I really feel, and I’m sure you feel the same way, it’s also a great opportunity to let somebody self-select out. You don’t have to tell them they’re necessarily not management material.

You also get the opportunity, because what do people think when they’re going, I want to be a manager? I remember working in a place where like, oh, you know, manager was like this magic word. Everybody wanted to be a manager and nobody really stopped. And why was that? What was it about being manager? Which I think is, you know, a good question to ask. Why do you want to be a manager?

What do you think that means? and yeah people like the perks you know i think there’s perception there were a lot of perks and things and hey you know maybe get a parking space get a cool office it’s interesting now because you know a lot of the things that were considered perks are gone now offices are gone you’re an open space um some maybe it’s just money the money and the power Maybe. Maybe. Maybe. In some cases, if you’re in sales, sometimes the reps are making more than a manager. Well, what a perfect way to ruin your best salesperson is to turn them into a manager when that’s not what they want.

Because actually, yeah, I’m sure for a lot of them where it really hurts them is all of a sudden all those commissions or all those bonuses or those extra things that were tied to their sales performance. That’s gone. Yeah. And then imagine, so their team is responsible for their bonus. So is it a wonder that you have hero sales managers? I’m going to save every deal. Yeah. So they don’t know how to coach and give feedback. Which is back to, we’re not going to delegate anything.

So I’ve got to do ten jobs and become a Probably a rather unlikable human being in the process because they’re so maniacal about, you know, they’re not allowed to make mistakes. They’re not allowed to fall flat. They’re supposed to be all and know all and it’s impossible. I mean, it’s hard. Yeah. You know, so I love the idea as well in the space of like get them before you give them the title, you know?

I mean, think about it. Like if we were talking doctors, like, you know, and again, you’ve worked in the medical professionals, but it’s like, would this fly if we said, you know, okay, that’s wonderful. You want to be a surgeon and I’m all for that. So I’ll tell you what, start being a surgeon now. We’ll figure it out as we go.

Go ahead and start doing surgery and let’s see what you got. And I’m sure you’re fine. And then if you need a little touch up around the edges, we’ll figure something out for you. Yeah, we’d be in trouble.

So it’s interesting, because even in the military, becoming an officer, you go through a lot of training. Because I did 4 years of ROTC. A lot of what I learned in ROTC I used as an officer. And then you go to your officer basic course, which is 6 months. So before you get to your first duty station, you’ve already had 6 months of training.

That’s a lot of training and I’m sure it’s very intensive too. Yeah, it’s just like an extra semester of college. But for all the right reasons. Well, it’s masters level stuff. I mean, I will say that there were people that were in class that were going to get their masters for some of the work that we did. They got credit and we had to build, we did a whole marketing thing around shoeboxes. military dollars that you didn’t know were being spent, but I’m sure it was for a good reason.

But again, it’s like, hey, we’ve got to build out these skill sets. We’ve got to put these tools in the toolboxes because there is that spin that comes down from that that says the better prepared our top leaders are to be leaders, the better they prepare the managers who, as you said, these are people who are tasked with, they’re the keystone. It’s like when you have an arch, the keystone is the one stone in the middle that if you don’t put that stone in place, the arch falls apart. Yeah. Exactly.

They’re beholden to executive level, whatever your organization is. The people at the top are pushing this stuff down on the managers to say, push this down on your people while there’s pressure building from the bottom up. They are squeezed in the middle.

Yeah. If you don’t get those folks right, I don’t care what great ideas you’ve got up in the corner office or wherever you’re sitting, It’s never going to fly unless you have your managers well oiled, well prepared, well versed to be able to translate that and get their teams to execute on it. So yeah, so at the end of the day, I think it’s not only more training for managers, it just means more time spent with managers preparing them, even things like change management.

Oh, yeah. Yeah, you know, think about all the changes that go on in an organization and how unprepared managers are oftentimes to implement those changes. Don’t know how to do that decision making is tough like how do we get some better faster more informed decisions. They can often you know stall out there, even just like being able to know how to you know engage motivate and show appreciation.

I mean, a lot of managers, I’m sure, don’t even recognize it. Like, actually, people do want to be thanked. They do want to be noticed, you know? Like, shocking, I know. It’s not always the heavy duty stuff, you know? It can be the little things that add up that, you know, how many people go in every day and just go like, man, I don’t feel like anybody notices what I’m doing around here. Nobody cares. My boss doesn’t care.

Yeah, now you know why people want to work virtually. Right, right. Or again, it’s not that they don’t want to work, it’s that they don’t want to work in environments where leaders aren’t really leading, managers aren’t really managing, and they’re not, you know, it all rolls downhill, you know? Exactly. You make an interesting point because when you go into an organization that has a very, very vibrant culture, you can tell there’s an energy about the place, there’s a feeling about, wow, this looks like some place that people want to be. And places that don’t, it’s the same feeling.

You can tell when it’s a place that people don’t want to be. So it goes both ways. Stronger leadership makes it an exciting place to work. Right. Or pockets therein, like maybe the overall stuff is kind of okay. But we have all seen situations like this too, where like, hmm, things are very different over in that part of the building, you know, like that. that team or that department in one of 2 flavors. It’s either like everybody would love, like look what they’re doing over there in the IT environment.

Like there is some magic going on in this IT group. Take a look at who’s leading that. Who’s managing that? Who’s leading that? Because those subcultures within organizations are usually very correlated as well. Well, yeah. And the talent magnets. Yeah, they are. And then some people are like, what’s the anti-repellers? You know, like, look at your turnover. Does your turnover occur in certain departments or certain roles or certain areas of the organization? That’s got to be tied back to people are going to quit their managers. People are, you know, there’s going to be quit rates that may be higher. It’s not going to be evenly distributed across the organization. Oh yeah, big indicator. Yeah, I mean, you got to watch for that kind of stuff.

And again, you know, I always say like we measure what matters. Why aren’t we looking at this stuff and measuring some of this in our organizations and saying like, It’s back to what you said at the beginning, this is about talent and we’ve got to as leaders and organizations think a lot more about the data around our talent and start looking for patterns and trends and measures that will help us. figure out, and again, if you’re on those tight budgets around your learning and development, okay, then where are you going to get your best result?

You’re not going to know that if you’re not paying attention to the numbers. What’s going on with your talent? Yeah, and I wonder how many people look at those numbers. I mean I know everybody looks at engagement scores. If you do engagement, if you do anything around engagement. Yeah, but it’s all of the data points it’s a turnover disability it’s. There’s a list of things to be looked at, and is there a story around it? Do you have a lot of HR issues?

Do you have a lot of people on performance plans? When you get to performance reviews, is it a bell curve? Is everybody slanted to the right? because the lack of our inability to give candid feedback about where people really are, are things overinflated or are they underinflated where maybe too many people are on the low end? Yeah. Where are there fires that you keep having to put out or somebody in your organization, HR is putting out fires? Or where do you need to light a fire? So to speak. You know, it’s like, it’s one of those indicators, right?

There’s either too much of something going on that we don’t want. Let’s watch for that. Or there’s not enough of something happening over here. Like, where are you guys? Yeah, because all turnover is not bad. No, that’s very true. But turnover for all the wrong reason. When your top talent is finding the exit, That’s a problem. That’s a problem. And if the first, again, if the answer to the question is when did you first start thinking about leaving and why, and it somehow comes back to something that that person’s manager could have been doing differently or better, we want to pay attention to that. That was an avoidable reason for an exit.

Absolutely. And then you’re back to square one where you’re going back and more talent and, you know, the hiring process, and have you trained your managers to do recruiting and selection? Oh, wait, what? Yeah, when you think of that full life cycle, that’s going to have to be a whole other conversation.

That’s going to be a fabulous one, because there is a lot to be said for when you think of your full life cycle of an employee, right away, one of the things you’ve got to be asking yourself is does a hiring manager even know how to get the right talent in the door in the first place?

Yeah, so there’s a podcast I listen to, Manager Tools, and so Mark Horseman calls it the Christmas tree, the Horseman Christmas tree rule, which basically is anytime there’s something that you don’t do that often, usually you’re not very good at it. Right, right. Love that. Well, we’re going to have to unpack more of this in some future and further conversations because I think you have shared some tremendous nuggets here today. We can deep dive into any one of them. And I know we’ve got some more pipeline here as well that we’re going to talk about.

So Keith, thank you so much for joining me today. Love what you’re sharing in this space. Love what you’re doing. We are going to continue to fight the good fight to say that we really do need to invest in what we’re doing with our managers if we’re going to move the dial. Thanks so much, Michelle. Appreciate you having me on. All right. Fantastic. Thanks for joining this episode of Nuggets with Sauce. I hope we fed your appetite for insights and information on how to improve your business. Be sure to like and subscribe so you never go hungry for more thought leadership.

Never Look for a Job Again

Building a Career That Moves with You

Career growth comes from clarity, not chance. The professionals who stay ready never need to start over — they keep moving forward.

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We discussed how ageism, career transitions, and workplace change inspired my work on Never Look for a Job Again. We talked about knowing yourself, building sponsors, and planning a career that grows with you instead of against you.

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Ownership begins with self-awareness. When you understand your strengths, plan, and connect beyond your comfort zone, you create opportunities that fit who you’re becoming.

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  • Know yourself. Identify what energizes you and what doesn’t.
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Ready to drive your career, not just ride along? You’re in the right place. Welcome to the Power of Owning Your Career podcast. I’m Simone E. Morris, your host and career strategist, here to give you the roadmap. Each week, we’re cutting through the noise with strategies, stories, and insights to get you back in control. Your career clarity starts right here.

Welcome to this week’s episode of the Power of Owning Your Career podcast. Today we’re joined by Keith Willis, founder of Core Management Training. Keith helps pharmaceutical and life sciences companies turn managers into leaders who drive real results.

His journey took him from U.S. Army officer to award-winning roles at Johnson & Johnson, Pfizer, and Bristol-Myers Squibb. Now he’s building Never Look for a Job Again. I love that, Keith. Helping professionals create opportunities instead of waiting for them. Keith, welcome to the show. Thanks, Simone. Really happy to be here. Thanks for having me. Absolutely.

Absolutely. I always go to the place of when you were growing up, what did you want to be? I had no earthly idea. I wanted to be a teacher. Not that you asked me, but I wanted to be a teacher. You don’t know what you wanted to be when you were young? Yeah. Well, I think there were 2 things that I thought about. One was being a lawyer.

And the other one was being a journalist and when I got to college they had this thing called the journalism Qualifying exam and I couldn’t pass it because I couldn’t type I did all right on the grammar exam and then I decided that the I was a sociology major and I decided I was gonna major in sociology and as you know There aren’t any jobs in sociology You know, I didn’t want to be a social worker.

Unless you have a math, unless you listen, unless you have a master’s degree that psychology, sociology, you need extra higher education for those I’ve I have found. That’s right. Exactly. Yeah. Oh, my goodness. You’re making me think of when I was in high school and I took a typing class on my first semester, I got a D and then I was like a D. And so now I can type. I’m not using it, but I can type pretty fast.

That’s very interesting. So tell us what we didn’t hear in the bio. Tell us a little bit about your current work and what you’re currently doing. Yeah, so currently I own my own company. I’m an entrepreneur now and work with primarily pharmaceutical companies. That’s where I spent the majority of my career. It’s been an interesting transition.

Came in from vacation one day. My manager was trying to get a hold of me. I had interviews and a bunch of other things that were going on. And I remember thinking, hmm, this doesn’t sound good. And sure enough, it wasn’t. She let me know that my position was being eliminated. And so the good news was I had about a three month head start, give or take.

I believe this was in July and then my position was eliminated in October. So I did some interviewing and it was evident at that point in time that ageism is a thing. I was a little naive. I picked up on some things and I had interviewed for some other roles earlier, things like we roll up our sleeves and work here and, you know, those type of key buzzwords, I think went right over my head. And then I made the decision I was going to go out on my own. It always had entrepreneurial bug.

I did the sprint phone cards. I did. But listen, I know I remember sprint and I remember Amway, but we got these different generations going on. Yeah. Okay, go ahead. Yeah, so I did that. A little bit of real estate. And I remember telling my wife, I said, you know, I’ve always wanted to own my business and I needed to do it. you know if it didn’t work out I could always go back into the corporate world and so she gave me my heart blessing so 7 years later here I am there are times when I asked myself what were you thinking listen I’m ten years in and I completely understood I completely understand.

So I want to go back to something you said. I have 2 questions that come to mind for me, Keith. The first one is, tell our audience what ageism looks like from a career standpoint, because you said ageism is real.

So for those people who don’t know what it looks like from your perspective, what did you mean when you said that? Yeah, so there’s a point in time in your career where I won’t say you’re a liability, but there, there, there are 2 things that are going on. And as I’ve gotten older, it’s kind of you never change your you if you know what I mean. Me.

at my age now versus when I was 25, not much different other than the year smarter. At that point you can maximize the amount of dollars that you’re making. I can’t remember what the age is. It’s like from 40 to 60 something like that. And that means you’re on a higher end of the pay scale. Opportunities for promotion, those type of things don’t exist.

And people are looking at you as maybe you lost a step, maybe you don’t have the knowledge, maybe you’re not willing to change, embrace technology, those type of things. And so there’s a perception that even in certain roles, if you’re a director, depending on which organization that you’re working for, companies are smaller and leaner now. So people have to roll up their sleeves quote unquote, work, you know, back in the day, people used to have an admin have admin anymore.

Now, you know, you check your own email, you do your own copy. So all of those things play into that when you get to a certain age, no one’s going to tell you up front into your face that I’m not going to hire you because I think you’re too old. But the reality of it is, is that there are certain organizations, they won’t, they won’t hire you once you hit a certain age. In fact, there was a company I worked for, there was a joke, don’t get gray hair.

So don’t be, I would just tell people, don’t be naive. When you hit 50, don’t be surprised if you get a knock on the door. I remember when I went, when I was downsized, they sent out a list and it had everybody’s position. I can’t remember if it was birthdays or ages. An ideal behind it was for you to think that you weren’t being discriminated against because of your age.

The interesting thing, me and another guy, we were both around 50something and both of our positions had been eliminated and we were running training teams and the brands that we were supporting were multibillion dollar teams. And I remember my manager During an interview with the candidate that we were looking to bring in, she made a comment. Somebody asked, what was the vision because of these changes?

And she said, well, if our structure is the same as it is now, then we will have made a mistake. So in other words, they were bringing in one person to take both of our roles. And then the thought was, I think she was going to bring in senior managers who make less money, and so she could pay them less. And so the work wasn’t going to disappear, the responsibility wasn’t going to disappear.

It was a good way for them to clear payroll and pay people less money with the same amount of responsibility with both of them reporting into a director. So it was one of those things where it was, how did I miss that? I’ll tell people in certain roles in certain organizations, they will push you up through the organization And I’ll look at that role and say, hmm, that’s similar to other organizations that role is going to disappear in a couple of years.

And I, you know, I’ve worked with clients, and I’ll tell them, you need to be thinking about exit strategy, you need to be thinking about what’s going to be next or where you can go because at some point, They’re going to make a decision that your role is not needed anymore.

So it’s it’s an interesting dichotomy I think it happens to every generation because we all start out in the same place you know we’re young we’re vibrant we have all these different ideas about what we’re going to do. And then the reality sits, corporate will put you in a box and tell you, you can’t do this or you can’t do that. And then all of a sudden you’re stuck. So you have people that are fifties and sixties, which is pretty young. I meet a lot of people like me. They started their own businesses.

They’re involved in a lot of different things, activities and those types of things. And I would just say, looking back on my career, there are a lot of things I would have done differently. knowing what I know now so that’s the piece around ageism that people oftentimes are not aware of until it’s too late because all of a sudden you’re you’re forced and it can be a good thing I like to say my last company that we left each other yeah I don’t know if I would have ever left but I think it was God’s way of pushing me out of the nest and say look I have something else for you to do Yeah, I love that you share that change isn’t always a bad thing and that change can be an opportunity for a next career chapter.

Now, let me ask you, you mentioned, you said something, why didn’t I know this? And I wanted, bear with me for a minute. So this show is about being in the driver’s seat. And I can think of many moments in my career where I was in the passenger seat where, you know, I was, I’m not as focused and strategic and intentional about my career outcomes.

You made me think of that when you said, how did I miss that? I want you to think about, Keith, the passenger seat and the driver seat. and the driver seat. And so think about you being in the passenger seat and when did you realize that you were in the driver seat for your career? Can you think about the first moment that happened for you? It’s an interesting question because I think at times that we are in the driver’s seat and other times we’re in the passenger seat and that switch is easy to happen and you miss the signs.

I realized that I was in the driver’s seat. I transitioned from the military into pharmaceuticals. I was a top selling sales representative. In fact, that year I finished number 3 out of six hundred and forty sales representatives. And I had a chance to go into the home office and help with the training class.

And until you were going to be a facilitator helping out. And I remember one of my peers, we shared the territory that we were in. We split that territory in half. He had one part of the city. I had the other part of the city. And not only were we friends, but he was a mentor. And I remember him telling me, You need to take advantage of this opportunity when you go into the home office. You need to spend some time, you know, meet with people. And this was very foreign.

I mean, at this point, I’d been out of the military maybe two and a half, 3 years. So I didn’t understand the politics and the things that maybe you should do. And I remember sitting down with him and we were having a discussion around people that you might want to meet with. And so I took that opportunity to meet with a few people. And I remember one of the people I met with was a sales VP. And I remember after my meeting with her that she called the director of sales training and she said, I think Keith would be a good fit for sales training.

That led to a bunch of other things. At the time, I wasn’t looking to relocate to the New Jersey, Pennsylvania area. We were living in downriver Detroit. You know, my boss’s boss didn’t want to push me forward for opportunities, but because my wife is from Maryland, she agreed that if this opportunity was available that, you know, we could move because it’s 2 hours from here to Baltimore. So that was a lot better than Detroit to Baltimore, which was substantially a longer drive.

And so a lot of things happened from there. I went in, I was a sales training manager. I became a district manager. uh and then I left eventually that company went to another company as a director so that put me in the driver’s seat uh I had another I had another um manager he was actually 2 levels above me but he used to ask me when I went to this other company and he would say what do you want to do next and I had been there maybe a year I had I had no idea what I wanted to do next. And so I threw some ideas out to him.

I said, you know, here’s a role I would be interested in. And he said that I’m having dinner with that sales VP tonight. And it just so happened to be I was going out to California. This is the Western Business Unit and I was going to be going out to California to run a training class. So I had a conversation with that sales VP. I went out to California, ran the class, had a conversation with her about this role that was going to open up. And I remember I hadn’t been home for 24 hours and she called me and she said, make sure that you post for that position.

There were 3 of us. There were about 2 or 3 roles. We all interviewed for all of the roles. I remember one of the sales VPs that had a similar role told me, I wish I had known. I already have my person that I’m going to fill that role with. Because I had to figure out the politics of how to get to see him and everything.

He says, I’ll vouch for you for the position that you’re interviewing for. And I landed that position as a director. And it was a great position. But here again, it was, well, 2 things. My manager, who was a senior level, kept asking me, the lesson here is you need to tell people what you think you might want to do, even if you don’t, because they will help you explore those opportunities.

Obviously, you’ve got to do the work you’ve got to do good work people have to see you as a viable candidate somebody that’s worth promoting and all of those things and you got to do the networking and all of that stuff. But ultimately, when you put yourself out there that creates opportunities for you so those are 2 spaces where I realized that I was in control of my career. and then we were bought by another company and so for whatever reason you know like life things you know things are difficult those type of things I think I ended up over in the passenger seat because when I reflect upon my career I say to myself hmm I should have taken a right turn and part of it is is that You know, as you get older, you have children, you have family responsibilities on all of those.

And so we let those things stand in a way or we tell ourselves the reason we can’t move ahead or do something different is because family obligations and things like that. But, you know, when I look and I reflect upon people that I’ve worked with, I’ve seen people maybe make a right turn, maybe do something, maybe they took a lateral, but those things have. They’ve been able to push them up even further within and given them opportunities within their careers.

I mean, fact of the matter is, is that I started out as a sales rep with several folks that are that have been CEOs or are in senior management now. So those that gets back to this whole piece of you, you have to be purposeful. Uh, and, and you can’t, and I don’t, I won’t say lazy cause I don’t think that’s fair.

You can’t let life get in the way of you managing one of the most important things that we do. We spend close to a third of the time that we spend on this earth working. And so it’s something that we have to be a lot more diligent planning. We need to spend as much time as we spend planning vacations.

That’s the sort of time and effort we need to put into managing our careers. Yeah, so many good points there and it makes me think about opportunities that I said no to. And as I reflect back on it, you know, whether it was fear or family situations, there are game changing things that can crop up in your career that you need to be open to and innovative around, how can I make this work? How can I negotiate it? Because I think many times it was either yes or no.

There was no creating. What I know now as a coach and working with so many different people is that you can negotiate.

To your point, you talked about sponsorship when you talked about being ready and being open. to sharing what you desire in your career with others and then to have other people say, hey, I will vouch for you for me that sponsorship. So to really hone in on that as a tool for moving up in your career as well. Yeah, the sponsorship piece is, you know, and here again it was I had sponsors and upon reflection realized, oh, these are people that are their sponsors.

One of my managers, we started out in the same company the same day and they had been in pharmaceuticals a few years before I had been and we worked with the same company and eventually they left. So when my friend recommended me to the company, He this manager ended up being my boss’s boss. And so he had influence on the hiring decision. And then I followed him.

Well, he made a recommendation for the next company where I did leadership development, which got me in the door. And then he pulled me over to another company that he was at.

So I followed him probably about 3 or 4 different companies. And then this senior executive in this other company had a lot to do with me getting promoted.

So there has definitely been sponsorship. Or even when we went through a downsizing the first time, and they got rid of half of the sales VPs, and my VP was gone also, which technically meant I didn’t have a job. I never looked at it that way, because the senior VP of sales told me, I want you to go see so and so, who also was a sponsor. And, you know, said he’s, he’s got a role for you. So here again because of sponsorship, I ended up in a good position building relationships working with people and ironically the same person. in another company for the role. He was my boss’s boss.

He was the final interview. So here again, it’s all about relationships and people that you know, but credibility of the work. And I think when I reflect back, the miss for me was being more purposeful in cultivating that relationship because in that company there were opportunities where I probably could have risen higher and because of politics and other things I decided that I was going to leave and the last company I worked for probably from a cultural standpoint was not a match for me and I should have stayed where I was and probably would have gotten more opportunities if I had stayed and cultivated some of those relationships. Probably a lot of lessons from those turns that don’t work the way we intend them to work. Let me ask you, Keith, what is your formula for owning your career?

In other words, what are the key ingredients that one needs from your perspective to advance successfully in their careers? I think the number one thing is know thyself.

You know, I remember graduating from college and my father’s had a conversation with a friend of a friend of myself and he said, you know, to get ahead in the world, you need to be different.

And I remember him saying that being black is not being different. And I thought at the time I knew what he meant by that. And it’s been years later where I’ve had some time to ponder and think about that conversation. And here’s the reality.

We are each unique individuals when we’re born into this world. We all bring something that’s different. We all have different talents and gifts. Ironically, we spend our lifetime trying to fit in, do what everybody else does, and just be a part of the crowd.

You can’t stand out if you’re part of the crowd. And being different means being your most authentic self and being the unique you That there’s only one of you and there’s no point in trying to be somebody else because there’s only one of you and if you can do that to the best of the degree that you can do that, you’re going to be far more successful than if you don’t do that.

So I think that’s the number one. ingredient and that can be a lifetime you know figuring out who you are what makes you tick what you like those type of things and then i think the other part of that is set some goals uh you know sometimes you don’t hit the goals you you have and objectives and part of that is the long view what do i think i want to do what do i think i want to experience if I look back 20 or 30 years from now.

Oftentimes when I’m working with people that’s a question I’ll ask because it takes you out of the immediate role of, you know, the broader question is, is this next role going to help me get to ultimately where my destination is? And even if it’s not, maybe there are 3 or 4 roles that you’re interested in being. It’s like me being an entrepreneur. I thought it might be something I would be interested in, but I did a lot of different things and then I ended up there. And so it’s the same thing. If you think you want to be a sales VP. All right. So what’s the question? The question is, what are the experiences? What are the things that I need to do that will allow me to get there? And that changes your mindset because now all of a sudden you’re not necessarily looking for the next move that might look like the previous role that you were in. Yeah, it’s going to pay you some more money. But it may get in the way of you getting that promotion or making that opportunity because there are some other roles that you needed to get depth around, you know, experiences and those type of things.

So I think those 2 pieces are important. And then I think the last piece is around this networking and building a relationship and talking to people and letting people know what you think you might want to do or just having conversations with people. There was a guy that was on my team. We went to a conference and Keith Farazzi wrote a book. Yep, Never Eat Alone. One of my favorites. S

o he took that to heart and I had brought him into the organization as a contractor. And we had been at another company together and he had made a decision that he was not going to wait in line anymore.

And so I gave him opportunities. And there were a lot of people within the organization that they would fight him tooth and nail. I don’t remember what his role is now. I think he’s either executive director or something like that. So that was He worked for me in the last ten years, his career significantly accelerated. I think he was a senior manager at the time.

From that time period to up to now, because he made a decision, I wasn’t going to wait in line anymore. I’m going to meet with people that generally people don’t want to meet with, senior VPs, General managers folks that most people think I’m not going to be with them. I have nothing to share. I have nothing to offer building relationships with people building a network helped accelerate his career significantly.

So I think if people can focus in those 3 areas of know yourself Think about what your long-term goals, where you think you might want to land and then continually build your network. And Simone, one other quick point about that. Part of your network has to be broader than just your industry.

You know, if you go on LinkedIn, oftentimes you’re looking at the only people that you know or people that work at your company. get to know some people that aren’t in your company, get to know some people outside your industry, get to know some people that are entrepreneurs that do different things, are in different walks of life because that will, you know, 6 degrees of separation is how that saying goes.

The more people that you know and have relationships with, the more it’s going to serve you. Yeah, there was so much there. I had to start taking notes You know, you said so many good things so let’s go back to the first thing that you said about your know thyself and Be okay with being different really appreciating your unique identities. It made me think about how When you are your authentic or unique self sometimes the reception to that is not the best and so you get into that mindset that you need to change yourself. To assimilate or to fit in or to get better results because that unique you I mean.

Maybe in 20 20, the rules changed and there was more of a door opener for the unique you. But in general, and I have a lengthy body of experience, that can be challenging. So you really got me thinking.

And I’m glad that you said that, because own it. own it own own who you are and your authenticity even if there isn’t reception for who you are yet or perhaps you’re not in the right environment and you may need to move your environment so that the authentic you belongs or has a place there so i thought that was a really good point that you brought up A little bit more about that too, because I think part of it is that the reason people don’t want you to be your unique self is because oftentimes people are threatened and are jealous.

So part of it is the human condition of humans being humans. And part of it is you learning how to navigate through that. I’m listening to this book called The Unspoken. I think it’s Ella Fitzgerald. We’re doing a book club through the National Sales Network. And I think we have our first session today.

So she talks about this whole piece. And I reflected upon my career because there are times we try to fit in and try to be uh you know a part of the crowd the broader question is how do i be my unique self in a way to so and you’re not going to always be accepted but part of it is is that in some organizations you fit from a cultural standpoint depending on where you’re working some people are always going to push back you everybody’s just not going to like you this just that’s right just how it is to my tenyearold My tenyearold self didn’t know that either.

Everybody’s not going to like you or be your best friend. So, yeah. And then the other thing that you said, Keith, was knowing where you want to go. And I’m just reflecting. The show is not about my journey. Not this interview, but it’s a win-win. It’s a win-win. But I remember dreading people asking me, where do you want to be in 5 years?

I was like, oh, excuse me. I’m like, I don’t know. I didn’t know. I didn’t give my career. I’m going to have to put like R rated for this. My apologies, audience. I’m having such a good time with Keith. I’m forgetting myself. So my apologies here. But the point was that I didn’t know, and so I went along with what other people’s vision was for me. She would be good at that. She would be good.

And then I got to a place where I was like, I don’t know where I am. This is not what I want. So it’s really important and I love that you talked about setting the goals and I go to that 5year question. Y

ou have to have a clue what you want. Otherwise, you can get comfortable being in the passenger seat and moving along and then wind up at a place where you’re saying to yourself, I don’t know how I got here. Yeah, that’s so true. Got me amped up. But it’s life’s big question. What should I be doing with my life?

And everybody struggles with it. And I think there’s one question people can ask themselves is, if I didn’t know, what might that look like? Or what do I think I might be interested in? So it’s not that you don’t know that’s the issue. Go back to the networking part. It’s the beginning to have the conversations with people to do some level of exploration of what that might look like so that you can have a basis of understanding of what that might be and what those experiences might be.

And then you could try a little bit of this and a little bit of that. My whole thing is, if you don’t like it, go do something else. We just, we hang out and we wait too long before we make decisions. Yeah, our gut tells us it’s time for you to go find something else to do because you don’t fit in this culture you don’t fit in in this organization, but because of safety. We do what, you know, what is that? How does that saying go? The fear of loss is greater than the fear of gain. That’s what we divert to.

We know what we know. I’m thinking of Maslow’s hierarchy and that safety, you know, the importance of that. So talk to me, Keith, about the resources that really helped you to make those game-changing moves in your career? What was most helpful? What are some resources you can recommend to the audience? Yeah, so these are, so some of them are personal. So the first one, which is, and I actually tie these together.

So I was what they call a JMO, junior military officer, when I transitioned out of the military. So I went through a program called, through Cameron Brooks, who recruits junior military officers, and he had this book called PCS Corporate America. Uh, and so I learned the basis of interview questions, uh, everything you needed to know about interviewing skills and those things. So for me, that developmental program, understanding the business world, all of those things was key.

Uh, one of the guys that I worked with started his own company and he has a podcast called manager tools. He actually has 2, 2 podcasts, manager tools and career tools. So anything you need to know about managing your career. being a manager, I call it God’s gift to management, those podcasts are excellent.

So those are a couple of resources that I have used over the years. And then there’s a book, I believe it’s called The Long View by Brian Fettersaw. uh it’s a great book because it challenges your thought process about your career because we always well we oftentimes when we think about careers we’re really only thinking about the next role yeah not the next 253035 years what those experiences might look like so that book sets the stage for that um so i would say that those are some key pieces i think a piece that is important that we don’t embrace enough is your own personal self development.

When I talked about earlier knowing yourself that self development, what I found at least for me is that there’s a direct correlation between the amount of time that I spent working on me and being better and the type of results that I’ve gotten. Even as an entrepreneur, buckling down, studying, trying to learn stuff has gone a long way in making me more effective as an entrepreneur.

So there’s a cause and effect relationship with that and I would just encourage people to be lifelong learners. There’s more content and information available than ever. You don’t necessarily need to read all the time anymore. There’s Audible. There’s LinkedIn Learning. There’s tons of courses and things. There are podcasts. There’s chat GBT. Sit down and have great conversations. Spend some time there. It’ll provide a lot of information. So I would say that those are things that will help people be successful. Thank you. I have truly enjoyed our conversation, if you couldn’t tell. I may have to invite you back.

Yes. So, let’s begin to wrap up. Tell our audience how they can stay connected with you, Keith, if they’d like to do so. So yeah, so a couple of pieces if you want to interested in my corporate work core management training my website core management training.com I am also working on a resource is called never look for a job again. I created a about the domain. If you type in never look for a job again.

I put together a career development guide. It has a lot of different tools has questions and things for you to fill in to think about your career, so it’s a tool that I’ve used when coaching folks and folks have gotten great results so if people want to go out and look at that tool, I’m going to build a course off of that, take some of the lessons that I learned transitioning from the military and into corporate and some of the lessons all together in a piece that can be something that will be useful for people. So those will be the 2 spots, the landing page as well as CoreManagementTraining.com. Awesome. Awesome. Well, we’ll be sure to add that to the show notes as well. Keith Willis, it’s been a pleasure to have you on the Power of Owning Your Career podcast. I thank you so much.

Thanks a lot, Simone. Enjoyed being here. That’s it for today’s empowering episode. I’m Simone E. Morris and I want you to remember that you are indeed the architect of your career. Share this episode if it sparked something in you. Subscribe wherever you listen and find more resources at simonemorrisenterprises.org. Keep practicing career ownership and I’ll be right here with you next week for more transformation.

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Career Growth and Professional Development

Networking and Proactivity: Advancing in Pharma Sales

Breaking into or advancing within competitive industries requires more than a strong CV. Managers want people who can perform from day one, and professionals who wait for opportunities often get left behind.

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The Conversation

We explored how networking beyond your organization can open unexpected doors and why proactive professionals stand out when competition is tough. We also discussed what hiring managers really want: proven performance, clear value, and candidates who can tell their story with confidence.

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The Insight

Opportunities follow those who stay connected, continue to develop, and consistently demonstrate results. Networking and initiative are not extras. They are essentials in any fast-moving environment.

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The Action

  • Keep your network active before you need it.
  • Prepare 4–6 short stories that highlight wins, setbacks, and lessons learned.
  • Do not wait for someone to notice your potential. Start the conversation.
  • Engage in one-on-one conversations with decision-makers to inform your next steps.


Why do all the medical and pharmaceutical sales jobs require sales experience? And more importantly, how can you get around that? Or show up in the interview and be the one they choose?

Well, today’s guest is a consultant to those hiring managers. Yes, he works with top medical and pharmaceutical companies to train their managers how to hire people. So guess what?

He’s gonna share with us what they’re really looking for behind the scenes and how you can show up in the interview and really impress that hiring manager. If that interests you, you’ll love this show. Have you ever thought about one of those high-paying medical or pharmaceutical sales opportunities?

My name is Mike Hayes. I’ve been hired by some of the best companies. Hey, reach out to me on LinkedIn or go to my website, gethiredinmedicalsales.com.

So guys, I’m so excited today to have Keith Willis. Now, the amazing thing about Keith, he trains pharmaceutical sales reps in their divisions and helps their managers. So Keith has a world of information to share with us and can help us tremendously.

So Keith, welcome.

Thank you, Mike. Really glad to be here.

I hope I did your introduction justice.

Yeah, it was good.

Okay. Well, I can’t wait to peel back the curtain because we’re all trying to get into the pharmaceutical companies, and now you’re actually helping their teams be successful. But before we go into all that, you’ve had a great career in sales and now in your consulting role.

But I want to ask you a question. If you go back to your younger self as a rep, what would you do today to advance your career?

Well, that’s a good question, Mike. What I would have done more of would have been to network. It’s a word that we throw around and we all think that we know what that means.

A lot of us are on LinkedIn. We’ve got a network of people, people that we talk to on a regular basis. But I mean, beyond that, I think it’s not just the companies that you work at knowing people there.

It’s knowing people within the industry, being more involved in just organizations, even outside of the industry, to have a broader bandwidth of people that you know, to create opportunities for you. Interesting enough, as a consultant, you begin to understand the value of your network and people that you think are going to help you don’t necessarily help you. And people that you don’t think are going to help you oftentimes just end up being the one that help you.

And being an observer, looking from the outside in for people that are trying to get into the industry or in the industry and looking for jobs, you know, with so many different downsizing and companies, restructure, this seems to be, I won’t say a game, but at some point, if you’re in the pharmaceutical industry, your number is going to come up, whether you’re new or you’ve been around for awhile, you’re going to get that proverbial call that says, I’m sorry, your job is no longer available. And being able to work that network and having people in a variety of different roles across a variety of different organizations will help you tremendously. And I think that, you know, looking back, I’ve had the chance to reflect upon my career, things that went extremely well, maybe things that didn’t, or ask the question, how could I have gotten to a higher level?

I think those are the things that I would have done more of. And not only that, I think, to be far more proactive. A lot of us are sitting and waiting for people to give us a hand up.

And ultimately, you’re the only one that can make your career happen. And you’re going to get a lot of pushback and know from people because people are often jealous. And so you have to take the initiative.

And I think a lot of people, including myself, sit back and wait for things to happen. Now, obviously, I didn’t get to some of the roles without asking questions and raising my hand. But you have to go beyond that, especially when you get to that middle tier and the competition is pretty stiff.

Maybe you’re working in the home office. There are a bunch of opportunities for you. You’ve got to go out.

You’ve got to set up the one on ones. You have to have some conversations about what you think you might want to do. I think one of the challenges we often have is we don’t know what we want to do when we grow up.

And there has to be that process of discovery. And I think once you do that, it’ll pay dividends for you.

Excellent. Wow. We’re off to a fast start.

You’ve given us two pearls right there. So networking, and it’s not always the people you think are going to help you, but somebody new you might meet. And then secondly, you talked about being proactive.

I think I grew up and we all love to think someone’s going to tap us on the shoulder and say, Mike, you’ve been discovered. You’re so wonderful. We’re going to move you to the corner office.

I’m still waiting for that phone call.

Yeah. Waiting for it to happen.

But more importantly, especially today, like you said, if you’re proactive, along with the networking, combine those, when you’re just generating more opportunities for yourself. So I always say finding a job, when I help people, every step of the way you’re selling yourself. It sounds like you just described the exact same thing, right?

It’s the networking, meeting new people, being proactive. I mean, that’s just the world we’re in.

It is, and I think the thing is that most people started looking for a job when they need to, and it has to be a search that’s constant. It’s not that you’re looking for the next opportunity, it’s that you have to be prepared, so those conversations have to be ongoing. You never know when the opportunity is going to strike.

It might be a great position at another company, it may be internally, it could be anything, or you get that proverbial pink slip. At that point, you’re behind the 8-ball and you’re trying to figure out, you know, how do I get into my next role? I’ve got bills to pay, I’ve got a family to take care of, and all of those things.

Yeah, that’s kind of the thing. Man, you’re like, then I wish I was really networking a lot more, but to your point, don’t wait till it’s too late.

Yeah, absolutely.

Now, also, Keith, since you’re dealing with hiring managers, here’s what I want to ask you, a tip to give us a tip, like, how can we impress a hiring manager? Let’s say someone’s listing to have an interview coming up, or they’re in the middle of an interview series, they know it’s competitive. You’re talking to these hiring managers, you’re working with their teams.

Is there a certain topic or need that they all, maybe they uniformly have that a rep could show up today and talk about that might help get their attention?

I think it’s two parts to this. A manager hires somebody, they’re looking for people that are going to perform one, day one. Whether you’re new to industry, you’ve been around for a while, having a consistent pattern of performance is what they’re looking for.

And they’re looking for people they don’t necessarily have to handhold. That being said, I don’t know that managers get as much interview training as we did back in the day. And so oftentimes they may not be as prepared to interview.

And even if they are, I think you as a individual, you have a story to tell. And so you have to have kind of your value prop. What am I selling?

What is it that I bring to the table? It’s not necessarily around about the people that you’re competing with. It really is about you.

There are a lot of different people that could do the job. But you as an individual are very, very unique and you bring a unique set of skills to the table. And thinking about and preparing and having your stories prepared to be able to tell beforehand.

What a lot of people do is they wait for their interview and they obviously expect some certain questions. But what you’re trying to do is sell what you’ve done in the past, those things that have resonated, those things that you know are significant accomplishments. And if you focus on doing that and telling your story, those will be the things that begin to differentiate you between other candidates.

That doesn’t necessarily mean that you’re always going to get that job. There are times where I’ve interviewed, I actually have somebody that they’re retired here in a couple of weeks that I brought into the industry. And I had an opportunity to bring them into another company that I was in.

And I didn’t at the time because the timing wasn’t right. I think at the time, I had, I don’t know, it was politics, you kind of know, you have a feeling that your job or something’s going on. So shortly thereafter, my position was eliminated.

So the long and short of it is I didn’t hire her. But because she had interviewed with another manager, that manager was impressed with her, eventually ended up hiring her maybe another six months later. So here again, you have your story, you have your value prop, what you’re about.

And there’s always a right role for you. There’s a right organization for you. You just need to figure what that organization is.

But ultimately what you have to do is you need to hone your story.

I like that. There’s a right role. There’s a right organization for you.

If we could just keep that in mind. So now, Keith, I want to go back. Let’s go back and talk about your journey.

Like take us back. You were a rep at one time, but now you’re now your consultant to the pharmaceutical company. So tell us how that all came about.

Yeah. So I started my career in the Army. I was a captain when I got out.

And so I went through this developmental program with an organization that recruited junior military officers out in the military. They would come to different posts. And at the time, I was overseas and entered into the program.

At the time, I think he took, I’m trying to remember if he said he took about 3% of the people that he interviewed. I just remember one of my first questions he asked was, why do you want to enter the world of profitability when you’ve been in the world of non-profitability? Oh, by the way, you’ve got a degree in sociology.

What am I going to do with you? That was my first interview question.

Whoa. Right out of the gate.

Right out of the gate. And that by far is the toughest interview I’ve ever had. But what that program did is it put me in a position to interview.

I had 11 different interviews over the course of two days at a career conference. I spent probably about 18 months in preparation. There was a book called PCS 2 Corporate America, gave in all the ins and outs of my role or position in corporate America.

One of the big things you used to talk about was the resume, how to build an effective resume. The other part of that was around the interview and the interview process. So one of the things that I always would stick out would be, most interview questions are a derivative of this.

Tell me about a significant accomplishment. Why is it significant and how did you accomplish it? So in any interview question, you’ll hear that.

So we always talk about the star format, but if you go back and you think about the question itself, those that have done some level of interview training, you’ll hear that. Now it may sound like, tell me about a time you had a challenge, why it was a challenge, how you solve the challenge. It’s the same question at the end of the day.

And then there’s other interview question that he had, that became one of my favorite interview questions was, tell me about a time you failed, why you failed, and what you learned from that failure. This thing would be, if you don’t have a failure, I won’t hire you, because this thought process is that in life, you’re going to do some things that are beyond your capabilities. And I want to see that you stretch yourself, and I want to see where you stretch yourself.

And so those are the type of people that I’m looking for to bring into the organization. And the other thing that he used to always talk about was the piece around your resume. He always said, you know, you need to have significant accomplishments.

Now, mind you, I was a lot younger then. So you’d have, you know, at the bottom of your resume, you’d have like your GPA. And so what he would say would be, we know this person’s a failure.

And he said, the reason we know they’re a failure is because in their resume, they have no significant accomplishments, but in their schooling, they’ve quantified their success with their GPA. So they already know intuitively that they should be quantifying their successes. And so it was an interesting spin, but it got me in a habit of if I look for a resume, I always looked for significant, significant accomplishments and could you quantify the successes that you had.

So between those two things and being able to interview effectively, I was fortunate to go through that program. And a lot of that information followed me in my career. Now, ironically, one of the guys that helped me, like you, I interviewed with Jane Jay during the conference.

I think it was at the Con Endo Surgery. I didn’t do well in the interview at all.

Well, I’ll just tell you, that’s a tough interview. I did not get that one either. That’s a tough back then.

It was. There were two of them. One guy was kind of sitting in the corner, so I didn’t make eye contact with them or anything.

But the one guy, Mark Horsman, had given me some feedback. Well, Mark went on and started his own podcast, Manager Tools and Career Tools. And I call it God’s Gift to Managers, because he’s got a whole interview series and everything.

And when I’m mentoring people, it’s one of the things that I’ll send them to. In fact, one of his podcasts is Your Resume Stinks. So I always send them that link to that podcast, because it’s very informative of what a good resume should look like.

So those are just some of the lessons. But that’s how I ended up in corporate America.

It sounds like baptism by fire.

I mean, I was fortunate in that when you think about it, when you graduate, and I know programs are, I perceive programs to be a lot more robust. I mean, I never went to the writing center or recruiting center when I was getting out of school back in the day. And I think a lot more services available now than there were then.

But ultimately, I mean, imagine getting an 18-month boot camp preparing you to be able to interview and go to a conference and meet with several companies and then follow up post-conference. I mean, that was a blessing in disguise. So while it was baptism by fire, it made sure that I was well prepared.

And I would gather if most people went through a program like that, they would be very, very successful in being able to interview. And that followed me throughout most of my career. I continued to use a lot of those techniques and skills in looking for and finding jobs.

So I was fortunate to have that experience.

Nice, nice. So what was your first job? First pharmaceutical job.

Yeah, so I was a sales rep with Seba Guygee. I was in Albuquerque, New Mexico. I covered the four corners.

People that cover that area, there’s the pass. You’re either coming from, I believe, the Texas side or the New Mexico side. You’re coming from one end or the other.

I think actually Oklahoma. But people always talk about going through the past. I did not have to go through the past, but Durango, Colorado.

I had Grants, Gallup, all of that area, Farmington, New Mexico. We were on a six-week rotation.

You say that’s a lot of geography.

Yeah, a lot of geography. I was newly married, no children at the time, so I guess it wasn’t that bad. My wife might say something different, especially when I would go out to Farmington, because Farmington and Durango were a week out.

You spend the first two or three days at Farmington, and then you drive up to Durango. And Durango had, I guess, what 300-inch snow base. I’m not a skier, but for people that love to ski, Durango is one of those places that folks love to go.

I also had Taos. Taos, Albuquerque, and Santa Fe were a part of my territory also.

I think the bottom line, as my last guest said, there can be a lot of windshield time in this job. Depending on your geography, I always got a kick out of the reps in New York, they have like one or two buildings on a corner.

Yeah. There’s pros and cons to them. You know, when I was a rep having windshield time, you know, that was a lot of development time.

You know, you have books on tapes and things like that. So I got into that early habit. And then as a district manager, I was fortunate because I was a district manager in Northeast.

So I probably had one of the smaller districts. So I think my furthest drive was probably two, two and a half hours. So I didn’t really have many overnights at all.

So relatively to other people in other parts of the country, as a manager, you can be on a plane all the time. And I even know that with more specialty product, there are reps that are on planes now because they have so much geography. So, you know, in some ways it’s, I don’t know, it’s relative to your experience.

Yes. So as a sales rep, can you remember some of those, maybe an early success story or when that you had kind of as a new pharmaceutical sales rep?

Oh, I guess I’ll tell two stories. I was a rep in Albuquerque. I, you know, we were selling a product, and you can’t do this now, but at the time, there were the estroderm patches that we had, and we had like these little bags or whatever, and we would put the sample into the bag and some of the brochures and information and everything.

And so the idea was to create an opportunity for the doctors to try. And so we got some lift off of that. And then another product that we launched.

We had a physician that you had to wait, I don’t know, forever to see him. And if you waited, there was a payoff. And at the time, there were three of us in this group.

And one of the representatives of our group waited. And so we ended up being the number one pod within our district. There were three pods in the district.

So we did extremely well as new reps. But that would be the one story. And then the second story is when I went over to J&J as a sales representative.

I took a territory that was ranked probably 500-something out of 640. Wow. And in fact, the last six months, I sold twice as much of the product as the previous rep, but was still ranked like 500-something out of 640.

But what that did is that set me up for the next year where I was ranked three of 640 reps, two of 72 in our region. So that helped out. I was still relatively new to sales, but a lot of things came together, and that launched me on my career, provided me with a lot of opportunities, promotions, and those types of things.

Let me ask you to pull back the curtain. You think day to day, what made you successful out there? Because there’s a lot of misinformation when people Google pharmaceutical sales reps or medical sales reps.

There’s a lot of confusion. There’s, of course, the image on LinkedIn where everybody’s winning President’s Club and it’s glamorous. And that’s fun too.

We like that, but kind of nuts and bolts. Do you remember some things you did to help you to be successful?

Yeah, actually, there’s a lot of stuff. So I had a little, they used to have these little red notebooks. And so I used to keep notes in that notebook, not notes like position calls, but closing techniques, Zig Ziglar, Tom Hopkins.

I did a lot of reading, listening to the tapes, and things like that. I tried different techniques. Brian Tracy, one of the things I would do to get myself to close is I would imagine I had a $20 bill.

So I sat down and thought about the value of each call, and that if I didn’t close, what that meant. And it was like taking a $20 bill and throwing it in a trash can. So that was revolting to me.

So I used that kind of imagery to make myself close. There was a book that I had read on body language. So I looked and paid attention to what people were doing.

I had a physician that would set up against the counter, his legs crossed, and his arms folded. And we’d have great conversations. And it wasn’t until I read that book and figured out that, oh, he’s closed off to anything that I’m saying.

And to be able to visually see him uncross his arms and uncross his legs gave me the insight to know that he was beginning to receive messages. Figuring out when a physician was lying, I remember one time physicians said to me, you know, your product’s doing great. And somehow or another, he had his hand covering his mouth.

And I looked at him, he looked at me, and he knew that I knew that he was lying. So we both started laughing. It was so hilarious that, you know, I focused on my top decile physicians.

Yeah.

I didn’t really focus on the bottom ones. That, and I’ve tried to quantify the value of the calls that I made. I went in, I looked at the calls, and, you know, would look for patterns.

You know, I did lunch, I did a program, I did this, I did that, and would look to see, you know, am I moving share with these physicians in that hit list. So there were a lot of different things that I did to really focus on really just moving sales, and a lot of blocking and tackling. Excuse me.

I just jump in, we throw around the word business acumen, but it sounds like that was a part of it where you’re, we talk about the 80-20 rule, right? That 80 percent of that business came from 20 percent of your customers, that those top decile, high-volume doctors, and it’s your job. We talk about this a lot in running a territory, you have to have a presence in all the offices, that’s your job.

Yet, you’re also paid to sell, and so you have to really be able to have move the needle in the big offices, that can actually make it the biggest impact on your territory. So as a business man, you have a business person, you’re quickly learning, okay, where is this business? And you have to dig and learn how to do that, because what’s so funny, I tell people, like, if you’re selling widgets, you go up to the guy who buys widgets at the manufacturing plant, and you’d say like, I want an appointment with a purchasing agent, and I understand you guys buy so many widgets, and okay, this is so different, you know, pharmaceutical sales.

First of all, we go in there, you know, we’re on their turf. They don’t actually need us to come in there. Our free samples was usually the ticket in, or we had new information about a product, and we tried to be a consultant, we tried to really add value, and all that’s really important.

But at the end of the day, you know, they’re not really telling you all the product that they’re using and how they’re using it, and the competition, it’s our job as the rep to kind of peel back that onion and learn and understand, you know, where the business is, and that just comes from when they hire you, when you’re going into interviews, to have some sense of business acumen. You don’t have to be a professional at the interview start level, but in time, they want you to grow in that.

Yeah, and I agree with that, Mike. I mean, ironically, I still remember after all of these years, you know, a lot of that detail, a lot of the things that I did. My route was tight.

I saw the same physicians consistently, especially those large decile doctors. At the time, you know, oftentimes there were multiple reps seeing doctors, and we were kind of army of one per se. There was just one of me, but the doctors would say, I see you so often, and I would reply and say, well, you know, my competitors have two or three reps, there’s just me.

And you negotiate and you sell to offices in just getting time, even with your difficult no-see physicians, figure out how to see them, let them know that you want to see them. And I think this is one of the things that’s consistent, is that ultimately you talked about value. And I was having a conversation, and somebody made the comment about reps being friends with physicians.

And it’s back in the day that may have been true, but after some of the new laws were passed, you didn’t have as much access. You might have good relationships, but they’re not your friends. And their time is more valuable than their money.

Because when you look, the fact of the matter is with 10,000 baby boomers retiring up until 2029, 2030, shortage of physicians, not only in the United States, but across the world, the number of specialty products, the number of reps that are even calling on oncology and specialty practices now is significantly more now than it was even 10, 15 years ago. So you’ve got to bring it every time you walk into the office. You’ve got to provide some level of value.

And so you’ve got to bring your aid gain.

Well, that’s all the time we have today. Thank you, Keith. Next week, we’ll get the conclusion or part two.

And in that, Keith’s going to offer a great job training guide for us as a free offer. So we can’t wait to get that. If you’d like some help, some coaching maybe on one aspect of your journey, or you’re just getting started and you’re interested in all of my seven steps to get hired in medical sales, reach out to me, send me a message on LinkedIn or go to my website, get hired in medical sales, and we’ll talk to everybody next week.

Career Growth and Professional Development

Career Growth: Influence, Resilience, and Mid-Career Momentum

As careers progress, the challenges change. Influence matters more than authority, setbacks become part of the process, and growth often comes from lateral moves as much as promotions.

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The Conversation

We explored the “influence formula” (credibility, reliability, relationships, and low self-orientation) and why these skills are essential in matrixed organizations. We also discussed how leaders can handle setbacks, why lateral moves build valuable skills, and how to keep learning instead of getting stuck in mid-career.

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The Insight

Career success in the middle years is less about chasing titles and more about building credibility, adaptability, and resilience. Leaders who expand their networks and stay open to new experiences build lasting momentum.

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The Action

  • Schedule regular one-on-ones with your manager, even if they do not initiate them. Visibility creates opportunity.
  • Strengthen influence by building trust and credibility well before you need it.
  • Treat setbacks as growth signals. Capture the lesson and move forward.
  • View lateral moves as chances to expand skills and perspective, not as detours.

Keith, welcome. Thanks for joining me. As one veteran to another, after Memorial Day, thank you for your service.

Thank you, J.R. Same to you.

It’s always a good reminder of the fact that a lot of people have given their lives for the freedoms that we enjoy in the United States. It’s more than just barbecues and a day off.

It is a day to commemorate a lot of the sacrifices that men and women have made in this country.

Let’s talk about you. Start with Core. Tell us a little bit about how you got started and what you do.

Core Management Training is a company I started. Like a lot of people, I was transitioned out of my role. I was surprised one day. I came in from vacation, and my boss wanted to speak to me. After thinking about things and doing some interviews and things like that, I didn’t realize that as you get older, there is this thing called ageism. I decided I was going to go out on my own. I always had an entrepreneurial streak. I did the Sprint phone cards, Amway, and some of those things.

I wanted to be able to help managers be more effective in their role. I helped stand up leadership development at one organization. One of the things that stood out is that managers get some training, and the pharmaceuticals do a pretty good job of training generally, but it’s not consistent. There are usually gaps. I felt like managers wanted practical tools, resources, and those types of things to help their teams perform at a higher level. I decided I was going to start Core Management Training. That’s what I’ve been doing for several years.

I would certainly agree with you that management training is something that most people don’t get. Most of what they get is either learned from the experience they have with their own bosses over the years or what they pick up on the job and learn the hard way. In many instances, most companies don’t do much at all in the way of managing training.

I would agree with you. I know you’ve worked mostly in the pharmaceutical industry. In general, that’s an industry that puts a lot of value on training employees, whether it’s about management or hard skills, or whatever. Most Industries are not nearly as good about that. You probably came from one of the better ones in the scheme of things.

I was fortunate that I got a lot of early training and participated in some good programs. That being said, a lot of times there are huge gaps in the industry as the industry has grown with downsizing and things like that. One of the first things that happens is that leadership development seems to disappear for long periods of time in major organizations.

More and more, there’s a need for outsourced L&D in most companies. Even bigger companies decide not to invest in it and have full-time staff on board. They may do a little bit, but then they go outside for more of it, and that creates opportunities for companies like you.

The interesting thing is that training in some cases is a developmental opportunity. You have a huge switch-over of people on a regular basis. Sometimes, a manager may even come in and do leadership development. They’re looking for the next assignment. In some cases, you have people who will stay for a while, but that creates a level of turnover, and then there are always opportunity costs. Where should I spend my time? I’m a tactician. I want to be somebody who focuses on strategy. That does create opportunities for me.

Who are your clients? What do you help them with?

Primarily life sciences, pharmaceutical companies, and companies that support pharmaceutical companies. I’ve done work outside of the industry, but because that’s where I spent many years of my career, it’s what I know very well. It could be anywhere from coaching and feedback, skill and competency modeling. I was at a workshop.

I don’t know if you’re familiar with the 14 Peaks documentary. I built a leadership workshop around that, around accountability and followership. Just practical skills. We’ve built case studies out of situations that were happening in managers’ areas where they struggled, so that the opportunity can be role-played and discussed through some of those challenges and issues. At the same time, there was some self-reflection on whether I am the type of leader that people want to follow.

Even when companies are doing training for managers, what do they miss that’s important?

I would say the pull-through. We have a tendency to think that we’re going to do a program, it’s one and done, and people are going to get the skills. I was fortunate that over my career, I worked in different organizations. There are these repetitive themes that go on. For example, things like emotional intelligence. You may pick up one or two things about emotional intelligence, or you can go through a coaching workshop. You learn some different methodologies.

If your manager doesn’t provide follow-up, feedback, or even walk you through in real-life situations when you’re having a challenge with one of the people on your team, and walk you through using that framework, a lot of what’s being trained is lost. It’s the ability to be able to translate what’s trained into real-life scenarios, and then be able to use that on a regular basis.

You suggested some topics for us, like influence when you’re not in charge, mid-career growth, and growth moments when you’re feeling a sense of setback. How did you pick those topics? That’s what we’re going to cover.

Part of it is, in some ways, it’s my path. It’s the path of many people who are in Corporate America. Even if you’re in charge, you’re still trying to influence people. There are people above you. There are people below. You can’t always wear the boss hat to get people to do things that need to be done. There has to be some level of influence. My life experience has been that the more you focus on developing those skills, the more effective you’re going to be as a leader, or even when you work within a matrix organization.

Everybody has setbacks, and they can look like their fatal, which can be difficult, and some of those transitions and growth. We’re always in a growth period, whether we know it or not. Even if you’re a new sales manager and you’ve just gotten this big promotion, it’s like a new sales rep. You’re starting all over again. There’s that constant cycle.

Understanding The Power Of Influence

Start with influence. I had a show guest who has a book out at the moment. In it, she relates a story of having to work on this big project and being stretched. Nobody worked for her. It was all an influence situation. At the end of it, her boss said to her, “You were effective. Spend the rest of your career acting like the people who work for you don’t work for you, and focus more on influence.”

It was a great example of how powerful influence can be. You talked a minute ago about matrix organizations. More and more, organizations’ structures are so bloody complicated that you are very often working with people who don’t work for you, and needing to get things from them, and work collaboratively with them. If you don’t have influence skills, it can get in your way.

I would agree with that. This is one of the things that I think about. There is this formula. I believe it’s by Charles Green, and it’s the influence formula. It talks about credibility plus reliability, plus intimacy, and divide that by self-orientation. If you think about the credibility of the skills and the knowledge that you bring to the table, that background is why you are hired and what your professional expertise is.

It’s how reliable you are. Do you do what you say you’re going to do? Can people rely upon you? You build a storyline within an organization around those elements of it. In most organizations, even in the military, everything is driven by relationships. The better your relationships are going to be, the more effective you’re going to be at getting things done. If you look at those three areas and if you have gaps in any of those three areas, you’re going to struggle in influence.

The last piece is self-orientation. The more focus that you have on self-orientation, the less you’re influence is going to be because it’s all about me versus it being about everybody else. I keep that in mind when I think about, from an influencer standpoint, how I can be better at that. That’s a good formula, whether you’re leading a team or you’re a part of a matrix team. Even when you’re leading a team, you end up on a project where it might be all your peers on the leadership team. You have to get something done or you’re running a meeting. You’re still using those skills on a regular basis.

When you do your training work on this topic, how do you shift people’s mindset from needing to be the boss and needing to be in control to being more focused on cultivating impact and giving up some of that self-orientation that you mentioned?

It’s a challenge because people get wrapped up in the pieces of the job. When you talk to managers, oftentimes, it’s more of, “Do what I tell you to do.” There’s this expectation of that. We know that doesn’t happen in life. I don’t know if you have children or not, but your kids don’t even do what you want them to. What would make you think that would happen at work?

You can get people aligned by looking at the impact and outcomes that they want to have, and start from there. Think about how you want people to see you. When you spend time in an organization, do you run a team where people are looking at you and saying, “I want to work for that person?” That’s influence when you look at it from that perspective.

You mentioned emotional intelligence earlier in the conversation. How does that play when you’re not the boss?

Emotional intelligence is a big tool. Data shows that people who are more emotionally in tune with others and their feelings, as well as how they impact other people, get more promotions and do better. I’m certified of to do emotional intelligence through TRACOM. I know there are a couple of other methodologies. Ultimately, they all say the same thing. The higher level of emotional intelligence, the more effective you’re going to be.

A lot of those skills can be learned. Some people have a more natural tendency around them, but you can be better at that. I like to think about it from this perspective. To be a good leader, you have to be a good follower. You have an opportunity to think about how I am showing up from an emotional intelligence standpoint when I’m following somebody. You don’t always agree with people on your team.

Sometimes, that person is your manager or your boss. How do you interact with them? That plays itself out when you get into a leadership role. You don’t just change overnight. You’re the same person who was in the previous role. When you’ve gotten promoted, hopefully, those skillsets are going to be things that you’re going to contribute and continue to use.

What mistakes do you see people make when they try to influence in the middle?

One is trying to be in charge. If you go back to the influence formula, have you established any level of credibility? Which makes you the expert? Are you the one who’s trying to bring everybody in on the team? How reliable are you? It’s thinking about it from that standpoint. People are such in a rush to figure out the outcome that they don’t think about what are the relationships that they have.

If you focus more on those things, as well as what you’re trying to get accomplished and making sure that all the voices are heard, from an influencer standpoint, you can be far more effective. Part of it is that the corporate sets it up this way. It’s this very competitive landscape where everybody is trying to get ahead. You spend so much time competing that you forget about what the mission is and what it is that we’re trying to get accomplished.

It comes back to that formula that you mentioned. People often get very transactional because they’re under pressure, they have to get something done, and they have a deadline. It becomes about them. Probably a little bit like networking, you’ve got to build influence when you don’t need the influence. If you build credibility, reliability, and intimacy when you’re not under the pressure of time, and if you build that habit of give and take that comes with being less self-oriented, you’re hitting all those different components of that equation when you don’t need it.

When you do, when you need it, and you’ve got to call in a favor, people know like, “I know this guy doesn’t come out and ask me for favors unless it’s important.” You build that relationship capital over the weeks, months, or years. When you do need those favors and there is an urgency to them, you can draw on them. If you don’t get in front of it, then trying to build influence when you have a deadline ticking is hard.

It is, and people miss that.

What do you do when you’re out there and you’re doing everything in the right way, but you still face resistance from people who don’t see your value? At best, they are apathetic. At worst, they are openly trying to get in the way of you getting your job done.

That’s part of the human condition. Everybody is not going to necessarily like you or see the value in what you do. At that point, it’s a good opportunity for you to ask for feedback. Sometimes, there are behaviors or things that you’re doing that you may not realize are taking away from your influence or from the value that people see. I also think, at times, it’s time for you to take a step back and think about where you are. We’ve all been in organizations where maybe we’re not a cultural fit. Maybe it’s not that you don’t bring value. It’s just that maybe people feel threatened by what you bring to the table.

How it shows up is the apathy and the unwillingness to help. It’s usually not a credibility issue because if you’ve been hired and somebody brought you into the organization, there was a reason they brought you into the organization. In some cases, it may not necessarily be a reliability issue. It might be that they just don’t like the way that you do things. In some organizations, we talk about innovation. I don’t know that everybody always believes in innovation. If you go to any marketing team or any sales team, there’s a tendency to do the same thing over and over again.

Part of it is because of their safety. There’s a lot less risk. As soon as somebody brings in something different, people are threatened by that. What do they do? They respond and react. I do think the last part of that is that you have to look at your relationships. Do you have advocates? Do you have people who can advocate for you, support your cause, and maybe do some of the heavy lifting for you when you’re trying to get something accomplished?

Influencing Your Bosses And Higher Ups

Do you feel like there’s anything that you need to do particularly differently when it comes to influencing your boss, their boss, or somebody in the senior leadership team of your company?

I do think there are very specific things that you can do. Not every manager does a one-on-one. In some organizations, that’s the culture. Everybody does one-on-one, but the reason you do want one-on-one is not necessarily to get an update, but it’s to build a professional relationship. Starting with your boss, your boss is the most important relationship that you have in any organization because they’re the ones who talk to their boss about you.

When I have coached people, the first question I’ll ask is, “Do you do one-on-ones with your boss?” Usually, that’s initiated by the manager who’s in charge, but some managers don’t do that. I’ll make the recommendation to reach out. You don’t necessarily need to call them one-on-one, but you get some time on your manager’s calendar. You do the same thing. You think about skip-level meetings that you can have what your managers, just so they know who you are and have an idea of what you’re doing.

Ultimately, you’ve got to build your own brand. No one is going to do it for you. Your manager has their own challenges and issues. They may have 30 minutes with you weekly, or you may work on some projects and things like that. No manager ever knows completely what you’re doing 100% of the time. That’s one of the challenges or one of the issues around when we talk about remote work. Your manager “can’t see you.” Even though in some cases, they’re in a meeting all day, there are those things that go along.

I do think that’s the number one thing is doing a one-on-one and getting visibility. The other thing is nighttime projects. We call them nighttime projects because they’re outside of your day job. Those are the things that get you exposure within the organization if you’re looking to climb the ladder and you want to get some exposure. Raise your hand for some projects, some initiatives, and things that will give you some visibility that can showcase your skills.

The last part of that is that you have to network within your organization. It can’t always necessarily be within the group that you work in. Expand your horizons. Talk to other people in the organization and get a better understanding of how the organization runs. It may even be as simple as thinking about, “Here are some things I think I might want to do. Let me do a little bit more discovery.” AI, for example, is the big rage. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that. Maybe there’s a new department that focuses on that.

Have a discussion with them. It’s not because you want to do that job, but to get some insights into how you can use AI more effectively in your role or in a unit that you’re working in. What does that look like? What’s coming down the pike? Those are things that somebody can do to build their network within the organization, not only with their manager, but with their boss’s boss and throughout the organization.

You made a couple of points that resonated as they related to bosses who don’t necessarily do one-on-ones. When you get yourself in one of those situations, you have to find a different way to stay close to your boss. As you said, they are the most important relationships for you in that company. They hold the keys to your future with the company, your growth, and employment. First and foremost, that rests with your boss. If you don’t feel like you were in a position of at least some influence with your boss, that’s not a great place to be.

If you can’t change the way that they’re viewing the relationship, then you’ve got to change the way that you view the relationship and manage the relationship. You’ve got to find ways to stay top of mind for them because if you don’t do that, then the risk you run is that you fall into a negative cycle with them. They don’t see the value you’re adding, and because you’re not there doing a little bit of self-promotion in your one-on-one, if you’re not having them, you’re not finding ways to convince them that you’re bringing value to the organization.

Some people get into those situations with bosses like that, and they give up. At that point, you are giving up because sooner or later, you’re going to get let go. Even if you’re doing a great job. If you’re doing a great job and it’s not visible and not recognized by your boss, the odds are that’s not going to work out well for you. There’s this adage of owning your career. I view that in the strategic sense. You’ve got to own it in the tactical sense. If your relationship with your manager is not working, something needs to change.

It’s interesting because my mentor for American Corporate Partners, we do help people from the military transition into corporate. One of the gentlemen has a different mentoring program, and he’s been working full-time jobs, so his manager did not do one-on-ones with him. He had some level of frustration about getting promoted. Part of the conversation was building in time where he had one-on-ones with his manager. He also began to go out with his manager, but also had conversations with his manager’s boss, and some other people he was interested in getting a better understanding of.

Ultimately, what he wanted to have happen is for him to get promoted. Now, he hasn’t been promoted yet, but he feels a lot better because he’s getting more opportunities, more people know him, and people have conversations about what succession planning might look like for him, and opportunities or experiences that he may want to get.

It has enabled him to take control of his career and, at the same time, to make some practical decisions. I’ve been at this organization for a while. It’s this organization that I want to stay with. Other people are now beginning to show interest, and it has helped him make a decision that he’s going to stay put. To your point around people taking control of their careers, it does start with keeping your manager in the loop with all the things that are going on, but at the same time, building that advocacy outside of your group.

Leading And Growing In Mid-Career

Let’s switch gears and talk about another one of your topics about how to lead and grow in the middle of your career. From your perspective, what does growth even look like for somebody who is mid-career but not quite in the C-suite?

Most people end up in middle management. Everybody can’t be in the C-suite. There’s only a small percentage of people who make it that far. A lot of managers make the mistake that once they get to a role, they think they’re finished, and that there’s no more growth and development. They may say, “I’ve been doing this role for the last 10-15 years.” You always have to focus on your growth and your development, whatever that’s going to be.

I think about the stage of life that I’m at now. A lot of my peers are retiring, but there’s a lot of gas in the tank that they’re allowing at the end, what you want to be able to do, whether it be starting your own business, doing non-profit, or whatever that is. Peter Drucker wrote an article about managing yourself. He talks about being prepared to do another career and focusing on that.

Even if somebody is in middle management, they can look and say, “What am I going to be doing in the next ten years or so?” It’s not too early to be thinking about, “That may look like something different. Are there some other things that I could start focusing on and developing on. Is there a dual track that can help me in my day job and help me transition to something else?” When you look at the amount of content information and things that are available, it’s hard to keep up just to be average in the current job that you’re doing. You always have to be developing yourself in some way.

How To Not Feel Stuck In Your Career

How do you counsel people who are contemplating a lateral move? Under what conditions does making a move from an organizational level perspective or from a corporate title perspective is a sideways move? When is that a good idea, and when is it a bad idea?

Most times, it can be a good idea. It depends on where you’re going. I’ll give you an example within pharma only because that’s the world I live in. Let’s say, as a sales representative, somebody goes in as a sales rep through sales training and a developmental position, and then they become a district manager. There’s a band of district manager positions. They call them promotions, but they’re not really promotions. Somebody who is an AD or associate director, for example, is still considered a district manager position.

In some cases, that might be an individual contributor role, which might be in reimbursement. You might go to market access, where you are doing negotiations and working with contracts. When you’re doing a lateral, while it may not necessarily be a real promotion, you’re building additional skills. When you get to the next level, let’s say you’re going to be a second-line leader, what they’re looking for is those people who have more touchpoints. They have a broader understanding of the business because they’ve been in roles that would be “considered” lateral.

Even if you think about the military, a captain may be a company commander, and then they become a staff officer. They have some staff assignments and do some other things. If they’re competing for somebody to become a battalion commander or even a brigade commander, they’re going to look at those touchpoints. Those folks who have a broader range of experience, even though they were theoretically lateral moves, have a broader level of experience. When we talk about looking at the business, whether it be the business of being in the military or the business of, whether it be corporate or pharmaceuticals, a broader understanding of the business grows and helps you from a lateral perspective.

I would go back to what you said at the very outset. I would agree that, in general, lateral moves have the potential to be good moves because you work in a different function or a different team. You’re seeing a different management style. You may be learning a new function that you haven’t worked in before. All of those things build your credibility and your readiness to move up closer to the C-suite. I think about my own career. There were times when there were jobs I thought were going to be great that didn’t turn out to be great. There were jobs I didn’t think were going to turn out to be great.

Things can turn better or worse with one or two people changes or situational changes in a team. You’d never completely know. You have to be open-minded about some of these lateral moves because they get pitched a lot. Somebody above is looking for you to potentially solve a hole that they’ve got. You’ve got to be able to open-minded about them. You also have to be a little bit stooped and not blind, and put blind trust in somebody else necessarily having your interest in mind, but you can learn so much from those situations.

Over the years, I worked in pretty much every function organizationally and did a little bit of enough things that I feel very comfortable across most functions in a lot of different business situations. It comes with the gray hair and what’s left of it. It also comes with the willingness to step into things that were outside my prior experience base, and to be committed to learn in those situations. If you do those things enough, career are long. You and I are roughly the same age, with gas still in the tank. You’re not working till you’re 55 or 57, like my father-in-law did. You’re working potentially well into your 60s, so you’ve got time.

You’ve got time to try some different things. You’ll look back when you get to be further in your career and say, “I’m glad I did all these different things because I learned so much in so many different places.” People feel like they need to climb step by step on that ladder, and there’s no going sideways. That’s a very narrow view.

The other part of that is that people move from organization to organization. Even when you take on roles that are similar to the previous role, sometimes they have more responsibility. I remember going from one role level-wise to another role, but the role that I went to, even though they theoretically had the same title, the role that I went to had more responsibility. I had more budget responsibility. I had more direct reports. You can build upon skills that you learn from your previous role. Even though they are theoretically the same in title, they can be very different.

It’s interesting that you mention that because a lot of times, I’ll talk to people. I’ll talk about my background and everything. They’ll say, “You’ve had a great career.” I’ll be there thinking to myself. It’s like, “There’s so much more I wish I could have done.” This is how we’re wired. You’re ambitious and you’re trying to do the next thing, but I was also always trying to get as much experience as I could.

Time goes by quickly. I started working in the late ‘80s with military experience. We talked about it at the outset. I got to do a few different things, all with an engineering bent. I spend some time consulting. I’ve worked in financial services and a few different places, and 35-plus years went by very quickly. How do you counsel people who are in that mid-career, “I’m feeling stuck?”

It’s an interesting question because I always start with, “What does that even mean when people say they’re stuck?” I think the other question is, “Where do you see yourself? Where do you want to go?” Part of the stuckness is that somebody has been working in an organization for 20-30 years, the proverbial golden handcuffs, where they feel like they don’t have options. At that point, there’s a financial consideration because you’re going to retirement, and you can get full medical. You’ve got two or three years, or maybe you’re young enough. It’s never too early to start thinking about what that transition looks like. “What do I think I want to do?”

I tell people that you never know because sometimes you might not get a chance to raise your hand and say, “I’m going to retire.” The company might say, “It’s been nice. We’re doing a downsizing, and you seem to fit the criteria of what we’re looking for.” All of a sudden, you’re starting over again. I’ve given that some thought earlier. Let’s say you’re going to go out and you’re going to consult. There’s an opportunity to maybe get some certifications or go to some different classes.

It’s helping people take control of where they are and what they’re trying to accomplish. I remember talking to somebody who was in insurance. I was having a conversation with them. There’s a level of fear because you have to spend some time with yourself. You get some paper and a pencil, sit down, write some stuff down, and think about where I want to go and what I want to accomplish. Nothing is going to change unless you change.

The first part of that is sitting down, and even if it’s brainstorming, whether you get a coach, sit down with your spouse, or get some time alone and write out. You still have dreams, ambitions, and things that you may want to accomplish. We put so much of our identity into our work. That can be one of the challenges when people either retire or get laid off. They’re identity is so wrapped up in work that they have no other outside interests or anything like that, so they struggle. When that question gets posed, there’s a level of fear. It’s easy to do nothing. As I said, nothing is going to change unless you begin to take those first steps.

There are so many ways to do it. It goes back to what we’re talking about a minute ago, lateral moves and moving into a different company. There are so many ways to get yourself out of whatever sense of malaise that you’re feeling. As we talked about, you’ve got time and you can do different things. There’s an adage. In any job, you should be learning or earning. It’s great when you can do both, but if you’re learning, you will be engaged. You will feel a sense of fulfillment. You will be happier, which will ripple out to your personal life.

Part of the reason people get themselves stuck is that they either set overly lofty ambitions or overly aggressive timelines for themselves that aren’t realistic in most situations. As you say, only a few people get to be in the C-suite in any given company. Also, more often, it’s because they think too narrowly. They aren’t willing to get out of their comfort zone and commit to doing something new. They keep going to work, doing what they’ve been doing, and they get into such a flat line routine that they lose that sense of enthusiasm. That’s when you get mid-career people who are not trending in the way that they ought to be.

There are so many companies, depending on their size, that there are other business units. You can go and do other things. In some cases, you have companies that have a company within a company. You can raise your hand and say, “I’d be interested in going over there and see if I can help out do some different things. I’m looking for some different experiences.” At a minimum, you’ve got to ask the question. If you ask the question, people are more than willing to work with you. If you don’t ask the question, no one is going to know what you’re thinking and what you want to do.

Being clear and being communicative about it is a prerequisite. If you don’t know what you want to do and you’re not telling other people what you want to do, odds are they’re not mind readers, and you’re not going to get to do what you want to do. You have to have that perspective. I’m sure you work with your share of mid-level managers.

They go from not even knowing how to be a manager to getting the managerial basics, to then learning how to lead. Management and leadership are like a Venn diagram in a way, but clearly, when you move into bigger roles, the management probably gets a little bit less important because you’ve got very capable people underneath you, but the leadership matters more. How do you help people begin to make that transition in the work that you do with them?

Part of it is skillset because it’s more about vision and leading people versus managing things. We manage things in processes and things, but we lead people. It’s easy for people to forget that. It’s being able to get them other experiences and those types of things. I did Toastmasters for many years. I took over our club. At the time I was in the club, it was 50 years old, and we were struggling because we had moved locations and membership had dropped off.

We talked about influence earlier. No one worked for you, even though you’re the president of the club. The only thing you have going for you is influence and building out a vision of what the future might look like. It was one of the best developmental lessons I learned outside of Corporate America because I wouldn’t have had the opportunity to learn that skill. Usually, you’re thrust into a role, especially if you’re a second-line manager, all of a sudden, you’ve got a team of direct reports who have direct reports, and you’re setting the ball forward.

If you can figure out how to get those experiences also outside of your day job, it will help you be more effective as a leader because you can learn some lessons. The risks are different. You’re not looking at P&L and some of those things. It’s not that nonprofits and other organizations are not important. They’re going to be a little bit more forgiving. There are some valuable lessons to be learned there, and in whatever classes.

We talked about the lack of leadership development and leadership training. Finding good mentors is so important, and being able to talk to peers who have been where you have been and who can give you advice, suggestions, and things that you could be doing, as well as using some of the tools that are available within the organization.

A lot of companies do 360s with the leadership team and those types of things. Be open to feedback and improving, and being better. We have conversations. Sometimes, you have different relationships with people on your team. Ask people, “What would you like to see differently? What are some things that I could do that will make things more effective?” If you approach them in the right spirit, people will give you the feedback to help you do the things that you need to do to be successful.

How To Handle Setbacks And Grief

Let’s talk a little bit about setbacks. It’s another topic on your list. How do you help someone recognize that what feels like failure or the worst thing that ever happened to them might not be such a bad thing?

You can start with personal stories. I’ve had my fair share of setbacks. It’s how you get to where you are. It’s having those stories. I used to always joke with people. I would say that I never wanted to work for a sales manager who had never struggled as a sales representative. They have no insight into what it means not to do well. I remember when I was interviewing for a job, and I decided not to take the role because the manager had never struggled.

It was a district manager position in the Philadelphia area. You either do well or you don’t do well, and she was a new regional director. I was thinking, “This has a chance of going south very quickly.” I hope people ground them and focus on what the lessons are. What are you learning here? Help them see that it’s not the end of the world, and do share some of those lessons. I remember being a new trainer and getting some feedback from the class that I didn’t do the role play well, and I was too difficult.

My manager made a decision that I was going to be retrained. I was going to retrain with one of my peers who we had come into the sales training at the same time. I was crushed. One of the guys in HR was my mentor. I remember he had a conversation with me. He was telling me, “It’s going to be alright. You’re in this position. You’ve got a great future. You need to suck it up.” He gave me a pat on the back and a kick in the behind at the same time.

Later on, at the end of that year, I remember the director of sales training saying that was one of her greatest accomplishments because things could have gone either way. Things could have gone south, or they could have been very successful. Ultimately, I ended up as a district manager. It’s a huge opportunity for growth for me. It’s frankly what it was, and being open to accepting the feedback, me getting help, and having a broader understanding because she had gone to the same HR person. It was an HR professional who handled this, knowing that she had taken it seriously to figure out how to coach this person on your team to be better.

I use that as an example to say all is not lost. There are times in your career when you’re going to have setbacks. If you’re not having setbacks, you’re probably not growing. There are going to be times that you’re going to be put in positions where you don’t have the skillset and the ability to do what’s being asked to be done. There’s a huge growth opportunity for you.

When you’re working with somebody in one of those situations, how do you balance being empathetic but at the same time, providing enough challenge to them to work through it?

You have to help them get through the stages of grief as quickly as possible, and then have the conversation about what we are trying to accomplish here, and what the results are that we’re looking for. Get them to agree that there is an issue, a problem, or something that needs to be solved. If you can’t get them to read that there’s an issue or a problem that needs to be solved, you can talk until you’re blue in the face, and no action is going to be taken. Once you can get to that agreement that there’s something that needs to be solved, then I’ll have the conversation about how we do that, what that looks like, and what that development looks like to get you to the next level. What does that end result look like?

Do you feel like people try to rush themselves through the stages of grief or through getting past the setback? Do you counsel them to be more patient?

My experience is that people usually stay in the grief stage too long. One of the things that I’ve seen in a lot of organizations is that we don’t do a lot around change management. A lot of organizations don’t teach managers. Change management can be anything from a new role to coaching and providing people with the skills to be able to get out of that grief cycle. What happens is that the grief cycle keeps going on. Ideally, what you’re trying to do is get people out of that grief cycle as quickly as possible. They’re still focused on the past when there’s an opportunity in the future ahead of them. Part of it is human nature. How do you coach that? My experience has been that most people stay there too long. I don’t know if you’ve seen something different.

Especially if it’s a layoff, there’s an economic dagger hanging over people’s heads. They’re thinking, “I’ve got to find employment because I need to provide for my family or myself.” They don’t feel like they’ve got the luxury of time. They end up jumping right into the first thing that comes by, and it ends up being a bad move for them. There are no easy answers in those situations. The wisdom of having a security blanket in the form of savings that you can tap into for just one of those situations, people used to call it “F you” money.

When you get laid off, it could be more “F me” money. In the scheme of things, having that gives you a little bit of latitude to not feel so much pressure to jump right back into something new, but not everybody has the luxury of having bank savings. Those are situations where people do feel like they’re rushed.

When I worked with people who have felt that, the best advice I tried to give them was to think through what’s important to them in a job. It comes down to, “How do I feel about my skills and the job market? Do I take this one, knowing that it may not work out because it doesn’t feel completely right to me, but I need income, or do I wait a bit longer?

Everybody has to form their own judgment. Other than that situation, people tend to linger in the grief cycle longer than they should. They get stuck in the bitterness or the disbelief that something has happened to them. You’ve got to push them out of those situations because at some point, they’ve got to get on with their lives, like any other setback. The more they happen to you, the more you accept them as a fact of life, and you know what to do.

It’s like being a salesperson. When you lose your first deal, your heart breaks. You think it’s the worst thing that’s ever happened to you. Though you never want to lose a sales deal or whatever is a win in your particular job, you do come to accept that you’re not going to win every deal. Your job is to learn from them, so you increase your winning percentage. You’ve got to move on and not let it completely erode your confidence that makes you not a good salesperson or not a good whatever.

That makes perfect sense, especially with so many companies downsizing and the economy. It’s interesting, too, because part of the grief cycle is that people jump into the first thing that they get, and there’s a level of resentment that can occur. Instead of moving to the next thing and saying, “This isn’t a fit. It did what it needed to do. Give me another two or three months to polish up my resume. It would help me prepare for whatever that next role is going to be.” Sometimes people get stuck, and then turn around ten years past, they are in a job below their skillset. There’s a level of resentment from the situation and things that have occurred in their careers.

People talk about one-way doors and two-way doors. Most things are two-way doors. You can reverse the decision you’ve made. Some things are legitimately one-way doors, but when you get in those situations, it comes back a little bit to what we were talking about earlier in the conversation about people feeling stuck or questioning a lateral move or whatever. These are not life-ending decisions. If it doesn’t work out, you accept that. You prepare and you move on. If it does work out, then that’s fantastic.

Looking Back To Keith’s Career Transition

Sometimes, people either fear making the leap into something, or they get into it, and then they fear making the leap out of it. It comes back to what we talked about. People start putting themselves on autopilot in their careers, which isn’t great. Maybe spend a few minutes talking about your own transition. What surprised you the most when you left the corporate world and started your own business?

That’s a loaded question. The first thing is that everybody says, “I’m going to work with you.” I’m like, “That’s not true.” The other thing is that I spent time on the wrong things. It’s a learning process. I would joke with people and say, “You have to get the corporate beat out of you because you’re the decision maker. You get to make all the decisions, and you get to do all of the stuff.” You’ve got to figure out, “What am I good at? What can I afford to offload to give to other people?”

At the end of the day, it’s understanding that I’m the number one problem with everything that’s not going well. It is a journey of self-development in a lot of ways. My experience has been that the more time I’ve focused on myself, building myself, and making myself better, there’s a direct correlation to that and growing the business. Those are some things that were surprising.

The other part of it is that there’s a level of disbelief. I focus my business on life sciences. I would go to conferences and things like that. People would still see me as “the training lead.” People would say, “How are you doing?” There’s this level of concern they have about you. I would get sucked into that because you end up in this conversation. It’s understanding I’m growing a business. I need to present myself in a different way for people to understand that I’m growing a business, and I’m no longer doing this. I’m now doing that.

There’s a piece of that in a transition, where you transition from being this corporate person. It’s a part of my identity and who I am. It helps me in my business because I was a manager. I did a lot of things for the clients and people that I’m serving, but there’s that whole piece of understanding that. The other part of this is that there are some lessons you’re not ready for, or you focus on the wrong lessons. I remember I was trying to figure out how to run an event. I don’t need to learn how to run an event. I run a couple of national leadership meetings. I knew how to do that. What I needed to learn how to do was build an email list. A lot of people will sell you a lot of things, and sometimes, they’re not the right things.

Email lists are probably one of those things.

One of those things is trying to figure out how to do that early. In business development, selling in pharma, where you have a list of physicians that you see on a regular basis, is a lot different than doing regular business development. There are a lot of skills that have to be learned, and getting used to not getting a regular paycheck. My wife, at times, I’m amazed that she went along with this whole thing because it is a leap of faith.

I’d say the last thing. I don’t know if you’ve ever seen it this way. People would talk about how brave I was to go out on my own. It took me a while to understand that. It gets back to some of the conversation we were having earlier about people getting stuck, and not willing to take a risk and do something different. I took some chances. Part of me was, “If this doesn’t work out, I can always go back and find a job.” I didn’t want to look back over my career and know that being an entrepreneur was something that I had always wanted to do. I didn’t want to look back and say that I didn’t try it. At least, if it didn’t work out, I could say I tried and it didn’t work, then I went and did something else.

For me, that was something that was important. Essentially, you’re leading away in a different way because people see you, and it gives them hope. It helps them to be able to step out on faith in whatever it is that they want to do, whether to go get another job or whatever. They admire that. I’m not sure I still see it as a big deal. It’s me and who I am and what I want to do. I do understand it’s important to work with people and have conversations about what’s next and transition.

In that spirit, what’s next for you?

Keep building the business and keep doing this until I decide that I want to take a step back, speak, pick, and choose what I want to do. My kids are out of the house. I’m having a ball doing this, and helping as many people as I can, like managers, to have an impact on so many lives. If we can build better leaders and better managers, we can build a better world.

Thanks for doing this with me. We covered all of your topics at least a little bit. We’ll give ourselves a check on that. It was good to get to know you, Keith.

It was good chatting with you, J.R. Thanks for inviting me on. I’m looking forward to this episode.

Thanks to Keith for joining me to discuss influence mid-career growth, dealing with adversity, and his transition into entrepreneurship. As a reminder, this discussion was brought to you by PathWise.io. If you’re ready to take control of your career, join the PathWise community. Basic membership is free. You can also sign up on the website for our newsletter and follow us on LinkedInFacebookYouTubeInstagram, and TikTok. Thanks, and have a great day.

High Performance Teams and Talent Strategy

Leading From Within: Building High-Performing Teams

Managers shape culture, engagement, and results. The strongest teams develop their own leaders and coach them to their individual strengths.

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The Conversation

We explored why firms often hire managers from outside, the hidden costs of long ramp-up times, and how skills assessment centers reveal internal bench strength. We also covered CliftonStrengths as a coaching lens, as well as military lessons on leading from the front and taking care of your people.

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The Insight

Promote from within whenever possible. New leaders who already know the culture, network, and workflows hit stride faster. Engagement rises when first-line managers coach employees to their strengths, delegate tasks for development, and provide genuine feedback.

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The Action

  • Map your bench. Run a simple skills assessment center for ready-now and ready-soon leaders.
  • Coach to strengths. Use CliftonStrengths or a similar tool, then tailor one-to-ones around what each person does best.
  • Build the pipeline. Give stretch assignments through targeted delegation and pair them with feedback.
  • Protect engagement. Define “discretionary effort” with the team, then recognize it publicly and often.

Ahoy, welcome to the Sea Captain Wave Podcast with Phil Bender and Greg Patton, where we help listeners navigate the uncharted waters

of personal and professional growth. The Sea Captain Way is about energizing top performers to take on risks and push beyond their comfort zone

to pursue life-changing goals and achieve peak performance. We’re gonna help you build your vision by showing you how to break free of boundaries that are holding you back.

So, Phil, we’re happy to welcome Keith Willis to the Sea Captain Way podcast. Today Keith is the president and founder of Core Management Training.

He’s a sales trainer and strategist and leadership expert who delivers learning experiences in management, leadership, and business. Keith has invested his time

and energy into understanding how high achievers perform and the strategies they use to attain their goals. As a captain in the US Army, he worked with some of the best and brightest leaders in the military building teams that consistently rose to the challenge. So, welcome Keith. Yeah, Welcome Keith.

Keith Willis. How about that? Thank you. Hey, thank you very much. Yeah, great to, great to see you and, uh, uh, great to be with you today.

Um, had a nice, uh, visit with you the other day, which was in preparation for this and got to know, uh, a lot about what makes,

uh, Keith Willis special. And you’re gonna, as a listener today, you’re gonna figure that out. Uh, and, uh, so welcome. Good to have you.

Thank you. Thank you, Phil. Thank you, Greg. Really appreciate it. Really excited to be on with you today. Yep.

Yeah, right back at You. Yeah. So, uh, well, let’s get started. Uh, so tell us about, uh, this business core management training.

What type of clients do you work with and what are the services you provide? Yeah, so, uh, core management training primarily focuses

on sales leadership training in the pharmaceutical industry. That’s where I spent the balance of my career after getting out of the military.

So, uh, there is a need not only in life sciences, but other industries around leadership training. And it just seems to be one of those gaps.

Oftentimes the managers become, uh, a new manager. Sometimes they don’t go to go to any type of, uh, leadership training until maybe even six months in,

and then, uh, ongoing training can be lacking. So I felt like there was a need to do some level of leadership training.

And since it’s an industry I know very, very well, I felt that I could, uh, provide a service for customers.

So this was something that you had a vision for early on, or would, did this just evolve over time?

How did you, how’d you get to that point where you decided, okay, this is, this is where I’m headed?

I had always been a little bit of an entrepreneur at heart, uh, fool around with a little bit of, uh, Amway stuff.

I don’t know if you remember back in the day, you remember the, uh, sprint, uh, oh, and they used to have the pin drop.

Yeah. So I, I did that whole thing for a little bit. Um, when I was working full time, I had started a,

a coaching business on the side, and I had a customer, I had a couple of customers and everything. So, uh, when my position was eliminated, I thought about,

do I want to continue doing what I’m doing? I was ready for a change. I, I think, frankly, and so, uh,

I decided I was gonna go out on my own.

That life is short and, you know, it is either gonna work or not work, and I can always go back and get a job if I needed to get a job.

So, Keith, your LinkedIn profile makes a statement that companies often hire managers from outside the organization who don’t know the culture with the hopes that they will be effective leaders. And since there’s typically no training for development, these managers, you know, can struggle.

Can you exp expand on this for us? What you mean? Yeah, so I, I, I work for a company that was taking over responsibility for their product, and they hired a lot of sales representatives outside the organization as they were, you know, standing up capabilities.

And some of these folks were developmental. We had a bunch of different, uh, programs that we offered.

And, and part of my role was to stand up leadership development and obviously brought in a lot of managers.

A lot happened, uh, over the course of a two year period. And during this time, uh, period, when you have that type of change, there are, there are opportunities for people to be promoted.

And so while the company had done a good job of, of developing a pipeline of talent, what they did not do necessarily was to go out and put that pipeline into a new managerial position.

Mm-hmm. Some of that was because the, you know, current managers that did the hiring, they were not confident, they were not sure they were gonna be asked

to do coaching feedback, so on and so forth. And so what you do is you bring people into the organization that don’t know the organization. And in this particular company, uh, culture was a differentiation or something that the company sold.

And in fact, when people would start, they would spend an entire day bring people into the home office just to talk about the culture of the, of the organization. And so it’s a gap. And so you have people that are sitting there to that feel like, Hey, I should get an opportunity. And they weren’t getting an opportunity.

Uh, we eventually put together a skills assessment center, and we sent 10 people through the assessment center. And, uh, I believe everybody in that first class eventually ended up being promoted.

And so it did two things. It helped keep people in the organization ’cause it felt like, Hey, I’m getting all this development, uh, now my talents are being recognized. The, the other piece of it was that managers were able to see that, hey, we actually have good bench strength,

and then not to have to pull people from outside the organization. And, you know, here’s, here’s something that’s really interesting.

When somebody leaves their old organization and they go to a new organization, one of the reasons why they get a, a big raise is to compensate for the loss of effectiveness that they’re gonna have in this new role.

They don’t have the network, they don’t have the relationships, they don’t have any of those things. So it’s gonna take some time for those folks to get up to speed.

In some cases, it’s easy for a new manager that’s been working in a organization for quite some time that understands the culture that has a network.

And then, and if you do the things that, you know, uh, managers, second line managers should be doing coaching feedback, helping people be better and more effective at their role, that manager has an opportunity to be a superstar versus if they come from outside the organization, it’s not that they can’t be successful, it’s just gonna take a little bit more time.

Yeah. If you consider the lead, uh, the ramp up time, which can be sometimes two years, you know, to, to bring somebody up to speed with, with culture, build the relationships, boy, it, it’s so much, it, it seems so much smarter and really is to look internally first. Okay. But so many times, because people aren’t being developed, you don’t even know what you have inside. Absolutely. Absolutely. And, and, and so that’s really a great point you make there.

Uh, for so many of our clients, we talk about that particular element is, you know, uh, one of the, the three big reasons why people leave, uh, companies, number one is unpredictable environment.

Number two is culture.

Number three is lack of a growth plan.

Well.

And so lack of a growth plan becomes such an important element that you tend to take for granted the people that are inside because you’re really not growing them. So that’s a really good point you made, Keith. So, uh, so you served in the, as a captain in the US Army.

Uh, what did your military experience teach you about leadership and how to apply the skills in your role as president of core management training?

Yeah, there were so many lessons. Um, you know, I think one of the big lessons we, we talk about leading from the front, you know, we, we live in a world that the reality of it is, is that, you know, with knowledge workers, you, you can’t necessarily know everything that your folks do.

Your, your expertise just can’t be everything. But ultimately, uh, I, I do think that that leading from the front, taking care of your people are really, uh, lessons that I, I learned. Uh, I remember being an ROTC in, in the TAC officer, you used to always say that, uh, if you’re gonna take that hill, you wanna make sure that you don’t turn that when you turn around that everybody’s following you.

And I used to always have that vision of you turn around, there’s no one there. And it’s like, oh, crap. So, um, it was one of those lessons that I, I I, I would think about a lot because ultimately your people are, are looking to you to, you know, be their voice, be their, I mean, stuff happens.

You know, I I used to tell my team, if we didn’t have problems, we wouldn’t have jobs. So, you know, that’s just kind of the, uh, those are just things that just happen. And you, when you work in these matrix teams, and there are a lot of things going on, there’s a, there’s a tendency to be able to point fingers. And so the, the leader’s job is, is to lead and, and take care of their people, people and, and really help everybody get the things done that need to be done to get the results that you’re looking for.

Well, that makes total sense. If you think about it, Greg, when we were back in the fraternity house back in the day, and Greg was in charge of leading everybody into dancing, that was his thing.

He was really good at that. That

Could be harrowing. That had its moments, especially the way Phil dances Jesus There. Well, it was a problem because Greg danced like a lane from Seinfeld. And so it was a, it was always a challenge for, for us to, uh, manage that.

And there were times when he was out there by himself. Mm-hmm. And so, I, I get your point. Uh, boy, that was,

Yeah. So it was kind of a follow on to Phil’s question. You worked with an organization, um, called American Corporate Partners that helps veterans find meaningful employment after their military service. How did you get connected with that organization and how did the, the programs work?

Yeah, so, uh, I got involved with American Corporate Partners with my last corporate job. So, you know, a lot of organizations have employee research groups, and we had a veterans group, and as a part of that veterans group, uh, they supported, um, American Corporate Partners and what American Corporate Partners does.

First of all, it’s a nonprofit. And what it does is it supports folks that are in the military as well as their spouses that are transitioning from the military into civilian, civilian world.

Uh, myself, I was what they call a JMO, junior Military Officer. Mm-hmm. So there were some organizations that focused on you transitioning out of the military.

So I went through a whole developmental pro, uh, process, probably over the course of eight or nine months. Uh, went to, uh, an event where I interviewed with several, you know, different companies. Uh, most of ’em were pharmaceutical companies, is how I ended up going, uh, getting into the pharmaceutical industry at that time, there really weren’t any of those types of organizations focused primarily just on, if you were in the military at all, was all just officers.

and so, uh, what’s great about American corporate partners and, and other organizations like it, it, you know, if somebody says they want to get out, uh, they can get a mentor and they can have a mentor over the course of a year, helps them with interview skills,

helps ’em build their resume. Uh, I think pretty much everybody that I’ve worked with ha, you know, ended up getting a job.

And like a lot of folks, sometimes you, you take the first job or second job you can get, and then you start thinking about, oh, what is it I want to do when I grow up? And so part of that conversation is, is to help folks like that. Mm-hmm.

Uh, the gentleman that I’m helping right now that I’m mentoring, he’s in a little bit of a different program because he transitioned, um, probably two or three, probably more than two or three years ago.

Uh, so I’m a mentor for him and, and just a, a very bright, um, I guess I’ll call him a young man. I mean, he is not a kid by any stretch of imagination.

Uh, but I, you know, at times I wonder who’s learning more myself or, or, or he, because it’s a go back and forth and have some great conversations.

And, uh, for him it’s helping him advance in his career and look at the next opportunity.

So, uh, it’s a great program whether you’re in, you know, corporate role mm-hmm. You want to engage with American corporate partners, or, you know, you have your own company and you want to engage with them and, and be a mentor, I would say it’s, it’s, it’s worthwhile.

Yeah. That’s cool. And, and again, so much of what we do, and Greg, you know, this is, is around the mentoring space.

Mm-hmm. Um, and your point well made is we learn as much as the people that we’re taking through it.

One, because we have to sharpen our saw. You know, we have to put the best version of ourselves out there, right?

Uh, two is because we end up hearing new innovative stuff that comes from the minds of the folks that are going through things that we, you know, that we’ve gone through a few times. Um, so I I really appreciate that.

Uh, uh, you know, Keith, your firm works with sales teams utilizing the Clifton Strengths assessment to identify each team’s member’s strengths.

You know, it’s designed to help sales managers coach their teams more effectively and lead them to better sales results.

Uh, why do you find this as assessment and approach to be so effective? Yeah, I, I kind of stumbled into Clifton Strengths.

Uh, there’s a book called Break All the Rules by Marcus Buckingham. Mm-hmm. And I had finished, uh, reading it,

and when I, earlier on when I was a district manager, I, I wasn’t that good. I wasn’t, I mean, uh, we got some results over time.

It took me some time to figure some things out. And I remember working with one of my sales reps that was struggling.

And, and usually as a district manager in the pharmaceutical industry, you’ll generally do a two day work session. So, uh, here was a rep that had great selling skills, but she was struggling with her product knowledge, and her results were struggling.

Also, at the end of the first day, she said, I’m gonna go home and cry. And so she was being a little facetious because we had a good relationship, but as a manager makes you really think about what is it that I’m doing? And so, uh, I had been reading this book, and the following day I said, we’re gonna do something different. And, and I asked her, what is it that you do extremely well?

And she said, I paint pictures for doctors to get a sense of who the patients are that they need to write for. And so I said, that’s what we’re gonna focus on today. And so that was what we did. Ultimately, by the end of the year, she finished over a hundred percent, and usually a hundred percent is the target for any sales representative in the pharmaceutical industry.

Mm-hmm. And I, I wish I could tell you that I jumped in and embraced Clifton strengths immediately then, but like, like, you know, this, this kind of line, you know, you try some stuff and then you get away from it.

And then over time, I finally figured out, oh, this is really a great assessment. And, uh, went ahead and got certified as a Clifton strengths, uh, coach. And what I saw was that, uh, teams that I engaged, whether they were in sales or non-sales, when they did the assessments, those teams performed at a, at a very, very high level.

Uh, there was a manager that I did, I watched him literally get promoted through the ranks, and he did every one of his teams, I think he’s a g uh, general manager at one, uh, one of the major pharma companies now. Uh, I saw, uh, teams, district managers would do their teams.

They would either be first or second in, uh, president’s Club, president’s Trophy, or, or things like that. So direct correlation between utilizing strengths, uh, and then as a training manager, I turned my team over twice using Clifton strengths, uh, really helping people really, um, invigorate their careers and, and be able to move in the roles of more responsibilities. The thing about strengths is not just about focusing on your strengths.

Obviously we always talk about weaknesses. Yeah, sure. A weakness is anything that gets in the way of your performance.

And in some cases, people have a weakness is, is because they’re over utilizing a strength that they have. And what we do is we try to teach people how do you work around your inherent weaknesses as, as an individual? And we know that data and, and studies show that those inherent talents that you have, they drive your performance, they drive engagement, they do a lot of things for you. When you focus on things that you don’t do well, you’re not gonna be very happy. So think of it this way, it’d be like a squirrel having to swim.

Yeah. You know? Yeah. Right. You know, squirrel’s not gonna be happy doing that, versus if they get to leap trees every day, they could do a lot of great stuff. Leaping trees, they’re not gonna do great stuff. Trying to swim across the lake just not gonna happen.

So that’s the analogy I, I, you know, what Clifton strengths means to me. Gotcha. Good. Good. Interesting. Yeah, that, that’s cool.

So your, your firm also offers a Power hour session that’s tailored specifically for learning and development and HR professionals.

Uh, these sessions offer strategic insights into actionable solutions to elevate client training programs. Can you tell us a little bit more about these Power hour training? Sounds cool. Yeah. So Greg, the, there there really a opportunity for folks to consult. Uh, usually if somebody takes over a training team, there’s a lot to be done. Sometimes it’s a new position. In some organizations, especially on the HR side, sometimes HR folks don’t necessarily know, uh, what they know, what training is, but how to go about it doing these assessments and things like that. So it’s an opportunity to have a conversation, think about what is it that you’re trying to accomplish and get some help putting together a plan. So that’s really what the Power Hour is about, is setting people up for success. Cool. Yeah. That, it, it, and again, these, these things that I’m sensing from you,

Keith, that I think are great is there’s a lot of value add that you layer into, um, what you’re doing.

Uh, the mentoring, you know, obviously the assessments, the, uh, um, the power hour concept. I mean, these are things to, to that really when, when you, when you’re building out a firm or when you’re building out something, you know, we do, for example, Greg, we’re doing a lot of webinars now, you know?

Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. Anything that you could do to help people get better and then eventually bring them to you.

I ideally, right. So, uh, good, good. Uh, so, uh, last question here. Uh, you have an article on your website that sites a recent Gallup survey that says 53% of workers felt they were not engaged with their employers. Now that’s, that’s fascinating.

It, it, it is estimated that this led to $1.9 trillion lost in productivity in 2023. What strategies are you offering your clients to get employees to be more engaged with their work and workplace? Yeah. I, I think ultimately it comes down to the first line manager.

Uh, we talked about why people leave organizations. The manager represents the company. So no matter all the policies to the first line manager. Uh, we talked about why people leave organizations. The manager represents the company. So no matter all the policies and everything else, it really comes back to the management.

So if there’s a engagement problem, all you have to do is talk to the first line manager and everything else, it really comes back to the management. So if there’s a engagement problem, all you have to do is talk to the first line manager and get a sense of what people, uh, feel about that manager. You know, some people use the, um, metric or, you know, we say we define what culture means, or we define what engagement means. What we mean is discretionary effort.

So how willing are your people to do those additional things that you don’t necessarily ask them to do? And so people will go through, and I won’t say go through the motions, because I don’t think that’s fair, but I also know at this stage in life, I know how many people have worked at a company or 20 or 30 years, and they’re not old. They’re not young, but they can’t wait to get out. Right.

And to me, that speaks to the engagement. They’re not allowed to be able to do or have other opportunities to do other things.

And so they go out and they take their talents elsewhere. They either, you know, start, you know, in a new organization, they work for a nonprofit, uh, why couldn’t have they have done some of these things altogether? And so those are all the pieces that are missing.

And so, um, we don’t think of engagement that way. We think about people that don’t show up to work that aren’t, you know, working. I mean, I think at the end of the day, everybody goes to work to do a good job.

Mm-hmm. But you don’t, you’re not necessarily allowed to give more than, you know, what people expect of you mm-hmm.

Versus being challenged and pushed to give all that you can. Yeah. And then at some point, you know, company’s gonna downsize, something’s gonna happen.

Or when they’re doing the downsizing, you’re like, Hey, can I go? Yeah. And so, uh, we really Yeah. Right.

You know what I mean? Yeah. And, and so we really focus on no strategies IE coaching and feedback performance.

Uh, I call it the black, the blocking and tackling of management, you know? Mm-hmm. Developing your people. Uh, I like to say delegations, God’s gift to development.

’cause all you’re doing is pushing, pushing work down. It’s how I learned, learned how to manage budget. My boss gave me responsibility.

She pulled out a portion of the budget. She gave it to me, gee, my next role, I had responsibility to do a budget.

And I wouldn’t have had that opportunity if she had not provided the opportunity just by delegating. So just those simple things, uh, the, uh, strategies and tools and resources that I provide, uh, organizations to be able to help their folks and help keep their people engaged. I

Love it. Yeah. What was the term I heard during Covid? I had never called it quiet quitting, where it’s like, I’m here, but I’m not here.

Right. Right. I sure that’s, yeah. I was gonna say, Greg, uh, you remember, uh, when Colonel Dan Cormier, uh, was on with us, he talked about, uh, the military, uh, uh, middle management, and he basically said they were called, uh, uh, the backbone of the army.

Mm-hmm. And so what I hear you saying, Keith, is similar to that with the first line manager. Are they the backbone of the firm or are they just filling in gaps? Are they just filling in, uh, certain, uh, layers And like you said, uh, when, you know, are they going the extra mile, they doing the extra thing? Because does it really matter? And when it’s all said and done, so I think you’ve, uh, I think, uh, you hit on something that’s very powerful and important. Um, so as, uh, as we wrap today, uh, how do people contact, uh, Keith Willis and core management training, um, and, uh, in order to potentially work with you, how do they get ahold of you and, uh, how do they find out about the training programs and services? Yeah, the best way to get ahold of me is through, uh, core management training.com, all one word. It’s spelled, spelled exactly how it sounds. Or you can get, get to me through LinkedIn.

I’m pretty active on LinkedIn, write a lot of, uh, blog posts, comments, and, and so on and so forth.

So those are probably the two best ways to, uh, get ahold of me. And, uh, you can fill out one of the forms to have a conversation or send me a message of some kind and, you know, just get on the phone and chat, you know, might be able to help you might not, but at least it’s worthwhile to get another connection, have some conversations to, to stimulate thoughts about, you know, how do I, uh, develop my folks? How do I help them perform to a higher level? I love it. Well, Keith Willis, first of all, great. Uh, another home run, Greg Patton. Yeah, nicely done. Great.

Um, yeah, prepping, uh, prepping our, our person. Uh, any any final thoughts for you today? Uh, the only thing I would add is, uh, Phil, you might wanna hit the WD 40. Your chair. Sounds like the, uh, Orca and jo f*****g, the, the crates.

My eyes are riveted on the water behind you. I’m like, I fender, he doesn’t get dragged under during the podcast.

No, I really enjoyed talking to you, Keith. It was great. Thank you for your service. Um, thank you, Greg.

Yeah, I, I, interesting to hear about your corporate, American Corporate Partners Program. Um, my experience as veterans, like working with other veterans, there’s that bond that, uh, I think that’s super fantastic. So thanks for your time. It was great chatting.

Yeah. Keith Willis, thanks again. Thanks, bill. Thanks Greg. Really appreciate it. Thanks for joining us for this edition of the C Captain Way podcast.

If you found the conversation valuable, please like, share and post a review on your favorite podcast app. To learn more about c Captain in its performance coaching programs, visit us@ccaptaincoaching.com. The link is in the show notes. You can also follow us at See Captain Coaching on Facebook,

Instagram, and LinkedIn. Thanks again for listening. Wishing you fair wins and a following, see on your journey.

Coaching Training and Organizational Development

The Untapped Power of Middle Performers

Most teams focus their attention on stars or strugglers. The biggest performance lift often sits in the middle.

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The Conversation

We examined why middle performers receive the least coaching, how leaders mislabel Bs as Cs, and what happens when development, feedback, and recognition tend to gravitate to the extremes. We discussed practical fixes, including clearer coaching goals, explicit follow-ups, and leveraging strengths to tailor development.

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The Insight

Middle performers deliver strong results but often lack feedback and visibility. Treat them as “ready soon,” not “fine for now.” Small behavioral shifts and regular recognition drive significant gains.

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The Action

  • Rebalance time. Allocate specific coaching days for your middle tier and protect them on the calendar.
  • Be explicit. Anchor each coaching session, agree on the real issue, and confirm next steps in writing.
  • Coach to strengths. Use a simple strengths lens and set stretch assignments that align with how each person excels.
  • Recognize progress. Call out improvements quickly so the behavior sticks.

Welcome to The Exceptional Sales Leader Podcast with Darren Mitchell. If you’re a sales leader looking to take your leadership to a whole new level, then this is the podcast for you. We’ll be exploring tips, techniques, and strategies to help you take your leadership to the exceptional level, and allow you to enjoy more money, more meaning, and better sales results.

Welcome back to The Exceptional Sales Leader Podcast, and welcome to a man coming in in the evening. In the evening, and this is being recorded, this is in the first week of July. It’s actually at his dinner, so he’s looking very splendid, and he’s beautiful pink.

Is that a, that’s a polo shirt, right?

It is, yes, it’s a polo shirt.

Coming in from Philadelphia, Mr. Keith Willis, welcome to The Exceptional Sales Leader Podcast.

Thank you, Darren, really excited to be here. I’m glad I was able to make it today. I know we had some challenges there coming from dinner, but after listening to a few episodes, just happy to be here and looking forward to our conversation.

“Yeah, thank you. And I do apologize because there was, I think we were talking just before you pressed record, you were talking about having a virtual assistant that has been relieved of their duties, making some decisions because I got a decline, they got an acceptance and then I got an email overnight. So yeah, I’m ready to go.

And so we made this happen really quickly. So greatly appreciate it. Hey, you’re the founder and president of Core Management Training.

You’ve got a lot of experience around leadership, farmer sales, but also interestingly, a military background as well. I’m really looking forward to this conversation because I could go anywhere, but I think just based on a little preamble before you press record, there’s some really cool points that people listening to this can really bring home to Roos and help them in their sales leadership journey. Now, before we jump into it, I’d love to always get a bit of a sense of my guess background in terms of what you’ve done and what’s led you to now do, what you do with Core Management Training.

Well, yeah, Darren, I started out as a ROTC cadet. I got four years of college and graduated with a regular army commission. The same day I graduated from college, I got my commission all on the same day.

Went to my officer basic course and landed in Germany. So I was in Germany for three years, did a variety of roles. Probably one of the most important roles is a young lieutenant as a platoon leader.

So I had two different platoon leader roles. I was in a ordnance unit. A lot of people don’t realize when we think of ordnance, we think of explosive bombs and all of those things.

At least in the States, that’s the smallest part of the ordnance core. So you have missile management, you have automotive management, and then you have explosive ordnance. Now, obviously this was before the Gulf War.

So that may have changed now, but when I was in, there was automotive maintenance. So we had responsibility for fixing vehicles. I was automotive platoon leader as well as at one point in time, what they call the E&E electronic and engineering platoon.

And then eventually, I became what they call the shop officer. So just think in terms of you’re going to get your car fixed, and you drop your car off to the shop. My team had responsibility for getting those vehicles fixed.

And then those vehicles weren’t fixed. There were issues, obviously, because units needed to have a certain percentage of the vehicles ready to roll, so that they could be mission capable. So I did that.

And then I came back stateside. Around that time, the first Gulf War, so I had responsibility for making sure, seeing all the vehicles painted that went off to the desert, and then eventually became what they call the S1. So think in terms of the S1 is the administrator officer or HR, for all practical purposes.

We had about 900 soldiers in our battalion. We had some of the last couple of units coming back from Southwest Asia and then we had a unit relocating from Germany. So I had a responsibility for whether it be pay, officer evaluations, NCO evaluations, anything to do with any type of HR type of issues, I had a responsibility for.

And then decided that I was going to get out. So I worked through a junior military recruiter and ended up in sales. And so it was interesting because like a lot of people, I had never thought I was going to be a salesperson.

But in fact, I had never even seen or even heard of a pharmaceutical rep. And I had a couple of interviews. And back in the day when you interviewed for a pharmaceutical job, you used to have the opportunity to spend the day in the field with the sales representative.

I didn’t have that opportunity. And my first day in the field was the first time I got a sense of, oh, this is what a rep does. I don’t know if I would have signed up for it then.

But I was fortunate. I had some good mentors and some folks that helped me out. So I would say that the guy that interviewed me did a good job of selling me because he equated being in pharmaceutical sales like being in the military.

So he talked about sales forces as in units, putting promotional messaging against certain products and those types of things. So I got that analogy and so that was how I ended up in pharmaceutical sales, moving from the military. So big jump, big change.

And I love to explore because you mentioned before, you never thought you’d be in sales and it’s interesting. The vast majority of people I speak to will be on this podcast or just generally in business. It’s almost none of them have actually woken up one day and said, yeah, I reckon I’ll be in sales.

I reckon that’s a good career to proceed with. Well, I kind of fell into that or in some people, people say, that’s the only role I could get.

And so fast forwarding to that, we’ll talk about what you’ve learned through your career in sales and now what you do now. But love to know, making that transition from the military where it was very structured and you’re looking after all of those people in terms of all the administration, the HR related stuff. Making that transition into private enterprise and into a sales role, where you’re now responsible.

What were some of the key lessons from, I guess, your leadership background within the military that helped you make that transition? Presupposing, of course, it was a relatively smooth transition. I’m sure there would have been some bumps in the road.

Looking back in that transition, what are some of the key lessons that helped you transition into a sales and then eventually into the leadership roles?

I think the big thing is that in the military, as an officer, you have a great deal of responsibility. I mean, when I got out of the military, I was, what, 28, maybe, after six years. So even at 21 or 22 years old, my first platoon had, I think, 70 soldiers, and then the automotive platoon had 40 soldiers, and then responsibility for running a shop with close to 200 soldiers, seven or eight direct reports.

So you go from being, I wouldn’t say king of the hill, but all of a sudden, you’re just responsible for yourself. And I do think the first rule of leadership is you have to lead yourself ultimately. And so I had learned a lot of those lessons in the military, because not only do you have responsibility for soldiers, you also have responsibility for yourself.

And things like, you’re doing PT two or three times a week, you pass the PT test, you have to carry yourself in a certain way. Being overseas in Germany, you stand out because you’re American relatively to being in Germany. And so a lot of eyes are on you, and you’re working with other allies, other units, you have customers.

I had customers, we called them customers, and when we fixed vehicles, those types of things. So you had customer units, and you treated them as such. You go from that to all of a sudden, you’re just you as a salesperson, you just have to get up and you have to figure out, how do I sell?

What is the selling thing that I need to learn how to do? You go from fixing vehicles or managing a deadline list to, how do I learn this product? How do I sell that?

And so there’s a level of study, and you have to swallow your pride, because in the pharmaceutical industry, the sales rep position is entry level. Now, for some people, they spend a career as sales representative, but even their CEOs, a lot of CEOs carried a bag as a sales representative back in the day. So, it is a great training ground, and ultimately, it comes down to learning how to manage yourself, manage your emotions.

As an officer, you’re standing in front of soldiers, and at times, things aren’t going great. You have to learn how to control your emotions and those types of things. And when I was younger, my emotional intelligence probably wasn’t that great.

And over years, as you get older and wiser and more mature, you get better at doing those things. But as a sales representative, when you’re going in to see physicians, you’re talking to nurses, you’re talking to staff every day, ultimately, it’s the relationships that you develop in these offices. And you have a rotation, so you may have anywhere from 100 to 120 doctors that you’re seeing from every four to six weeks.

So that relationship and your selling skills make the difference between getting your product written and not written. So, a lot of lessons there. And part of it’s, you know, swallowing your pride and knowing how to ask for help.

And thanks for sharing that. It’s interesting, as you’re talking, I was just reflecting on some of my own clients that I’ve worked with as a mentor and as a coach who have been in the pharmaceutical industry or the medical industry where it’s very specialized knowledge. And particularly when you’ve got clients who are doctors, physicians, cardiovascular surgeons, orthopedic surgeons, et cetera, the expectations they have on a person who is coming in to sell them a solution to a problem is really, really high.

You also mentioned the importance of mentors as well in your journey. From a person coming from a military background and, for want of a better term, being thrust into pharmaceutical sales, how was the, I guess, the onboarding process with you? You mentioned you had a cycle of physicians to talk to over a period of, say, six weeks or so.

How did you go about building credibility in the eyes of those physicians to the point where they would even start to contemplate the solutions that you were providing them? Because this is a really interesting point because you’ve got to establish credibility as a sales leader and you’ve got to establish credibility as a sales person or sales professional before the customers even contemplate thinking about your solution. Is there anything specific that you did?

I think ultimately you have to show up. I think that’s part of the piece. I spent my first couple of years, I was fortunate to work.

We kind of worked in a team perspective. You had your own territory, we crossed over products and there were a couple of people that were on my team that they won sales awards almost every year. In fact, one of my first district managers, he had been a rep for over 20 years when he became a district manager.

He was a new district manager and even now was probably one of the best district managers that I had. He intuitively knew what you needed to do. I remember you got a diamond, so he had this shamrock ring and he had four diamonds and a ruby and that was representative of all the awards that he had won.

I remember I used to always say, I want to get one of those awards and wear one of those rings. And he was a no-nonsense, pretty straightforward. I remember my car looking like a disaster and him telling me, the next time I ride with you, your car looks like that, there are going to be some consequences.

And he gave me the reason why. We’re professional, you don’t know who’s going to see your car, you’re representing the organization and those types of things. So I appreciated his straightforward demeanor.

So having those types of conversations with managers is really important. And when I was a rep, training was pretty rigorous. The company that I worked, there was, I can’t remember, but I think it was like a four-week training cycle.

And you spent a lot more time in training then than you did now. And you had to pass exams. And I think two years in, they have what they call a medical review exam.

And that exam was 200 questions. And if you didn’t, if you passed the exam, the good news was you got a 10% raise. They don’t give 10% raises anymore.

If you didn’t pass the exam, you probably should put your resume together and start looking for a job. But they had vetted that with physicians. And what the feedback was is that that exam was on the level of what a medical student would get.

And so you build up your product knowledge, and then when you go in, you can answer questions, you talk to the physician, you build relationships. I always think of the trust equation. So you mentioned the credibility piece, which is one part of that.

Do you do what you say you’re going to do? Do you show up? Then there’s the competency piece.

Then it’s the intimacy, which comes back to the relationship divided by your self-orientation. And interesting enough, the more self-orientation that you have, the less trust that you have in the office. So I often like to think in terms of when you think about building trust in any, whether it’s with customers, internally, even with family, to think about the trust equation.

So if you have all of those components, as you build trust, it gives you a lot more autonomy, it builds your credibility, it gives you the opportunity to be able to serve your customers.

It’s huge, and I often use the trust equation in my workshops for leaders, and I do a little trust game afterwards, and it’s interesting how competitive people get and how self-orientation comes to the surface. Even though they’re in tech, they intellectualize, yeah, it’s not about us, it’s all about serving the team until there’s a competition. I’ve got to win.

I’ve got to win. So you then made the leap after a few years into a district manager role and a sales leadership role. Love your experience on reflection, moving from being an individual contributor to a sales leader, and how easy or difficult was that for you?

The truth of the matter was I was not a great district manager by any stretch of the imagination. And it was interesting going from, because in the military, there’s an assumption. So there clearly is structural structure.

I remember my commander used to say, you have hours like a banker. I mean, as an officer, you do run your mission. There’s expectation of you saw problems, you don’t bring problems to me.

And so there’s far more autonomy as an officer than people realize. And I probably talked about this whole emotional immaturity. Younger, the stuff you just do, stupid stuff, I think back on.

You lose your temper, you yell at people and things like that. And you can kind of get away with that in military, even though on reflection, the better leaders were those that were calm, cool, and collected. The people that were respected the most were the leaders that didn’t need to raise their voice, that listen to problems, that help people do things.

And over time, as you get older, at least for me, I can’t speak for everybody, as I matured, I began to realize there are some things that I needed to do more effectively. But as a district manager, you know, the first couple of years were tough. And looking back at it, I would say that I should have waited longer.

I had been a sales representative at that point with two different companies. The first company I ended up leaving because of downsizing and those types of things. And when I went over to the next company, I won two district rep of the year.

I finished three out of 640 sales representatives. So I had street cred from the standpoint of being able to sell effectively. And we had a good development program as far as preparing people to be managers.

But you can train people all day long, but until you do the job, you know, I joke with people that don’t want to be a manager. And I say, you’ll learn. It’s one of the most developmental jobs that you get.

All of the lessons and things that you need to learn, you’ll learn as a district manager. If you have a gap, that’s going to be the thing that you have an opportunity to work on as a manager. So that was my experience.

And on the back end of it, I did better. So there were some reps I managed well. I had great relationships with.

And then there are reps that I struggled with. I would say they were middle performers. Middle performers in that they weren’t looking to get promoted.

They would tell you they wanted to get promoted, but they weren’t looking to get promoted because when I look back, when I look at them now, some of them are still in the industry, still in sales. And interesting enough, a lot of them put up great numbers. They would be way over goal.

It wasn’t a matter of that. It’s just they’re not raising their hand to volunteer. They’re not trying to do anything extra.

And they would be a pain in your backside. You might call them on a Friday afternoon and it’s like they’re there in office doing expense reports because they’re trying to get down to the shore. And I was one of those people.

My expectation is you should be out working. And I had to learn, look, if you’re putting up the numbers, you get a little bit more autonomy versus if you’re not. And it was all of those things learning how to work through.

And interesting enough, it wasn’t until I left and I went to another organization that had a very, very strong leadership development program. And it wasn’t that the company that I was at before didn’t. It was just the way that the guy that ran the program, he was a guru.

There was no debate whether you’re first or second line leader. You were coming to his training. And then there were two levels.

So as a second line leader, there would be coaching or they would listen to sessions where you coached your first line leader and there would be feedback on the coaching. And then there would be feedback for the first line leader who was coaching their representative. So up the chain, there was an opportunity to see.

And because I was in training and then as a part of the cadre and going through all the different rotations and training the classes, you begin to learn how to be more effective as a leader. And then running training teams internally, I became a much better leader. So I think it’s a combination of time.

There’s always a time element. There’s a maturity element. There are parts of us that maybe from a business perspective, you may be very strong, but you may not have the emotional maturity.

For some people, they’re emotionally mature very early. Maybe the business acumen is not that good. So we all have stuff to work on.

But I would say that that was my journey. And I was fortunate because I was in organizations where training, there was a lot of leadership training. And unfortunately, I would say that in the pharma industry, that’s not as consistent now as it has been in the past.

And part of it is because there are more downsizing, there are more cutbacks, there are more companies that are being bought. So all of those things, it becomes difficult to justify how do we sustain a leadership development program if the people that go through the program aren’t going to get promoted.

Yeah, true, true. So would you say that that’s one of the key challenges facing a lot of organizations now, particularly in the life sciences and pharma industry?

I definitely would say that that’s a challenge. How do you get the next group of people ready to get promoted? And I think it goes, I think this is probably every industry.

I don’t think it’s unique to pharma. You know, pharma, we joke and we say we’ve, the industry’s gotten old. It hasn’t, it hasn’t.

There’s a life cycle. You know, you know, when I started, I was in my late 20s. A lot of us were the same age.

A lot of people I know now are retiring. Some of them are CEO. Some of them have done extremely well in the career.

And, you know, it used to be you had to hire people that didn’t have a lot of sales experience. And now, because you have a lot more specialty drugs, more specialty products, there’s a tendency to hire representatives that have experience. So it’s harder for people to break in.

And the other part of that is that when you’re trying to figure out, how do I create a developmental pipeline? What’s that going to look like? I will often hear, well, we’re not expanding.

We’re not going to have new promotions. And so how do I train people? How do I get them ready to step into these roles?

So it’s not unheard of where you talk to leadership and people feel like people aren’t ready. And I even talk to second line leaders that have had training. And they’ll say, I don’t know that I’m as prepared as I need to be to how to coach my first line leader or how to coach their people, provide feedback.

So I think it’s a challenge in budgets, money, time. I don’t know if you remember back in the day when I was a rep, we used to get mail once a week. And you’d wait for the mail to come in and you’d go through the mail.

Now you get that much mail in 15 minutes on your computer. So the temple is so much faster now and the expectations are so much higher now than they were 20 years ago.

They are, which we kind of, as you were talking about the second level leaders and even the first line leaders there, my experience is a lot of leaders are thrust into a leadership position because they’ve been a great individual contributor. And that seems to be the catalyst or the trigger for them to be given the opportunity. And I know you talk a little bit about heroic leaders to servant leaders and I’m big on servant leadership in terms of what that, particularly in sales, which might sound a little bit counterintuitive.

What do you see in the industry right now in relation to organizations where there’s a lot of changes, there’s a lot of maybe downsizing, changing in terms of company structures, buyouts and stuff like that. Is there still a focus on the importance of leadership and getting the right people for the future of the business? Or is it more a case of we just got to get the number because we’re going to make sure that we are surviving firstly and then potentially thriving so that we can be bought out by a bigger company.

We used to joke, a friend of mine, that we were surprised our companies would run because it was more inertia, and things would get going and they would just run. I think it’s a combination of both. I think everybody acknowledges that there’s a need for leadership.

The question is, how do we get people ready for leadership? And then I think there’s a split because you have companies that have been around for a while, but what happens is that product goes generic, something happens, they get rid of the entire commercial team. And some companies take a different approach.

They move that talent around to other business units. You have to learn the product, but ultimately business is business. You can figure that out.

And then I think that there’s just not enough or there are sections of time. Last year, I went to a conference and I can’t remember the numbers. And it wasn’t just pharma, but a lot of organizations, there was a ratio where they had cut the leadership development trainers to leaders significantly.

And it’ll be interesting because the conference is coming up in a couple of weeks to see where they are. But companies that had established the leadership development programs and they were presenting what they had done with cohorts and everything where most of the team had disappeared. So now you have one or two trainers responsible.

And so that speaks volumes oftentimes about where a company, what a company really thinks about leadership. So even though they say the right thing, they don’t necessarily believe the right thing. Or I’ll have conversations with organizations and everybody’s doing the same thing.

The Grow Model. Okay, so the Grow Model is not that it’s not effective, but everybody’s doing it. Situational leadership, SBI.

I mean, there’s all this stuff. And then you ask the question, okay, so what problem are you trying to solve? So they’ll do a whole overhaul of leadership development, but they don’t answer the question of, well, what’s the problem we’re trying to solve?

What is it the program wasn’t giving us that we’re looking for today? And so there’s all of this stuff. And I at times think and feel like that people feel like the leadership development that they’re getting isn’t helping them with the day to day.

It’s not helping them with some of the challenges, issues, and problems that they’re having with their teams. How do I get even the A performer today can easily be a B performer tomorrow or even a C performer. When we talk about things like AI, different types of the new CRM platforms, different things that expectations that people have, it can change so quickly.

So how do you get people through that? How do you enable them? How do you upskill them?

And so I don’t know that anybody has a good answer. And I don’t know that a lot of organizations spend enough time figuring that out. And then I think, ultimately, how do you measure what you’re doing and that it’s having impact?

How do you really know that a sales leader that went through a curriculum and got developed is doing a good job? What does that look like?

Yeah, it’s difficult because a lot of my clients, they’re always talking about what’s the return on investment. And it’s almost like the answer to that is, well, how long is a piece of string? You can say, well, okay, we take you through a curriculum and we should see an uptake in customer retention, customer engagement, bottom line, top line revenue, profitability, et cetera, et cetera.

But often it’s the observable behaviors that’s the real return on investment. Because if you see a sales leader having a conversation or having a conversation with maybe a sales director, if they can be observed, that’s the real return on investment because you can see the behavioral change. What’s the challenge there is it’s really difficult to put a tangible number against that because it’s hard to look at a scoreboard from that.

Well, what does that actually mean? It’s difficult, right? But it’s and I think a lot of companies now are trying too hard to try to put some numbers against some things that perhaps it’s hard to put numbers against.

And that’s my challenge that I’m sort of grappling with with a lot of companies in Australia right now. So you mentioned something there also around the A’s, the B’s and the C’s performers. As you know, Australia, for most companies in Australia, we’ve just come off the end of the financial year.

So June 30 in Australia, for many companies, is the end of the financial year. So I know up until Monday this week, there were companies all over Australia just pounding the pavements trying to get as many sales in as possible and bringing things in from the first quarter of 2026 to this one. And now we’re in the new financial year and then we’re thinking, oh, now what?

What are we going to do now? I wanted to talk about the three tiers of performers, the low performers, top performers, but also this core middle performers, because I know you do a lot of work in this middle performance part. What’s your thoughts around the way that organizations and sales leaders in particular treat those three categories?

And what are some opportunities that perhaps they might be missing? By ignoring the middle performers?

Yeah, let’s start with what the opportunity is in the middle. When you look at the middle, they represent anywhere from 60 to 70 percent of the sales force.

Yeah.

When you look at the top 10 percent, how much more are you going to get out of them? Probably not much more. The bottom 10, 15 percent, managers trying to get rid of them.

You got a limited amount of time. In most organizations, particularly in pharma, everybody gets generally the same amount of time in the field. Yeah.

If a manager spends 100, 120 days in the field of representatives, and he or she has 10 representatives, that’s about 10 days. And when you think about field input teams, special assignments, you’re going to help with a sales meeting, your top performers are the ones that are usually tapped on the shoulder. And there’s some equity and there’s some learning that goes from being able to prepare for sales meeting.

You’re leading a discussion. You’re leading. You’re having an opportunity to get some exposure to marketing, sales leadership.

You have an opportunity to give your input into what’s going on. So you get development that way. If you’re on the bottom, you’re getting attention just because your sales stink and everybody’s trying to get rid of you as quickly as possible.

If you have an extra day, where’s the manager going to spend it? They might spend it with a top representative. They’re probably not going to spend it with a middle representative.

So the middle representative gets no feedback. No one’s cheering for them, and they’re just there. And so if you haven’t said, an interesting thing is in some cases, these middle performers may be pretty solid sales representatives.

They may be north of 100 percent. When we talk about goal attainment, a lot of it is around behaviors and some of the things, I mean, I think part of it is you got to agree as an organization. When we say B, what does that mean?

And if you’re in that category of Bs, you get treated as such. And there’s three degregations of that. There’s the top middle, the top part of the Bs, and then there’s the middle Bs, and then those Bs that are closer to Cs, and you’re wondering in the back of your mind, should I be starting to think about taking some action on them?

So when you think about it from that perspective, it’s your greatest opportunity. I was in a region where the regional manager ultimately was fired and brought in a new regional director, and we would do this thing. She called it Blue Skies, and the way she said, well, we had 80 territories, and it was the cutoff, it was a number of territories that would take the hit goal.

So in other words, if let’s say if it were 30 territories, that it was 30 territories, and then the rest of the region would make goals. So initially when I was a district manager, I used to think in terms of this was kind of the Pareto principle, the 80-20 rule where my manager would look at, do we have a A, B, or C performer? And if we don’t have the right person, do we need to remove that person?

But the piece that I missed is that the entire management team would go down to a district, and the whole team would spend the entire day with a sales team. So every representative would ride with a sales manager or a regional training manager. And depending on how we were geographically dispersed, we would have a best practices dinner.

So it might be one dinner, it could be two or three dinners, and then we would get all of the different best practices and those type of things. So the piece that I missed was that it really was focused on the middle performer, because when you look at the entire region or if you look at a district, you probably had no more than three top performers. You had a core group of people that were in the middle and they got individual time.

So what happened at the end of the year when we do performance management, we spent not only time with my people, I had spent time with other people’s people and had some very, had an idea of from a rating perspective, is this number this number? We could talk about what do we need to do to move this person forward? So we were in a region that was, I think at the time we were seven out of seven and we ended up moving, we ended up being two out of seven.

Part of that was because of the focus on the middle performer with sales, their performance, I can’t tell you how many five-page business plans we would do on a regular basis and critically looking at each individual person, what their previous three years of performance was, what you needed or what you thought that you needed to do to move that person to the next level. Then my manager would dig into your field coaching reports to see if what you said was what you had written in a field coaching reports to see if there was alignment.

Yeah.

So when we talk about that level of focus, those are the things that more so did more to moving a region to two of seven than spending time with top performers. Everybody got some love. And so I think that that’s the opportunity.

Oftentimes, the difference in coaching is that with an A, you can say, do acts, do more programs, or do this close differently, or say this, and they get it. With B, you have to be more explicit during that conversation and that coaching to say exactly what you mean and describe what that means. I believe it’s, I think it’s McKinsey, there’s a McKinsey article and it talks about coaching, about coaching two best practices within an organization.

So that’s the piece that managers oftentimes will miss. Here are things that other teams or other folks are doing within a team that are moving and then coaching to that, but also coaching specifically to what that person needs. And my philosophy as a manager has always been, my role as a manager is help you be the best version of you possibly.

So you might be very, very different than I am. You might be, you know, let’s say you’re highly analytical. My goal is help you be more analytical.

If the other person on teams are high, my goal is to help you be more effective in that way. Now, are there some other things you still got to be able to do analytics and some other things? Do you have to mitigate some weaknesses?

Sure. But you have to help, you have to help people leverage those enhanced strengths instead of the, instead of trying to make them a mini me. As I always say, if I had a team of me’s, we’d be in big trouble.

Well, that’s another lesson as well, because so many sales leaders build teams very much similar to themselves, and they wonder why they’re not generating extraordinary results. So when you think about 60 to 70% of the sales force being in the mid-tier, my experience is often the sales leader doesn’t necessarily know how to unlock the potential of those. So you mentioned before, you might have some who are highly analytical, you might have some who are high-eyes.

For those in the disk, that’s the influencer on the disk profile. So very high-level, very entrepreneurial thinkers, pioneer type people. How do we unlock the potential of these people?

So if you think about it, it represents a large part of the sales opportunity and the revenue base. Because sometimes sales leaders might look at it and say, well, as you said before, a core performer might be actually on target, but if not above target, and they think, well, I’m not sure there’s much else I can help them with, right? How do we help to unlock this?

Because that is probably the difference could make all the difference in terms of how a whole territory achieves and sets them up for long-term sustainable success.

I think the first thing is it starts with the leader themselves. They have to think about how they’re approaching people. There’s a whole story around Pigmalion.

I don’t know if you heard the story about a teacher. They had all these numbers. They told the teacher that these were the people’s IQs.

At the end of the year, these students had all performed very well and somebody came and said, wow, how did these students have never performed this high? The teacher said, well, gave me all of these students with these high IQs and found out that the IQs were actually their locker numbers.

So, part of it is people respond to how you treat them. So, if you treat them in such a way that that’s really what they do. I was talking to a manager, we were having a conversation and they were trying to get this representative to increase the number of calls that they were making a day.

So, they made a comment and they said, the representative had a really good week last week. I asked the manager, I said, well, did you say anything to the representative about it? And they stopped and they looked at me like I was crazy.

And it’s like, yeah, you want them to do acts, you want them to see more physicians during the week, they had a good week, why don’t you reinforce that with positive reinforcement? A lot of times, some of the obvious things managers just don’t do. The other part of that is the conversation that the manager thinks they’re having, they don’t have.

They have challenges and issues with the representative. And then you ask the question, well, does the rep know? And the manager assumes that they know or during the coaching or if you role play a situation with a manager about one of the direct reports or somebody on their team and everybody’s listening, and then you ask everybody else on the team and you say, well, are you clear about what’s being coached?

And everybody shakes their head up and down and says, well, no. So one of the things is that in any conversation, that any coaching conversation that you’re having, A, you need to anchor that conversation. In other words, here’s what we’re going to talk about.

And then at some point, you’ve got to, you and that representative need to agree that it’s an issue. Because if you can’t agree to that it’s an issue, there’s no way you’re going to be able to solve it. What a lot of managers do is they jump to action and they try to get the representative to do something that they’re not even sure why we’re even having a conversation, let alone to what even the problem is.

At least if you can agree that it’s a problem and it needs to be fixed, and then you can begin to establish how to go about fixing that. And so one of the challenges just gets down to the whole coaching conversation. And I referenced the grow model earlier.

Managers have been trained to ask a lot of questions. Well, questions are important, just like they are in sales, they’re important in coaching. But if you’ve been around, you have a lot of experience, you have a point of view, you have an observation, and you’re working with a lot of representatives in the field, so you see things.

And so you give your point of view, you provide the data, you provide the information that says, here’s why I think that. And then they ask, hey, what do you think? And then you get their point of view, and then you can have a discussion.

At least you’re moving forward. And then understanding that coaching may not happen all in one session. It may take you a couple of sessions to get them to agree that this is a challenge, this is an issue, this is something that we need to solve.

But oftentimes, what happens is because the manager jumps to action. Let’s say, for example, they think the representative needs to close. They haven’t given them any data or any information or anything that leads the representatives to even know or understand.

And they may not even be clear, because it may sound like I need to ask more effective probing questions or whatever that is. And then the next time the next field ride comes along, nothing’s changed, nothing’s happened. There’s been no check-in, there’s been no accountability call.

So that happens on a regular basis. And oh, by the way, when the leaderboard comes, no one’s cheering for me because all my stuff’s in the middle. Yeah, I had more calls than I had last week.

No one reinforces that behavior. All the people that are getting a love are at the top. And then if I’m at the bottom, I’m probably getting a nasty phone call and says, hey, what’s going on?

I looked at your numbers and I really stink. Yeah, and so I’m left to my own devices. So I think of managers would think more positively.

And one other thing, Darren, because I saw this, we were doing this with another group of managers. It was a different, it wasn’t a sales team, but it was a similar type of situation where we were talking about, we had done case studies, and you would have thought we were talking about C performers.

Yeah.

Because the senior manager kind of made a statement of, well, we need to try to get rid of this person. And it was, well, with most of the physicians that they’re working with, they’re doing a good job. There’s a couple that they struggle with, but you’ve deemed that maybe you should get rid of them.

Now, ironically, this person ended up leaving the company. So I think about the time that takes you to train somebody up and all of those things, this is a solid citizen and this is a solid performer. So when I talk about Pigmalion, their managers, they look at their B performers like they’re Cs.

Yeah.

And then they wonder why they are not getting as much out of them because ultimately, it’s, you really don’t care about me. You just are concerned about me hitting that number. If I don’t hit that number, you can get rid of me as soon as I can.

And there’s a lack of trust there. And so those are all the things that go into that impact the middle performer and why middle performers oftentimes don’t thrive within organizations.

And there’s an important point you made just before, Keith, you’re saying that we’ve got to be really clear on the problem. And I just wanted to, I guess, clarify that a little bit because sometimes when people hear that, they think, oh, it presupposed there’s something wrong. Well, the problem is you might have a middle performer that is on or above target.

But we look at them and say probably they have more potential they can be giving, right? How do I extract that extra 5, 10% out of them to take them to potentially an A performer? So it’s not that they’re doing things wrong.

We’re just looking at them and saying they’ve got more than they could be doing, right? So that’s the problem part that we need to be looking at. And the other part with all that is we’ve got to, as leaders, spend more time with the middle performers because if that represents 60 to 70% of our sales team in terms of our performance, if we just make a quick 5 to 10% improvement, then that can have a huge impact on our end of year performance, not to mention the level of engagement that those mid performers have, because all of a sudden, we’re now measuring them on behaviors and checking in on those behaviors, not just looking at their results.

And so if we just look at the results, and it’s easy to do because at the end of the quarter it tells us where we sit on the scoreboard, right? We have to look beyond that and say, well, how can I help this person? Because if I see this person who’s a middle performer, a B performer as an A, and I start to treat them as an A, then funnily enough, at some point in the near, not too distant future, they’ll start to become an A, if they take on board the coaching and all that sort of stuff.

So I just wanted to clarify that because there might be people listening to this, oh, I’ve got to find a problem with people. No, no.

Yeah, some of it’s just being more of a cheerleader for your middle performers, and just acknowledging the work and effort that they’re putting in. It’s knowing that somebody cares. And I think part of it also is Darren is having real conversation.

I remember I had a representative that wasn’t closing. And I remember saying to him, I said, you’ve been doing this job for a long time. I know you know how to close.

Why don’t you close? And so he explains to me that he likes to know. It was a congruency issue because in his mind, he said, I like to know more about things.

I don’t like to be closed when I go somewhere and I’m going to. And so he said that I like to know more about what somebody is trying to sell me than they do. So I can come to another decision on my own.

So at the time, I think they were looking at getting married. And so I had a whole conversation about, I used an example when I bought my wife an anniversary ring. And I said, you know, we went to all of these stores and my wife wanted white gold.

And we looked at all of these rings and so all of the rings were pretty much the same.

Yeah.

And I said that the last salesperson, she says to me, she says, will you be taking that ring today? I stopped in my tracks. And I could not find one reason to say no, because my wife wanted that ring, the price point, it was more than I wanted to spend, but it was a good price point.

And then I, in the conversation we had is I said, what I needed from the salesperson was, I needed for them to sit with me. In other words, we weren’t sitting this way, we were sitting together and they were helping me make a decision that I wanted to make, but I needed somebody to push me over. So the conversation was around when you don’t sit next to the physician or the health care professional and help them make that decision, that they want to make that decision, then in essence, you’re actually failing them.

And so he got that. And so I could have done the standard, hey, I want you to work on your clothing or anything, but there clearly was something that went behind that. And so sometimes when we’re having conversations with people, you got to go beyond just following the model and just checking the box.

You’re not doing this, you’re not doing that, but really trying to understand what is it? Because I know you have the capability to do that. I’ve seen you do it.

You’re just not doing it. Kind of help me out here. Let’s have a conversation.

And it wasn’t something that it wasn’t negative. It was just what it was.

Yeah. And the only way you can do that is to actually spend time with them, to observe them.

You’re right.

This is the other thing. So when we’re talking about the coaching, the development, unlocking and unleashing the potential of our sales teams, the only way you can do that is to actually spend time with them in the field to see what they do, what they don’t do, to provide them feedback, provide them coaching, so they can improve, so they can get better. So they can take their performance from B to an A, A to an A+, C to a B, because the thing I want people to understand is, sales leaders are not there and not seeking to get rid of people.

What they want to do is they try to unleash the entire potential of the entire team, collectively and individually. The only way to do that is to build trusted relationships with the people where they know you’re there to serve them. You’re not there to criticize them.

But the only way to do that is to build that relationship, which is a trusted relationship, which is fine.

Amen.

So, with that, I’m conscious of time because it’s nearly 10 o’clock at night.

So, for people who want to learn more about you, Keith, and the work that you do, and maybe understand some of the programs you offer, where’s the best place for them to do that?

Go to my website, coremanagementtraining.com, and it’s all one word, Core Management Training. It’s two T’s, if you spell it out. Go to my website.

You can connect with me on LinkedIn under Keith Willis, and you’ll see my picture in Core Management Training and connect with me there. Those are the best two places to connect with me.

Brilliant. And if there was one lasting, leaving piece of counselor advice for sales leaders who perhaps, on listening to this, are reflecting on the fact that perhaps they haven’t been spending enough time with their mid-performers. What would be the piece of advice you would give to them?

Yeah, I would say that communication is key. You know, I realize that managers, sales managers, are just stretched. The amount of field time that they’re spending now is less than it’s ever been because of just the expectations, reports, and all the things that they have to do.

Pick up the phone sometimes. Having a five or ten minute conversation. You know, some sales leaders don’t do one-on-ones, at least in pharma, traditionally have, and everything’s revolved around the work session.

But just pick up the phone, talk to people, tell them you care about them. And you know, I know everybody’s not warm and fuzzy and all that other good stuff. But when you pick up the phone, it does show that you care just to check in.

And I know one of the lessons I learned as a manager is that sometimes when you pick up the phone and talk to the person that you least expect wants to talk to you, they have questions and it’s like, wow, I’m glad I spent my office day calling all my representatives just to check in. It’s just valuable. If you just did that, I think that there would be great returns for you and your team as well as your relationships.

Yeah. Love that. Love that.

And the thing is, it’s easy to do, but it’s also easy not to do when the sales leader thinks, I’ve got to get this report for myself. I’ve got to do my strategic forecast for the next quarter. Do your team a favor and plug into them and give the gift of your attention to them.

Keith, hey, thank you so much. It’s been a great conversation. I love the insights, and I think we’re both on the same page as it relates to sales leadership, irrespective of the industry, the core principles apply.

So I want to thank you for jumping on at such a late time in the evening in Philadelphia. So thanks for being a great guest on The Exceptional Sales Leader Podcast.

Thank you so much, Darren. Appreciate you having me on.

Awesome, mate.

Thank you for listening to The Exceptional Sales Leader Podcast. I trust the information in this episode has been helpful in your journey towards becoming exceptional. And remember, please take the time to rate the show, subscribe to the show so other people can find it, but also if I can help you, jump on my calendar, go to leadwithdarrin.com, and let’s have a conversation about how I can help you along your journey to being exceptional.

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Bringing your A-game: Interviews, Value, and Coaching

Hiring managers want reps who create impact from day one. That means showing up prepared, adding real value in every visit, and carrying yourself with the confidence to lead conversations.

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The Conversation

We discussed what managers look for in interviews, how to stand out in a crowded office, and why self-development sets successful candidates apart. We also explored coaching, courses, and mentors as the fastest way to level up skills and maintain momentum after setbacks or rejections.

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The Insight

You get chosen when you show you can bring value now. Confidence, clear stories of performance, and a habit of learning signal readiness. Training and coaching pay off because they turn intention into a visible skill.

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The Action

  • Prepare 4 to 6 tight success stories and one lessons-learned story. Practice them aloud until they are crisp.
  • Enter every interview with a plan: the needs you will probe, the proof you will share, and the ask you will make.
  • Invest in yourself. Join a course, hire a coach, or join a peer group to build accountability and support.
  • Establish a weekly practice routine: one networking touchpoint, one skills role-play (or mock Q&A), and one interview rehearsal.
  • After any rejection, extract three key learning points, adjust accordingly, and move on to the next opportunity.

Welcome to The Exceptional Sales Leader Podcast with Darren Mitchell. If you’re a sales leader looking to take your leadership to a whole new level, then this is the podcast for you. We’ll be exploring tips, techniques, and strategies to help you take your leadership to the exceptional level, and allow you to enjoy more money, more meaning, and better sales results.

Welcome back to The Exceptional Sales Leader Podcast, and welcome to a man coming in in the evening. In the evening, and this is being recorded, this is in the first week of July. It’s actually at his dinner, so he’s looking very splendid, and he’s beautiful pink.

Is that a, that’s a polo shirt, right?

It is, yes, it’s a polo shirt.

Coming in from Philadelphia, Mr. Keith Willis, welcome to The Exceptional Sales Leader Podcast.

Thank you, Darren, really excited to be here. I’m glad I was able to make it today. I know we had some challenges there coming from dinner, but after listening to a few episodes, just happy to be here and looking forward to our conversation.

“Yeah, thank you. And I do apologize because there was, I think we were talking just before you pressed record, you were talking about having a virtual assistant that has been relieved of their duties, making some decisions because I got a decline, they got an acceptance and then I got an email overnight. So yeah, I’m ready to go.

And so we made this happen really quickly. So greatly appreciate it. Hey, you’re the founder and president of Core Management Training.

You’ve got a lot of experience around leadership, farmer sales, but also interestingly, a military background as well. I’m really looking forward to this conversation because I could go anywhere, but I think just based on a little preamble before you press record, there’s some really cool points that people listening to this can really bring home to Roos and help them in their sales leadership journey. Now, before we jump into it, I’d love to always get a bit of a sense of my guess background in terms of what you’ve done and what’s led you to now do, what you do with Core Management Training.

Well, yeah, Darren, I started out as a ROTC cadet. I got four years of college and graduated with a regular army commission. The same day I graduated from college, I got my commission all on the same day.

Went to my officer basic course and landed in Germany. So I was in Germany for three years, did a variety of roles. Probably one of the most important roles is a young lieutenant as a platoon leader.

So I had two different platoon leader roles. I was in a ordnance unit. A lot of people don’t realize when we think of ordnance, we think of explosive bombs and all of those things.

At least in the States, that’s the smallest part of the ordnance core. So you have missile management, you have automotive management, and then you have explosive ordnance. Now, obviously this was before the Gulf War.

So that may have changed now, but when I was in, there was automotive maintenance. So we had responsibility for fixing vehicles. I was automotive platoon leader as well as at one point in time, what they call the E&E electronic and engineering platoon.

And then eventually, I became what they call the shop officer. So just think in terms of you’re going to get your car fixed, and you drop your car off to the shop. My team had responsibility for getting those vehicles fixed.

And then those vehicles weren’t fixed. There were issues, obviously, because units needed to have a certain percentage of the vehicles ready to roll, so that they could be mission capable. So I did that.

And then I came back stateside. Around that time, the first Gulf War, so I had responsibility for making sure, seeing all the vehicles painted that went off to the desert, and then eventually became what they call the S1. So think in terms of the S1 is the administrator officer or HR, for all practical purposes.

We had about 900 soldiers in our battalion. We had some of the last couple of units coming back from Southwest Asia and then we had a unit relocating from Germany. So I had a responsibility for whether it be pay, officer evaluations, NCO evaluations, anything to do with any type of HR type of issues, I had a responsibility for.

And then decided that I was going to get out. So I worked through a junior military recruiter and ended up in sales. And so it was interesting because like a lot of people, I had never thought I was going to be a salesperson.

But in fact, I had never even seen or even heard of a pharmaceutical rep. And I had a couple of interviews. And back in the day when you interviewed for a pharmaceutical job, you used to have the opportunity to spend the day in the field with the sales representative.

I didn’t have that opportunity. And my first day in the field was the first time I got a sense of, oh, this is what a rep does. I don’t know if I would have signed up for it then.

But I was fortunate. I had some good mentors and some folks that helped me out. So I would say that the guy that interviewed me did a good job of selling me because he equated being in pharmaceutical sales like being in the military.

So he talked about sales forces as in units, putting promotional messaging against certain products and those types of things. So I got that analogy and so that was how I ended up in pharmaceutical sales, moving from the military. So big jump, big change.

And I love to explore because you mentioned before, you never thought you’d be in sales and it’s interesting. The vast majority of people I speak to will be on this podcast or just generally in business. It’s almost none of them have actually woken up one day and said, yeah, I reckon I’ll be in sales.

I reckon that’s a good career to proceed with. Well, I kind of fell into that or in some people, people say, that’s the only role I could get.

And so fast forwarding to that, we’ll talk about what you’ve learned through your career in sales and now what you do now. But love to know, making that transition from the military where it was very structured and you’re looking after all of those people in terms of all the administration, the HR related stuff. Making that transition into private enterprise and into a sales role, where you’re now responsible.

What were some of the key lessons from, I guess, your leadership background within the military that helped you make that transition? Presupposing, of course, it was a relatively smooth transition. I’m sure there would have been some bumps in the road.

Looking back in that transition, what are some of the key lessons that helped you transition into a sales and then eventually into the leadership roles?

I think the big thing is that in the military, as an officer, you have a great deal of responsibility. I mean, when I got out of the military, I was, what, 28, maybe, after six years. So even at 21 or 22 years old, my first platoon had, I think, 70 soldiers, and then the automotive platoon had 40 soldiers, and then responsibility for running a shop with close to 200 soldiers, seven or eight direct reports.

So you go from being, I wouldn’t say king of the hill, but all of a sudden, you’re just responsible for yourself. And I do think the first rule of leadership is you have to lead yourself ultimately. And so I had learned a lot of those lessons in the military, because not only do you have responsibility for soldiers, you also have responsibility for yourself.

And things like, you’re doing PT two or three times a week, you pass the PT test, you have to carry yourself in a certain way. Being overseas in Germany, you stand out because you’re American relatively to being in Germany. And so a lot of eyes are on you, and you’re working with other allies, other units, you have customers.

I had customers, we called them customers, and when we fixed vehicles, those types of things. So you had customer units, and you treated them as such. You go from that to all of a sudden, you’re just you as a salesperson, you just have to get up and you have to figure out, how do I sell?

What is the selling thing that I need to learn how to do? You go from fixing vehicles or managing a deadline list to, how do I learn this product? How do I sell that?

And so there’s a level of study, and you have to swallow your pride, because in the pharmaceutical industry, the sales rep position is entry level. Now, for some people, they spend a career as sales representative, but even their CEOs, a lot of CEOs carried a bag as a sales representative back in the day. So, it is a great training ground, and ultimately, it comes down to learning how to manage yourself, manage your emotions.

As an officer, you’re standing in front of soldiers, and at times, things aren’t going great. You have to learn how to control your emotions and those types of things. And when I was younger, my emotional intelligence probably wasn’t that great.

And over years, as you get older and wiser and more mature, you get better at doing those things. But as a sales representative, when you’re going in to see physicians, you’re talking to nurses, you’re talking to staff every day, ultimately, it’s the relationships that you develop in these offices. And you have a rotation, so you may have anywhere from 100 to 120 doctors that you’re seeing from every four to six weeks.

So that relationship and your selling skills make the difference between getting your product written and not written. So, a lot of lessons there. And part of it’s, you know, swallowing your pride and knowing how to ask for help.

And thanks for sharing that. It’s interesting, as you’re talking, I was just reflecting on some of my own clients that I’ve worked with as a mentor and as a coach who have been in the pharmaceutical industry or the medical industry where it’s very specialized knowledge. And particularly when you’ve got clients who are doctors, physicians, cardiovascular surgeons, orthopedic surgeons, et cetera, the expectations they have on a person who is coming in to sell them a solution to a problem is really, really high.

You also mentioned the importance of mentors as well in your journey. From a person coming from a military background and, for want of a better term, being thrust into pharmaceutical sales, how was the, I guess, the onboarding process with you? You mentioned you had a cycle of physicians to talk to over a period of, say, six weeks or so.

How did you go about building credibility in the eyes of those physicians to the point where they would even start to contemplate the solutions that you were providing them? Because this is a really interesting point because you’ve got to establish credibility as a sales leader and you’ve got to establish credibility as a sales person or sales professional before the customers even contemplate thinking about your solution. Is there anything specific that you did?

I think ultimately you have to show up. I think that’s part of the piece. I spent my first couple of years, I was fortunate to work.

We kind of worked in a team perspective. You had your own territory, we crossed over products and there were a couple of people that were on my team that they won sales awards almost every year. In fact, one of my first district managers, he had been a rep for over 20 years when he became a district manager.

He was a new district manager and even now was probably one of the best district managers that I had. He intuitively knew what you needed to do. I remember you got a diamond, so he had this shamrock ring and he had four diamonds and a ruby and that was representative of all the awards that he had won.

I remember I used to always say, I want to get one of those awards and wear one of those rings. And he was a no-nonsense, pretty straightforward. I remember my car looking like a disaster and him telling me, the next time I ride with you, your car looks like that, there are going to be some consequences.

And he gave me the reason why. We’re professional, you don’t know who’s going to see your car, you’re representing the organization and those types of things. So I appreciated his straightforward demeanor.

So having those types of conversations with managers is really important. And when I was a rep, training was pretty rigorous. The company that I worked, there was, I can’t remember, but I think it was like a four-week training cycle.

And you spent a lot more time in training then than you did now. And you had to pass exams. And I think two years in, they have what they call a medical review exam.

And that exam was 200 questions. And if you didn’t, if you passed the exam, the good news was you got a 10% raise. They don’t give 10% raises anymore.

If you didn’t pass the exam, you probably should put your resume together and start looking for a job. But they had vetted that with physicians. And what the feedback was is that that exam was on the level of what a medical student would get.

And so you build up your product knowledge, and then when you go in, you can answer questions, you talk to the physician, you build relationships. I always think of the trust equation. So you mentioned the credibility piece, which is one part of that.

Do you do what you say you’re going to do? Do you show up? Then there’s the competency piece.

Then it’s the intimacy, which comes back to the relationship divided by your self-orientation. And interesting enough, the more self-orientation that you have, the less trust that you have in the office. So I often like to think in terms of when you think about building trust in any, whether it’s with customers, internally, even with family, to think about the trust equation.

So if you have all of those components, as you build trust, it gives you a lot more autonomy, it builds your credibility, it gives you the opportunity to be able to serve your customers.

It’s huge, and I often use the trust equation in my workshops for leaders, and I do a little trust game afterwards, and it’s interesting how competitive people get and how self-orientation comes to the surface. Even though they’re in tech, they intellectualize, yeah, it’s not about us, it’s all about serving the team until there’s a competition. I’ve got to win.

I’ve got to win. So you then made the leap after a few years into a district manager role and a sales leadership role. Love your experience on reflection, moving from being an individual contributor to a sales leader, and how easy or difficult was that for you?

The truth of the matter was I was not a great district manager by any stretch of the imagination. And it was interesting going from, because in the military, there’s an assumption. So there clearly is structural structure.

I remember my commander used to say, you have hours like a banker. I mean, as an officer, you do run your mission. There’s expectation of you saw problems, you don’t bring problems to me.

And so there’s far more autonomy as an officer than people realize. And I probably talked about this whole emotional immaturity. Younger, the stuff you just do, stupid stuff, I think back on.

You lose your temper, you yell at people and things like that. And you can kind of get away with that in military, even though on reflection, the better leaders were those that were calm, cool, and collected. The people that were respected the most were the leaders that didn’t need to raise their voice, that listen to problems, that help people do things.

And over time, as you get older, at least for me, I can’t speak for everybody, as I matured, I began to realize there are some things that I needed to do more effectively. But as a district manager, you know, the first couple of years were tough. And looking back at it, I would say that I should have waited longer.

I had been a sales representative at that point with two different companies. The first company I ended up leaving because of downsizing and those types of things. And when I went over to the next company, I won two district rep of the year.

I finished three out of 640 sales representatives. So I had street cred from the standpoint of being able to sell effectively. And we had a good development program as far as preparing people to be managers.

But you can train people all day long, but until you do the job, you know, I joke with people that don’t want to be a manager. And I say, you’ll learn. It’s one of the most developmental jobs that you get.

All of the lessons and things that you need to learn, you’ll learn as a district manager. If you have a gap, that’s going to be the thing that you have an opportunity to work on as a manager. So that was my experience.

And on the back end of it, I did better. So there were some reps I managed well. I had great relationships with.

And then there are reps that I struggled with. I would say they were middle performers. Middle performers in that they weren’t looking to get promoted.

They would tell you they wanted to get promoted, but they weren’t looking to get promoted because when I look back, when I look at them now, some of them are still in the industry, still in sales. And interesting enough, a lot of them put up great numbers. They would be way over goal.

It wasn’t a matter of that. It’s just they’re not raising their hand to volunteer. They’re not trying to do anything extra.

And they would be a pain in your backside. You might call them on a Friday afternoon and it’s like they’re there in office doing expense reports because they’re trying to get down to the shore. And I was one of those people.

My expectation is you should be out working. And I had to learn, look, if you’re putting up the numbers, you get a little bit more autonomy versus if you’re not. And it was all of those things learning how to work through.

And interesting enough, it wasn’t until I left and I went to another organization that had a very, very strong leadership development program. And it wasn’t that the company that I was at before didn’t. It was just the way that the guy that ran the program, he was a guru.

There was no debate whether you’re first or second line leader. You were coming to his training. And then there were two levels.

So as a second line leader, there would be coaching or they would listen to sessions where you coached your first line leader and there would be feedback on the coaching. And then there would be feedback for the first line leader who was coaching their representative. So up the chain, there was an opportunity to see.

And because I was in training and then as a part of the cadre and going through all the different rotations and training the classes, you begin to learn how to be more effective as a leader. And then running training teams internally, I became a much better leader. So I think it’s a combination of time.

There’s always a time element. There’s a maturity element. There are parts of us that maybe from a business perspective, you may be very strong, but you may not have the emotional maturity.

For some people, they’re emotionally mature very early. Maybe the business acumen is not that good. So we all have stuff to work on.

But I would say that that was my journey. And I was fortunate because I was in organizations where training, there was a lot of leadership training. And unfortunately, I would say that in the pharma industry, that’s not as consistent now as it has been in the past.

And part of it is because there are more downsizing, there are more cutbacks, there are more companies that are being bought. So all of those things, it becomes difficult to justify how do we sustain a leadership development program if the people that go through the program aren’t going to get promoted.

Yeah, true, true. So would you say that that’s one of the key challenges facing a lot of organizations now, particularly in the life sciences and pharma industry?

I definitely would say that that’s a challenge. How do you get the next group of people ready to get promoted? And I think it goes, I think this is probably every industry.

I don’t think it’s unique to pharma. You know, pharma, we joke and we say we’ve, the industry’s gotten old. It hasn’t, it hasn’t.

There’s a life cycle. You know, you know, when I started, I was in my late 20s. A lot of us were the same age.

A lot of people I know now are retiring. Some of them are CEO. Some of them have done extremely well in the career.

And, you know, it used to be you had to hire people that didn’t have a lot of sales experience. And now, because you have a lot more specialty drugs, more specialty products, there’s a tendency to hire representatives that have experience. So it’s harder for people to break in.

And the other part of that is that when you’re trying to figure out, how do I create a developmental pipeline? What’s that going to look like? I will often hear, well, we’re not expanding.

We’re not going to have new promotions. And so how do I train people? How do I get them ready to step into these roles?

So it’s not unheard of where you talk to leadership and people feel like people aren’t ready. And I even talk to second line leaders that have had training. And they’ll say, I don’t know that I’m as prepared as I need to be to how to coach my first line leader or how to coach their people, provide feedback.

So I think it’s a challenge in budgets, money, time. I don’t know if you remember back in the day when I was a rep, we used to get mail once a week. And you’d wait for the mail to come in and you’d go through the mail.

Now you get that much mail in 15 minutes on your computer. So the temple is so much faster now and the expectations are so much higher now than they were 20 years ago.

They are, which we kind of, as you were talking about the second level leaders and even the first line leaders there, my experience is a lot of leaders are thrust into a leadership position because they’ve been a great individual contributor. And that seems to be the catalyst or the trigger for them to be given the opportunity. And I know you talk a little bit about heroic leaders to servant leaders and I’m big on servant leadership in terms of what that, particularly in sales, which might sound a little bit counterintuitive.

What do you see in the industry right now in relation to organizations where there’s a lot of changes, there’s a lot of maybe downsizing, changing in terms of company structures, buyouts and stuff like that. Is there still a focus on the importance of leadership and getting the right people for the future of the business? Or is it more a case of we just got to get the number because we’re going to make sure that we are surviving firstly and then potentially thriving so that we can be bought out by a bigger company.

We used to joke, a friend of mine, that we were surprised our companies would run because it was more inertia, and things would get going and they would just run. I think it’s a combination of both. I think everybody acknowledges that there’s a need for leadership.

The question is, how do we get people ready for leadership? And then I think there’s a split because you have companies that have been around for a while, but what happens is that product goes generic, something happens, they get rid of the entire commercial team. And some companies take a different approach.

They move that talent around to other business units. You have to learn the product, but ultimately business is business. You can figure that out.

And then I think that there’s just not enough or there are sections of time. Last year, I went to a conference and I can’t remember the numbers. And it wasn’t just pharma, but a lot of organizations, there was a ratio where they had cut the leadership development trainers to leaders significantly.

And it’ll be interesting because the conference is coming up in a couple of weeks to see where they are. But companies that had established the leadership development programs and they were presenting what they had done with cohorts and everything where most of the team had disappeared. So now you have one or two trainers responsible.

And so that speaks volumes oftentimes about where a company, what a company really thinks about leadership. So even though they say the right thing, they don’t necessarily believe the right thing. Or I’ll have conversations with organizations and everybody’s doing the same thing.

The Grow Model. Okay, so the Grow Model is not that it’s not effective, but everybody’s doing it. Situational leadership, SBI.

I mean, there’s all this stuff. And then you ask the question, okay, so what problem are you trying to solve? So they’ll do a whole overhaul of leadership development, but they don’t answer the question of, well, what’s the problem we’re trying to solve?

What is it the program wasn’t giving us that we’re looking for today? And so there’s all of this stuff. And I at times think and feel like that people feel like the leadership development that they’re getting isn’t helping them with the day to day.

It’s not helping them with some of the challenges, issues, and problems that they’re having with their teams. How do I get even the A performer today can easily be a B performer tomorrow or even a C performer. When we talk about things like AI, different types of the new CRM platforms, different things that expectations that people have, it can change so quickly.

So how do you get people through that? How do you enable them? How do you upskill them?

And so I don’t know that anybody has a good answer. And I don’t know that a lot of organizations spend enough time figuring that out. And then I think, ultimately, how do you measure what you’re doing and that it’s having impact?

How do you really know that a sales leader that went through a curriculum and got developed is doing a good job? What does that look like?

Yeah, it’s difficult because a lot of my clients, they’re always talking about what’s the return on investment. And it’s almost like the answer to that is, well, how long is a piece of string? You can say, well, okay, we take you through a curriculum and we should see an uptake in customer retention, customer engagement, bottom line, top line revenue, profitability, et cetera, et cetera.

But often it’s the observable behaviors that’s the real return on investment. Because if you see a sales leader having a conversation or having a conversation with maybe a sales director, if they can be observed, that’s the real return on investment because you can see the behavioral change. What’s the challenge there is it’s really difficult to put a tangible number against that because it’s hard to look at a scoreboard from that.

Well, what does that actually mean? It’s difficult, right? But it’s and I think a lot of companies now are trying too hard to try to put some numbers against some things that perhaps it’s hard to put numbers against.

And that’s my challenge that I’m sort of grappling with with a lot of companies in Australia right now. So you mentioned something there also around the A’s, the B’s and the C’s performers. As you know, Australia, for most companies in Australia, we’ve just come off the end of the financial year.

So June 30 in Australia, for many companies, is the end of the financial year. So I know up until Monday this week, there were companies all over Australia just pounding the pavements trying to get as many sales in as possible and bringing things in from the first quarter of 2026 to this one. And now we’re in the new financial year and then we’re thinking, oh, now what?

What are we going to do now? I wanted to talk about the three tiers of performers, the low performers, top performers, but also this core middle performers, because I know you do a lot of work in this middle performance part. What’s your thoughts around the way that organizations and sales leaders in particular treat those three categories?

And what are some opportunities that perhaps they might be missing? By ignoring the middle performers?

Yeah, let’s start with what the opportunity is in the middle. When you look at the middle, they represent anywhere from 60 to 70 percent of the sales force.

Yeah.

When you look at the top 10 percent, how much more are you going to get out of them? Probably not much more. The bottom 10, 15 percent, managers trying to get rid of them.

You got a limited amount of time. In most organizations, particularly in pharma, everybody gets generally the same amount of time in the field. Yeah.

If a manager spends 100, 120 days in the field of representatives, and he or she has 10 representatives, that’s about 10 days. And when you think about field input teams, special assignments, you’re going to help with a sales meeting, your top performers are the ones that are usually tapped on the shoulder. And there’s some equity and there’s some learning that goes from being able to prepare for sales meeting.

You’re leading a discussion. You’re leading. You’re having an opportunity to get some exposure to marketing, sales leadership.

You have an opportunity to give your input into what’s going on. So you get development that way. If you’re on the bottom, you’re getting attention just because your sales stink and everybody’s trying to get rid of you as quickly as possible.

If you have an extra day, where’s the manager going to spend it? They might spend it with a top representative. They’re probably not going to spend it with a middle representative.

So the middle representative gets no feedback. No one’s cheering for them, and they’re just there. And so if you haven’t said, an interesting thing is in some cases, these middle performers may be pretty solid sales representatives.

They may be north of 100 percent. When we talk about goal attainment, a lot of it is around behaviors and some of the things, I mean, I think part of it is you got to agree as an organization. When we say B, what does that mean?

And if you’re in that category of Bs, you get treated as such. And there’s three degregations of that. There’s the top middle, the top part of the Bs, and then there’s the middle Bs, and then those Bs that are closer to Cs, and you’re wondering in the back of your mind, should I be starting to think about taking some action on them?

So when you think about it from that perspective, it’s your greatest opportunity. I was in a region where the regional manager ultimately was fired and brought in a new regional director, and we would do this thing. She called it Blue Skies, and the way she said, well, we had 80 territories, and it was the cutoff, it was a number of territories that would take the hit goal.

So in other words, if let’s say if it were 30 territories, that it was 30 territories, and then the rest of the region would make goals. So initially when I was a district manager, I used to think in terms of this was kind of the Pareto principle, the 80-20 rule where my manager would look at, do we have a A, B, or C performer? And if we don’t have the right person, do we need to remove that person?

But the piece that I missed is that the entire management team would go down to a district, and the whole team would spend the entire day with a sales team. So every representative would ride with a sales manager or a regional training manager. And depending on how we were geographically dispersed, we would have a best practices dinner.

So it might be one dinner, it could be two or three dinners, and then we would get all of the different best practices and those type of things. So the piece that I missed was that it really was focused on the middle performer, because when you look at the entire region or if you look at a district, you probably had no more than three top performers. You had a core group of people that were in the middle and they got individual time.

So what happened at the end of the year when we do performance management, we spent not only time with my people, I had spent time with other people’s people and had some very, had an idea of from a rating perspective, is this number this number? We could talk about what do we need to do to move this person forward? So we were in a region that was, I think at the time we were seven out of seven and we ended up moving, we ended up being two out of seven.

Part of that was because of the focus on the middle performer with sales, their performance, I can’t tell you how many five-page business plans we would do on a regular basis and critically looking at each individual person, what their previous three years of performance was, what you needed or what you thought that you needed to do to move that person to the next level. Then my manager would dig into your field coaching reports to see if what you said was what you had written in a field coaching reports to see if there was alignment.

Yeah.

So when we talk about that level of focus, those are the things that more so did more to moving a region to two of seven than spending time with top performers. Everybody got some love. And so I think that that’s the opportunity.

Oftentimes, the difference in coaching is that with an A, you can say, do acts, do more programs, or do this close differently, or say this, and they get it. With B, you have to be more explicit during that conversation and that coaching to say exactly what you mean and describe what that means. I believe it’s, I think it’s McKinsey, there’s a McKinsey article and it talks about coaching, about coaching two best practices within an organization.

So that’s the piece that managers oftentimes will miss. Here are things that other teams or other folks are doing within a team that are moving and then coaching to that, but also coaching specifically to what that person needs. And my philosophy as a manager has always been, my role as a manager is help you be the best version of you possibly.

So you might be very, very different than I am. You might be, you know, let’s say you’re highly analytical. My goal is help you be more analytical.

If the other person on teams are high, my goal is to help you be more effective in that way. Now, are there some other things you still got to be able to do analytics and some other things? Do you have to mitigate some weaknesses?

Sure. But you have to help, you have to help people leverage those enhanced strengths instead of the, instead of trying to make them a mini me. As I always say, if I had a team of me’s, we’d be in big trouble.

Well, that’s another lesson as well, because so many sales leaders build teams very much similar to themselves, and they wonder why they’re not generating extraordinary results. So when you think about 60 to 70% of the sales force being in the mid-tier, my experience is often the sales leader doesn’t necessarily know how to unlock the potential of those. So you mentioned before, you might have some who are highly analytical, you might have some who are high-eyes.

For those in the disk, that’s the influencer on the disk profile. So very high-level, very entrepreneurial thinkers, pioneer type people. How do we unlock the potential of these people?

So if you think about it, it represents a large part of the sales opportunity and the revenue base. Because sometimes sales leaders might look at it and say, well, as you said before, a core performer might be actually on target, but if not above target, and they think, well, I’m not sure there’s much else I can help them with, right? How do we help to unlock this?

Because that is probably the difference could make all the difference in terms of how a whole territory achieves and sets them up for long-term sustainable success.

I think the first thing is it starts with the leader themselves. They have to think about how they’re approaching people. There’s a whole story around Pigmalion.

I don’t know if you heard the story about a teacher. They had all these numbers. They told the teacher that these were the people’s IQs.

At the end of the year, these students had all performed very well and somebody came and said, wow, how did these students have never performed this high? The teacher said, well, gave me all of these students with these high IQs and found out that the IQs were actually their locker numbers.

So, part of it is people respond to how you treat them. So, if you treat them in such a way that that’s really what they do. I was talking to a manager, we were having a conversation and they were trying to get this representative to increase the number of calls that they were making a day.

So, they made a comment and they said, the representative had a really good week last week. I asked the manager, I said, well, did you say anything to the representative about it? And they stopped and they looked at me like I was crazy.

And it’s like, yeah, you want them to do acts, you want them to see more physicians during the week, they had a good week, why don’t you reinforce that with positive reinforcement? A lot of times, some of the obvious things managers just don’t do. The other part of that is the conversation that the manager thinks they’re having, they don’t have.

They have challenges and issues with the representative. And then you ask the question, well, does the rep know? And the manager assumes that they know or during the coaching or if you role play a situation with a manager about one of the direct reports or somebody on their team and everybody’s listening, and then you ask everybody else on the team and you say, well, are you clear about what’s being coached?

And everybody shakes their head up and down and says, well, no. So one of the things is that in any conversation, that any coaching conversation that you’re having, A, you need to anchor that conversation. In other words, here’s what we’re going to talk about.

And then at some point, you’ve got to, you and that representative need to agree that it’s an issue. Because if you can’t agree to that it’s an issue, there’s no way you’re going to be able to solve it. What a lot of managers do is they jump to action and they try to get the representative to do something that they’re not even sure why we’re even having a conversation, let alone to what even the problem is.

At least if you can agree that it’s a problem and it needs to be fixed, and then you can begin to establish how to go about fixing that. And so one of the challenges just gets down to the whole coaching conversation. And I referenced the grow model earlier.

Managers have been trained to ask a lot of questions. Well, questions are important, just like they are in sales, they’re important in coaching. But if you’ve been around, you have a lot of experience, you have a point of view, you have an observation, and you’re working with a lot of representatives in the field, so you see things.

And so you give your point of view, you provide the data, you provide the information that says, here’s why I think that. And then they ask, hey, what do you think? And then you get their point of view, and then you can have a discussion.

At least you’re moving forward. And then understanding that coaching may not happen all in one session. It may take you a couple of sessions to get them to agree that this is a challenge, this is an issue, this is something that we need to solve.

But oftentimes, what happens is because the manager jumps to action. Let’s say, for example, they think the representative needs to close. They haven’t given them any data or any information or anything that leads the representatives to even know or understand.

And they may not even be clear, because it may sound like I need to ask more effective probing questions or whatever that is. And then the next time the next field ride comes along, nothing’s changed, nothing’s happened. There’s been no check-in, there’s been no accountability call.

So that happens on a regular basis. And oh, by the way, when the leaderboard comes, no one’s cheering for me because all my stuff’s in the middle. Yeah, I had more calls than I had last week.

No one reinforces that behavior. All the people that are getting a love are at the top. And then if I’m at the bottom, I’m probably getting a nasty phone call and says, hey, what’s going on?

I looked at your numbers and I really stink. Yeah, and so I’m left to my own devices. So I think of managers would think more positively.

And one other thing, Darren, because I saw this, we were doing this with another group of managers. It was a different, it wasn’t a sales team, but it was a similar type of situation where we were talking about, we had done case studies, and you would have thought we were talking about C performers.

Yeah.

Because the senior manager kind of made a statement of, well, we need to try to get rid of this person. And it was, well, with most of the physicians that they’re working with, they’re doing a good job. There’s a couple that they struggle with, but you’ve deemed that maybe you should get rid of them.

Now, ironically, this person ended up leaving the company. So I think about the time that takes you to train somebody up and all of those things, this is a solid citizen and this is a solid performer. So when I talk about Pigmalion, their managers, they look at their B performers like they’re Cs.

Yeah.

And then they wonder why they are not getting as much out of them because ultimately, it’s, you really don’t care about me. You just are concerned about me hitting that number. If I don’t hit that number, you can get rid of me as soon as I can.

And there’s a lack of trust there. And so those are all the things that go into that impact the middle performer and why middle performers oftentimes don’t thrive within organizations.

And there’s an important point you made just before, Keith, you’re saying that we’ve got to be really clear on the problem. And I just wanted to, I guess, clarify that a little bit because sometimes when people hear that, they think, oh, it presupposed there’s something wrong. Well, the problem is you might have a middle performer that is on or above target.

But we look at them and say probably they have more potential they can be giving, right? How do I extract that extra 5, 10% out of them to take them to potentially an A performer? So it’s not that they’re doing things wrong.

We’re just looking at them and saying they’ve got more than they could be doing, right? So that’s the problem part that we need to be looking at. And the other part with all that is we’ve got to, as leaders, spend more time with the middle performers because if that represents 60 to 70% of our sales team in terms of our performance, if we just make a quick 5 to 10% improvement, then that can have a huge impact on our end of year performance, not to mention the level of engagement that those mid performers have, because all of a sudden, we’re now measuring them on behaviors and checking in on those behaviors, not just looking at their results.

And so if we just look at the results, and it’s easy to do because at the end of the quarter it tells us where we sit on the scoreboard, right? We have to look beyond that and say, well, how can I help this person? Because if I see this person who’s a middle performer, a B performer as an A, and I start to treat them as an A, then funnily enough, at some point in the near, not too distant future, they’ll start to become an A, if they take on board the coaching and all that sort of stuff.

So I just wanted to clarify that because there might be people listening to this, oh, I’ve got to find a problem with people. No, no.

Yeah, some of it’s just being more of a cheerleader for your middle performers, and just acknowledging the work and effort that they’re putting in. It’s knowing that somebody cares. And I think part of it also is Darren is having real conversation.

I remember I had a representative that wasn’t closing. And I remember saying to him, I said, you’ve been doing this job for a long time. I know you know how to close.

Why don’t you close? And so he explains to me that he likes to know. It was a congruency issue because in his mind, he said, I like to know more about things.

I don’t like to be closed when I go somewhere and I’m going to. And so he said that I like to know more about what somebody is trying to sell me than they do. So I can come to another decision on my own.

So at the time, I think they were looking at getting married. And so I had a whole conversation about, I used an example when I bought my wife an anniversary ring. And I said, you know, we went to all of these stores and my wife wanted white gold.

And we looked at all of these rings and so all of the rings were pretty much the same.

Yeah.

And I said that the last salesperson, she says to me, she says, will you be taking that ring today? I stopped in my tracks. And I could not find one reason to say no, because my wife wanted that ring, the price point, it was more than I wanted to spend, but it was a good price point.

And then I, in the conversation we had is I said, what I needed from the salesperson was, I needed for them to sit with me. In other words, we weren’t sitting this way, we were sitting together and they were helping me make a decision that I wanted to make, but I needed somebody to push me over. So the conversation was around when you don’t sit next to the physician or the health care professional and help them make that decision, that they want to make that decision, then in essence, you’re actually failing them.

And so he got that. And so I could have done the standard, hey, I want you to work on your clothing or anything, but there clearly was something that went behind that. And so sometimes when we’re having conversations with people, you got to go beyond just following the model and just checking the box.

You’re not doing this, you’re not doing that, but really trying to understand what is it? Because I know you have the capability to do that. I’ve seen you do it.

You’re just not doing it. Kind of help me out here. Let’s have a conversation.

And it wasn’t something that it wasn’t negative. It was just what it was.

Yeah. And the only way you can do that is to actually spend time with them, to observe them.

You’re right.

This is the other thing. So when we’re talking about the coaching, the development, unlocking and unleashing the potential of our sales teams, the only way you can do that is to actually spend time with them in the field to see what they do, what they don’t do, to provide them feedback, provide them coaching, so they can improve, so they can get better. So they can take their performance from B to an A, A to an A+, C to a B, because the thing I want people to understand is, sales leaders are not there and not seeking to get rid of people.

What they want to do is they try to unleash the entire potential of the entire team, collectively and individually. The only way to do that is to build trusted relationships with the people where they know you’re there to serve them. You’re not there to criticize them.

But the only way to do that is to build that relationship, which is a trusted relationship, which is fine.

Amen.

So, with that, I’m conscious of time because it’s nearly 10 o’clock at night.

So, for people who want to learn more about you, Keith, and the work that you do, and maybe understand some of the programs you offer, where’s the best place for them to do that?

Go to my website, coremanagementtraining.com, and it’s all one word, Core Management Training. It’s two T’s, if you spell it out. Go to my website.

You can connect with me on LinkedIn under Keith Willis, and you’ll see my picture in Core Management Training and connect with me there. Those are the best two places to connect with me.

Brilliant. And if there was one lasting, leaving piece of counselor advice for sales leaders who perhaps, on listening to this, are reflecting on the fact that perhaps they haven’t been spending enough time with their mid-performers. What would be the piece of advice you would give to them?

Yeah, I would say that communication is key. You know, I realize that managers, sales managers, are just stretched. The amount of field time that they’re spending now is less than it’s ever been because of just the expectations, reports, and all the things that they have to do.

Pick up the phone sometimes. Having a five or ten minute conversation. You know, some sales leaders don’t do one-on-ones, at least in pharma, traditionally have, and everything’s revolved around the work session.

But just pick up the phone, talk to people, tell them you care about them. And you know, I know everybody’s not warm and fuzzy and all that other good stuff. But when you pick up the phone, it does show that you care just to check in.

And I know one of the lessons I learned as a manager is that sometimes when you pick up the phone and talk to the person that you least expect wants to talk to you, they have questions and it’s like, wow, I’m glad I spent my office day calling all my representatives just to check in. It’s just valuable. If you just did that, I think that there would be great returns for you and your team as well as your relationships.

Yeah. Love that. Love that.

And the thing is, it’s easy to do, but it’s also easy not to do when the sales leader thinks, I’ve got to get this report for myself. I’ve got to do my strategic forecast for the next quarter. Do your team a favor and plug into them and give the gift of your attention to them.

Keith, hey, thank you so much. It’s been a great conversation. I love the insights, and I think we’re both on the same page as it relates to sales leadership, irrespective of the industry, the core principles apply.

So I want to thank you for jumping on at such a late time in the evening in Philadelphia. So thanks for being a great guest on The Exceptional Sales Leader Podcast.

Thank you so much, Darren. Appreciate you having me on.

Awesome, mate.

Thank you for listening to The Exceptional Sales Leader Podcast. I trust the information in this episode has been helpful in your journey towards becoming exceptional. And remember, please take the time to rate the show, subscribe to the show so other people can find it, but also if I can help you, jump on my calendar, go to leadwithdarrin.com, and let’s have a conversation about how I can help you along your journey to being exceptional.

Sales Performance

Sales Management: Building Influence Over Authority by Keith Willis

Titles don’t make leaders — influence does. The shift from being a top performer to leading a team requires letting go of control, empowering others, and redefining success through the people you lead.

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The Conversation

We discussed the biggest misconception about leadership — believing authority alone drives results. Keith shared lessons from his early management days and why the best leaders “roll up their sleeves” to help their teams succeed. We also explored the trap of the “super rep” manager, the importance of coaching over fixing, and how leaders can build trust without taking over.

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The Insight

Great salespeople win on their own. Great leaders win through others. Influence, respect, and credibility create real authority. The best managers balance accountability with support, knowing when to step in and when to coach from the sidelines.

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The Action

  • Redefine success. Shift your focus from personal wins to team growth and results.
  • Coach before you fix. Role-play difficult calls and let your reps lead — even if it’s not perfect.
  • Build followership. Earn trust by working alongside your team and showing you’re invested in their success.
  • Create learning space. Turn mistakes into coaching moments rather than quick corrections.

Welcome to The Exceptional Sales Leader Podcast with Darren Mitchell. If you’re a sales leader looking to take your leadership to a whole new level, then this is the podcast for you. We’ll be exploring tips, techniques, and strategies to help you take your leadership to the exceptional level, and allow you to enjoy more money, more meaning, and better sales results.

Welcome back to The Exceptional Sales Leader Podcast, and welcome to a man coming in in the evening. In the evening, and this is being recorded, this is in the first week of July. It’s actually at his dinner, so he’s looking very splendid, and he’s beautiful pink.

Is that a, that’s a polo shirt, right?

It is, yes, it’s a polo shirt.

Coming in from Philadelphia, Mr. Keith Willis, welcome to The Exceptional Sales Leader Podcast.

Thank you, Darren, really excited to be here. I’m glad I was able to make it today. I know we had some challenges there coming from dinner, but after listening to a few episodes, just happy to be here and looking forward to our conversation.

“Yeah, thank you. And I do apologize because there was, I think we were talking just before you pressed record, you were talking about having a virtual assistant that has been relieved of their duties, making some decisions because I got a decline, they got an acceptance and then I got an email overnight. So yeah, I’m ready to go.

And so we made this happen really quickly. So greatly appreciate it. Hey, you’re the founder and president of Core Management Training.

You’ve got a lot of experience around leadership, farmer sales, but also interestingly, a military background as well. I’m really looking forward to this conversation because I could go anywhere, but I think just based on a little preamble before you press record, there’s some really cool points that people listening to this can really bring home to Roos and help them in their sales leadership journey. Now, before we jump into it, I’d love to always get a bit of a sense of my guess background in terms of what you’ve done and what’s led you to now do, what you do with Core Management Training.

Well, yeah, Darren, I started out as a ROTC cadet. I got four years of college and graduated with a regular army commission. The same day I graduated from college, I got my commission all on the same day.

Went to my officer basic course and landed in Germany. So I was in Germany for three years, did a variety of roles. Probably one of the most important roles is a young lieutenant as a platoon leader.

So I had two different platoon leader roles. I was in a ordnance unit. A lot of people don’t realize when we think of ordnance, we think of explosive bombs and all of those things.

At least in the States, that’s the smallest part of the ordnance core. So you have missile management, you have automotive management, and then you have explosive ordnance. Now, obviously this was before the Gulf War.

So that may have changed now, but when I was in, there was automotive maintenance. So we had responsibility for fixing vehicles. I was automotive platoon leader as well as at one point in time, what they call the E&E electronic and engineering platoon.

And then eventually, I became what they call the shop officer. So just think in terms of you’re going to get your car fixed, and you drop your car off to the shop. My team had responsibility for getting those vehicles fixed.

And then those vehicles weren’t fixed. There were issues, obviously, because units needed to have a certain percentage of the vehicles ready to roll, so that they could be mission capable. So I did that.

And then I came back stateside. Around that time, the first Gulf War, so I had responsibility for making sure, seeing all the vehicles painted that went off to the desert, and then eventually became what they call the S1. So think in terms of the S1 is the administrator officer or HR, for all practical purposes.

We had about 900 soldiers in our battalion. We had some of the last couple of units coming back from Southwest Asia and then we had a unit relocating from Germany. So I had a responsibility for whether it be pay, officer evaluations, NCO evaluations, anything to do with any type of HR type of issues, I had a responsibility for.

And then decided that I was going to get out. So I worked through a junior military recruiter and ended up in sales. And so it was interesting because like a lot of people, I had never thought I was going to be a salesperson.

But in fact, I had never even seen or even heard of a pharmaceutical rep. And I had a couple of interviews. And back in the day when you interviewed for a pharmaceutical job, you used to have the opportunity to spend the day in the field with the sales representative.

I didn’t have that opportunity. And my first day in the field was the first time I got a sense of, oh, this is what a rep does. I don’t know if I would have signed up for it then.

But I was fortunate. I had some good mentors and some folks that helped me out. So I would say that the guy that interviewed me did a good job of selling me because he equated being in pharmaceutical sales like being in the military.

So he talked about sales forces as in units, putting promotional messaging against certain products and those types of things. So I got that analogy and so that was how I ended up in pharmaceutical sales, moving from the military. So big jump, big change.

And I love to explore because you mentioned before, you never thought you’d be in sales and it’s interesting. The vast majority of people I speak to will be on this podcast or just generally in business. It’s almost none of them have actually woken up one day and said, yeah, I reckon I’ll be in sales.

I reckon that’s a good career to proceed with. Well, I kind of fell into that or in some people, people say, that’s the only role I could get.

And so fast forwarding to that, we’ll talk about what you’ve learned through your career in sales and now what you do now. But love to know, making that transition from the military where it was very structured and you’re looking after all of those people in terms of all the administration, the HR related stuff. Making that transition into private enterprise and into a sales role, where you’re now responsible.

What were some of the key lessons from, I guess, your leadership background within the military that helped you make that transition? Presupposing, of course, it was a relatively smooth transition. I’m sure there would have been some bumps in the road.

Looking back in that transition, what are some of the key lessons that helped you transition into a sales and then eventually into the leadership roles?

I think the big thing is that in the military, as an officer, you have a great deal of responsibility. I mean, when I got out of the military, I was, what, 28, maybe, after six years. So even at 21 or 22 years old, my first platoon had, I think, 70 soldiers, and then the automotive platoon had 40 soldiers, and then responsibility for running a shop with close to 200 soldiers, seven or eight direct reports.

So you go from being, I wouldn’t say king of the hill, but all of a sudden, you’re just responsible for yourself. And I do think the first rule of leadership is you have to lead yourself ultimately. And so I had learned a lot of those lessons in the military, because not only do you have responsibility for soldiers, you also have responsibility for yourself.

And things like, you’re doing PT two or three times a week, you pass the PT test, you have to carry yourself in a certain way. Being overseas in Germany, you stand out because you’re American relatively to being in Germany. And so a lot of eyes are on you, and you’re working with other allies, other units, you have customers.

I had customers, we called them customers, and when we fixed vehicles, those types of things. So you had customer units, and you treated them as such. You go from that to all of a sudden, you’re just you as a salesperson, you just have to get up and you have to figure out, how do I sell?

What is the selling thing that I need to learn how to do? You go from fixing vehicles or managing a deadline list to, how do I learn this product? How do I sell that?

And so there’s a level of study, and you have to swallow your pride, because in the pharmaceutical industry, the sales rep position is entry level. Now, for some people, they spend a career as sales representative, but even their CEOs, a lot of CEOs carried a bag as a sales representative back in the day. So, it is a great training ground, and ultimately, it comes down to learning how to manage yourself, manage your emotions.

As an officer, you’re standing in front of soldiers, and at times, things aren’t going great. You have to learn how to control your emotions and those types of things. And when I was younger, my emotional intelligence probably wasn’t that great.

And over years, as you get older and wiser and more mature, you get better at doing those things. But as a sales representative, when you’re going in to see physicians, you’re talking to nurses, you’re talking to staff every day, ultimately, it’s the relationships that you develop in these offices. And you have a rotation, so you may have anywhere from 100 to 120 doctors that you’re seeing from every four to six weeks.

So that relationship and your selling skills make the difference between getting your product written and not written. So, a lot of lessons there. And part of it’s, you know, swallowing your pride and knowing how to ask for help.

And thanks for sharing that. It’s interesting, as you’re talking, I was just reflecting on some of my own clients that I’ve worked with as a mentor and as a coach who have been in the pharmaceutical industry or the medical industry where it’s very specialized knowledge. And particularly when you’ve got clients who are doctors, physicians, cardiovascular surgeons, orthopedic surgeons, et cetera, the expectations they have on a person who is coming in to sell them a solution to a problem is really, really high.

You also mentioned the importance of mentors as well in your journey. From a person coming from a military background and, for want of a better term, being thrust into pharmaceutical sales, how was the, I guess, the onboarding process with you? You mentioned you had a cycle of physicians to talk to over a period of, say, six weeks or so.

How did you go about building credibility in the eyes of those physicians to the point where they would even start to contemplate the solutions that you were providing them? Because this is a really interesting point because you’ve got to establish credibility as a sales leader and you’ve got to establish credibility as a sales person or sales professional before the customers even contemplate thinking about your solution. Is there anything specific that you did?

I think ultimately you have to show up. I think that’s part of the piece. I spent my first couple of years, I was fortunate to work.

We kind of worked in a team perspective. You had your own territory, we crossed over products and there were a couple of people that were on my team that they won sales awards almost every year. In fact, one of my first district managers, he had been a rep for over 20 years when he became a district manager.

He was a new district manager and even now was probably one of the best district managers that I had. He intuitively knew what you needed to do. I remember you got a diamond, so he had this shamrock ring and he had four diamonds and a ruby and that was representative of all the awards that he had won.

I remember I used to always say, I want to get one of those awards and wear one of those rings. And he was a no-nonsense, pretty straightforward. I remember my car looking like a disaster and him telling me, the next time I ride with you, your car looks like that, there are going to be some consequences.

And he gave me the reason why. We’re professional, you don’t know who’s going to see your car, you’re representing the organization and those types of things. So I appreciated his straightforward demeanor.

So having those types of conversations with managers is really important. And when I was a rep, training was pretty rigorous. The company that I worked, there was, I can’t remember, but I think it was like a four-week training cycle.

And you spent a lot more time in training then than you did now. And you had to pass exams. And I think two years in, they have what they call a medical review exam.

And that exam was 200 questions. And if you didn’t, if you passed the exam, the good news was you got a 10% raise. They don’t give 10% raises anymore.

If you didn’t pass the exam, you probably should put your resume together and start looking for a job. But they had vetted that with physicians. And what the feedback was is that that exam was on the level of what a medical student would get.

And so you build up your product knowledge, and then when you go in, you can answer questions, you talk to the physician, you build relationships. I always think of the trust equation. So you mentioned the credibility piece, which is one part of that.

Do you do what you say you’re going to do? Do you show up? Then there’s the competency piece.

Then it’s the intimacy, which comes back to the relationship divided by your self-orientation. And interesting enough, the more self-orientation that you have, the less trust that you have in the office. So I often like to think in terms of when you think about building trust in any, whether it’s with customers, internally, even with family, to think about the trust equation.

So if you have all of those components, as you build trust, it gives you a lot more autonomy, it builds your credibility, it gives you the opportunity to be able to serve your customers.

It’s huge, and I often use the trust equation in my workshops for leaders, and I do a little trust game afterwards, and it’s interesting how competitive people get and how self-orientation comes to the surface. Even though they’re in tech, they intellectualize, yeah, it’s not about us, it’s all about serving the team until there’s a competition. I’ve got to win.

I’ve got to win. So you then made the leap after a few years into a district manager role and a sales leadership role. Love your experience on reflection, moving from being an individual contributor to a sales leader, and how easy or difficult was that for you?

The truth of the matter was I was not a great district manager by any stretch of the imagination. And it was interesting going from, because in the military, there’s an assumption. So there clearly is structural structure.

I remember my commander used to say, you have hours like a banker. I mean, as an officer, you do run your mission. There’s expectation of you saw problems, you don’t bring problems to me.

And so there’s far more autonomy as an officer than people realize. And I probably talked about this whole emotional immaturity. Younger, the stuff you just do, stupid stuff, I think back on.

You lose your temper, you yell at people and things like that. And you can kind of get away with that in military, even though on reflection, the better leaders were those that were calm, cool, and collected. The people that were respected the most were the leaders that didn’t need to raise their voice, that listen to problems, that help people do things.

And over time, as you get older, at least for me, I can’t speak for everybody, as I matured, I began to realize there are some things that I needed to do more effectively. But as a district manager, you know, the first couple of years were tough. And looking back at it, I would say that I should have waited longer.

I had been a sales representative at that point with two different companies. The first company I ended up leaving because of downsizing and those types of things. And when I went over to the next company, I won two district rep of the year.

I finished three out of 640 sales representatives. So I had street cred from the standpoint of being able to sell effectively. And we had a good development program as far as preparing people to be managers.

But you can train people all day long, but until you do the job, you know, I joke with people that don’t want to be a manager. And I say, you’ll learn. It’s one of the most developmental jobs that you get.

All of the lessons and things that you need to learn, you’ll learn as a district manager. If you have a gap, that’s going to be the thing that you have an opportunity to work on as a manager. So that was my experience.

And on the back end of it, I did better. So there were some reps I managed well. I had great relationships with.

And then there are reps that I struggled with. I would say they were middle performers. Middle performers in that they weren’t looking to get promoted.

They would tell you they wanted to get promoted, but they weren’t looking to get promoted because when I look back, when I look at them now, some of them are still in the industry, still in sales. And interesting enough, a lot of them put up great numbers. They would be way over goal.

It wasn’t a matter of that. It’s just they’re not raising their hand to volunteer. They’re not trying to do anything extra.

And they would be a pain in your backside. You might call them on a Friday afternoon and it’s like they’re there in office doing expense reports because they’re trying to get down to the shore. And I was one of those people.

My expectation is you should be out working. And I had to learn, look, if you’re putting up the numbers, you get a little bit more autonomy versus if you’re not. And it was all of those things learning how to work through.

And interesting enough, it wasn’t until I left and I went to another organization that had a very, very strong leadership development program. And it wasn’t that the company that I was at before didn’t. It was just the way that the guy that ran the program, he was a guru.

There was no debate whether you’re first or second line leader. You were coming to his training. And then there were two levels.

So as a second line leader, there would be coaching or they would listen to sessions where you coached your first line leader and there would be feedback on the coaching. And then there would be feedback for the first line leader who was coaching their representative. So up the chain, there was an opportunity to see.

And because I was in training and then as a part of the cadre and going through all the different rotations and training the classes, you begin to learn how to be more effective as a leader. And then running training teams internally, I became a much better leader. So I think it’s a combination of time.

There’s always a time element. There’s a maturity element. There are parts of us that maybe from a business perspective, you may be very strong, but you may not have the emotional maturity.

For some people, they’re emotionally mature very early. Maybe the business acumen is not that good. So we all have stuff to work on.

But I would say that that was my journey. And I was fortunate because I was in organizations where training, there was a lot of leadership training. And unfortunately, I would say that in the pharma industry, that’s not as consistent now as it has been in the past.

And part of it is because there are more downsizing, there are more cutbacks, there are more companies that are being bought. So all of those things, it becomes difficult to justify how do we sustain a leadership development program if the people that go through the program aren’t going to get promoted.

Yeah, true, true. So would you say that that’s one of the key challenges facing a lot of organizations now, particularly in the life sciences and pharma industry?

I definitely would say that that’s a challenge. How do you get the next group of people ready to get promoted? And I think it goes, I think this is probably every industry.

I don’t think it’s unique to pharma. You know, pharma, we joke and we say we’ve, the industry’s gotten old. It hasn’t, it hasn’t.

There’s a life cycle. You know, you know, when I started, I was in my late 20s. A lot of us were the same age.

A lot of people I know now are retiring. Some of them are CEO. Some of them have done extremely well in the career.

And, you know, it used to be you had to hire people that didn’t have a lot of sales experience. And now, because you have a lot more specialty drugs, more specialty products, there’s a tendency to hire representatives that have experience. So it’s harder for people to break in.

And the other part of that is that when you’re trying to figure out, how do I create a developmental pipeline? What’s that going to look like? I will often hear, well, we’re not expanding.

We’re not going to have new promotions. And so how do I train people? How do I get them ready to step into these roles?

So it’s not unheard of where you talk to leadership and people feel like people aren’t ready. And I even talk to second line leaders that have had training. And they’ll say, I don’t know that I’m as prepared as I need to be to how to coach my first line leader or how to coach their people, provide feedback.

So I think it’s a challenge in budgets, money, time. I don’t know if you remember back in the day when I was a rep, we used to get mail once a week. And you’d wait for the mail to come in and you’d go through the mail.

Now you get that much mail in 15 minutes on your computer. So the temple is so much faster now and the expectations are so much higher now than they were 20 years ago.

They are, which we kind of, as you were talking about the second level leaders and even the first line leaders there, my experience is a lot of leaders are thrust into a leadership position because they’ve been a great individual contributor. And that seems to be the catalyst or the trigger for them to be given the opportunity. And I know you talk a little bit about heroic leaders to servant leaders and I’m big on servant leadership in terms of what that, particularly in sales, which might sound a little bit counterintuitive.

What do you see in the industry right now in relation to organizations where there’s a lot of changes, there’s a lot of maybe downsizing, changing in terms of company structures, buyouts and stuff like that. Is there still a focus on the importance of leadership and getting the right people for the future of the business? Or is it more a case of we just got to get the number because we’re going to make sure that we are surviving firstly and then potentially thriving so that we can be bought out by a bigger company.

We used to joke, a friend of mine, that we were surprised our companies would run because it was more inertia, and things would get going and they would just run. I think it’s a combination of both. I think everybody acknowledges that there’s a need for leadership.

The question is, how do we get people ready for leadership? And then I think there’s a split because you have companies that have been around for a while, but what happens is that product goes generic, something happens, they get rid of the entire commercial team. And some companies take a different approach.

They move that talent around to other business units. You have to learn the product, but ultimately business is business. You can figure that out.

And then I think that there’s just not enough or there are sections of time. Last year, I went to a conference and I can’t remember the numbers. And it wasn’t just pharma, but a lot of organizations, there was a ratio where they had cut the leadership development trainers to leaders significantly.

And it’ll be interesting because the conference is coming up in a couple of weeks to see where they are. But companies that had established the leadership development programs and they were presenting what they had done with cohorts and everything where most of the team had disappeared. So now you have one or two trainers responsible.

And so that speaks volumes oftentimes about where a company, what a company really thinks about leadership. So even though they say the right thing, they don’t necessarily believe the right thing. Or I’ll have conversations with organizations and everybody’s doing the same thing.

The Grow Model. Okay, so the Grow Model is not that it’s not effective, but everybody’s doing it. Situational leadership, SBI.

I mean, there’s all this stuff. And then you ask the question, okay, so what problem are you trying to solve? So they’ll do a whole overhaul of leadership development, but they don’t answer the question of, well, what’s the problem we’re trying to solve?

What is it the program wasn’t giving us that we’re looking for today? And so there’s all of this stuff. And I at times think and feel like that people feel like the leadership development that they’re getting isn’t helping them with the day to day.

It’s not helping them with some of the challenges, issues, and problems that they’re having with their teams. How do I get even the A performer today can easily be a B performer tomorrow or even a C performer. When we talk about things like AI, different types of the new CRM platforms, different things that expectations that people have, it can change so quickly.

So how do you get people through that? How do you enable them? How do you upskill them?

And so I don’t know that anybody has a good answer. And I don’t know that a lot of organizations spend enough time figuring that out. And then I think, ultimately, how do you measure what you’re doing and that it’s having impact?

How do you really know that a sales leader that went through a curriculum and got developed is doing a good job? What does that look like?

Yeah, it’s difficult because a lot of my clients, they’re always talking about what’s the return on investment. And it’s almost like the answer to that is, well, how long is a piece of string? You can say, well, okay, we take you through a curriculum and we should see an uptake in customer retention, customer engagement, bottom line, top line revenue, profitability, et cetera, et cetera.

But often it’s the observable behaviors that’s the real return on investment. Because if you see a sales leader having a conversation or having a conversation with maybe a sales director, if they can be observed, that’s the real return on investment because you can see the behavioral change. What’s the challenge there is it’s really difficult to put a tangible number against that because it’s hard to look at a scoreboard from that.

Well, what does that actually mean? It’s difficult, right? But it’s and I think a lot of companies now are trying too hard to try to put some numbers against some things that perhaps it’s hard to put numbers against.

And that’s my challenge that I’m sort of grappling with with a lot of companies in Australia right now. So you mentioned something there also around the A’s, the B’s and the C’s performers. As you know, Australia, for most companies in Australia, we’ve just come off the end of the financial year.

So June 30 in Australia, for many companies, is the end of the financial year. So I know up until Monday this week, there were companies all over Australia just pounding the pavements trying to get as many sales in as possible and bringing things in from the first quarter of 2026 to this one. And now we’re in the new financial year and then we’re thinking, oh, now what?

What are we going to do now? I wanted to talk about the three tiers of performers, the low performers, top performers, but also this core middle performers, because I know you do a lot of work in this middle performance part. What’s your thoughts around the way that organizations and sales leaders in particular treat those three categories?

And what are some opportunities that perhaps they might be missing? By ignoring the middle performers?

Yeah, let’s start with what the opportunity is in the middle. When you look at the middle, they represent anywhere from 60 to 70 percent of the sales force.

Yeah.

When you look at the top 10 percent, how much more are you going to get out of them? Probably not much more. The bottom 10, 15 percent, managers trying to get rid of them.

You got a limited amount of time. In most organizations, particularly in pharma, everybody gets generally the same amount of time in the field. Yeah.

If a manager spends 100, 120 days in the field of representatives, and he or she has 10 representatives, that’s about 10 days. And when you think about field input teams, special assignments, you’re going to help with a sales meeting, your top performers are the ones that are usually tapped on the shoulder. And there’s some equity and there’s some learning that goes from being able to prepare for sales meeting.

You’re leading a discussion. You’re leading. You’re having an opportunity to get some exposure to marketing, sales leadership.

You have an opportunity to give your input into what’s going on. So you get development that way. If you’re on the bottom, you’re getting attention just because your sales stink and everybody’s trying to get rid of you as quickly as possible.

If you have an extra day, where’s the manager going to spend it? They might spend it with a top representative. They’re probably not going to spend it with a middle representative.

So the middle representative gets no feedback. No one’s cheering for them, and they’re just there. And so if you haven’t said, an interesting thing is in some cases, these middle performers may be pretty solid sales representatives.

They may be north of 100 percent. When we talk about goal attainment, a lot of it is around behaviors and some of the things, I mean, I think part of it is you got to agree as an organization. When we say B, what does that mean?

And if you’re in that category of Bs, you get treated as such. And there’s three degregations of that. There’s the top middle, the top part of the Bs, and then there’s the middle Bs, and then those Bs that are closer to Cs, and you’re wondering in the back of your mind, should I be starting to think about taking some action on them?

So when you think about it from that perspective, it’s your greatest opportunity. I was in a region where the regional manager ultimately was fired and brought in a new regional director, and we would do this thing. She called it Blue Skies, and the way she said, well, we had 80 territories, and it was the cutoff, it was a number of territories that would take the hit goal.

So in other words, if let’s say if it were 30 territories, that it was 30 territories, and then the rest of the region would make goals. So initially when I was a district manager, I used to think in terms of this was kind of the Pareto principle, the 80-20 rule where my manager would look at, do we have a A, B, or C performer? And if we don’t have the right person, do we need to remove that person?

But the piece that I missed is that the entire management team would go down to a district, and the whole team would spend the entire day with a sales team. So every representative would ride with a sales manager or a regional training manager. And depending on how we were geographically dispersed, we would have a best practices dinner.

So it might be one dinner, it could be two or three dinners, and then we would get all of the different best practices and those type of things. So the piece that I missed was that it really was focused on the middle performer, because when you look at the entire region or if you look at a district, you probably had no more than three top performers. You had a core group of people that were in the middle and they got individual time.

So what happened at the end of the year when we do performance management, we spent not only time with my people, I had spent time with other people’s people and had some very, had an idea of from a rating perspective, is this number this number? We could talk about what do we need to do to move this person forward? So we were in a region that was, I think at the time we were seven out of seven and we ended up moving, we ended up being two out of seven.

Part of that was because of the focus on the middle performer with sales, their performance, I can’t tell you how many five-page business plans we would do on a regular basis and critically looking at each individual person, what their previous three years of performance was, what you needed or what you thought that you needed to do to move that person to the next level. Then my manager would dig into your field coaching reports to see if what you said was what you had written in a field coaching reports to see if there was alignment.

Yeah.

So when we talk about that level of focus, those are the things that more so did more to moving a region to two of seven than spending time with top performers. Everybody got some love. And so I think that that’s the opportunity.

Oftentimes, the difference in coaching is that with an A, you can say, do acts, do more programs, or do this close differently, or say this, and they get it. With B, you have to be more explicit during that conversation and that coaching to say exactly what you mean and describe what that means. I believe it’s, I think it’s McKinsey, there’s a McKinsey article and it talks about coaching, about coaching two best practices within an organization.

So that’s the piece that managers oftentimes will miss. Here are things that other teams or other folks are doing within a team that are moving and then coaching to that, but also coaching specifically to what that person needs. And my philosophy as a manager has always been, my role as a manager is help you be the best version of you possibly.

So you might be very, very different than I am. You might be, you know, let’s say you’re highly analytical. My goal is help you be more analytical.

If the other person on teams are high, my goal is to help you be more effective in that way. Now, are there some other things you still got to be able to do analytics and some other things? Do you have to mitigate some weaknesses?

Sure. But you have to help, you have to help people leverage those enhanced strengths instead of the, instead of trying to make them a mini me. As I always say, if I had a team of me’s, we’d be in big trouble.

Well, that’s another lesson as well, because so many sales leaders build teams very much similar to themselves, and they wonder why they’re not generating extraordinary results. So when you think about 60 to 70% of the sales force being in the mid-tier, my experience is often the sales leader doesn’t necessarily know how to unlock the potential of those. So you mentioned before, you might have some who are highly analytical, you might have some who are high-eyes.

For those in the disk, that’s the influencer on the disk profile. So very high-level, very entrepreneurial thinkers, pioneer type people. How do we unlock the potential of these people?

So if you think about it, it represents a large part of the sales opportunity and the revenue base. Because sometimes sales leaders might look at it and say, well, as you said before, a core performer might be actually on target, but if not above target, and they think, well, I’m not sure there’s much else I can help them with, right? How do we help to unlock this?

Because that is probably the difference could make all the difference in terms of how a whole territory achieves and sets them up for long-term sustainable success.

I think the first thing is it starts with the leader themselves. They have to think about how they’re approaching people. There’s a whole story around Pigmalion.

I don’t know if you heard the story about a teacher. They had all these numbers. They told the teacher that these were the people’s IQs.

At the end of the year, these students had all performed very well and somebody came and said, wow, how did these students have never performed this high? The teacher said, well, gave me all of these students with these high IQs and found out that the IQs were actually their locker numbers.

So, part of it is people respond to how you treat them. So, if you treat them in such a way that that’s really what they do. I was talking to a manager, we were having a conversation and they were trying to get this representative to increase the number of calls that they were making a day.

So, they made a comment and they said, the representative had a really good week last week. I asked the manager, I said, well, did you say anything to the representative about it? And they stopped and they looked at me like I was crazy.

And it’s like, yeah, you want them to do acts, you want them to see more physicians during the week, they had a good week, why don’t you reinforce that with positive reinforcement? A lot of times, some of the obvious things managers just don’t do. The other part of that is the conversation that the manager thinks they’re having, they don’t have.

They have challenges and issues with the representative. And then you ask the question, well, does the rep know? And the manager assumes that they know or during the coaching or if you role play a situation with a manager about one of the direct reports or somebody on their team and everybody’s listening, and then you ask everybody else on the team and you say, well, are you clear about what’s being coached?

And everybody shakes their head up and down and says, well, no. So one of the things is that in any conversation, that any coaching conversation that you’re having, A, you need to anchor that conversation. In other words, here’s what we’re going to talk about.

And then at some point, you’ve got to, you and that representative need to agree that it’s an issue. Because if you can’t agree to that it’s an issue, there’s no way you’re going to be able to solve it. What a lot of managers do is they jump to action and they try to get the representative to do something that they’re not even sure why we’re even having a conversation, let alone to what even the problem is.

At least if you can agree that it’s a problem and it needs to be fixed, and then you can begin to establish how to go about fixing that. And so one of the challenges just gets down to the whole coaching conversation. And I referenced the grow model earlier.

Managers have been trained to ask a lot of questions. Well, questions are important, just like they are in sales, they’re important in coaching. But if you’ve been around, you have a lot of experience, you have a point of view, you have an observation, and you’re working with a lot of representatives in the field, so you see things.

And so you give your point of view, you provide the data, you provide the information that says, here’s why I think that. And then they ask, hey, what do you think? And then you get their point of view, and then you can have a discussion.

At least you’re moving forward. And then understanding that coaching may not happen all in one session. It may take you a couple of sessions to get them to agree that this is a challenge, this is an issue, this is something that we need to solve.

But oftentimes, what happens is because the manager jumps to action. Let’s say, for example, they think the representative needs to close. They haven’t given them any data or any information or anything that leads the representatives to even know or understand.

And they may not even be clear, because it may sound like I need to ask more effective probing questions or whatever that is. And then the next time the next field ride comes along, nothing’s changed, nothing’s happened. There’s been no check-in, there’s been no accountability call.

So that happens on a regular basis. And oh, by the way, when the leaderboard comes, no one’s cheering for me because all my stuff’s in the middle. Yeah, I had more calls than I had last week.

No one reinforces that behavior. All the people that are getting a love are at the top. And then if I’m at the bottom, I’m probably getting a nasty phone call and says, hey, what’s going on?

I looked at your numbers and I really stink. Yeah, and so I’m left to my own devices. So I think of managers would think more positively.

And one other thing, Darren, because I saw this, we were doing this with another group of managers. It was a different, it wasn’t a sales team, but it was a similar type of situation where we were talking about, we had done case studies, and you would have thought we were talking about C performers.

Yeah.

Because the senior manager kind of made a statement of, well, we need to try to get rid of this person. And it was, well, with most of the physicians that they’re working with, they’re doing a good job. There’s a couple that they struggle with, but you’ve deemed that maybe you should get rid of them.

Now, ironically, this person ended up leaving the company. So I think about the time that takes you to train somebody up and all of those things, this is a solid citizen and this is a solid performer. So when I talk about Pigmalion, their managers, they look at their B performers like they’re Cs.

Yeah.

And then they wonder why they are not getting as much out of them because ultimately, it’s, you really don’t care about me. You just are concerned about me hitting that number. If I don’t hit that number, you can get rid of me as soon as I can.

And there’s a lack of trust there. And so those are all the things that go into that impact the middle performer and why middle performers oftentimes don’t thrive within organizations.

And there’s an important point you made just before, Keith, you’re saying that we’ve got to be really clear on the problem. And I just wanted to, I guess, clarify that a little bit because sometimes when people hear that, they think, oh, it presupposed there’s something wrong. Well, the problem is you might have a middle performer that is on or above target.

But we look at them and say probably they have more potential they can be giving, right? How do I extract that extra 5, 10% out of them to take them to potentially an A performer? So it’s not that they’re doing things wrong.

We’re just looking at them and saying they’ve got more than they could be doing, right? So that’s the problem part that we need to be looking at. And the other part with all that is we’ve got to, as leaders, spend more time with the middle performers because if that represents 60 to 70% of our sales team in terms of our performance, if we just make a quick 5 to 10% improvement, then that can have a huge impact on our end of year performance, not to mention the level of engagement that those mid performers have, because all of a sudden, we’re now measuring them on behaviors and checking in on those behaviors, not just looking at their results.

And so if we just look at the results, and it’s easy to do because at the end of the quarter it tells us where we sit on the scoreboard, right? We have to look beyond that and say, well, how can I help this person? Because if I see this person who’s a middle performer, a B performer as an A, and I start to treat them as an A, then funnily enough, at some point in the near, not too distant future, they’ll start to become an A, if they take on board the coaching and all that sort of stuff.

So I just wanted to clarify that because there might be people listening to this, oh, I’ve got to find a problem with people. No, no.

Yeah, some of it’s just being more of a cheerleader for your middle performers, and just acknowledging the work and effort that they’re putting in. It’s knowing that somebody cares. And I think part of it also is Darren is having real conversation.

I remember I had a representative that wasn’t closing. And I remember saying to him, I said, you’ve been doing this job for a long time. I know you know how to close.

Why don’t you close? And so he explains to me that he likes to know. It was a congruency issue because in his mind, he said, I like to know more about things.

I don’t like to be closed when I go somewhere and I’m going to. And so he said that I like to know more about what somebody is trying to sell me than they do. So I can come to another decision on my own.

So at the time, I think they were looking at getting married. And so I had a whole conversation about, I used an example when I bought my wife an anniversary ring. And I said, you know, we went to all of these stores and my wife wanted white gold.

And we looked at all of these rings and so all of the rings were pretty much the same.

Yeah.

And I said that the last salesperson, she says to me, she says, will you be taking that ring today? I stopped in my tracks. And I could not find one reason to say no, because my wife wanted that ring, the price point, it was more than I wanted to spend, but it was a good price point.

And then I, in the conversation we had is I said, what I needed from the salesperson was, I needed for them to sit with me. In other words, we weren’t sitting this way, we were sitting together and they were helping me make a decision that I wanted to make, but I needed somebody to push me over. So the conversation was around when you don’t sit next to the physician or the health care professional and help them make that decision, that they want to make that decision, then in essence, you’re actually failing them.

And so he got that. And so I could have done the standard, hey, I want you to work on your clothing or anything, but there clearly was something that went behind that. And so sometimes when we’re having conversations with people, you got to go beyond just following the model and just checking the box.

You’re not doing this, you’re not doing that, but really trying to understand what is it? Because I know you have the capability to do that. I’ve seen you do it.

You’re just not doing it. Kind of help me out here. Let’s have a conversation.

And it wasn’t something that it wasn’t negative. It was just what it was.

Yeah. And the only way you can do that is to actually spend time with them, to observe them.

You’re right.

This is the other thing. So when we’re talking about the coaching, the development, unlocking and unleashing the potential of our sales teams, the only way you can do that is to actually spend time with them in the field to see what they do, what they don’t do, to provide them feedback, provide them coaching, so they can improve, so they can get better. So they can take their performance from B to an A, A to an A+, C to a B, because the thing I want people to understand is, sales leaders are not there and not seeking to get rid of people.

What they want to do is they try to unleash the entire potential of the entire team, collectively and individually. The only way to do that is to build trusted relationships with the people where they know you’re there to serve them. You’re not there to criticize them.

But the only way to do that is to build that relationship, which is a trusted relationship, which is fine.

Amen.

So, with that, I’m conscious of time because it’s nearly 10 o’clock at night.

So, for people who want to learn more about you, Keith, and the work that you do, and maybe understand some of the programs you offer, where’s the best place for them to do that?

Go to my website, coremanagementtraining.com, and it’s all one word, Core Management Training. It’s two T’s, if you spell it out. Go to my website.

You can connect with me on LinkedIn under Keith Willis, and you’ll see my picture in Core Management Training and connect with me there. Those are the best two places to connect with me.

Brilliant. And if there was one lasting, leaving piece of counselor advice for sales leaders who perhaps, on listening to this, are reflecting on the fact that perhaps they haven’t been spending enough time with their mid-performers. What would be the piece of advice you would give to them?

Yeah, I would say that communication is key. You know, I realize that managers, sales managers, are just stretched. The amount of field time that they’re spending now is less than it’s ever been because of just the expectations, reports, and all the things that they have to do.

Pick up the phone sometimes. Having a five or ten minute conversation. You know, some sales leaders don’t do one-on-ones, at least in pharma, traditionally have, and everything’s revolved around the work session.

But just pick up the phone, talk to people, tell them you care about them. And you know, I know everybody’s not warm and fuzzy and all that other good stuff. But when you pick up the phone, it does show that you care just to check in.

And I know one of the lessons I learned as a manager is that sometimes when you pick up the phone and talk to the person that you least expect wants to talk to you, they have questions and it’s like, wow, I’m glad I spent my office day calling all my representatives just to check in. It’s just valuable. If you just did that, I think that there would be great returns for you and your team as well as your relationships.

Yeah. Love that. Love that.

And the thing is, it’s easy to do, but it’s also easy not to do when the sales leader thinks, I’ve got to get this report for myself. I’ve got to do my strategic forecast for the next quarter. Do your team a favor and plug into them and give the gift of your attention to them.

Keith, hey, thank you so much. It’s been a great conversation. I love the insights, and I think we’re both on the same page as it relates to sales leadership, irrespective of the industry, the core principles apply.

So I want to thank you for jumping on at such a late time in the evening in Philadelphia. So thanks for being a great guest on The Exceptional Sales Leader Podcast.

Thank you so much, Darren. Appreciate you having me on.

Awesome, mate.

Thank you for listening to The Exceptional Sales Leader Podcast. I trust the information in this episode has been helpful in your journey towards becoming exceptional. And remember, please take the time to rate the show, subscribe to the show so other people can find it, but also if I can help you, jump on my calendar, go to leadwithdarrin.com, and let’s have a conversation about how I can help you along your journey to being exceptional.

Coaching That Sticks

Say What You See, Hear What Is Unsaid

Coaching works best when leaders share clear observations, listen deeply, and guide others toward insight and action.

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The Conversation

We explored why coaching fails when managers hide behind endless questions. Keith contrasted command-and-control stereotypes with what great leaders actually do: assess first, state a clear point of view backed by evidence, and coach alongside people. We dug into pharma-specific realities, the power of “two conversations” (the one we say and the one in our head), and how to draw out what is unsaid so the real issue gets solved.

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The Insight

Titles do not create impact. Influence does. Coaching works when managers are present, explicit, and human. Say what you see, invite a response, agree on the problem, then practice the skill. Start with feedback before “coaching programs,” and remember that behavior change takes repetition.

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The Action

  • Begin with a quick assessment. Use stakeholder interviews, a simple 360, and recent results to target 1–2 skills per manager.
  • Lead with feedback. Establish a 7:1 positive-to-critical feedback cadence for three weeks before adding coaching goals.
  • Anchor every session. State the topic, share your evidence-based point of view, then ask, “What is your take?”
  • Name the unspoken. Use prompts like “I notice some hesitation. What is behind that?” to surface the real barrier.
  • Practice, do not perform. Role-play the tough moments you expect in the field, then assign one live rep to try it before the next check-in.
  • Use the tools you have. Convert field rides and coaching reports into one behavior to try, one proof to collect, and one follow-up date.
  • Coach in one-on-ones. Block time for brief, focused coaching inside existing one-on-ones to keep momentum steady.

2 conversations is the conversation that we’re having and there’s the conversation that we’re thinking and sometimes the conversation that we’re thinking about or we’re having over here some of that stuff needs to be in the conversation that we’re having welcome to the podcast about communication in business i’m your host george torock did you know that i’m known as the speech coach for executives that’s because i help business leaders deliver the intended message for greater success.

And we do that through one-on-one coaching or training for the team. On this podcast you will hear insights and perspectives from communication experts from around the world. My guest today is Keith Willis. Here’s 3 facts that I think you should know about Keith. 1, he is president and founder of Core Management Training.

With nearly 30 years in healthcare, spanning sales, leadership, operations, and training for major pharmaceutical companies on multibillion dollar brands, Core Management Training helps organizations, build leadership competencies, coaching systems, and sales performance frameworks that strengthen managers and elevate teams. 2, Keith is a former U.S. Army captain. Yeah, you don’t mess with him.

He honed his skills in team building, strategic planning, and leadership before translating those lessons into coaching and developing leaders across the pharmaceutical industry. And 3, Keith sat on the Berlin Wall just weeks before it came down, an experience that shaped his appreciation for change, resilience, and perspective. Keith Willis, welcome to your intended message. Thank you so much, George.

Really excited to be on the podcast with you. Funny when you said, don’t mess with Captain Willis. My wife jokes sometimes and she says, don’t mess with Captain Willis. That’s when she’s thinking something serious that I mean business.

She’ll call me Captain Willis. And now, Keith, I’m curious, that experience of sitting on the Berlin Wall, was created one perspective in your mind and then when the wall and there’s no way you could have known that when you sat on that wall that that would fall just weeks later there’s no i mean who predicted that and and i’m curious what did that do to how you see things how you see the world thanks for the question george.

When I think about that time and I believe this would be what the mid late eighties and it was the 40th anniversary of the wall going up and at the time I was stationed in Germany and they had checkpoint Alpha Bravo and Charlie and I drove through those checkpoints and driving through the eastern section Germany.

it was so different and I remember getting to the last checkpoint where you get to Berlin and it’s the lights come on literally everything is gray and dark all of a sudden you’re in the US sector everything changes and then with the wall coming down and having an opportunity to talk to people over the years about some of the changes in that part of the world It just lets you know that as much as we think that things can’t change, that they do change and that it’s something that we live with constantly.

If we all think about our careers, things that we’ve done over time, we always think in terms of this is never going to end. I have this situation. I have this problem. And then we look years later and we figure out Wow, that was good experience.

There’s something I learned from that or I definitely have moved forward from where I was in the past. So it gives that perspective that even situations that seem that they’re never going to change and nothing’s going to happen, that that change can happen at any time. And there are so many times when we think that the way the world, our life is right now is the way it will always be or the way it is in our workplace.

That’s the way we’ve always done it this way. So we will always do it this way. But if a Berlin Wall can fall, if a pandemic can come and go, we can change. Absolutely right, George. You’re so spot on with that. And it’s interesting, if you talk to people, it’s almost like the pandemic didn’t happen. And it was just a short time ago.

Yeah, and one of the side benefits to the pandemic is now we are more willing to communicate online through video conferencing, something that the pandemic kind of encouraged us to do. And it turns out it’s convenient.

Yeah, absolutely. Yeah, you speak the truth about that, George. It’s interesting because when we talk about focusing on your intended message, you have to be a lot better at being able to articulate that message whether you’re in person or whether you’re communicating virtually and that’s a challenge for a lot of teams and even teams that have traditionally been remote because you know you see your customers but you might not see your sales manager you may communicate by different avenues by phone by webinars by Well, Zoom now, back in the day there were other technologies that we used on a regular basis, but customers are asking for more virtual engagements and how do you do that more effectively and making sure that you are able to provide your intended message.

And Keith, you are a champion of leaders being coaches, of coaching their team. And again, I see, in my mind at least, a conflict there because you came from the military and I don’t think of a military captain as coaching the team. I just think of them barking orders. How did you transfer the military discipline and always follow the order, sir, into coaching? What did you have to go through to cross that change yourself? George, I would say that they’re more similar than different.

There’s a thought process that if you’re in the military that you only follow orders. And one of the things that the military does well, it prepares everybody for leadership. So even as a young lieutenant, I had platoon sergeants. And while they reported to me, I was smart enough to know that they knew a lot more than me and that it was better for me to know and listen to what they had to say.

The other part of that is that when you look at the chain of command, the platoon sergeants rely upon their squad leaders. And so their squad leaders run their teams, run their sections. And so leadership is always pushed down. It’s the next man up. And from that, so one of the lessons I had to learn that, yes, I was an officer, but at the same time, at times you have to be a follower.

To be a good leader, you have to be a good follower. And sometimes you have people on your team that are trying to tell you things that you need to listen to. And if you don’t listen to those things, you’re not going to be able to accomplish the mission. So there’s as much coaching that occurs in the military as there does in corporate America. In fact, I would argue for every school that I went to, all of those schools in the military prepared me for the next level of where I would be in the military.

And so unlike corporate America, we promote managers. We don’t necessarily take them through some level of leadership training. I had 6 months of additional training after I got my commission before I went to a line unit. and became a platoon leader. right about that. We promote managers and we promote them because they show up every day, they’re reasonably competent, they seem to know they have expertise, but they aren’t necessarily ready yet for leadership and we don’t provide that.

We expect them to just learn on the job as they go along. And that’s not fair to them or for the team. So when you work with organizations, where do you start in developing the leadership qualities in those new leaders? George, I think the first thing you have to do is you have to do some level of assessment.

The pharma industry across the board has done some level of training and oftentimes it might be later than earlier. What happens is you have a lot of managers that have a variety of different skill sets across the spectrum. You have some managers that are newer. You have some managers that have been around for a long time. And it’s not that much different than a lot of other industries where you have a variety of different people.

It’s just that the way that the training can be set up can be kind of a smattering here, a smattering there. There may not necessarily be a curriculum. So you start with assessing where people are. That might include stakeholder interviews. That might include assessments, 3sixties, the traditional tools that most industries use to do some level of a needs assessment.

Once you do that then you figure out where are the gaps, what are the needs, what are the most critical things and priorities that the team needs that are going to help them be most effective and drive sales performance ultimately because ultimately the reason sales managers are there not to push reports it’s to coach people into improve sales and help the company reach their goals and objectives.

You have a lot of experience coaching people in the pharma industry. What is it about the pharma industry that makes their challenging for them when it comes to pharma sales? Pharma sales is unique in that when you think about most industries, when a salesperson goes in, they get the order. You sign something.

A pharma representative is going in to see a physician and they’re trying to convince that physician to write a prescription medication that physician is going to turn around write that medication for a patient and Convince that patient you need to go in you need to go to the pharmacy and you need to get that drug so it’s not a direct sale it’s more of a influence over time and Generally you have a territory a representative is going to see the same people.

And that may not be that much different than if you have, for example, a list of clients and customers that you talk to on a regular basis from a business development standpoint. Some of those people you’ve worked with, some of them you don’t. But here it’s this long play.

A representative may be in a territory for any 2, 3, 4 years, depending on the company, downsizing and those type of things. But you develop a relationship with the staff, the office. And so there’s this this constant you’re always in and out you know if you have samples you may go in drop samples in in those cases you may only have a couple of minutes to speak with a doctor you may have some lunches you may see the physician at a conference or something like that where you may have a little bit more time but ultimately from a physician perspective they’re thinking What else are you going to tell me about this drug I haven’t heard?

I see a lot of patients and you think about the baby boomers and the number of those, I think it’s ten thousand are going to be available for their social security benefits between now and I think twenty, thirty, ten thousand a day. So if you think about that number, as we get older our bodies fall apart. Conceivably, it probably means more people are going to the doctors. Worldwide, there’s a shortage of physicians.

There is a shortage of healthcare professionals. And now you have a representative that’s going in to see a doctor that has very, very limited time. So you think about it from that perspective, that’s one of the challenges is that not a lot of time, and at times the physician’s not sure of the need. And then when you think about technology, You know whether it be AI omni-channel digital marketing all the tools and resources that are available, those are all the things that you begin to say, what’s the value of the representative? Why should I see that rep? Why should I spend time with that representative?

So those are just some of the nuances from a pharmaceutical industry relatively to other industries. And then I think a lot of other industries do more things. We talked a little bit about kind of this virtual cell. At least in the United States, predominantly most of these calls are in person. There aren’t a lot of webinars. There aren’t a lot of of those type of things. And that being said, that also means that we don’t necessarily use those type of CRM tools that other industries have capability to record calls that happen.

A little harder when you’re in person, you’re going to record what was said, what happened, and then be able to go back and look and say, oh, from a coaching perspective, we should focus on this or be able to use some of that technology. to be able to enhance coaching and feedback for sales representatives and provide tools for managers to be more effective from that perspective.

So when you can’t review the recordings as a coach, how do you help the sales rep? How do you influence them? So managers go out into the field with sales representatives. Generally they’ll spend anywhere from 8 to ten days a year. Usually it’s a four to 6 week cycle and then the manager writes what we call a field coaching report.

And that field coaching report just talks about the day, what happened, action plans, those type of things. And I’m sure a lot of other industries do something similar. It’s just that they have the use of technology. And through the CRM, they can look at call notes and get a sense of, you know, what the call notes were and continuity of the call and all of those things that go along with that. So the manager does have tools.

They have a lot of reports. They can get a sense of how many calls a representative made a day, you know, what the primary product was. So they’re definitely things that are available for managers to be able to use to effectively coach their representatives. When you’re working with the managers on how to improve how they coach, what mistakes do you find they commonly make?

It’s a good question George I think one of the things that I laugh and I don’t know that it’s really funny but you think about a lot of the coaching models grow coaching model for example those models are based on a lot of questions and oftentimes what the managers trying to do is they’re trying to lead the representative to an answer that they want to hear and The manager often has a thought process.

They’ve made an observation. They have a lot of experience. A lot of managers were top sales folks and they have a sense when things are going well or they’re not going well. they don’t provide their point of view. And they don’t support that point of view with data and observations that they’ve seen.

And then they don’t ask the representative, you know, what do you think about what I said? So you can have a conversation. What it sounds like, a thousand questions. And I remember earlier in my days as a sales manager, representatives saying, what is it that you want me to say? Because they know you’re looking for an answer. And I see that time and time again when managers are coaching.

They ask a thousand questions. They never get to the point. And they’re frustrated because they’re thinking the representative’s not listening. They’re being difficult. They’re not paying attention. When in fact, the representative’s sitting there and they’re thinking, I don’t even have an idea of what we’re supposed to be even talking about.

So it’s that yin and yang that I find that coaching becomes very difficult because it feels like that the manager has an agenda and they often do have an agenda and I think it’s okay to have an agenda but I think if you both agree that this is the topic and the thing that we need to be talking about and how do we solve and help improve that area It’s going to be far more effective than if the manager says, you know, I want you to do this.

I want you to do that. I want you to do the other and then follow up weeks later and find that nothing’s happened. Well, of course not, because you never agreed that that was what needed to be done. And so the representative is, you know, they’re being a good employee because they’re listening to their manager and gets back to this whole piece around taking orders and following direction. Corporate does that a lot also. And that’s what they’re ignoring. So nothing moves forward. And managers begin to be very frustrated by that. And it’s not just a grow coaching model.

It’s a lot of coaching models. Even if you go through a coaching program where you’re coaching other people outside of salespeople, it’s asking questions, letting people come up with their own, you know, observations and challenges and those type of things and I think there’s value in that but I also think that the reason you’re being hired oftentimes is because of your expertise your experience and you have a way to be able to share that but also have a way to do it in a way that you’re working alongside that person.

Keith, so I’m thinking there that the manager, the coach, has the experience, the knowledge, and for some reason they’re trying to tiptoe around because they want to suddenly bring the sales rep up to speed in just one conversation, but the sales rep doesn’t have the experience of that manager’s experience training, and then the manager is frustrated because the person isn’t getting it, and the sales rep is frustrated because he doesn’t understand what the hell the manager’s talking about.

You got it. And it’s been, you know, and some people seem to think that coaching should only be about asking questions. But I suppose if you ever watch a football game, you don’t see the coach on the on the side of the field saying, OK, now, George, when they attack you, what do you think you should be doing?

And instead, he just tells them what to do. Go left, go left. There’s a hole on the left side. Go there. And so sometimes it means that, hey, you just need to say what you need to say and then at least they’ve got something they can think about and they can grasp and, oh, that’s what you mean.

And when you are coaching people, there must be times when you see the lights suddenly go on. They go, oh, really? That’s what I should be doing? And you know that’s an aha moment. So what are some of the other aha moments that you’ve noticed in your training when you’re coaching, when you’re helping these coaches be better coaches?

That’s one of them. You know, how does that saying go? There’s 2 sides to every problem. The lights go on and manager realize that I’m part of the problem. I’m part of the challenge of being able to get through my representative. It’s not always them. Some of it’s me. And then the other thing is that, you know, RUM wasn’t built overnight. You know, these conversations take time. and you have to be willing to invest the time and there’s this pressure of managers have a thousand things to do they may have anywhere from 8 to 12 representatives and all of the numbers and all of the things that they’re managing they’ve got you know stuff they’ve got to report back to their boss on all of those things and at times it gets in the way of understanding that you know if you’re trying to build a skill set that doesn’t happen overnight.

And in some cases, it’s not even always a skill set. I remember working with one of my sales representatives as a manager and they would not close. And I remember saying to them, I said, you know, you’ve been doing this for a long time. I know you know how to close. Why don’t you close? And what he told me was that he didn’t close because he didn’t like to be closed. That when he went to see somebody that he’d like to know as much or if not more about what it was that was being sold than they did and that was one of the reasons why he didn’t like to be sold.

and so at the time he was dating this young woman and he was thinking about getting married and we had a whole discussion about rings and i said you know i’m sure you know a lot about rings and i at the time i articulated that i bought my wife an anniversary band i said you know i went to about 5 different places i said the last person i bought from the reason i bought from her was because she said to me will you will you be buying that ring today And I stopped and I paused. And I told him, I said, I could not think of a reason why not to buy that ring.

And I said, I had done a lot of research. I said that I was scared and I needed somebody to sit on the side of the table with me to help me make that decision. And so the consequence of here was somebody that had about it was a value set. And part of the coaching in conversation was around values and belief and using stories to get them to understand and see a different version of why it was important to close, not that they didn’t know how to do that.

And so that’s a lot more than just asking a thousand questions. But in this case, I did ask a question, but I asked a question around something that was important because I knew that he knew how to close. So it’s those nuances and things that if you can help managers, help coaches and help leaders be more effective at, that you can help them be a lot more effective, that it can have significant impact. So the consequence for this sales representative, they started closing more effectively.

Will you be buying that ring today? And that question is so clear, and it’s suddenly, oh, to decide. Why would I not? I want to do this, right? I want to be a hero when I come home. So simple advice. Are there, now that’s a good phrase. Are there other magic phrases that you found helpful to the coaching process? I don’t know if they’re magic phrases.

You know, I think it’s being in the moment. You know, I’m trying to remember, one of my salespeople told me this is ages ago. He used to always say, you always have a way to come up with the right question. I said, well, you play off of what people say to you. So you use that as an element in the question process because it’s kind of their mindset.

They present things that they’re thinking about and you use that and you switch that. I think the same thing goes with coaching, paying attention to body language, paying attention to what people don’t say. All of those things are important and the challenge can be you can spend so much time thinking about what’s the next question I’m going to ask you have to be present. I think that’s the bigger thing so it’s I mean yeah you can write down a bunch of different phrases and things that you can come up with but I think ultimately if you’re present you’ll come up with good questions to be able to ask.

I don’t know George what’s been your experience? And I’m with you there on being totally in the moment, because when you listen and try to put yourself into the mindset of the other person, and I just wrote down what I thought was significant, listen for what people don’t say, and that needs to be drawn out. it needs to be drawn. Look for what they’re not saying, because that tells you more than what they’re saying, maybe. Yeah. And when you’re hearing what people don’t say, Keith, what do you do or say to draw that out? Do you simply blurt it out, or do you coach them to say that? Sometimes you coach them.

people give clues there may be some hesitancy you may say something like uh i see you’re a little hesitant or you know by the sound of your voice it doesn’t sound like you totally bought in tell me a little bit more about what you’re thinking using phrases and questions like that can coax people open people up you know oftentimes in these conversations we’re having a we’re having another conversation there’s 2 conversations it is a conversation that we’re having And there’s the conversation that we’re thinking and sometimes the conversation that we’re thinking about or we’re having over here.

Some of that stuff needs to be in the conversation that we’re having because those thoughts feelings and emotions. Sometimes if you introduce those into the conversation, they can make a world of difference. And if you can help people pull that out, and you’ve got to do the same thing as the coach, sometimes when you articulate what you’re feeling, what you’re thinking, can make a big difference. Because then it gives people an idea of what are the stakes, why is this important? And they’ll be more open if you’re more open.

And that’s a valuable point there. There’s the conversation we’re having and then there’s the conversation in your head and there’s probably a reason for that conversation in your head and you need to find a way to bring them together because there’s a reason why that’s going on in your head. It’s your perceptions, you’re noticing something that’s not quite right here, something we’re missing. bring that up. Keith, for people who would like to know more about you and your programs they can find that at your website and in particular the programs that you offer tell us who’s that for and who will get the most from that. Primarily, I focus on pharmaceutical industry.

Core management training is around leadership training, leadership competencies, coaching, those type of things. coaching goes across industries. It doesn’t make a difference. If you have a problem or you want to upskill your management team, you want them to be more effective, you can reach out to me and we can have a conversation and I can see if I’m a fit for something that you need. And you can find the website coremanagementtraining.com. You can find that link in the description below. Keith, I also understand you have another program coming out soon called Never Look for a Job Again.

Is that because you win the lottery? I used to have a manager that said it should be your job to lose and you know it got me to thinking I’ve gotten a lot of calls recently about downsizing and things like that and you have to always be ready no matter how secure or how effective you are in your role. That there might be a time where you get that call that says, hey, your job’s being eliminated. So never look for a job again is, you know, help people take control of their careers. We talk about your intended message. Well, being ready is one of them and in. making sure that you have all the things and that you’re networking, you’re doing all the things that you need to do to make sure that you’re career ready. So that’s what the course is about.

I just find that I have a lot of these conversations even as I’m supporting companies and clients and this is something that’s important. And you can find more information about that on his website, CoreManagementTraining.com Keith, as we prepare to wrap up, imagine you’re sitting with a company leader who wants to start coaching their team. It’s not something they’ve done systematically before. but they want to start coaching their team to be more effective, to work together.

If there’s one, 2, or 3 pieces of advice you would give this leader, in approaching how he or she’s going to coach, what might that advice be? I would start with, number one, start simple. When we talk about coaching, we usually say coaching and feedback. I would start with feedback, feedback simpler. And I would start with positive feedback, letting people know what they do well.

I would start there. And then I would let people know. you know hey we’re going to start you know start giving you some feedback primarily be positive do that for several weeks it should still be a seven to one ratio when you begin to give more critical feedback there are several models that are out there i would learn a model and then i would bridge into coaching and that coaching can happen you know just as effectively with just managers doing their one-on-ones if they’re doing one-on-ones with their salespeople And say, hey, as part of this, we’re going to do some sales coaching.

And I think if you do those 3 things, start with feedback. 2, communicate that you’re going to do that and use models that are out there and available. And number 3, use your sales one-on-ones to do that. I think those will be some things that will help managers do that more effectively. Mmm, valuable advice.

My guest today is Keith Willis, reminding you to be a good leader, be a good follower. If you like what you heard, tell your friends and post your 5star review on Apple Podcasts because that helps more listeners find us. Come back every week for more practical insights to help you deliver your intended message. I’m your host, George Torok.

Leading from the Front

The Core of Effective Leadership

A title doesn’t define leadership. It’s seen in daily actions — in how you show up, set the tone, and help your team move forward. The best leaders lead by example, build trust in small teams, and create clarity where the real work happens.

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The Conversation

I shared my journey from the U.S. Army to the pharmaceutical industry, including what I learned from leading under pressure and how those lessons shaped the foundation of Core Management Training. We talked about the “rule of 150,” accountability, and why developing strong frontline and mid-level leaders makes the most significant difference over time.

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The Insight

Leadership starts with presence and consistency. Influence grows when leaders are accountable, empathetic, and focused on helping others succeed. Front-line managers drive real performance — they turn vision into action and build cultures that last.

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The Action

  • Strengthen the foundation. Invest early in developing first- and second-line managers.
  • Model accountability. Own your mistakes and show what learning looks like.
  • Balance grit with empathy. High standards matter most when paired with genuine care.
  • Keep developing your people. Training becomes a true advantage when others cut back.
  • Stay committed to growth. Focus on the leader you’re becoming, not just the one you are now.

Welcome, everybody, to the Doctor Leadership Leadership Lounge, where we have conversations with business leaders from all walks of life about how and why they are successful. Hey, everybody. Welcome to another edition of the Doctor Leadership Podcast. Today on the Leadership Lounge, very pumped up, got a great guy coming on today, a gentleman by the name of Keith Willis, owner of Core Management Training. He began his leadership journey in the U.S. Army, where he built and led high performing teams under pressure.

He later transitioned to corporate America, bringing a sharp focus on performance improvement across sales, operations, and training functions. In the pharmaceutical industry, Keith held roles as top-performing sales representatives, an award-winning sales manager, and a respected training leader at companies such as Johnson & Johnson, Pfizer, Bristol Myers Squibb, And today, Keith works with organizations and individual leaders to uncover practical solutions that elevate performance and build stronger teams. He lives out in the Philly area with his great wife, Lori.

Hey, Keith, welcome to the show. How you doing? Thanks, Brent. Really appreciate the invite. Looking forward to having a conversation. Really love the work that you’re doing, helping leaders grow with grit and integrity. So I’m really excited for our conversation. I appreciate that. I love that word grit. That’s a good one, you know? Grit to go and gestalt. You get that good German word in there, right? Exactly.

Where was that from? Back in like the nineties, we used grit, gestalt, and there were a couple others in our behavioral questioning stuff that would score on gestalt. And like the third month I was there, I finally looked up gestalt. and figure out what it was, and we’ll let the audience go and look it up and figure it out.

But hey, welcome to the show. I’m excited to have you here as well. We met here a couple weeks ago and had our preliminary call. And just you’ve got a phenomenal background, the US military being an officer there inside the Gulf War. We’ll talk a little bit more about it. But I always kind of open it up. Tell us your journey, where you are today. How did you get to run in core management training?

Yeah, so thanks, Brent, you know, obviously, I started out, you know, as a college student, like everybody else, and trying to figure out what I wanted to do, did ROTC and made the decision that I was going to join the army. So my first duty station was overseas in Germany, and learned a lot of lessons there in the military. And I think one of the key, one of the key messages around leadership was the importance of small teams, nothing gets done Unless it’s done at the lowest levels. So usually as a new lieutenant, you’re usually a platoon leader.

And as a platoon leader, you’ve gone to your officer basic course and you still don’t know a lot. You have a platoon sergeant that’s been in the military for years. And if you’re smart, you pay attention. You watch that guy or gal. Yeah, that’s right. Exactly. And figure out what you’re doing. And generally in a platoon, a platoon sergeant may have 3 or 4 squad leaders and those squad leaders are responsible for running their squads. And so if you want something to occur, ask the squad leader to do it. So even though a lot of times the leader has responsibilities for setting the vision and those type of things, ultimately it’s the lower level leaders that make those things happen.

That’s where all the action happens. Exactly. So it was one of the key lessons that I learned and later on I picked up this rule. It’s called the rule of 1 50. It’s from Robin Dunbar who is or who was an anthropologist and so what he said was that generally there are about a hundred and fifty to two hundred relationships that we can carry on our brain at one time from a relationship standpoint. So when you think about large organizations and business units and those type of things, once you get beyond that point of a hundred and fifty leader doesn’t have as much control make it a lot harder for them to be able to push their vision down.

So that’s why it’s so important when you think about the next level of leadership that those lower those lower Those lower level leaders are very clear about what the vision is because they are the ones that are going to make sure that that happens.

And so you have to have strong leaders at those lower levels. And so I often think about those lessons that I learned early on from my time in the military. And then I think the other part of that is ultimately leaders make a big difference. They really do set the tone. You mentioned the first Gulf War. And I remember there was a helicopter unit. They were talking about the helicopters and they weren’t mission capable. They weren’t ready. And so they ended up sending a unit from Germany And I remember thinking, oh, that’s a leadership issue. It has nothing to do with the helicopter.

Yeah, so interesting enough, one of the markers, in corporate America, we have markers around engagement and things like that. Yeah, in the military, oftentimes it would be vehicle maintenance. So you had a certain percentage of your vehicles had to be mission capable. And so when there’s poor maintenance, because maintenance would happen, we would have what we called PMCS, preventative maintenance checks and services, every Wednesday.

So we would do training in the morning, and we would do PMCS in the afternoon. So units that had engagement problems, leadership problems, generally had poor maintenance. I bet they did. Makes sense. Yeah. And so I reflected upon that, that you had one unit stateside not ready to go to war or maintenance big news story i think goes on 60 minutes or something like that they’re talking about the helicopters being a dog so on and so forth They ended up sending a unit from Germany over to the Gulf. That was ready to play. Exactly.

It’s funny, you know, you bring this stuff up on maintenance. first of all, in my industry that I was in forever, we utilized preventive maintenance too. But I had an F15 Screaming Eagle pilot on that had about 650 combat hours. later than Gull for one, but after, no, it was Gull for one, excuse me. And the F-fifteens didn’t have the new technology loaded up in them yet. And they were actually putting that stuff together in Kuwait, in the airfields, actually putting the black boxes and things, the pilots and munitions officers together, building the final things. So talking about maintenance on the fly, but I was just trying to get to war, you know what I mean? Trying to get it done.

Now, you were in ordinance, is that right? Correct. And we talked a little bit about that. He wasn’t carrying bombs. It was funny. After we talked last time, all I was thinking about was Good Morning Vietnam and the guy calling in from artillery and screaming. Great movie. If you haven’t seen it, everybody go check it out. Robin Williams, 30 some odd years old now probably.

So you were in ordinance and what did that entail? Yeah, so we fixed equipment. So that’s why I brought it up to maintenance, right? You were over your charge, making sure they were war ready. Yeah, so there are 3 elements of ordinance. So there was a missile maintenance, vehicle maintenance, and then explosive bomb ordinance. I was in the vehicle maintenance piece. So I was in a, at the time, the core support command. So we did non-divisional support of non-divisional units. And so we had customers. I had automotive platoon, there was an E&E platoon, service platoon, we had tow truck. We had a support team that supported units that would go out to the field once a month, that would be out for about a week or so.

And when the motor pool couldn’t fix the equipment, they would bring the equipment to us. So we had a deadline list. We tracked order parts, you know, 30, 60, 90 day jobs, things that were over 90 were critical. We used to have this thing called shootouts and that was a big meeting with all leadership talking about what are you doing to get this equipment fixed and back up. So those were high stake meetings and those type of things. Fortunately, I never had to go.

That’s good. But your leadership went and so you know how stuff goes down. That’s exactly the proverbial something rolls downhill. That’s right. Exactly. And during all this time in the Gulf War, you got all that beautiful time at the beach. You never knew that beach parties would be like that, but you were at the beach, right? Well, God bless you. It means a lot, your service. And then you spun out of the military and started dipping your toes in corporate American. Did you go right into pharmaceuticals?

I did. So I worked through a junior military recruiter that recruited junior military officers. I started with a major pharma company, went through the interview process, and became a sales rep. So at the time, I had no idea what a pharmaceutical rep did. I had never even seen a pharmaceutical rep in a doctor’s office, let alone know what samples were or anything. And ironically, back in the day, as a part of the interview process, you used to spend the day in the field. Right along. Yeah. I didn’t. I don’t know that I would have started because I didn’t know what I signed up for.

You’d have pulled the chute, right? Exactly. But it was a great experience. And you go from being a leader, you know, running a platoon, you know, being an S one to all of a sudden your individual contributor, trying to learn how to sell effectively in working for district sales manager. and begin to learn the ins and outs of corporate America. So here again, pharmaceuticals is high stress, lots of expectations to sell products and those type of things. So learn a lot of leadership lessons from the variety of different leaders, district sales managers that I worked for.

And they were important lessons, not only around training, but showing up. You know, here one of the differences is in our industry is that the person that you’re selling ultimately has to sell that to the patient. So when you go into a physician’s office, you’re not getting them to assign something that says that they’re going to buy. they have to convince the patient that that patient’s going to take that medication. Patient has to go through the pharmacy. So a lot of influence.

I was going to say you got to manage through influence. That’s right, Absolutely So there are a lot of a lot of skills there and it’s entry level for a lot of folks into the industry. The question will be oftentimes, you know, did you carry a bag? You’ll notice, at least back in the day when I started, a good many of CEOs or people that were in senior management had all been sales reps at some point in time. That’s a little different now. I think I agree. I think that with more data, information, so on and so forth, marketers, you’re an expert marketer and people just come from different lines of business now, more so now than they did before, which I think is a good thing. I think you know I do too.

Yeah, it’s funny you say that. So I always say I was a field general when I led, and there’s Pentagon generals too. right, And those are the people that aren’t as maybe street savvy, but more, maybe more analytical or more marketing side of it. And it does take a village, especially in these big organizations you know, to take a solution or outcomes on all the companies you work for. we’re international right Globally.

You gotta have all sorts of people in the room to make those things happen, you know for sure. And then you moved around from several different, a couple, 3 pharmaceutical organizations. What was the impetus of deciding? you know, what made me think of this was a minute ago when you were saying you were taking a lot of things from different managers and different district managers you’ve had, And I always say to people: use your eyes and your ears, of course, to listen and watch for what you need to do and also what you don’t want to do. I think that you learn as much from.

I’m not going to do it that way as you do from. I’m going to do it that way. Do you think that’s a fair statement? Yeah, I think that’s definitely a fair statement. You know, I would say that in my experience, great leaders are far and few between Most people are probably average, And then you have some people that are just not good at all, And I think you have people that work for a few of those.

Yeah, And I think you have people that kind of fall on 2 ends of the spectrum: great business leaders, not good people leaders. Yeah, And you have to kind of figure out where you fall. I know, unfortunately, when I was younger I would say I was not a great people leader. You know, when I was in the military. you’re still trying to figure out your emotional intelligence and things like that And over time, being exposed to other leaders, you figure out there are more effective ways to do it and ultimately, this whole thing around servant leadership is so important, absolutely, and being able to lead with empathy, being able to lead people with dignity and grace. ultimately, the outcomes. you’re still looking for the outcomes.

But you’re also helping people try to be the best for themselves that they can be. That’s right, And I think that’s important. To be inspirational, That’s right. It’s, you know, it’s coming up through the military too. I’ve talked about this before on the show, my individual weekly hits. but leadership from the fifties, sixties, seventies, eighties, and then it started to change. But you think, like Jack Welch and these people that were the greatest CEOs ever, was the commentary. It was all the mostly men. at that point

There were women, but the world was a little different place. They’d come out of war. They’d either been in World War II, Korea, Vietnam. Everything was very hierarchical, based. So-and-so tells me what to do. I tell them what to do. They tell them what to do, And that’s how it worked. Today It’s far more fluid. you know, like you said, you were managing through influence and Things that leaders started taking on his skills. empathy, you know, servants attitude, true caring, emotional intelligence. big EQ is far more important than IQ.

All those things really started. the studies, the psychological Understanding of how the human psyche kind of works, all started taking off, and it’s been very good for leadership. I I said, you know, don’t, don’t get rid of the, the old dogs either, because there’s good attributes there: the work ethic and the grind grit gestalt. those types of things come from that gender, those generations. but we do need to understand the people side of the business, especially as a leader. you can get people to run over the hill or you gotta, you know, threaten to shoot him in the back to get him to go over the hill, and you don’t want that. you don’t want option B. you know in that right exactly,

Exactly. So how did core management leaders- excuse me, core management training- come about? your leadership company, What caused that? What was the big bang of that? I’ve always had an entrepreneurial spirit. Done the Amway, did the Sprint phone cards, done some coaching on the side. So I think all of that was always in the background. I’ve always liked innovation, things that look and feel different.

I think that was always a challenge in corporate America. I know as much as corporate says that they like innovation, Not so much. That’s why they have innovation. We’ve always done it this way And damn it, win or lose, we’re going to keep doing it this way, Exactly. And so in my last corporate job I like to say: we left each other. I came home From vacation, my manager was trying to get a hold of me and I kept thinking: Yeah, And so it was a correct statement. It was not good.

The good news was I had a job that day, but another 3 months I wasn’t going to have a job. And it became clear after doing some interviews and things like that that there were not going to be opportunities, whether they were internal or external. I was very naive around this ageism and some of the key buzzwords- lots of gas in the tank, and I felt like you know I could do this on my own and I felt like that I needed to give this a shot. if it didn’t work, I could go back into corporate. sure, take your shot, that’s right. exactly, I didn’t want to, You know, look up on my deathbed and realize you know I should have, could have, would have. No regrets, No regrets. So I struck out and decided to do core management training. So with that, tell us a little bit about the company.

So I know I think you do far kind of focus somewhat in the pharmaceutical or sciences area. Tell us a little bit about what the company does, what you’re, what you’re trying to accomplish, and and so on. Yeah, at the end of the day, I think that I’m trying to help leaders And actually people that work in corporate have a better quality of life. whether you’re a manager or whether you’re a salesperson or individual contributor You’re trying to do is you’re trying to feed your family?

you have some goals and objectives, you have some things that you’re trying to accomplish, And what you want to be able to do is have these great career experiences. I think everybody wants to look back. as I worked on that team- and that was one of the best teams I ever worked with- We did these things.

We had this fun. You know, as you’ve said earlier in some of your other podcasts, we spent at least a third of our time, if not more, working. And so my experience has been that leadership, some of it’s trained. you know, a lot of leaders get into these positions and they’ve never had any, any training at all.

And so either that or it’s sporadic- you know it’s a one and only only focus tactically instead of strategically- or the people skills isn’t focused to, like we’ve already spoken about. right, It’s exactly a. you’re a great sales rep or individual contributor. you’re bound to be a great leader, Sure. And here comes failure around the first curve. Right exactly. So you go from being eye-centric to now.

I got to run a team and figure out how to get the team to run together, And so you know the blocking and tackling even experienced managers struggle with. I mean I’ve done workshops just on accountability. You know managers think that they’re having you know holding people accountable, and they’re not.

As I heard this today, I thought it was very poignant. So one of the challenges with communication is the illusion that communication is taking place. I like that, Yeah. And so core management training is focused on helping managers learn those core skills, primarily focused on first and second line managers, because I think that’s where companies either win or lose absolutely, and that’s the street at the street, absolutely exactly, and at those lowest levels of leadership.

if you can get those people rocking and rolling, you can do amazing things with your company. you can create a developmental pipeline for people that are in those aligned positions and get them promoted, so on and so forth.

And everything happens at the lowest level. So that’s really my focus and a lot of competency work, field coaching reports, field rides, just the basic things that a manager needs to do, emotional intelligence. I’m a big flips and strengths advocate. I found that when you help people focus on their strengths, they perform at a higher level. I turned over a couple of training teams by focusing on utilizing people’s strengths, getting everybody on the team promoted, being able to bring newer people into the team.

It doesn’t mean that you don’t focus on weaknesses. We like to say a weakness is anything that gets in the way of performance. So it could be you’re overusing a strength. Or maybe you have an inherent weakness that somebody’s been telling you something for the last 10, 15 years. Blind spots, right. Everybody has those blind spots.

Exactly. And maybe that’s not going to get better, but maybe we can figure out maybe there’s a strength, maybe you can pair up with somebody to help you work through that that takes away from your overall performance. So that’s really what core management is about. my experiences with whether it be in corporate or in the military being yelled at, dressed down, and I just don’t think that’s It doesn’t get a lot done in the end. Yeah, exactly.

Resentment’s never been a big motivator. Exactly. You know, you resonated with me a lot. I think that And this held true in my prior career. Following COVID and the economic downturn, I felt it also in oh 8 when the big financial burden companies the first thing they cut is marketing and or training. Because they think it’s low hanging fruit when economic times are tough or performance is not good or you’re missing earnings. And I truly believe that that’s when you need to double down in those 2 areas. Let’s just talk about training from the first part, but investing in your people. All the other companies are running scared at that point. That’s the time to attack.

That’s when you flank. That’s when you go all in and not to a situation to lose the company. I’m not saying it like that, but We had a situation in my old company and we hadn’t we started doing the math and like we haven’t really invested time brought all of our individual contributors out to our big customer experience center for like a decade. And COVID got in the way we wanted to do it. So it had been like 2014 or something.

This was last year in January. And I went to my leadership in Japan and said, listen, it’s going to be, you know, 4 or five hundred thousand dollars. They go, we can’t afford to do that. And I said, we can’t afford not to. We’ve launched 9 new products since then. We’re trying to be digital services versus just hardware centric these days. And you’ve got people that don’t know how to even start to do that. So you’re expecting completely earth shattering, you know, huge results on products and services that your people have never been trained on to go to market with. How do you think that’s supposed to happen? You know, you got to kind of take the first step before you start to run. And we actually got vendors to invest in it. There’s other ways to create the capital needs or the expense needs you need. But when you start looking at it, hey, you get one nice big deal at services focused on that. I trained two hundred people for that number.

And you have one of them do a nice deal and you pay for the whole thing. So it’s this mindset that I think everyone can kind of fight in corporate America and I think it’s great that you’re taking it to them because it gets lost. We’re so busy we can’t take the time to invest in our people right now. We’re too busy to slow down to improve. And you go, wait a second, that makes no sense. Right. Exactly.

The competition’s improving. Somebody is working today on dismantling us as an organization. We better get our spidey senses turned on me. Exactly. And go. Exactly. Now you do a lot of workshops. We talked before you said, we talked a little bit about K-II, the mountain, right? Mountain climbing. Yeah. And you even mentioned the Netflix show, 14 Peaks, for me to check out here. I was listening. taking notes for you or something. Very good. Yeah, tell us a little bit about, you know, you build a workshop around the life sciences and things, but tell us a little bit about your K-II experiences and how you share that inside your workshops.

Yeah, so the K-II experience is about Nymphs Pirs. He climbs the 14 highest peaks in the world, eight thousand meters. Damn. Yeah, so think of it this way. You know, when you’re on a plane and usually the cruising altitudes are on twenty six, twenty seven thousand That’s how high a lot of these mountains are within, you know, a thousand feet give or take. That’s how high you are. Way up there. In a non-pressurized cabin.

Exactly, exactly. And so I focused on K-II because K-II is the second highest mountain in the world behind Everest, but probably the most dangerous. And somebody said that, you know, you and I could probably get on a team and help be able to climb Everest. The right Sherpas, right? Yeah, but the right Sherpas. But for K-II, pretty much only experts climbed K-II. And so when they got to K-II, there were a lot of people on the mountain, and they were not sure that anybody was going to be able to make the summit.

because of the weather and, you know, there’s a couple of areas where, you know, people who lost their lives, so on and so forth. And so Nims and team comes in. He tells him he gets them all, you know, he has a party and he gets them all excited and everything. And then he gets all of the negative backlash, so on and so forth. He makes a decision that he’s going to be on one part of a mountain like one or 2 in the morning when it’s frozen solid. So that this ice doesn’t break and crash down and cause these avalanches.

And so ultimately they make the summit. And within, I think, 24 to 48 hours after they make the summit, another 20 folks make the summit. And so I made a decision to build the workshop around that because You know, here we have a lot of A type personalities, a lot of driven people. You have one person that comes in where the mood is not positive. He does things a little different, but he’s able to get people to follow him. Followership. Followership. And so the fundamental question is, as a leader, are you worthy of being followed? And so that’s part of the workshop is designed around some level of self reflection of you as an individual leader. What am I doing to work on my own skill set.

So the other part of, you know, we talked about training organizational being organizations being responsible. At the end of the day, you’re responsible for you. And if you’re responsible for you, that means that you have to focus on your own self-development, focus on where your gaps are and always constantly be working on those things, not waiting for somebody to do that for you. So when we go back to the 4 needs of followers, you know, hope and trust are 2 of those big areas. And so as a leader, do people trust you?

Do you provide hope for them? And so I reflect upon what Nims did as he provided people with hope as well as trust based on his background and some of the other mountaineering things that he had done.

And then I’ve been reading a lot of Simon Sinek lately, you know, a lot of talk about the infinite gain versus the finite gain. So I built and layer all of these different pieces into the workshop and then did is earlier on, because we’ve done, I think, performance management workshop with this company earlier. And so I had individual coaching sessions with some of the managers that had some challenges with some of their folks on and so forth.

And so what I did is I built cases Around the around some of these issues situations, so and so forth. And then we had folks go through these individual case studies as a team talk through, you know, what should you done? What are things that you could be thinking about pulling in some of these accountability pieces, some of so forth, but ultimately getting back to If you’re going to hold people accountable, that accountability starts with you as the leader and your ability to hold them accountable is their willingness to follow you. Because sometimes you can get people to do things they may not be willing to do because they don’t believe it.

They have the capability. They’re just going through the motions. Yeah, they’re going through the motions. There’s the gap in their belief system, so on and so forth. But because they believe in you as the leader, because they’re willing to follow you, they will do what you ask them to do. And so that really is where leadership comes in. So sometimes when you’re getting resistance from an accountability standpoint and people are not doing where you’ve had a conversation, you’ve agreed upon doing so and so forth. Sometimes there’s a part of it is as a leader, Am I worthy or what am I doing that’s not making me worthy enough to be followed?

Now it’s obviously more complicated than that because sometimes you have wrong people on the bus, but all things being equal. At the end of the day, my experience has been Most people wake up and they really want to do a good job. They do. There’s some gaps, challenges, and issues that we all have. We have sticking points and things that we need help with. We need several conversations, coaching sessions, so on and so forth. So when we go back to this whole piece around followership, am I worthy of being followed? It’s why it becomes so important because there’s so many more times when you don’t even realize it. Your people are relying upon you around belief sets that they don’t own yet that you have to help them get to and they’re relying upon you to do that. So therefore they need to be in a trust.

They need to have hope. They need to all the buzzwords that we talk about leadership. That’s why all these things become so important. And yet in servant and leadership, you know, are you there to serve You’re not there for ulterior motives to hit my goal because you know your goal I hit my goal right there has to be a selflessness that’s involved in that so that’s that’s You know why the the workshop and I I probably watched that next Netflix documentary, I don’t know, 5 or 6 times. And I really felt like there were some leadership components there to be able to share with people and get them to think about, you know, yeah, that’s high stakes. You know, when we’re at work, they’re not those type of high stakes. It’s not life or death, but it’s a good life or not good life stakes, right? Self improvement. And it really resonates with me because you’re trying to get and especially this moving forward because someone else believes in you, right?

And they understand the goals and objectives and you’re trying to absorb it, but you’re trusting as you go along, right? And there’s all sorts of different personalities that you engage with as a leader, and even as an individual contributor as a seller, right? I mean, these things that are trying to create followership, that’s no different than an individual contributor trying to win the opportunity with a big customer. You have to have them buy in in your hope and hope in you and trust in you. It’s the same thing. You are a leader. You are impacting people because you’re trying to convince people to go with you. And it’s all about the people. It’s all about the relationships. So it’s just very interesting. I think it’s a great a great thing to look at.

And accountability, you know, for those listeners out there that don’t remember, accountability is raising your hand when it doesn’t go right. It’s really easy to raise your hand and say, I was part of the winning team. A lot of people get these alligator arms when it’s suddenly an accountability question about, hey, something didn’t quite go right. And that’s where bravery comes in. And that’s where tenacity comes in and ownership. And you want followership as a leader? Take accountability for something you did wrong. Show self-deprecating humor.

Show understanding that you don’t have all the right answers. And you’ll build that followership a lot faster than if you stand up there and think that your proverbial you know what doesn’t stink, and that you got all the answers. We’re always all learning. Always. Exactly. All of us are always learning. That’s what I was trying to say. This life, what we will be talking about, Keith, in 5 years from now, may not even be on a cocktail napkin yet. I mean, it took us 1000, tens of thousands of years to develop the automobile and 60 years, 60 odd years later, depends on if you believe Mercedes did it first or who had the first automobile combustion engine, but 60 odd years later, we’re in space. We’re on rockets. Isn’t it crazy? Yeah. Exactly.

I’ve told the story before, the Library of Congress took two hundred and fifty years to fill up. with all the periodicals, the speeches, the recordings, the books, all that stuff. That amount of data’s moving on the internet today every 90 seconds. Yeah. It’s just, I mean, it’s beyond exponential. There’s no such thing, but I’m just trying to make a point. Now, when you’re dealing with leaders, and you know, we talked about this in our prior call, but tell me a little bit about your philosophy around A players, B players, and C players, and where as a leader you want to focus.

I think as a leader, your best opportunity to grow your business ultimately comes with your middle performers. That makes up about 60, maybe even 70 percent of the workforce that you have. Your top performers, they get the extra assignments. If you have field input teams, you know, working with marketing, you know, and this is from a sales perspective. And I think this probably even fits within organizations that don’t do sales. Ultimately, those top performers get a lot of extra. The other part of it is they also sometimes get overworked. So you have to be careful because they’re tapped out. Yeah, they’re tapped out. Exactly. And then your bottom performers, you spend extra time with them because you’re trying to get rid of them.

So who gets left in the middle? All the people that need the love and tenderness are forgotten. Yeah, exactly. That’s funny. The bottom ones you’re trying to get out. That’s funny. You didn’t say that when we met last time. That’s a good line. I really love you here, Johnny, but let me show you the door. Do you have a box with you today? So to talk about the middle performers, how do you coach through that? What do you explain what you mean by your biggest opportunity?

Yeah, so A, generally, at least in pharma, everybody generally gets the same amount of time. But you top performers get a little extra exposure. I think with your middle performers, you have to be more explicit. in regards to what you want people to do. You have to kind of coach exactly to the skill. I know that, I can’t remember if it was the Harvard Business Review or McKinsey Reports or something, but they were talking about coaching.

They were talking about coaching best practices. And when you coach the best practices, you have to coach to exactly what it is that people should do or what that best practice looks like. Because some people, you can say do X and they’ll know exactly what that means. Yeah, you tell sales representative you you need to use your resources more effectively and they shake their head up and down

They know they know what you can mean for some folks that might mean when I say resources I mean You need to do more lunches You need to use You know, whatever extra tools that you have in a bag These are the 5 tools that we find And be very, very explicit about what that means. And then the follow up to that is you have to check in and you have to and we talked about accountability, but accountability is a hands on task. You know that you can’t wait to the next field session, which is 4 to 6 weeks away to follow up. It might mean in the next 24 hours, I want you to send me a list of acts or, you know, we talked about you setting up an appointment with some of these top customers. That might mean following up because I want that done in the next 24 hours. I want you to follow up, send me email so I’ll know it’s done. It’s not micromanagement. What gets measured gets done ultimately.

That’s right. And so you have to have some level of focus for that. And then the other part of this is You have to cheer for the middle folks because no one’s sharing for them. That’s right. They’re their forgotten sons and daughters, right? Yeah. And it might be, um, you know, I talked to, I was talking to a manager and we were talking about one of their middle performers and they made a comment and they said, uh, they were trying to get them to increase the number of calls that they had. They were making a day on physicians. And I think the person that had hit 8 that had a really good week. And so I asked the manager, I said, well, Did you say anything to the representative?

Did you let him know that did you positively reinforce right right? Yeah. And they looked at me like I was crazy. I mean it hadn’t dawned on them that they needed to. Well, it’s expected. Why do we? Why do we have to be nice to him? That’s what the job is. It’s just not how people work man. You know this reminds me I did an episode 2 weeks ago and it was out of a. I can’t remember what the source was and it was about coaching and it was a sports.

approach to it, but they talked about, they didn’t call them A, Bs, and Cs, but they called them talent and mindset combinations. So you have an A in talent and an A in mindset, you have an A in mindset and a B in talent, and you have an A in mindset and a B in talent. And the AA, the top of the line mindset and the top of the line talent, As a coach or as a leader, you may go your whole career and have one, maybe 2 of them that you ever experienced. They’re just built different. They’re the Michael Jordans. They’re the Walter Paytons. They’re the ones that work the hardest, practice the hardest, and were gifted with skills and acquired skills and continuously try to improve. They’re the unicorns. So you kind of put those off to the side. Those are like A-plus players. Then you have the A talent and the B mindset people. And they got all the talent in the world, but they aren’t willing to, they’re raring to go, but can’t go for raring, I say.

They’ll try 15 different things that they should probably work on once each. And they never develop. They have this talent and they’re basically wasting it. And the thing is, is they’re also a cancer to your team. Because not having the right mindset or thinking they don’t have to practice or they don’t have to do it or or they aren’t driven towards self-improvement or common goals, that can be a bad thing for you. The one, the B players that you and I are talking about, the ones that this coach talked about specifically that are the golden opportunity, are the A mindset and the B talent.

The talent you can coach up to and stuff, but they try one thing a thousand times until they get it because the mindset’s right then the talent goes up and it’s now a B plus and then their mindset is right again the talent goes to a B plus plus and then finally reaches an A and that’s that middle people right the people that you know they have the can do and the will do they just need time they need percolation like a fine cup of coffee you got to let it kind of brew a little bit and have this thing take off and I think it’s true on what we’re kind of talking about here too your A B and C players the C player is actually the A talent, B mindset. Now, we put up with a lot of things from people that deliver the results, right?

Revenue hides sins, as I used to say. And the best thing you can ever be as a leader is to have so much talent on your team, you don’t have to put up with that. And you have a bench that’s so strong. We had a manager of a year one time, this is 20, this is 30 years ago probably, and they said, how’d you do it? And he goes, well, you gotta remember, I started management 4 years ago. It took me 4 years to build this team. I turned every single person over. This team is not what I took over. This team is what I built. And he wasn’t taking credit with that statement. He goes, you can’t expect this immediate gratification as a leader and as an individual contributor. It takes time. You might get lucky. You might have a big deal fall in your lap, a blue bird, whatever.

And then you got to maintain the account. life’s hard. So expect it to take some time. Exactly. And really dedicate on continuous improvement. That’s why I put this show together is just trying to share it forward. and trying to share and bring people like yourself with all, there’s so many talented people out there bringing someone like you on here and talking about the life sciences business and this training methodology and everything. It’s great because there’s somebody driving down the road today that’s a life science person. Somebody’s working for, you know, Bear or Merck or somebody that listens to this and goes, you know, that’s a great idea by Keith. I never thought of it that way. And that’s all we’re trying to do.

You and I just little baby steps for everybody and hope you can give a high 5 at the end of the week that somebody had a good week. yeah absolutely absolutely and ironically in the story that you tell it’s within those b players sometimes is your management i mean i i think and i’ll use a sports analogy i think about somebody like a steve kerr yeah uh you know b talent A mindset. Great coach. Yep. Made one really big shot too for that ring. Yep. Yep. On the bulls. It is funny, you know, you got, and then you got great coaches that some never even played the game.

Yeah. You know, they understand the game, but weren’t great players, you know, just philosophically and things. It’s just, you know, I think of Tiger Woods’ dad. He wasn’t a big golfer, but he created the greatest golfer ever because he got his mindset right. I mean, Tiger’s going out and training with SEAL teams and stuff. You know, that’s why he’s got back injuries and Achilles.

It’s because he over trained a lot of this. And also he’s ripping the club at, you know, one hundred and twenty five mile an hour club head speed as he’s crossing the plane at impact. I’m sitting here at 57 going, God, I’d love to be at 92 miles an hour again. You know, God. What about, do you think it’s harder today for people to take on and self-develop than it used to be? And the reason I’m asking the question is what I’m thinking about here, is in today’s world, it’s fake book and it’s instascam and everything’s perfect and the level at which everyone is to hold themselves up to is not realistic. Beauty is not real. It’s all filters. So it’s all this false what good looks like. Have you found it more difficult to engage with younger people today and get them to get the mindset right and understand that perfect isn’t the goal, just improvement is? Give me your thoughts on that. You know, I don’t know that it’s any more difficult now than it was then. The way I look at it is we were them. Yeah, every generation says the same thing.

They’re lazy. They don’t want to do this. They want to do that. I mean, it’s just like really, you know, and I’ve been fortunate to work with some young people. I work with a nonprofit collective success network. We help low income first generation students, you know, make their way through school and network opportunities. I’m on the advisory board and then I’ve also done some work with the leadership program and They’re all inquisitive. They’re all ambitious. It just looks a little different because what they grew up with is a lot different. I took my daughter with me on a business trip with a client and it was insightful. I picked up a lot of tips from her from a training perspective.

A lot more trending experience than I realized. How much stuff did she does? And everybody was impressed with her. And I was thinking, well, she’s grown. She’s not a kid anymore. Well, and that’s great. And she was surrounded by parents that dug in and worked hard and those types of things. I guess what I was thinking about there, there’s a lot of victim attitude out there. and wanting it to come to them without the effort. And I just think that my wife wears a shirt and it’s the Maryland’s head coach, female’s head coach, and I’m not gonna remember her name right now, handle hard better. Life’s hard. You can either handle hard now or hard later. And if you handle hard now, you don’t have the hard later. You know, you mentioned I say a third of your life is working. first third of your life, and it’s not necessarily a third, maybe it’s a fourth or something. Well, no, it’s about a third. A third of your life you sleep.

A third of your life, the first 20 years, your parents, if you’re good, most people got a good family, you don’t have a lot of the stresses, you’re having food put on the table for you, you’re getting your education, those types of things. And then the last part of that third is retirement, where you get to settle back down. And then you got this one big third. That you just gotta work your ass off and if you work your ass off for a third of your life the heart is a lot easier later in life and It’s just that’s that’s what I was kind of thinking about my sister. Yeah, and we were talking about it We’ve got a white. I’m a younger kid compared to my siblings so my kids are younger than theirs and and we’re just watching people grow and And the social media stuff is what it gets me too. It’s just perfection is not what you want for, well, first of all, they aren’t perfect.

They’re all about them. And it just, that’s interesting. Well, I think it’s both. I actually think it’s both because I think that fundamentally you can do extremely well because there are more resources, tools and resources available. The other part of it is because of social media there’s so many different distractions so and so forth that you have to be disciplined and so I think if you can help kids be focused, laser focused because even older adults play victimhood and I think if you can help people be focused on the right tools and resources that are so much more available than when we were available.

I mean, if you didn’t go, you don’t have to go to the library now. Dewey Decimal, they don’t even know what you’re talking about when you say the Dewey Decimal system. You used to have to go look up a number, 4 digits plus a period, something, something, then go find that aisle, then go find that book, then read book.

Yes. You don’t get to Google or chat GDP, GPT man. It’s just, it’s crazy. Different problems. There’s a lot of problems we didn’t deal with too. So I swear I’m not yelling, you know, standing on my yard, get off my yard to all the neighbor kids yet. I haven’t turned into that yet, but I’m well on my way probably. Well, I’ll tell you, Keith, the company just sounds absolutely awesome. Again, everybody, it’s core management training. You know, when we were getting together and talking about today, I want to make sure that you get any message for the listeners out there that you wanted to make sure you touched on. You got a lot going on, a great company, you focus in the life sciences.

But first of all, how do people get a hold of you? And then do you have any last words, anything, message for the day that you want to make sure you get across to the listeners? Yeah, Brent. So you can reach me at coremanagementtraining.com. And even if you’re not life sciences and you have some leadership needs, I happen to work with you. And my message would be this, Brent. I think that at the end of the day, you’re the captain of your own ship. So if you want things to change, then you must change. You kind of alluded to it earlier.

There’s so many tools and resources. and things that are available, you have to be responsible for your own development. And if you spend time with your own self-development, you will grow because it’s not necessarily about, it’s more about the person you’re trying to become than the person that you are now. And if you do the work now, as you said earlier, the results will show up. They may not show up today and they may take a lot longer than you realize, but that consistency will develop you into a person that you won’t recognize 5 years from now.

That’s a great statement. Yeah, you hit the nail on the head. What you don’t change, you choose. I mean, if you don’t change and you don’t get better and you don’t hold yourself to that, then you’ve chosen to stay stagnant and stay where you are, not improve, and the rest is history. Hey, everybody. We had Keith Willis on today. And again, it’s Keith Willis with Core Management Training. Keith, great visit today. Everybody out there, take to heart what Keith said and take it to the streets. Be awesome. And then keep that shit up. Everybody we’ll talk next week. See you.

Managing Yourself

The Hardest Leadership Skill to Master

Every leader faces challenges, but the toughest one often starts within. Managing yourself — your emotions, reactions, and habits — shapes how your team sees you and how effectively you lead them.

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The Conversation

In this session, I joined Jill Valdez for Lunch and Learn for Leaders to discuss the role of self-awareness in leadership. We discussed my journey from the military to the pharmaceutical industry and how lessons from both shaped my approach to emotional intelligence, feedback, and personal growth. I shared how recognizing blind spots, learning to listen, and managing your own reactions can change how you lead and how others respond to you.

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The Insight

Leadership begins with self-management. When you understand how your behavior affects others, you create space for trust, openness, and better performance. The leaders who grow the fastest are those willing to look in the mirror, seek feedback, and keep learning from it.

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The Action

  • Start with awareness. Notice how your tone, words, and energy influence your team.
  • Ask for real feedback. Seek it early, often, and from multiple sources.
  • Stay teachable. Growth comes from curiosity, not perfection.
  • Model vulnerability. Admit mistakes and show your team what learning looks like.
  • Focus on progress, not polish. Leadership is built through daily reflection and small improvements over time.

Well, welcome to today’s lunch and learn for leaders and those who want to be. I’m super excited about our gathering today. Of course, we meet every Thursday on Zoom, and it’s an opportunity for us to talk about current leadership issues, what might be challenges that you’re currently experiencing, or just on a topic that’s going to help us be a better leader.

And from time to time, I like to bring in a guest. And so I’m super excited to have Keith Willis here with us today. Keith and I met through another introduction and we hit it off. And I was like, man, this guy, he’s got it. He knows what it is about being a great leader.

And so I invited him to come and be a part of our gathering today. Keith, thank you so much for joining us. Jill, thank you for having me on. Yeah. So Keith, just so that people get to know a little bit more about you before we start talking, tell me and tell us what’s your background.

So yeah, so I own a company, Core Management Training, focused on leadership development training, primarily in the life sciences arena. I started my career in the Army, did ROTC, all that other good stuff. I was a captain when I got out, and then promptly got into the pharmaceutical industry. Worked for several different companies, worked with Siva Guygi initially in Albuquerque, New Mexico, and basically moved from west to east. after SEVA’s downsize ended up at J&J in the Toledo area where I was a sales rep, hospital rep. And then I went into the home office in the, basically in the New Jersey area where I did sales training.

And then I was a district sales manager for about 6 years. And then from there, I went over to Wyeth where I did account management training. And then I was the director of field operations for one of the zone VPs.

Went back into training after we were bought by Pfizer and I did vaccines training for a couple of years and then from there went over to Otsuka where I had an opportunity to build out leadership capabilities and leadership development department for that company. They were taking on responsibility for a multibillion dollar drug at that time.

It was the most written product in industry. And because they were taking over responsibility for their own drug, we had to build out infrastructure. And then from there, I went over to Bristol Myer Squibb, where I ran one of the training teams with about 70 managers, seven hundred sales representatives. So between being in the military as well as my time in pharma, I’ve seen a lot of different things when it comes to the leadership.

Yeah, good and bad, I’m sure. Yeah, exactly. Yeah. Well, let’s go ahead and just jump right in. And I’m going to ask the question, what has been your biggest obstacle and how did you overcome it on your leadership journey? Yes, I think one of the biggest challenges that I’ve had and I think a lot of leaders have is around managing yourself.

There are a whole constellation of things that go along with that, you know, I think of it as part of its emotional intelligence, how you’re being seen, you know, are you being not only being authentic leader, but also are you acting in a way that’s the most appropriate.

I remember one time my wife had told me that she would never want to work for me. So when your spouse tells you that, that gets your attention. I look back on my journey, there are things that I did when I was in the military that, you know, they just were not good. And so you kind of think about that journey. I mean, I think one of the fortunate things, at least in pharmaceuticals, there’s always been a lot of training. And so learning how to do certain types of things. So there are certain leadership things that I did well, you know, innovation, doing things differently. some cases, you know, being one-on-one, those type of things.

But I think as you begin to mature, as you get older and reflect upon your behaviors and things that get in the way of being the most effective leader, they can really make a big difference. So for me, that was probably, I would probably say the biggest obstacle. And I think a lot of people have that obstacle because in your mind, you’re doing all the right things. So as a sales manager, you live and die by the numbers.

Well, sure, you got to be the one that’s calm, cool and collected, even though you may feel that anxiety. people pick up on your anxiety, they pick up on the challenges and issues that you have. And so your team becomes a reflection of you. So, building those types of skill sets, you become more effective at being able to manage people more effectively. So, over the years, I was able to do that. I do know one tool that helped me out significantly was embracing strength binders. You know, I had always been part of my personality could be overly critical. But beginning to understand how to manage people from a strengths perspective really made all the difference in the world. Now, I wish I could tell you that I read Break All the Rules by Marcus Buckingham.

So that was the book kind of turned the corner. But I wouldn’t say that it was all of a sudden. It was one of those things where it’s like, oh, those are some good concepts. Started to apply them. And I think that’s the other thing. A lot of times in your leadership journey, There’s kind of a trial and error part of that. And you try some things and then you get away from it and then you try it again. So you have to keep on trying and keep on growing. So when I became a manager working in the home office within training teams, I found that utilizing strengths really made a big difference. I was able to get people promoted. I turned my training team over twice.

because of utilizing strengths and really begin to understand who I was and how to utilize my best strengths to get the best out of my people and help them do the same thing. So those are a couple of ways that I overcome, overcame one of those obstacles. But I do think that managing yourself is one of those things that’s easy to, I don’t know, avoid is the right word.

I think it’s part of it’s a level of self-awareness. It’s also getting feedback and being open to receiving the feedback that you receive because a lot of times we can get upset when we hear certain things or lack of acceptance might be a better word. So sometimes you are good at acknowledging it but not really good at accepting that’s the feedback that you received and here’s some skills that you need to be better at. Yeah, that’s so good.

There’s so many thoughts and so many ideas in my head. I was actually just talking with a friend of mine about this this morning. Both he and I come from the pastor world and really got into coaching because there was an opportunity My particular denomination was looking for people who would get certified as coaches so that then they could go out and coach pastors.

Well, we got certified. It was phenomenal. We were super excited. And all the pastors were like, I don’t want your help. We don’t need you. And finding that It’s kind of the same thing now. As I’m building a business, coaching business, going out and meeting with people and finding out what’s going on with their company, they’re like, oh yeah, what you’re doing, it’s so important, but they then don’t engage and don’t want the service because what I think is there’s this fear that they’re going to discover that they’re the problem.

And I just want to tell them I’m actually I was like, I think I’m going to work on figuring out how to include this in in the conversation. You are the problem. You are the problem. Have the self-awareness to recognize you are the problem and you can grow. So, yeah, self-awareness and and having that growth mindset is so important.

Oh, definitely. How are you finding that you’re able to take your knowledge of the importance of self-awareness and then bring that to the leaders and the people that you’re working with today? I think part of it is being in their shoes. You know, when you talk to clients and potential clients, it’s helping letting them know that you’re in the same journey, you know, a lot of times in the pharmaceutical industry somebody runs leadership development so you’ve had some of the same conversations issues, don’t necessarily have a proverbial seat at the table, some of the same challenges.

So I think when I can be in somebody else’s shoes, it gives them a level of confidence that we can kind of overcome that. And sometimes they’re in a position where they’re working with people at different levels. So oftentimes in training roles, it’s training can be the glue within an organization. People don’t oftentimes see it that way. Sometimes they see themselves as order takers.

And so it’s trying to help them figure out how do I begin to navigate through, you know, the network, the internal networks, the external networks to do the things that need to be done. Yeah. So let’s talk a little bit more about how self-awareness made you become a better leader coming from a military background. And I know that there’s been a lot of change in the military, but still there’s a lot of top-down leadership methodology in the military.

And so you obviously learned how to invest in yourself as a leader and then how to invest, how to invest in others. that self-awareness and then taking the information to become a better leader?

So I guess I was starting with a couple of things because I think at times when we talk about the military, to some degree, it is a misnomer that it is top down. It is and it isn’t. It’s not much different than corporate in some ways. The best leaders that I encountered were those that use their influence, not necessarily their authority.

If you had to use your authority, then you really weren’t being a good leader. So a lot of times you’re working with in a team, I mean, you know my first platoon I had I don’t know, I think, 70 soldiers, you have 4 or 5 squad leaders, you have a platoon sergeant. you know, unfortunately, the lieutenant’s the dumbest one in the unit because, you know, you’ve been on active duty a hot second.

you have to learn how to listen, get people’s opinions and those type of things. So really starts early that lesson and then watching senior leaders, you know, how and when to defer, really listen to the people that are in your command. So that that had been my experience. And then I think one of the things that the military does extremely well is, you know, in corporate America, or even in business, generally, you get promoted, and there’s no training, you just say, you’re in charge, you’re the manager. Well, I went to 6 months of officer basic course before I went to my first unit.

And then mind you, there were 3 or 4 years of ROTC where I went to camp. There were evaluations, assessments. So you learn how to be an officer. And same thing, those that go to West Point, every summer there’s an engagement or something where they’re learning how to lead. So it’s not like you throw somebody in and then all of a sudden they’re learning how to lead. It’s constant training.

I was joking with somebody the other day and I said, fortunately, the military doesn’t treat training like corporate does because if it did, we would be in extreme trouble.

And so, you know, I began to learn there that leaders read, you know, and are well educated. And then fortunately, you know, I joined the industry The pharma has gotten has its critics and those type of things, but generally you get a lot of training. So a lot of training around soft skills, social styles, this emotional intelligence, crucial conversations, coaching and feedback, how to interview. I mean, the list goes on.

And so you’re surrounded by a lot of very intelligent, very bright people, and invariably the conversation comes up, what are you reading? So as a consequence of that, that’s how you begin to develop a level of self-awareness. And then the other part of that is, is that it’s not necessarily, and even if you move from company to company, you get a coaching workshop. And then, you know, I like to think of a bundle so crucial conversations that’s.

Advanced coaching, you have some other elements that you can add emotional intelligence, you can add resilience, all of those things help you be able to have different conversations or tough conversations with people. So become a lot more aware of people’s responses to you and it becomes more about. them and not you. You know, one of the lessons I learned is my role as a manager or my role as a leader is to make you the best version of you.

Yes. You know, if you’re able to do that, then you’re going to be a lot more effective because if everybody on my team was just like me, we would be in a world of hurt. They’re just some skills that I just don’t have. And so you try to build a team that has a lot of those skill sets and brings a lot of things to the table, a lot of different ideas. And that’s when we get into those discussions about diversity and things like that. That’s why those types of things are very important.

Yeah, absolutely. I mean, ultimately, that’s what leadership is, is bringing out the best in the people that you lead, not because you were the best at doing the job that they’re doing. Yeah, and sometimes you’re managing people that are doing jobs that didn’t even exist.

So, you know, you think about Drucker and you think about, you know, his concept around knowledge workers. You can’t, I mean, I know we talk a lot about leading by doing and leading by example. I think there are some things that you can do, but I think there are also some things that inherently you have people on your team you’ve never done their job and you’re never going to be an expert in doing their job.

But there is a way to coach them, be able to provide them with feedback and help them in a way that they can impact the business in a positive way. Sure, yeah. We talked about feedback a few weeks ago, and we started with the fact that it’s feedback when I give it, it’s criticism when you give it to me. Yeah, how important, what is, like, how do you set up your team and the people that you’re training to be good leaders, how do you set them up to receive feedback in a positive way?

I think for starters, you got to do early and often. I was doing a course on psychological safety, going through a train to train or so on and so forth. And somebody had come up with a statistic, 5 to one, 5 positive to one. I know manager tools, which is a podcast that does a lot of stuff around management. I think there were 7 to one. So at the end of the day, you should be given feedback a lot. hard to do.

The manager tools, they have a comment that if you ask the question, can I give you some feedback and somebody has that look on your face like, oh crap, then you know you’re not giving enough feedback because mostly it should be positive. And then when you begin to give feedback, people will be looking for feedback. I mean, all you’re doing is impacting people’s behavior and the behavior is what that’s their performance over time.

So if you’re not providing any feedback at all, you have no impact on their performance. And so managers get confused between the difference between coaching and feedback.

I mean, feedback really does not take that long and it’s not rocket science, it’s just feedback. And most of the time it’s positive. It’s like you give a presentation near, hey, you did a really good job. Here are the things that you did well. You think you might be able to change this, this, this, because, you know, the impact that it had on our audience or whatever that is. And it’s, you can be walking down the hall and give feedback.

It’s people make it a big deal. It’s not a big deal. It’s just feedback. Well, for a while, it became such a formalized thing. Like, oh, we’ve got to sit down. We only give feedback during our one-on-ones. And we schedule those. And it was just so locked into a box that people lost the natural ability to be able to give feedback. Yeah. It’s like you’re working on a project. You know, there are always some elements that you struggle with. It’s not any different than having a conversation with your boss about what you’re doing, what you’re trying to accomplish and where the hotspots are and where you’re frustrated. Have you thought about X? Have you tried this? Have you tried that? I mean, that’s feedback.

I mean, it’s not a formal coaching session. All it is is, you know, hey, you know, try this instead of that. Yeah. Well, it’s conversation. It’s it’s working together. Exactly. And so why do we have to define it as being this thing that then becomes processed, that then it loses its impact and becomes just one more thing for somebody to check off a box? Yeah, exactly, exactly. Yeah, it’s so good. Oh, dang it. I had a question just totally left my mind. That’s the challenge of live recording. Does anybody else have any questions real quick while I’m trying to bring that question back to my mind?

Yeah, it’s been a great conversation. I really appreciate your perspective, Keith. Do you Do you feel like there are any tools that maybe resemble filter of sort that you kind of, I don’t know, put in front of your the way like how you give feedback and when you give feedback that. have been really effective for you, like something you learned over time. Like, you know, a good example would be like the sandwich method of giving a compliment and then your feedback and then Yeah. I’m not a sandwich fan. But something, you know, like that, so to speak. I cringe every time I see it in the back. I do think models are good. Because they’re tools. You only have one tool. You only have one tool Yeah, more than one tool, you have options.

So I would start with that. I think there’s a situational leadership. I think they have that model. I think that model works well. I like the manager tools model because what it does is it presented in a way that almost just like situational leadership tool, but the difference is that you ask if you can give somebody some feedback.

Because sometimes it may not be the right time, so on and so forth. And if you create a culture of feedback, it gets to be simple, simpler. And if most of the time that you’re giving feedback to restart with positive feedback, then people are going to begin to ask. And so if you create an environment, then it becomes easier. When people don’t give feedback, then it becomes a big deal. And I think that’s the challenge, is to really focus on that. And the same thing with coaching.

I think coaching models are good because it’s a model. The models vary. They’re not that much different. But beginning to start with a model, because easy coaching is easy. where it becomes really important is when you need to have those important conversations. The other part of that is when you do things like one-on-ones, staff meetings, and those type of things, the reason that you do a one-on-one is not really for the update, it’s to build a professional relationship. Because at some point, you’re going to have a conversation I won’t say that goes south, but you need to move somebody in a different direction. And so in some cases, that could be career changing. I remember somebody that was on my team, they were from another country. And so in their country, their culture was, it’s in your face.

And so when they would engage with people, they were getting in a way on a project, so on and so forth, it would be this conflict. and it would be conflict that was not seen in a positive way. And so having that conversation was an important conversation, but being able to have a model and starting as a starting point because it was a critical, it was a crucial conversation. So I’d probably use some crucial conversation pieces. I use some other pieces from other models that I had learned and you put all of those things together.

It didn’t change the fact that there were tears And there were some emotional challenges during that conversation. But when people come back later, years later, and thank you for that conversation, then you know the models work. And that’s the beauty of using these type of models as a starting point. And I would even argue that, yes, I don’t like the sandwich.

But I would say that using the sandwich would be better than not having, let’s say you’ve never given feedback before and you don’t know what to do and you’ve got a model to rely upon, I think it’s a starting point. I think using some tools is better, is most times better than using no tools at all.

Because it gives you a starting point and then you learn other stuff that you can add in and then you can pick and choose. There are coaching models I learned probably 20 years ago Where there was this thing called the congruency model, for example. And I pull that tool out when I was having a problem coaching somebody and, you know, like, closing, for example. Look, I know, you know, out of a close, you’ve been doing sales for 20 years. What’s the deal? And so there was a value issue.

But if I had not learned that model, I would have never asked that question. I would have kept coaching the way that I was coaching. But because I pulled something from, you know, another model and used it, we got to the issue and got to the challenge and we were able to have a conversation. And it was never a negative conversation, but it was a factual conversation about how do we move you forward? So I think whether you’re doing coaching, you’re doing feedback, even if you’re doing business planning, I think models are great because they are frameworks. And then from there, you can get creative and all that other good stuff.

Yeah. Thank you. Patrick Lencioni, he talks about employee engagement. And one of the things that he says, there’s 3 pieces. And one of the big pieces is that managers know their people, that they’re known. And so if I, as a leader, know my people and have a relationship with them, then when I’m giving feedback, it’s going to become it’s gonna become more conversational to where you’re not like, okay, I gave a positive, here’s the negative, another positive. It just flows so naturally out of the conversations that you’re having.

And it’s received better for one. I mean, there’s times where we just have to give what people would call negative feedback. We have to coach people onto being the best version of themselves. You talked about that. earlier that bringing out the best in people. So if we have a relationship with them, they know that we’re not doing it to be mean, we’re not doing it to be heavy handed, but we’re doing it because we want to see them be successful because when they’re successful, the company is successful. Absolutely.

Yeah. I mean, I think that You know, as a part of that, because in Patrick Glenn C. Odine’s book when he talks about that piece there, I think one of the other things that’s really telling is The manager, and this is the piece around the leadership piece, I think sometimes it’s missing because it’s a great book.

And even when you get an Amy Edmondson’s piece around psychological safety, at the end of the day, the manager has to have some level of vulnerability because none of that happens unless the manager signs up for it. So it’s willing to have the conversation, really get to know people and for the people to get to know them also.

One of the lessons I’ve learned, I told my team, I said that I have a tendency to be overly critical. So if you think I’m being overly critical, then you need to raise your hand. You need to tell me that because it’s who I am. It’s personality flaw or whatever you want to call it. And so that opened up the lines of communication because it was acknowledgement of, look, I got gaps just like everybody else does.

You have a real conversation with me about how you’re feeling. And so I think those things get to be really important. And I think that’s the base leadership that everybody can have, whether you’re a leader and that you lead leaders. or your individual contributor and a leader in being willing to be vulnerable to have the conversations that you need to move people, not only to move people forward, but to move yourself forward. Yeah. Well, Keith, thank you so much for your time today. This has been great. We’ll have to definitely have you come back and share some more.

Where can people find you? So yes, you can find me at coremanagementtraining.com. It’s exactly how it sounds. If you spell all the words out, so it’s literally 2 T’s because when you, you know, core management ends with a T and then there’s the training. So that’s my website. Or you can get me at kwillis at coremanagementtraining.com.

All right, awesome. Well, thank you again so much for joining us today and thanks everybody for being here. Of course, oh, quick announcement. We will not be meeting next week because I’m doing a presentation and it’s smack in the same time. So next week will be canceled, unfortunately. I don’t like to do that, but it couldn’t be avoided. But we record these. They’re up on YouTube. It’s a great opportunity. You can go back and watch maybe some previous episodes, kind of brush up on some of the leadership stuff we’ve been talking about. If there’s ever any way I can be a resource for you, you can reach me at jvaldez at linkconsulting.info.

If you go to linkconsulting.info, there will be a pop-up that comes up, and I have a free gift for anybody who goes there. It’s a little e-book called Confident Leadership, How to be a Confident Leader of a Committed Team Providing Stellar Service, and I would love for to be able to give that gift to you. And until 2 weeks from now, thanks for joining us and have a great rest of your day. Bye. Thank you so much. Thank you all. Thank you, Keith. Thank you. Thanks. Appreciate

Training Managers First

The Real Key to Engagement and Retention

When organizations attempt to improve performance, they often begin with frontline teams. But lasting change doesn’t begin there — it begins with the people leading them. Managers are the true force multipliers of engagement, culture, and results.

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The Conversation

We explored why leadership development too often comes late or inconsistently, and how untrained managers create cycles of stress, disengagement, and turnover. The discussion highlighted why companies frequently hire managers from outside rather than developing internal talent, the hidden costs of that approach, and the cultural impact of delayed training.

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The Insight

Managers are the keystone of every organization. When they’re trained, supported, and coached, teams perform better, engagement rises, and top talent stays. When they’re not, even strong employees burn out or leave. Development doesn’t have to be expensive, but it must be intentional.

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The Action

  • Invest early. Train managers before they lead people, not months after promotion.
  • Start with the basics. Coaching, feedback, delegation, and communication drive the biggest impact.
  • Watch the signals. High turnover, absenteeism, or performance issues often point to leadership gaps.
  • Build feedback loops. Regular one-on-ones and simple recognition go further than formal reviews.
  • Protect the pipeline. Strong managers create future leaders; neglecting them weakens the system.

Welcome to another episode of Nuggets with Sauce, the podcast dishing up 5 size insights you can sink your teeth into. Served for the saucy take on common leadership challenges by your host, Michelle Arts. Oh wow, I am so excited here on another episode of Nuggets with Sauce. I am thrilled to have with me today Keith Willis.

Keith, I have been looking forward to this conversation with you to share with our listeners and viewers for quite some time. The minute you and I connected, I was like, oh, this guy is so on the same page. He totally gets it. This is, I’m sure, going to be one of several conversations that you and I are going to share in the nuggets and sauce space. But we had to start somewhere. And today is that day, my friend.

So I’m very excited to have you here. As people who are following Nuggets with Sauce know, we do not use job titles here. So action and I know you’re you’re a really good guy about this because you did your homework, which I am loving.

I would just love for you to first and foremost, let our followers kind of get a little feel for what the heck is Keith Willis all about in the sense of You know, as I always like to put it, what fires you up? What’s getting you out of bed in the morning? How are you making the world a better place without using your job title?

Thanks, Michelle. So I’m really excited to be here. Thank you for having me. Really been looking forward to our conversation. Obviously, my name is Keith Willis. And one of the things I love to do is help people leverage their talents. Oftentimes, I think about some of the people I’ve had the opportunity to work with and where they are in their careers and really feel like that I’ve done a good job of helping them maximize their talent.

Now, obviously, the talent comes with it. They’ve already put in the hard work. They’ve done all of the right things. They just want somebody to give them a little bit of guidance, a little bit of a push and help them get to the next level.

That’s really what I help to help people do. That’s a process, you know, wherever you are in any organization, a lot of times people think that development of people just happens. You just have to have some type of yes. Stop right there, sir.

So yeah, so it is a process. There are steps that have to be taken to make sure that you get people where they want to be. So that’s really what gets me fired up. And it’s one of the reasons why I started my own company is to be able to help people leverage their talent and help other organizations leverage the talent that they have. It’s really interesting because when you look at Gallup data, it always talks about how low engagement is.

And over the years that hasn’t changed. Well, it changed a little bit during COVID. And I think that’s because people were really happy to have a job and companies let them work from home. Right, but that’s in the rear view mirror now, man. Oh, yeah. Well, you know, things have gone not so well lately, you know.

You pick up the newspaper anytime, literally a CEO is saying, hey, I want my people back in the office. Yeah, yeah. I want my people this. I want my people that. And by the way, I’m, you know, bitching and moaning about nobody wants to work, which I also don’t buy. We’re going to dig into that one, too. Absolutely. Just before we really dive into this one, just quickly, too, I always love to ask folks, do you have a recommended read, watch or listen that our thought leaders ought to know about?

So for me, it’s Break All the Rules by Marcus Buckingham. I found that that book fundamentally changed how I managed people. Now, I wish I could tell you that I read the book once and I got it, but it did take me some time. There was a process you were talking about. Yeah, exactly. Watch the video or read the book and be experts. Let’s face it, we all do it and you and I be out of a job. Exactly, exactly.

I had a sales representative that, so I spent most of my career in pharmaceuticals, and I was a district sales manager and I had a representative that we’d spent the day together, and she was really struggling. And so at the end of the day she looked at me and she said, I think I’m going to go home and cry.

She was being a little facetious because we had a really good relationship, but it did hit me in a particular way because I was thinking, it’s like, hmm, that’s never good. When you said she chose that and during the time I was reading break all the rules. And one of the focuses about break all the rules is focusing on what people do extremely well. And she was an extremely good sales representative.

she struggled with her product knowledge. And so the following day I asked her, I said, what is it that you do better than anybody? And she said, I help paint pictures and help doctors understand who they should write for. And so I told her that was what we were gonna focus on for the day. And so that was what we did.

We focused on that skillset. Now that doesn’t mean that I couldn’t focus on a product knowledge because when you’re in pharmaceutical industry, being able to provide the right knowledge is very important. Oh yeah.

You know, ultimately, the reality of it is she was never going to be somebody that was going to be at hundred percent or a plus a plus plus with product knowledge. Right. But if we got her to a C, then she was going to be okay. And we were able to get her focused on what she did extremely well. And she ended the year over a hundred percent.

And so that was the first lesson around focusing on what people do well can give you the types of results that you’re looking for in great performance. Yeah, because I think as often as not and it makes sense because we’re kind of wired this way, I think. But, you know, we focus a lot on what people aren’t.

Sometimes more than what they are, you know, and it’s like oh here’s the 52 things you did wrong. And you know here’s all the not to do is and you know we see some time with like you know if anybody’s bothering to do performance reviews performance coaching performance anything which by the whole other subject for conversation.

around who’s not even doing that. But I think there’s so much focus on the kind of the you’re not this, you’re not that, it’s not enough. And instead of to your point, you know, flip that on its head, break those rules and say, look, what are we doing in this space? What are you getting right? Where are you wonderful and shiny?

How do we bring more of that to the forefront as opposed to pounding on people about All the things are never going to be. And it’s both that self-realization, right? Like I know I’ve been going through some realizations of my own in the last little bit about I don’t want to, you know, I’m lucky because, you know, I’m my own boss and she’s pretty reasonable, mostly. But like, if I come to a realization, which I did, that I don’t really shine over here. I’m not going to beat myself up over it. I’m lucky.

And I get to say that maybe I don’t do that anymore. I’ll find somebody else. Which I love that story that you’re sharing, you know, like, how do you, from a leadership perspective, really recognize, and we all have that, we all have strengths and we all have things that we’re not so great at, so how do we help ourselves and others know what that is?

Like, let’s get honest and recognize that, you know, like, believe me, you don’t want, you don’t want to come to me for anything to do with math or spreadsheets. Know your lane, know your strengths. And then how do we think about celebrating and leveraging those? And I love what you’re saying in the end, with that shift in your focus with her, she was kicking it out of the park, right? Sorry, that was a mixed sports metaphor.

I don’t know, you could kick it out of the park. Oh, you could. So you know what I mean. Love that. That’s that’s fantastic. Now, of course, we’re going to dive into I know you’ve got several nuggets that I hope we have time to unpack all today.

But if we don’t, we’ll just regroup and carry on further. But any thought to the kind of sauce that you’re bringing to the table today? Is there a particular kind of sauciness that goes with what you want to Are we getting it?

Are we sweet and sour? Where are we at? It’s interesting when we get into the topic of management training. Large or small, companies need to spend more money. on manager training in fact let’s say we’re going for hot sauce here because this is a hot topic and i don’t know about you but i get hot under the collar thinking about how we’re not and as you and i were saying before before we really started this off you said spend more money and what did i say just spend some money any money Well, I know some companies spend money only because I help stand up leadership development in a few places.

Getting hired in a few spots. How many are missing the mark. Yeah, exactly. So it is interesting because there’s a market difference in organizations that spend money and time and management development versus those that don’t. And it’s large and small. So it’s not just companies that on a shoestring budget, you know, maybe have 50 people that don’t have a lot of money.

And, in fact, the matter is you can do training without money. If you do coaching and feedback, but a lot of companies don’t even do that. So, if you have a limited budget. Yeah. Do you do you train the Salesforce. or your everybody or do you do your managers? I always say your managers first because if you have a good management team everything gets pushed down from there.

I was gonna say that’s gotta be okay let’s just pause for a moment here let’s just savor that nugget right there for just a second because I think you know there’s probably some people listening to this who would be like wait what What do you mean? I mean, if you’re on a tight budget, you’ve got limited scope to get anything done, well, then of course, wouldn’t I go after, like, train my salespeople?

Because if I’ve got well-trained salespeople, then, you know, they’re going to sell more stuff. But I love what you’re saying in this space of, you know, it’s like, get the managers and the leaders, you know, and again, as folks here know, I use them interchangeably because they should be both. But I love that what you said that no, no, you start by getting your managers right. This is like, okay. And again, follow the mind lead. This is like parenting. Put your marriage before and it sounds counter internal.

What do you mean? I don’t put my children first. Listen, if you don’t have a foundation in your relationship with your, your parent partner, Who cares? Everything else falls off the rails, right? Is that, am I hearing that right? Like that’s what we translated in this space of thinking about this in terms of, it doesn’t sound like what a lot of people would do in business, but I think you’re onto something very critical there. If you get your managers right, and you mentioned Gallup, a couple of minutes ago. And what does Gallup research tell us? I think they know a thing or two, and they’re pretty sure.

No, absolutely. You know, 70 percent, 70 percent of a person’s variance in performance is tied to the person who is their manager. So the difference between being an A and an F is on the boss. Pretty significant. That is why Mr. Keith Willis is right when he shares here today on Nuggets with Sauce that you start with, if you have no other way to spend the money on learning and development, you start with your managers. Love that. Tell us more. Yeah, because, you know, here’s the thing when you start with your managers, whatever you’re doing, ultimately, they’re the ones that have responsibility for coaching, Feedback, even delegation, delegation is one of the best development tools that money can buy, because all the managers doing is pushing portion of their job down to the direct report, they’re involved, they’re helping to develop that person. put them in a position to be able to take on more responsibility within the organization. So everything the manager does is so important. And you’ve heard that saying the most important relationship that somebody has in an organization is with their manager.

So it would make sense to spend more money on training managers versus not. And here’s the thing that’s very interesting. So organizations struggle with, do I hire somebody from outside of the company? Because they make an assumption that that person has management skills that they picked up from somebody else. See, we didn’t do any management anything here. So I’m hoping if I get somebody off the street, they come pre program with management, right? I just got offload that.

This is headed. I see. Yeah. And then they don’t fit culturally sometimes. Right, right. No, I mean, oh my God, there’s so many nuggets in this basket right now. I mean, if I can step back for just a sec, the delegating thing is a very interesting point that you raised too, because what’s the opposite of the manager who’s good at delegating? Usually a micromanager. A micromanager. And how much do we love our micromanagers? Not at all, right? And how exhausting to be that micromanager. Because to me, you tell me that to me that’s like now I lack trust. I either don’t, I don’t trust this person to take this on. I haven’t developed them enough to take, which is why I don’t trust them.

Like I haven’t set my people up for success for me to hand something over. That’s a heck of a workload. Yeah and some of it is because some managers they only know what they did when they were in that previous role so they continue those behaviors. Wait you mean what I used to do before I became a manager isn’t going to make me a great manager? Absolutely not. Yeah you know rocking a spreadsheet doesn’t make somebody manager.

Right you’re no longer an individual contributor. Right but they never get that mindset again because you know nobody has Step aside and said hey this is a very different role, you know you can literally what you used to do isn’t going to help you now and yet we haven’t given we haven’t put any I like to call tools in the toolbox these poor managers nobody puts tools in their toolbox. to to say or maybe they get one like oh now i’m at you know i got a hammer so i’m looking for nothing but nails right the trend you see the trend because their manager is not coaching and giving them feedback sure well so is a great way to make managers say everything yeah let’s go over there who was a complete crank Yeah.

Like you’re saying, it rolls down, right? And we’re going to perpetuate these habits and these mistakes, right? If this is how we’ve always done it, I don’t know how else to do it. We are going to create, dare I say in a manner of speaking, generations of workers. And a generation of workers these days could be a tenure as short as 6 months. Yeah.

But it’s just going to keep Replicating, yeah? Oh, absolutely. Yeah, and expensive, like as you were saying too, you know, like the manager is the most, it’s the make or break role for most people, I think. And we also know that therefore who does somebody quit when they, you know, they’re not really quitting their job. They’re not really quitting the company. They’re quitting the manager. I mean, I myself have quit either the manager or the management at least 3 times in my career. You?

Yeah, I’ve been in organizations where the manager that you’re leaving, you know, because sometimes you’ve made a decision you’re going to leave and it may be 6 or 8 months later and I’ve said to myself, gee, I wish I was given this resignation to my old manager because that’s why I’m leaving.

Well, one of the best exit, if anybody’s doing exit interviews, but one of the best questions I ever ran across and I think it’s worth sharing in context of the, hey, am I going to quit my manager? The question to always be asked is, when did you first think about quitting or leaving and why? And how often might that trace to a manager or a leader or something that a manager or leader had a hand in or maybe lacked having a hand in that made for an environment that led to a decision? And as you said at the very beginning, this is all about talent.

Who can afford to lose good talent? And by the way, would you agree or disagree with me, Keith, that usually it is your better talent who tends to quit and leave and walk away from these managers that don’t know what they’re doing? Oh, yeah. So here’s something that’s interesting. I tell people one way to figure out how your management’s doing is short-term disability.

I didn’t realize that short-term disability was a thing, but I would talk to people that were top performers. And they go out on short-term disability and they’d be sick. I remember somebody that I brought into the home office of the trainer and we were having a conversation and I’d left the company by then they would complain about these headaches that they would get.

They would get these headaches and they were going to the doctor trying to figure out what was going on. So finally they put two and two together, it was their job. Now in this case I don’t think they went on short term disability, but they ended up leaving the organization, and guess what, the headaches went away. in another person. Surprise, surprise.

They were having issues back and forth to the doctor, stress-related went on, short-term disability. Shortly thereafter when they came back, left the organization, all of the health problems went away. And that was when I realized that short-term disability could be a marker. That’s not to say that at times that people don’t really have an illness because they do. But there are other times that when people are on short-term disability, it’s because the job is literally making them sick.

Right. And maybe if they don’t get quite as far, quite as severe as actually needing to take that disability leave, take a look at your sick days, take a look at what it’s cost and, and, Let’s go one step further. Let’s be detectives and let’s also dig in and pay a little bit of attention. Are there any patterns around?

There seem to be a lot of sick days or, you know, short-term disabilities. Is there a pattern in terms of like, wow, we have a lot of sick days over in this department? Or we have twice as many call-outs in this team that we do in any way. Because that can also lead us to help us diagnose some of these things. the way, I think it’s pretty stressful on those managers and those leaders.

They don’t know what the hell they’re doing. It’s not really their fault. Sure, there’s the odd person who gets up in the morning, but I think most of them are like, it’s kind of not their fault. Back to our point of are you training you know are you spending any money and training these people are you helping them know how to do the job so they don’t literally. I can really relate. I remember being in a situation where I was getting ill from stress from work. I understand.

Oh yeah, I had it. I had that I had a job where I told my wife if I don’t leave this company is this job is going to kill me. Yeah. And you know and these days when there’s so much chatter out there around you know and and rightfully so a lot of concern around, you know, mental health. in the workspace. You know, the whole thing about burnout, burnout’s been a big topic, you know, people are very, you know, anxiety ridden, they feel that they’re very stressed, it’s very hard, you know, and we go back to what you said earlier. So where’s the engagement?

We have crappy low engagement in part because of these kind, you know, these are all tied together. It’s a good thing you worked in pharma and healthcare, because I can see literally the connectivity all over the place, right? Like these things don’t happen in a vacuum, do they?

You know, here’s the thing that’s interesting too, cause pharma does probably more training than most industries. Most managers go through some type of management training. I will say that in some cases it’s delayed. Manager may be a manager for 6 months before they go to training. So sometimes that can be difficult. I’ve seen- Keep that in the pool before asking if you like swimming events, but- Yeah. At least they eventually get it sooner or later in life. Yeah.

Yeah. But by then, sometimes the damage is done, you know, or leadership development stays open. You know, no one feels that position after someone gets promoted, maybe after, you know, maybe it takes a year, year and a half. I mean, and so what does that say for the managers? Right. How important development is? And what does that say for people? And that’s another nugget I know you and I have talked about before too and we’re very much on the same page is it’s okay it’s one thing to just have the base let’s basically train these people like let’s make sure that as I like to say put tools in their toolboxes.

But then the other piece about that is it’s not good okay just you’re not just again going to throw the book at them or whatever and say okay now we’ve given you Some tools in your toolbox. Okay, but there’s a lot of different things you could do with that. So, so let’s talk a little bit because I know this is another passion point for you around, you know, and we’ve just touched on it, but let’s dig further.

The development aspect of like, it’s not enough to just, okay, I trained you, I checked the box, you know, congratulations, you’re trained. We kind of think about each individual and those people who are in those responsible leadership spaces and how do we hone in and develop them further? What are your thoughts around that, Keith? Yeah, so I think it’s a key piece. I think that managers have to have conversations with their people on a regular basis.

Obviously, if you’re doing one-on-ones, you have check-ins throughout the year, you have mid-years, and sometimes you just need to sit down and have a conversation about where somebody is, what their aspirations are, where they want to go in their career. Figure out, are there some areas that you know they’re very strong in that they can leverage and develop or there’s some areas that maybe their weekend that they have some strengths that they can work around, you know, and cry. No, really, like it could be down to something like what where do you Yeah.

What do you hate? What could I maybe do more to give you what you love and less of what you hate? I mean, it really could be I mean, I’m not saying we would couch it in this. Like what would make somebody go home and cry at the end of the day? Yeah, because maybe they don’t like what they’re doing, or maybe the projects that you have them on, they struggle with, maybe, you know, and so it’s having conversations about, you know, what’s the perfect day at work for you? What does that look like? What a great question.

What would a perfect day at work look like for you? And you know what I’m willing to bet to, in spite of all the chatter out there about people don’t want to work, I bet most people wouldn’t answer, I just want to be sitting on a beach with a glass in my hand. I mean, okay. We know, but let’s get down to brass tacks of really like, okay, if we can’t give you that, you got to get your butt in the door over here.

I think that’s an excellent question people should be asking. And dare I say maybe the managers themselves should also be self-evaluating that. and saying, what does my ideal workday look like? Well, the manager should be asking them the same question. I mean, ultimately, the manager gets poured on all the time. I mean, in some ways, if you think about it, everybody complains about them. They’re the girl between between senior management and their teams. So, you know, the expectation is that they’re going to do everything.

It used to be that there was a lot more support. Now the manager has to do that. Imagine doing a staff meeting, you do all the setup, you do this, you do that, you do the other. You’re trying to run interference for your people. So the responsibility can be a lot. And it’s one of the reasons why when you talk to people that look at their managers, oftentimes they say, I don’t think I want to sign up for that.

I saw something about recently where there’s a new trend and there’s a trending indicator right now that says there’s a lot of people who simply they see promotion as punishment because it has been punishment for so long because nugget number one we’re back to nobody spending the time and the time to train the manager so why would I want to step into a thankless task where nobody’s going to help me exactly exactly I’ll just stay over here quietly And if you think about it, management training should happen before somebody becomes a manager. yeah.

Oh, see, this is why I still love these conversations. We are definitely simpatico around that. Yeah, like, you don’t throw somebody in the deep end of the pool and then say, do you like water? Which is what we do with most managers, right? I really feel, and I’m sure you feel the same way, it’s also a great opportunity to let somebody self-select out. You don’t have to tell them they’re necessarily not management material.

You also get the opportunity, because what do people think when they’re going, I want to be a manager? I remember working in a place where like, oh, you know, manager was like this magic word. Everybody wanted to be a manager and nobody really stopped. And why was that? What was it about being manager? Which I think is, you know, a good question to ask. Why do you want to be a manager?

What do you think that means? and yeah people like the perks you know i think there’s perception there were a lot of perks and things and hey you know maybe get a parking space get a cool office it’s interesting now because you know a lot of the things that were considered perks are gone now offices are gone you’re an open space um some maybe it’s just money the money and the power Maybe. Maybe. Maybe. In some cases, if you’re in sales, sometimes the reps are making more than a manager. Well, what a perfect way to ruin your best salesperson is to turn them into a manager when that’s not what they want.

Because actually, yeah, I’m sure for a lot of them where it really hurts them is all of a sudden all those commissions or all those bonuses or those extra things that were tied to their sales performance. That’s gone. Yeah. And then imagine, so their team is responsible for their bonus. So is it a wonder that you have hero sales managers? I’m going to save every deal. Yeah. So they don’t know how to coach and give feedback. Which is back to, we’re not going to delegate anything.

So I’ve got to do ten jobs and become a Probably a rather unlikable human being in the process because they’re so maniacal about, you know, they’re not allowed to make mistakes. They’re not allowed to fall flat. They’re supposed to be all and know all and it’s impossible. I mean, it’s hard. Yeah. You know, so I love the idea as well in the space of like get them before you give them the title, you know?

I mean, think about it. Like if we were talking doctors, like, you know, and again, you’ve worked in the medical professionals, but it’s like, would this fly if we said, you know, okay, that’s wonderful. You want to be a surgeon and I’m all for that. So I’ll tell you what, start being a surgeon now. We’ll figure it out as we go.

Go ahead and start doing surgery and let’s see what you got. And I’m sure you’re fine. And then if you need a little touch up around the edges, we’ll figure something out for you. Yeah, we’d be in trouble.

So it’s interesting, because even in the military, becoming an officer, you go through a lot of training. Because I did 4 years of ROTC. A lot of what I learned in ROTC I used as an officer. And then you go to your officer basic course, which is 6 months. So before you get to your first duty station, you’ve already had 6 months of training.

That’s a lot of training and I’m sure it’s very intensive too. Yeah, it’s just like an extra semester of college. But for all the right reasons. Well, it’s masters level stuff. I mean, I will say that there were people that were in class that were going to get their masters for some of the work that we did. They got credit and we had to build, we did a whole marketing thing around shoeboxes. military dollars that you didn’t know were being spent, but I’m sure it was for a good reason.

But again, it’s like, hey, we’ve got to build out these skill sets. We’ve got to put these tools in the toolboxes because there is that spin that comes down from that that says the better prepared our top leaders are to be leaders, the better they prepare the managers who, as you said, these are people who are tasked with, they’re the keystone. It’s like when you have an arch, the keystone is the one stone in the middle that if you don’t put that stone in place, the arch falls apart. Yeah. Exactly.

They’re beholden to executive level, whatever your organization is. The people at the top are pushing this stuff down on the managers to say, push this down on your people while there’s pressure building from the bottom up. They are squeezed in the middle.

Yeah. If you don’t get those folks right, I don’t care what great ideas you’ve got up in the corner office or wherever you’re sitting, It’s never going to fly unless you have your managers well oiled, well prepared, well versed to be able to translate that and get their teams to execute on it. So yeah, so at the end of the day, I think it’s not only more training for managers, it just means more time spent with managers preparing them, even things like change management.

Oh, yeah. Yeah, you know, think about all the changes that go on in an organization and how unprepared managers are oftentimes to implement those changes. Don’t know how to do that decision making is tough like how do we get some better faster more informed decisions. They can often you know stall out there, even just like being able to know how to you know engage motivate and show appreciation.

I mean, a lot of managers, I’m sure, don’t even recognize it. Like, actually, people do want to be thanked. They do want to be noticed, you know? Like, shocking, I know. It’s not always the heavy duty stuff, you know? It can be the little things that add up that, you know, how many people go in every day and just go like, man, I don’t feel like anybody notices what I’m doing around here. Nobody cares. My boss doesn’t care.

Yeah, now you know why people want to work virtually. Right, right. Or again, it’s not that they don’t want to work, it’s that they don’t want to work in environments where leaders aren’t really leading, managers aren’t really managing, and they’re not, you know, it all rolls downhill, you know? Exactly. You make an interesting point because when you go into an organization that has a very, very vibrant culture, you can tell there’s an energy about the place, there’s a feeling about, wow, this looks like some place that people want to be. And places that don’t, it’s the same feeling.

You can tell when it’s a place that people don’t want to be. So it goes both ways. Stronger leadership makes it an exciting place to work. Right. Or pockets therein, like maybe the overall stuff is kind of okay. But we have all seen situations like this too, where like, hmm, things are very different over in that part of the building, you know, like that. that team or that department in one of 2 flavors. It’s either like everybody would love, like look what they’re doing over there in the IT environment.

Like there is some magic going on in this IT group. Take a look at who’s leading that. Who’s managing that? Who’s leading that? Because those subcultures within organizations are usually very correlated as well. Well, yeah. And the talent magnets. Yeah, they are. And then some people are like, what’s the anti-repellers? You know, like, look at your turnover. Does your turnover occur in certain departments or certain roles or certain areas of the organization? That’s got to be tied back to people are going to quit their managers. People are, you know, there’s going to be quit rates that may be higher. It’s not going to be evenly distributed across the organization. Oh yeah, big indicator. Yeah, I mean, you got to watch for that kind of stuff.

And again, you know, I always say like we measure what matters. Why aren’t we looking at this stuff and measuring some of this in our organizations and saying like, It’s back to what you said at the beginning, this is about talent and we’ve got to as leaders and organizations think a lot more about the data around our talent and start looking for patterns and trends and measures that will help us. figure out, and again, if you’re on those tight budgets around your learning and development, okay, then where are you going to get your best result?

You’re not going to know that if you’re not paying attention to the numbers. What’s going on with your talent? Yeah, and I wonder how many people look at those numbers. I mean I know everybody looks at engagement scores. If you do engagement, if you do anything around engagement. Yeah, but it’s all of the data points it’s a turnover disability it’s. There’s a list of things to be looked at, and is there a story around it? Do you have a lot of HR issues?

Do you have a lot of people on performance plans? When you get to performance reviews, is it a bell curve? Is everybody slanted to the right? because the lack of our inability to give candid feedback about where people really are, are things overinflated or are they underinflated where maybe too many people are on the low end? Yeah. Where are there fires that you keep having to put out or somebody in your organization, HR is putting out fires? Or where do you need to light a fire? So to speak. You know, it’s like, it’s one of those indicators, right?

There’s either too much of something going on that we don’t want. Let’s watch for that. Or there’s not enough of something happening over here. Like, where are you guys? Yeah, because all turnover is not bad. No, that’s very true. But turnover for all the wrong reason. When your top talent is finding the exit, That’s a problem. That’s a problem. And if the first, again, if the answer to the question is when did you first start thinking about leaving and why, and it somehow comes back to something that that person’s manager could have been doing differently or better, we want to pay attention to that. That was an avoidable reason for an exit.

Absolutely. And then you’re back to square one where you’re going back and more talent and, you know, the hiring process, and have you trained your managers to do recruiting and selection? Oh, wait, what? Yeah, when you think of that full life cycle, that’s going to have to be a whole other conversation.

That’s going to be a fabulous one, because there is a lot to be said for when you think of your full life cycle of an employee, right away, one of the things you’ve got to be asking yourself is does a hiring manager even know how to get the right talent in the door in the first place?

Yeah, so there’s a podcast I listen to, Manager Tools, and so Mark Horseman calls it the Christmas tree, the Horseman Christmas tree rule, which basically is anytime there’s something that you don’t do that often, usually you’re not very good at it. Right, right. Love that. Well, we’re going to have to unpack more of this in some future and further conversations because I think you have shared some tremendous nuggets here today. We can deep dive into any one of them. And I know we’ve got some more pipeline here as well that we’re going to talk about.

So Keith, thank you so much for joining me today. Love what you’re sharing in this space. Love what you’re doing. We are going to continue to fight the good fight to say that we really do need to invest in what we’re doing with our managers if we’re going to move the dial. Thanks so much, Michelle. Appreciate you having me on. All right. Fantastic. Thanks for joining this episode of Nuggets with Sauce. I hope we fed your appetite for insights and information on how to improve your business. Be sure to like and subscribe so you never go hungry for more thought leadership.

Never Look for a Job Again

Building a Career That Moves with You

Career growth comes from clarity, not chance. The professionals who stay ready never need to start over — they keep moving forward.

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We discussed how ageism, career transitions, and workplace change inspired my work on Never Look for a Job Again. We talked about knowing yourself, building sponsors, and planning a career that grows with you instead of against you.

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The Insight

Ownership begins with self-awareness. When you understand your strengths, plan, and connect beyond your comfort zone, you create opportunities that fit who you’re becoming.

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  • Know yourself. Identify what energizes you and what doesn’t.
  • Define the long view. Map your next 10–20 years, not just your next job.
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Ready to drive your career, not just ride along? You’re in the right place. Welcome to the Power of Owning Your Career podcast. I’m Simone E. Morris, your host and career strategist, here to give you the roadmap. Each week, we’re cutting through the noise with strategies, stories, and insights to get you back in control. Your career clarity starts right here.

Welcome to this week’s episode of the Power of Owning Your Career podcast. Today we’re joined by Keith Willis, founder of Core Management Training. Keith helps pharmaceutical and life sciences companies turn managers into leaders who drive real results.

His journey took him from U.S. Army officer to award-winning roles at Johnson & Johnson, Pfizer, and Bristol-Myers Squibb. Now he’s building Never Look for a Job Again. I love that, Keith. Helping professionals create opportunities instead of waiting for them. Keith, welcome to the show. Thanks, Simone. Really happy to be here. Thanks for having me. Absolutely.

Absolutely. I always go to the place of when you were growing up, what did you want to be? I had no earthly idea. I wanted to be a teacher. Not that you asked me, but I wanted to be a teacher. You don’t know what you wanted to be when you were young? Yeah. Well, I think there were 2 things that I thought about. One was being a lawyer.

And the other one was being a journalist and when I got to college they had this thing called the journalism Qualifying exam and I couldn’t pass it because I couldn’t type I did all right on the grammar exam and then I decided that the I was a sociology major and I decided I was gonna major in sociology and as you know There aren’t any jobs in sociology You know, I didn’t want to be a social worker.

Unless you have a math, unless you listen, unless you have a master’s degree that psychology, sociology, you need extra higher education for those I’ve I have found. That’s right. Exactly. Yeah. Oh, my goodness. You’re making me think of when I was in high school and I took a typing class on my first semester, I got a D and then I was like a D. And so now I can type. I’m not using it, but I can type pretty fast.

That’s very interesting. So tell us what we didn’t hear in the bio. Tell us a little bit about your current work and what you’re currently doing. Yeah, so currently I own my own company. I’m an entrepreneur now and work with primarily pharmaceutical companies. That’s where I spent the majority of my career. It’s been an interesting transition.

Came in from vacation one day. My manager was trying to get a hold of me. I had interviews and a bunch of other things that were going on. And I remember thinking, hmm, this doesn’t sound good. And sure enough, it wasn’t. She let me know that my position was being eliminated. And so the good news was I had about a three month head start, give or take.

I believe this was in July and then my position was eliminated in October. So I did some interviewing and it was evident at that point in time that ageism is a thing. I was a little naive. I picked up on some things and I had interviewed for some other roles earlier, things like we roll up our sleeves and work here and, you know, those type of key buzzwords, I think went right over my head. And then I made the decision I was going to go out on my own. It always had entrepreneurial bug.

I did the sprint phone cards. I did. But listen, I know I remember sprint and I remember Amway, but we got these different generations going on. Yeah. Okay, go ahead. Yeah, so I did that. A little bit of real estate. And I remember telling my wife, I said, you know, I’ve always wanted to own my business and I needed to do it. you know if it didn’t work out I could always go back into the corporate world and so she gave me my heart blessing so 7 years later here I am there are times when I asked myself what were you thinking listen I’m ten years in and I completely understood I completely understand.

So I want to go back to something you said. I have 2 questions that come to mind for me, Keith. The first one is, tell our audience what ageism looks like from a career standpoint, because you said ageism is real.

So for those people who don’t know what it looks like from your perspective, what did you mean when you said that? Yeah, so there’s a point in time in your career where I won’t say you’re a liability, but there, there, there are 2 things that are going on. And as I’ve gotten older, it’s kind of you never change your you if you know what I mean. Me.

at my age now versus when I was 25, not much different other than the year smarter. At that point you can maximize the amount of dollars that you’re making. I can’t remember what the age is. It’s like from 40 to 60 something like that. And that means you’re on a higher end of the pay scale. Opportunities for promotion, those type of things don’t exist.

And people are looking at you as maybe you lost a step, maybe you don’t have the knowledge, maybe you’re not willing to change, embrace technology, those type of things. And so there’s a perception that even in certain roles, if you’re a director, depending on which organization that you’re working for, companies are smaller and leaner now. So people have to roll up their sleeves quote unquote, work, you know, back in the day, people used to have an admin have admin anymore.

Now, you know, you check your own email, you do your own copy. So all of those things play into that when you get to a certain age, no one’s going to tell you up front into your face that I’m not going to hire you because I think you’re too old. But the reality of it is, is that there are certain organizations, they won’t, they won’t hire you once you hit a certain age. In fact, there was a company I worked for, there was a joke, don’t get gray hair.

So don’t be, I would just tell people, don’t be naive. When you hit 50, don’t be surprised if you get a knock on the door. I remember when I went, when I was downsized, they sent out a list and it had everybody’s position. I can’t remember if it was birthdays or ages. An ideal behind it was for you to think that you weren’t being discriminated against because of your age.

The interesting thing, me and another guy, we were both around 50something and both of our positions had been eliminated and we were running training teams and the brands that we were supporting were multibillion dollar teams. And I remember my manager During an interview with the candidate that we were looking to bring in, she made a comment. Somebody asked, what was the vision because of these changes?

And she said, well, if our structure is the same as it is now, then we will have made a mistake. So in other words, they were bringing in one person to take both of our roles. And then the thought was, I think she was going to bring in senior managers who make less money, and so she could pay them less. And so the work wasn’t going to disappear, the responsibility wasn’t going to disappear.

It was a good way for them to clear payroll and pay people less money with the same amount of responsibility with both of them reporting into a director. So it was one of those things where it was, how did I miss that? I’ll tell people in certain roles in certain organizations, they will push you up through the organization And I’ll look at that role and say, hmm, that’s similar to other organizations that role is going to disappear in a couple of years.

And I, you know, I’ve worked with clients, and I’ll tell them, you need to be thinking about exit strategy, you need to be thinking about what’s going to be next or where you can go because at some point, They’re going to make a decision that your role is not needed anymore.

So it’s it’s an interesting dichotomy I think it happens to every generation because we all start out in the same place you know we’re young we’re vibrant we have all these different ideas about what we’re going to do. And then the reality sits, corporate will put you in a box and tell you, you can’t do this or you can’t do that. And then all of a sudden you’re stuck. So you have people that are fifties and sixties, which is pretty young. I meet a lot of people like me. They started their own businesses.

They’re involved in a lot of different things, activities and those types of things. And I would just say, looking back on my career, there are a lot of things I would have done differently. knowing what I know now so that’s the piece around ageism that people oftentimes are not aware of until it’s too late because all of a sudden you’re you’re forced and it can be a good thing I like to say my last company that we left each other yeah I don’t know if I would have ever left but I think it was God’s way of pushing me out of the nest and say look I have something else for you to do Yeah, I love that you share that change isn’t always a bad thing and that change can be an opportunity for a next career chapter.

Now, let me ask you, you mentioned, you said something, why didn’t I know this? And I wanted, bear with me for a minute. So this show is about being in the driver’s seat. And I can think of many moments in my career where I was in the passenger seat where, you know, I was, I’m not as focused and strategic and intentional about my career outcomes.

You made me think of that when you said, how did I miss that? I want you to think about, Keith, the passenger seat and the driver seat. and the driver seat. And so think about you being in the passenger seat and when did you realize that you were in the driver seat for your career? Can you think about the first moment that happened for you? It’s an interesting question because I think at times that we are in the driver’s seat and other times we’re in the passenger seat and that switch is easy to happen and you miss the signs.

I realized that I was in the driver’s seat. I transitioned from the military into pharmaceuticals. I was a top selling sales representative. In fact, that year I finished number 3 out of six hundred and forty sales representatives. And I had a chance to go into the home office and help with the training class.

And until you were going to be a facilitator helping out. And I remember one of my peers, we shared the territory that we were in. We split that territory in half. He had one part of the city. I had the other part of the city. And not only were we friends, but he was a mentor. And I remember him telling me, You need to take advantage of this opportunity when you go into the home office. You need to spend some time, you know, meet with people. And this was very foreign.

I mean, at this point, I’d been out of the military maybe two and a half, 3 years. So I didn’t understand the politics and the things that maybe you should do. And I remember sitting down with him and we were having a discussion around people that you might want to meet with. And so I took that opportunity to meet with a few people. And I remember one of the people I met with was a sales VP. And I remember after my meeting with her that she called the director of sales training and she said, I think Keith would be a good fit for sales training.

That led to a bunch of other things. At the time, I wasn’t looking to relocate to the New Jersey, Pennsylvania area. We were living in downriver Detroit. You know, my boss’s boss didn’t want to push me forward for opportunities, but because my wife is from Maryland, she agreed that if this opportunity was available that, you know, we could move because it’s 2 hours from here to Baltimore. So that was a lot better than Detroit to Baltimore, which was substantially a longer drive.

And so a lot of things happened from there. I went in, I was a sales training manager. I became a district manager. uh and then I left eventually that company went to another company as a director so that put me in the driver’s seat uh I had another I had another um manager he was actually 2 levels above me but he used to ask me when I went to this other company and he would say what do you want to do next and I had been there maybe a year I had I had no idea what I wanted to do next. And so I threw some ideas out to him.

I said, you know, here’s a role I would be interested in. And he said that I’m having dinner with that sales VP tonight. And it just so happened to be I was going out to California. This is the Western Business Unit and I was going to be going out to California to run a training class. So I had a conversation with that sales VP. I went out to California, ran the class, had a conversation with her about this role that was going to open up. And I remember I hadn’t been home for 24 hours and she called me and she said, make sure that you post for that position.

There were 3 of us. There were about 2 or 3 roles. We all interviewed for all of the roles. I remember one of the sales VPs that had a similar role told me, I wish I had known. I already have my person that I’m going to fill that role with. Because I had to figure out the politics of how to get to see him and everything.

He says, I’ll vouch for you for the position that you’re interviewing for. And I landed that position as a director. And it was a great position. But here again, it was, well, 2 things. My manager, who was a senior level, kept asking me, the lesson here is you need to tell people what you think you might want to do, even if you don’t, because they will help you explore those opportunities.

Obviously, you’ve got to do the work you’ve got to do good work people have to see you as a viable candidate somebody that’s worth promoting and all of those things and you got to do the networking and all of that stuff. But ultimately, when you put yourself out there that creates opportunities for you so those are 2 spaces where I realized that I was in control of my career. and then we were bought by another company and so for whatever reason you know like life things you know things are difficult those type of things I think I ended up over in the passenger seat because when I reflect upon my career I say to myself hmm I should have taken a right turn and part of it is is that You know, as you get older, you have children, you have family responsibilities on all of those.

And so we let those things stand in a way or we tell ourselves the reason we can’t move ahead or do something different is because family obligations and things like that. But, you know, when I look and I reflect upon people that I’ve worked with, I’ve seen people maybe make a right turn, maybe do something, maybe they took a lateral, but those things have. They’ve been able to push them up even further within and given them opportunities within their careers.

I mean, fact of the matter is, is that I started out as a sales rep with several folks that are that have been CEOs or are in senior management now. So those that gets back to this whole piece of you, you have to be purposeful. Uh, and, and you can’t, and I don’t, I won’t say lazy cause I don’t think that’s fair.

You can’t let life get in the way of you managing one of the most important things that we do. We spend close to a third of the time that we spend on this earth working. And so it’s something that we have to be a lot more diligent planning. We need to spend as much time as we spend planning vacations.

That’s the sort of time and effort we need to put into managing our careers. Yeah, so many good points there and it makes me think about opportunities that I said no to. And as I reflect back on it, you know, whether it was fear or family situations, there are game changing things that can crop up in your career that you need to be open to and innovative around, how can I make this work? How can I negotiate it? Because I think many times it was either yes or no.

There was no creating. What I know now as a coach and working with so many different people is that you can negotiate.

To your point, you talked about sponsorship when you talked about being ready and being open. to sharing what you desire in your career with others and then to have other people say, hey, I will vouch for you for me that sponsorship. So to really hone in on that as a tool for moving up in your career as well. Yeah, the sponsorship piece is, you know, and here again it was I had sponsors and upon reflection realized, oh, these are people that are their sponsors.

One of my managers, we started out in the same company the same day and they had been in pharmaceuticals a few years before I had been and we worked with the same company and eventually they left. So when my friend recommended me to the company, He this manager ended up being my boss’s boss. And so he had influence on the hiring decision. And then I followed him.

Well, he made a recommendation for the next company where I did leadership development, which got me in the door. And then he pulled me over to another company that he was at.

So I followed him probably about 3 or 4 different companies. And then this senior executive in this other company had a lot to do with me getting promoted.

So there has definitely been sponsorship. Or even when we went through a downsizing the first time, and they got rid of half of the sales VPs, and my VP was gone also, which technically meant I didn’t have a job. I never looked at it that way, because the senior VP of sales told me, I want you to go see so and so, who also was a sponsor. And, you know, said he’s, he’s got a role for you. So here again because of sponsorship, I ended up in a good position building relationships working with people and ironically the same person. in another company for the role. He was my boss’s boss.

He was the final interview. So here again, it’s all about relationships and people that you know, but credibility of the work. And I think when I reflect back, the miss for me was being more purposeful in cultivating that relationship because in that company there were opportunities where I probably could have risen higher and because of politics and other things I decided that I was going to leave and the last company I worked for probably from a cultural standpoint was not a match for me and I should have stayed where I was and probably would have gotten more opportunities if I had stayed and cultivated some of those relationships. Probably a lot of lessons from those turns that don’t work the way we intend them to work. Let me ask you, Keith, what is your formula for owning your career?

In other words, what are the key ingredients that one needs from your perspective to advance successfully in their careers? I think the number one thing is know thyself.

You know, I remember graduating from college and my father’s had a conversation with a friend of a friend of myself and he said, you know, to get ahead in the world, you need to be different.

And I remember him saying that being black is not being different. And I thought at the time I knew what he meant by that. And it’s been years later where I’ve had some time to ponder and think about that conversation. And here’s the reality.

We are each unique individuals when we’re born into this world. We all bring something that’s different. We all have different talents and gifts. Ironically, we spend our lifetime trying to fit in, do what everybody else does, and just be a part of the crowd.

You can’t stand out if you’re part of the crowd. And being different means being your most authentic self and being the unique you That there’s only one of you and there’s no point in trying to be somebody else because there’s only one of you and if you can do that to the best of the degree that you can do that, you’re going to be far more successful than if you don’t do that.

So I think that’s the number one. ingredient and that can be a lifetime you know figuring out who you are what makes you tick what you like those type of things and then i think the other part of that is set some goals uh you know sometimes you don’t hit the goals you you have and objectives and part of that is the long view what do i think i want to do what do i think i want to experience if I look back 20 or 30 years from now.

Oftentimes when I’m working with people that’s a question I’ll ask because it takes you out of the immediate role of, you know, the broader question is, is this next role going to help me get to ultimately where my destination is? And even if it’s not, maybe there are 3 or 4 roles that you’re interested in being. It’s like me being an entrepreneur. I thought it might be something I would be interested in, but I did a lot of different things and then I ended up there. And so it’s the same thing. If you think you want to be a sales VP. All right. So what’s the question? The question is, what are the experiences? What are the things that I need to do that will allow me to get there? And that changes your mindset because now all of a sudden you’re not necessarily looking for the next move that might look like the previous role that you were in. Yeah, it’s going to pay you some more money. But it may get in the way of you getting that promotion or making that opportunity because there are some other roles that you needed to get depth around, you know, experiences and those type of things.

So I think those 2 pieces are important. And then I think the last piece is around this networking and building a relationship and talking to people and letting people know what you think you might want to do or just having conversations with people. There was a guy that was on my team. We went to a conference and Keith Farazzi wrote a book. Yep, Never Eat Alone. One of my favorites. S

o he took that to heart and I had brought him into the organization as a contractor. And we had been at another company together and he had made a decision that he was not going to wait in line anymore.

And so I gave him opportunities. And there were a lot of people within the organization that they would fight him tooth and nail. I don’t remember what his role is now. I think he’s either executive director or something like that. So that was He worked for me in the last ten years, his career significantly accelerated. I think he was a senior manager at the time.

From that time period to up to now, because he made a decision, I wasn’t going to wait in line anymore. I’m going to meet with people that generally people don’t want to meet with, senior VPs, General managers folks that most people think I’m not going to be with them. I have nothing to share. I have nothing to offer building relationships with people building a network helped accelerate his career significantly.

So I think if people can focus in those 3 areas of know yourself Think about what your long-term goals, where you think you might want to land and then continually build your network. And Simone, one other quick point about that. Part of your network has to be broader than just your industry.

You know, if you go on LinkedIn, oftentimes you’re looking at the only people that you know or people that work at your company. get to know some people that aren’t in your company, get to know some people outside your industry, get to know some people that are entrepreneurs that do different things, are in different walks of life because that will, you know, 6 degrees of separation is how that saying goes.

The more people that you know and have relationships with, the more it’s going to serve you. Yeah, there was so much there. I had to start taking notes You know, you said so many good things so let’s go back to the first thing that you said about your know thyself and Be okay with being different really appreciating your unique identities. It made me think about how When you are your authentic or unique self sometimes the reception to that is not the best and so you get into that mindset that you need to change yourself. To assimilate or to fit in or to get better results because that unique you I mean.

Maybe in 20 20, the rules changed and there was more of a door opener for the unique you. But in general, and I have a lengthy body of experience, that can be challenging. So you really got me thinking.

And I’m glad that you said that, because own it. own it own own who you are and your authenticity even if there isn’t reception for who you are yet or perhaps you’re not in the right environment and you may need to move your environment so that the authentic you belongs or has a place there so i thought that was a really good point that you brought up A little bit more about that too, because I think part of it is that the reason people don’t want you to be your unique self is because oftentimes people are threatened and are jealous.

So part of it is the human condition of humans being humans. And part of it is you learning how to navigate through that. I’m listening to this book called The Unspoken. I think it’s Ella Fitzgerald. We’re doing a book club through the National Sales Network. And I think we have our first session today.

So she talks about this whole piece. And I reflected upon my career because there are times we try to fit in and try to be uh you know a part of the crowd the broader question is how do i be my unique self in a way to so and you’re not going to always be accepted but part of it is is that in some organizations you fit from a cultural standpoint depending on where you’re working some people are always going to push back you everybody’s just not going to like you this just that’s right just how it is to my tenyearold My tenyearold self didn’t know that either.

Everybody’s not going to like you or be your best friend. So, yeah. And then the other thing that you said, Keith, was knowing where you want to go. And I’m just reflecting. The show is not about my journey. Not this interview, but it’s a win-win. It’s a win-win. But I remember dreading people asking me, where do you want to be in 5 years?

I was like, oh, excuse me. I’m like, I don’t know. I didn’t know. I didn’t give my career. I’m going to have to put like R rated for this. My apologies, audience. I’m having such a good time with Keith. I’m forgetting myself. So my apologies here. But the point was that I didn’t know, and so I went along with what other people’s vision was for me. She would be good at that. She would be good.

And then I got to a place where I was like, I don’t know where I am. This is not what I want. So it’s really important and I love that you talked about setting the goals and I go to that 5year question. Y

ou have to have a clue what you want. Otherwise, you can get comfortable being in the passenger seat and moving along and then wind up at a place where you’re saying to yourself, I don’t know how I got here. Yeah, that’s so true. Got me amped up. But it’s life’s big question. What should I be doing with my life?

And everybody struggles with it. And I think there’s one question people can ask themselves is, if I didn’t know, what might that look like? Or what do I think I might be interested in? So it’s not that you don’t know that’s the issue. Go back to the networking part. It’s the beginning to have the conversations with people to do some level of exploration of what that might look like so that you can have a basis of understanding of what that might be and what those experiences might be.

And then you could try a little bit of this and a little bit of that. My whole thing is, if you don’t like it, go do something else. We just, we hang out and we wait too long before we make decisions. Yeah, our gut tells us it’s time for you to go find something else to do because you don’t fit in this culture you don’t fit in in this organization, but because of safety. We do what, you know, what is that? How does that saying go? The fear of loss is greater than the fear of gain. That’s what we divert to.

We know what we know. I’m thinking of Maslow’s hierarchy and that safety, you know, the importance of that. So talk to me, Keith, about the resources that really helped you to make those game-changing moves in your career? What was most helpful? What are some resources you can recommend to the audience? Yeah, so these are, so some of them are personal. So the first one, which is, and I actually tie these together.

So I was what they call a JMO, junior military officer, when I transitioned out of the military. So I went through a program called, through Cameron Brooks, who recruits junior military officers, and he had this book called PCS Corporate America. Uh, and so I learned the basis of interview questions, uh, everything you needed to know about interviewing skills and those things. So for me, that developmental program, understanding the business world, all of those things was key.

Uh, one of the guys that I worked with started his own company and he has a podcast called manager tools. He actually has 2, 2 podcasts, manager tools and career tools. So anything you need to know about managing your career. being a manager, I call it God’s gift to management, those podcasts are excellent.

So those are a couple of resources that I have used over the years. And then there’s a book, I believe it’s called The Long View by Brian Fettersaw. uh it’s a great book because it challenges your thought process about your career because we always well we oftentimes when we think about careers we’re really only thinking about the next role yeah not the next 253035 years what those experiences might look like so that book sets the stage for that um so i would say that those are some key pieces i think a piece that is important that we don’t embrace enough is your own personal self development.

When I talked about earlier knowing yourself that self development, what I found at least for me is that there’s a direct correlation between the amount of time that I spent working on me and being better and the type of results that I’ve gotten. Even as an entrepreneur, buckling down, studying, trying to learn stuff has gone a long way in making me more effective as an entrepreneur.

So there’s a cause and effect relationship with that and I would just encourage people to be lifelong learners. There’s more content and information available than ever. You don’t necessarily need to read all the time anymore. There’s Audible. There’s LinkedIn Learning. There’s tons of courses and things. There are podcasts. There’s chat GBT. Sit down and have great conversations. Spend some time there. It’ll provide a lot of information. So I would say that those are things that will help people be successful. Thank you. I have truly enjoyed our conversation, if you couldn’t tell. I may have to invite you back.

Yes. So, let’s begin to wrap up. Tell our audience how they can stay connected with you, Keith, if they’d like to do so. So yeah, so a couple of pieces if you want to interested in my corporate work core management training my website core management training.com I am also working on a resource is called never look for a job again. I created a about the domain. If you type in never look for a job again.

I put together a career development guide. It has a lot of different tools has questions and things for you to fill in to think about your career, so it’s a tool that I’ve used when coaching folks and folks have gotten great results so if people want to go out and look at that tool, I’m going to build a course off of that, take some of the lessons that I learned transitioning from the military and into corporate and some of the lessons all together in a piece that can be something that will be useful for people. So those will be the 2 spots, the landing page as well as CoreManagementTraining.com. Awesome. Awesome. Well, we’ll be sure to add that to the show notes as well. Keith Willis, it’s been a pleasure to have you on the Power of Owning Your Career podcast. I thank you so much.

Thanks a lot, Simone. Enjoyed being here. That’s it for today’s empowering episode. I’m Simone E. Morris and I want you to remember that you are indeed the architect of your career. Share this episode if it sparked something in you. Subscribe wherever you listen and find more resources at simonemorrisenterprises.org. Keep practicing career ownership and I’ll be right here with you next week for more transformation.

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